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Post by snappinsami on Jul 3, 2014 12:04:07 GMT
Big (((HUGS))) coming your way. Being stuck in the middle like that is not fun. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
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Post by Scrappea on Jul 3, 2014 12:08:54 GMT
Thanks everyone. I hope time will heal the wounds and I will not worry myself to death while waiting. went to the doctor on Thursday and she said my blood pressure was really high.
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Post by JoP on Jul 3, 2014 18:44:32 GMT
(((((Hugs)))))
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Post by Deleted on Jul 3, 2014 18:48:28 GMT
((((hugs)))) and more ((((hugs)))). Sometimes things get said in the heat of a moment and the ones speaking don't really mean it. I hope that's the case here and time will help build bridges instead of walls. And more ((((hugs)))).
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Post by leannec on Jul 3, 2014 18:49:47 GMT
That sucks to be caught in the middle ... hugs to you!
Leanne
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Post by The Birdhouse Lady on Jul 3, 2014 18:49:59 GMT
That sucks when there is a rift in the family, especially if you are the one in the middle. Maybe time will help them both to get over the hurt. In the meantime just carry on and make the best of the weekend.
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Post by nepean on Jul 3, 2014 18:52:40 GMT
((((HUGS))))
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Post by refupea on Jul 3, 2014 18:53:14 GMT
Awww, OF COURSE you may have a hug! I am sending a huge cyber one your way!!
I am sorry for the sad and stressful situation. My heart aches for you for being in the middle of hurt feelings between the people you love. That is just stinky. Please try to give it time and I would imagine both will come around again. I really am sorry though.
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Post by greenlegume on Jul 3, 2014 18:56:55 GMT
I'm sorry. I hope things get better soon
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Post by heartland on Jul 3, 2014 18:57:11 GMT
(((hugs)))
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Post by jayfab on Jul 3, 2014 20:06:35 GMT
(((hugs))) coming your way.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 3, 2014 20:12:01 GMT
It's never nice to get stuck in the middle.Hope things clear up for you all soon (((hugs)))
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Post by Sam on Jul 3, 2014 20:12:32 GMT
Thanks everyone. I hope time will heal the wounds and I will not worry myself to death while waiting. went to the doctor on Thursday and she said my blood pressure was really high. Sorry to hear you are dealing with this - but, it's time to be a little selfish and put your health first. Step away and let them deal with this or leave it for a while before you try to smooth things over/address the issues. Put yourself, and your needs, in front of the two of them. Sometimes, it does just blow over given some time....
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Post by **Angie** on Jul 3, 2014 20:33:47 GMT
((hugs))
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Post by ModChick on Jul 3, 2014 20:58:28 GMT
I'm so sorry. Big hugs to you!
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Post by LavenderLayoutLady on Jul 3, 2014 21:24:20 GMT
I'm sorry you are in the middle.
Hopefully when things calm down, they will see reason and all will be well again.
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Post by scrappintoee on Jul 3, 2014 23:09:26 GMT
Sorry you're going through all of this... :-[Many ((( hugs !!!)))
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Post by scrapmaven on Jul 3, 2014 23:19:40 GMT
This is a fresh wound and everyone (your dh and db)are reeling from the sting. Let time work some healing and if you can, make it clear that you aren't in the middle. Your brother needs to understand that while you love him dearly, you are married to and living w/your dh and cannot get into the middle. Likewise, your dh needs to understand that you can't just write off your brother. Aside from that, they need time to cool down, unclench their fists and re-group. I'm so sorry you have to deal w/this. I juggle this w/a sibling and my dh. It took a few years for me to realize that I do not belong in the middle. This is btwn them. I can see her w/o him and vice versa. This is THEIR problem. It's a
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Post by seriousscrapper on Jul 3, 2014 23:22:13 GMT
Sending you huge ((((hugs))))
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Post by knotlazy on Jul 3, 2014 23:25:53 GMT
Hugs for you, dear. Hope it all blows over.
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Post by mikklynn on Jul 3, 2014 23:53:20 GMT
(((HUGS))) I was thinking exactly what scrapmaven said. Once things cool off, tell them both you will NOT be in the middle. You love them both. Good luck!
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Post by Scrappea on Jul 4, 2014 3:08:44 GMT
It still hasn't blown over, but its still fresh. I am hoping after this weekend things will calm down some. I am the world's worst and letting time "heal" things. I want it better now! Thanks for the hugs. If I can just get through tomorrow maybe some of the sadness will go away.
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Post by transprntbutterfly on Jul 4, 2014 13:34:59 GMT
Hugs to you. It stinks being stuck in the middle. Hopefully this will resolve itself quickly!
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Post by janeliz on Jul 4, 2014 13:37:27 GMT
I'm sorry. Family drama is so hard. ((Hugs))
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Post by Katie on Jul 4, 2014 13:39:18 GMT
Hugs sent. I've been in a simlar family situation and it really stinks being stuck in the middle. Hopefully over time your DH will understand what his position is doing to you, and he might relax his resistance to see your brother. Hang in there!!
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Post by newlywoods03 on Jul 4, 2014 13:40:15 GMT
I'm so sorry! HUGS!
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Post by Merge on Jul 4, 2014 13:41:48 GMT
I'm sorry. Family squabbles suck. I hope things get better for you soon. ((Hugs))
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Post by ScrapsontheRocks on Jul 4, 2014 13:58:10 GMT
Hugs from far away. sucks to be in the middle and I hope this does not ruin your 4th of July plans.
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Post by eastcoastpea on Jul 4, 2014 23:27:49 GMT
Sending hugs. I know how tough family relationships can be.
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Post by NanaKate on Jul 5, 2014 2:31:27 GMT
(((HUGS))) Hope it all works out soon!
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