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Post by lesserknownpea on Dec 3, 2020 22:47:07 GMT
I am so sorry. It’s times like these that make the pandemic especially cruel.
Self care is particularly important right now
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AllieC
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Post by AllieC on Dec 3, 2020 22:48:21 GMT
I am so sorry. Sending you much love.
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scrappinspidey2
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Post by scrappinspidey2 on Dec 3, 2020 22:52:10 GMT
Thank you everyone. I kinda stepped out of the office and went to a surprisingly deserted beach today and just sat there. Gonna pay for that later with work but it was necessary. I cannot go to her. Dad is severely compromised and my job puts me in doctors offices regularly. I do not want to bring that to him and there would be no way for me to do any kind of quarantine with that kind of timeline. He needs to be with her more than I do. I keep in touch with her husband. Honestly at this point, I am here for him. I know what's coming his way when this is done. I am unbearably sad though. I was able to get her quilt to her so she has it just like mom did. Its the same design, different color schemes and I won't make the design for anyone else. She knows how much I love her and I know how much she loves me and that is just going to have to be enough. I think I may get a small tattoo in her honor. They are closing down CA here soon so I have time to pick a design without feeling rushed into doing it immediately.
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Post by refugeepea on Dec 3, 2020 22:53:07 GMT
I am so very sorry. big ((hugs)) to you. I may have you confused with someone else, but was your sister also a pea at one time too?
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Post by SockMonkey on Dec 3, 2020 22:54:10 GMT
Thank you everyone. I kinda stepped out of the office and went to a surprisingly deserted beach today and just sat there. Gonna pay for that later with work but it was necessary. I cannot go to her. Dad is severely compromised and my job puts me in doctors offices regularly. I do not want to bring that to him and there would be no way for me to do any kind of quarantine with that kind of timeline. He needs to be with her more than I do. I keep in touch with her husband. Honestly at this point, I am here for him. I know what's coming his way when this is done. I am unbearably sad though. I was able to get her quilt to her so she has it just like mom did. Its the same design, different color schemes and I won't make the design for anyone else. She knows how much I love her and I know how much she loves me and that is just going to have to be enough. I think I may get a small tattoo in her honor. They are closing down CA here soon so I have time to pick a design without feeling rushed into doing it immediately. It's all so hard. I'm so glad you have had each other in your lives and you know your love for each other. May that love and your memories of her keep you going through this difficult time. 💜
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dald222
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Post by dald222 on Dec 3, 2020 22:58:40 GMT
i am sending hugs. i lost my dad to this terrible diseae plus going through this virus doesnt help9 at alll.
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Post by Skellinton on Dec 3, 2020 23:39:09 GMT
I am so sorry.
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scrappinspidey2
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Post by scrappinspidey2 on Dec 3, 2020 23:47:45 GMT
I am so very sorry. big ((hugs)) to you. I may have you confused with someone else, but was your sister also a pea at one time too? My biological sister is a pea, but isn't very active anymore. This isn't the one I was talking about. This is my sister by choice. I was unofficially adopted by her family as a teenager.
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Post by jmd74 on Dec 4, 2020 0:15:00 GMT
I’m so sorry.
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Anita
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Post by Anita on Dec 4, 2020 0:19:13 GMT
I'm so sorry.
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Post by elaine on Dec 4, 2020 0:20:51 GMT
(((Hugs)))) I’m so sorry. 😰
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Post by hockeyfan06 on Dec 4, 2020 1:04:36 GMT
very sorry to hear all of this. This year can't get any worse. Sending thoughts and prayers
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tracylynn
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Post by tracylynn on Dec 4, 2020 1:08:54 GMT
I'm so sorry!
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Post by tryingtobewise on Dec 4, 2020 1:10:01 GMT
I’m so sorry. This must be awful for you. Big hugs.
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Post by yodutchess on Dec 4, 2020 1:18:13 GMT
I’m so sorry. Hugs to you.
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Post by tara on Dec 4, 2020 1:46:48 GMT
I’m so sorry.
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Post by scrappinmom3 on Dec 4, 2020 1:54:43 GMT
I am so sorry.
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purplebee
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Post by purplebee on Dec 4, 2020 2:40:00 GMT
So sorry, this must be so hard. Hugs....
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muggins
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Post by muggins on Dec 4, 2020 2:50:24 GMT
I’m so sorry for your loss.
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Post by librarylady on Dec 4, 2020 2:53:47 GMT
I am so very sorry to read this. I send a prayer for her and for you.
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MaryMary
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Post by MaryMary on Dec 4, 2020 5:34:30 GMT
I’m so sorry, what awful news. ((HUGS))
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Post by katlaw on Dec 4, 2020 6:47:17 GMT
I am so sorry. This has been such a terrible year. For me the worst part has been losing my mom and not being able to have a funeral and hug my family. Sending you lots of love and hugs
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Post by JoP on Dec 4, 2020 7:25:57 GMT
Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers
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Post by Deleted on Dec 4, 2020 11:27:12 GMT
I am so very, very sorry for what you are going through. I know the pain your heart feels is just crushing. Be easy on your self and take comfort in the love that you have with her. There is not a DOUBT in my mind that love lives on.
You have the peas here when you need us.
(((HUGS)))
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scrappinspidey2
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Post by scrappinspidey2 on Dec 4, 2020 16:24:21 GMT
bump for update
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Post by Deleted on Dec 4, 2020 16:25:36 GMT
I'm so so sorry.
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smcast
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Post by smcast on Dec 4, 2020 16:27:16 GMT
I'm so sorry about your sister. 😪
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Post by piebaker on Dec 4, 2020 16:46:53 GMT
I am so sorry.
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inkedup
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Post by inkedup on Dec 4, 2020 16:50:44 GMT
Sending love and hugs your way. I'm so sorry. It's just devastating to lose a loved one, and more so under these circumstances. Please be gentle with yourself and continue reaching out for support here.
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MDscrapaholic
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Post by MDscrapaholic on Dec 4, 2020 16:51:49 GMT
I’m so sorry. May your memories of her make you happy.
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