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Post by janniepea on Sept 16, 2020 17:57:49 GMT
I am so sorry. While I don’t have a child dealing with drugs, I do have an adult son who is an alcoholic.
I wish you all the best and pray that your daughter gets help to be freed from her addiction.
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Post by beaglemom on Sept 16, 2020 18:23:51 GMT
Hugs!!
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Post by karinec on Sept 16, 2020 18:26:15 GMT
I'm so sorry you are both going through this. I am praying for you.
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keithurbanlovinpea
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Post by keithurbanlovinpea on Sept 16, 2020 19:38:26 GMT
Mama, you ARE doing everything right. You are loving your daughter and doing the best you can with the information and situation. That is some solid parenting. Hang in there.
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brandy327
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Post by brandy327 on Sept 16, 2020 19:38:33 GMT
Oh no. I'm so very sorry. Thinking of you and her.
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my3freaks
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Post by my3freaks on Sept 16, 2020 20:13:09 GMT
I'm sorry. You always have a safe place to come here.
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Post by Baseballmom23 on Sept 16, 2020 20:29:50 GMT
(((hugs))) I'm sorry to hear this. We are here for you
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Post by laurasw on Sept 16, 2020 21:32:13 GMT
I'm so sorry. Being a parent can be so heartbreaking but no matter how much she thinks she may hate you now you are doing what a loving parent needs to do. Hugs!!
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Judy26
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Post by Judy26 on Sept 16, 2020 21:37:50 GMT
I’m so sorry. At this place and time, if she hates you, you’re doing something very right. Be a lioness and do whatever you have to to help her heal. Your strength and faith needs to be strong enough for both of you. You can do this!
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Post by beebee on Sept 16, 2020 21:39:56 GMT
My heart breaks for you. I will pray for both of you. I am so sorry.
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kate
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Post by kate on Sept 16, 2020 21:41:52 GMT
As parents we are only as happy as our saddest child. Well said. Hugs and prayers to you. I'm sorry you have to walk in this nightmare. Holding you both in the Light.
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Peamac
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Post by Peamac on Sept 16, 2020 22:35:06 GMT
I'm so sorry! So very many (((hugs))) and prayers for you all!
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Montannie
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Post by Montannie on Sept 16, 2020 22:36:51 GMT
So sorry. Sending positive thoughts/prayers.
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Post by jlynnbarth on Sept 16, 2020 22:39:47 GMT
My prayers for your daughter and for you.
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Post by Deleted on Sept 17, 2020 0:07:26 GMT
Drugs. I can barely breath. In the ER with my child. She is safe but she is mentally ill and hates me with every fiber in her being right now. I did everything right. I can’t believe this is my cute pig tailed baby girl. I just needed to say it in a safe place. HUGS and love to you right now. You're in a safe place. I've been there with my DS and revisited it just about 10 days ago when he had a big mis-step. BREAKS your heart and makes you feel like you're holding your breath.
I pray that she's okay and that you can breath again tonight!!
NO ONE would say that you didn't do everything right. Sometimes we just can't help their thought process and their impulses. Let's just pray that she finds her safety right now and that she'll be okay. My prayers are with your DD and with you.
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Post by psoccer on Sept 17, 2020 0:11:48 GMT
Hugs to you, I have been thinking of you all day and keeping you and your family in my prayers.
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Post by femalebusiness on Sept 17, 2020 0:57:07 GMT
Being a mom is hard sometimes. ((hugs)
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Post by revirdsuba99 on Sept 17, 2020 1:03:07 GMT
((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))) for both of you!
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Post by Memo on Sept 17, 2020 1:24:36 GMT
Sending hugs to you and your family. You're doing the right thing, even if it's hard and she hates you at the moment.
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Post by mom on Sept 17, 2020 2:28:30 GMT
SallyPA how are you today? Thinking of you and your daughter.
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Post by quinlove on Sept 17, 2020 2:52:39 GMT
SallyPA how are you today? Thinking of you and your daughter. I was thinking about them too. We are all here sending love to you. ❤️
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Post by peasquared on Sept 17, 2020 2:55:05 GMT
I’m praying for both of you! May you both find the strength to get through this.
She is lucky to have you in her corner! 💕
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Post by auntkelly on Sept 17, 2020 3:01:55 GMT
I'm so sorry you and your daughter are going through this. I'm saying prayers.
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Post by kenziekeeper on Sept 17, 2020 3:04:33 GMT
I'm so sorry. I'll be thinking of you and your girls.
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tincin
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Post by tincin on Sept 17, 2020 3:27:44 GMT
Dammit, life can be so hard sometimes. I hope things are going well for your DD and you.
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Post by LeaP on Sept 17, 2020 3:27:48 GMT
{{{hugs}}} You are not alone. In April, my daughter was in the ER because of alcohol, suicide threats and some cutting. It was terrible, but also good. My daughter has always had the narrative that the was the odd one out in the family. Going through this proved to her that we were there through her darkest hour, her cruelest insults, and when she came home she was treated the same way as before (i.e. she never was the odd one out and still wasn't after ER/remand).
I hope your daughter is doing better. Please peamail if you want more details or just encouragement. Going through this in the time of covid is hard.
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Post by finaledition on Sept 17, 2020 4:58:49 GMT
I’m very sorry. I can tell from your post that you are feeling the weight of the world on your heart right now. I hope things improve for both you and your daughter.
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Post by pudgygroundhog on Sept 17, 2020 6:19:15 GMT
I am so sorry. Sending ((hugs)).
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Post by fruitysuet on Sept 17, 2020 11:44:07 GMT
This must be so heart-breaking for you. I hope that things stabilised with your daughter overnight. Our babies are our babies forever and each stage of their lives brings new parenting challenges. The fact that you are there with her, despite her 'hating' you says more than words could ever say. I really hope things improve with her abuse and your relationship going forward.
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Post by tyra on Sept 17, 2020 12:28:43 GMT
Sending so many hugs!!!!! I have been there, with my son. PM me if you would like to talk. I am so sorry you are dealing with this.
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