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Post by busy on Aug 11, 2022 1:35:14 GMT
🎉🎉🎉
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katybee
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Jun 25, 2014 23:25:39 GMT
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Post by katybee on Aug 11, 2022 1:37:06 GMT
Wow. Just read the update! What is it with some men of a certain age? They turn into petulant, self-centered brats. I’m glad you took the high road! He can have his stupid camper!
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Post by cadoodlebug on Aug 11, 2022 1:38:38 GMT
Loved your update ~ especially your description of how your asshat of your XDH acted! Congrats!!
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Post by twinks on Aug 11, 2022 1:42:14 GMT
It won’t be good for him. I am surprised he isn’t moving to Idaho. Then again, Wyoming or Idaho, are the same.
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Post by revirdsuba99 on Aug 11, 2022 1:43:04 GMT
Yay you. Just use xh
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Post by freecharlie on Aug 11, 2022 1:45:16 GMT
It won’t be good for him. I am surprised he isn’t moving to Idaho. Then again, Wyoming or Idaho, are the same. the succubus is in Wyoming. They are living in a crappy camper on her dad's property
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Post by mollycoddle on Aug 11, 2022 1:46:14 GMT
Narrator: He won’t be missed.
The hard part is over!
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Post by katlady on Aug 11, 2022 1:51:50 GMT
I don’t know if congratulations is the right thing to say, but hugs to you!! Glad this part is over for you!!
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Nanner
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Jun 25, 2014 23:13:23 GMT
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Post by Nanner on Aug 11, 2022 1:57:09 GMT
You must feel so relieved that the divorce is DONE! Congratulations!
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Post by Skellinton on Aug 11, 2022 1:57:25 GMT
Good gravy. I hope his terrible behavior shows the judge just what an asshat he is and you get all you want and more. In the meantime I am sorry the man you married has completely disintegrated into this hot mess of a person.
Today is the first day of your new life! I am proud of you and wish you so much luck!!!
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Jili
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SLPea
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Jun 26, 2014 1:26:48 GMT
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Post by Jili on Aug 11, 2022 2:00:25 GMT
I am just checking in for the first time today and I am thrilled that this is over and that you are shitbox-free. I hope the details work out as you want them to!!
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mimima
Drama Llama
Stay Gold, Ponyboy
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Jun 25, 2014 19:25:50 GMT
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Post by mimima on Aug 11, 2022 2:01:54 GMT
Congratulations on your freedom! Good job!
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Post by mellyw on Aug 11, 2022 2:03:17 GMT
I’m so very relieved that this part is over for you.
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scrappinghappy
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“I’m late, I’m late for a very important date. No time to say “Hello.” Goodbye. I’m late...."
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Jun 26, 2014 19:30:06 GMT
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Post by scrappinghappy on Aug 11, 2022 2:06:39 GMT
Well, I bet you're glad that's over. Isn't he a dr? How very unprofessional. I hope the judge saw his behaviour and awards you above and beyond for mental stress.
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paget
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Jun 25, 2014 21:16:39 GMT
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Post by paget on Aug 11, 2022 2:09:09 GMT
What a turd. I’m glad he showed the judge a little unfavorable taste Of his behavior and that it bodes well for you. Congratulations on getting through this - I’ve been so impressed with you- your Strength and attitude.
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TankTop
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Refupea #1,871
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Jun 28, 2014 1:52:46 GMT
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Post by TankTop on Aug 11, 2022 2:11:41 GMT
Congratulations!
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Post by amp on Aug 11, 2022 2:14:06 GMT
I'm so happy for you that this is over!
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Post by scrapmaven on Aug 11, 2022 2:52:06 GMT
I hope the judge was really annoyed w/the succubus. What a total moron! I hope that the judge really empathized w/you and that you fared much better than you think. Asshat ex sounds like a complete and total loser. You are thriving and he's floundering. GOOD!
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Post by tryingtobewise on Aug 11, 2022 2:59:56 GMT
Congratulations! I suspect this will come out the way you want but either way you will rebuild and have a great life. Living well is the best revenge!
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Post by 950nancy on Aug 11, 2022 3:20:17 GMT
Woot. I am sure that when you look back on what has become of him, it is sad. Sad that the person you once loved is clearly gone. Look at what he has now. He's moved out of a nice home, lost a lot of his independence/support, and has a woman who he knows will cheat. Are we going to have a bet for how long it takes him to realize he wants to get back with you? I mean I hope he doesn't come back so you can move on without more complications, but jeez, this guy is something.
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Post by freecharlie on Aug 11, 2022 4:04:39 GMT
Woot. I am sure that when you look back on what has become of him, it is sad. Sad that the person you once loved is clearly gone. Look at what he has now. He's moved out of a nice home, lost a lot of his independence/support, and has a woman who he knows will cheat. Are we going to have a bet for how long it takes him to realize he wants to get back with you? I mean I hope he doesn't come back so you can move on without more complications, but jeez, this guy is something. he's stubborn and would never admit he was wrong. There is not a chance in hell I'd ever take him back. First, I've realized that I made him better than what he is. 2nd, he's a self centered asshole, and most importantly, he dropped our kids from his life. You don't get to f around with my kids
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Post by 950nancy on Aug 11, 2022 4:05:49 GMT
Woot. I am sure that when you look back on what has become of him, it is sad. Sad that the person you once loved is clearly gone. Look at what he has now. He's moved out of a nice home, lost a lot of his independence/support, and has a woman who he knows will cheat. Are we going to have a bet for how long it takes him to realize he wants to get back with you? I mean I hope he doesn't come back so you can move on without more complications, but jeez, this guy is something. he's stubborn and would never admit he was wrong. There is not a chance in hell I'd ever take him back. First, I've realized that I made him better than what he is. 2nd, he's a self centered asshole, and most importantly, he dropped our kids from his life. You don't get to f around with my kids Clearly!!!!!!
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luckyexwife
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Jun 25, 2014 21:21:08 GMT
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Post by luckyexwife on Aug 11, 2022 4:10:13 GMT
Woot. I am sure that when you look back on what has become of him, it is sad. Sad that the person you once loved is clearly gone. Look at what he has now. He's moved out of a nice home, lost a lot of his independence/support, and has a woman who he knows will cheat. Are we going to have a bet for how long it takes him to realize he wants to get back with you? I mean I hope he doesn't come back so you can move on without more complications, but jeez, this guy is something. he's stubborn and would never admit he was wrong. There is not a chance in hell I'd ever take him back. First, I've realized that I made him better than what he is. 2nd, he's a self centered asshole, and most importantly, he dropped our kids from his life. You don't get to f around with my kids That is so much like my ex. We are almost 4 years out from when he started his affair, and his kids barely talk to him. It is so sad, but he did it to himself. Good for you!!! Can't wait to hear more about court today.
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Post by Sanibel on Aug 11, 2022 4:19:17 GMT
It’s unbelievable he didn’t talk to the kids about moving. Such a sad situation for them!
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Post by workingclassdog on Aug 11, 2022 4:43:58 GMT
I’ve been away but sending good vibes the judge will stick it to him!!! What an ass!!! Glad the judge could see that!!
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luckyjune
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Post by luckyjune on Aug 11, 2022 5:02:34 GMT
I'll bet your are relieved! What a great life you are about to begin!!!
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PLurker
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Location: Behind the Cheddar Curtain
Jun 28, 2014 3:48:49 GMT
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Post by PLurker on Aug 11, 2022 5:19:16 GMT
Yay, you!
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gramma
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Aug 29, 2014 3:09:48 GMT
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Post by gramma on Aug 11, 2022 6:31:30 GMT
So if I understand correctly he showed the judge exactly who he is. That should make it easier for the judge to give him exactly what he deserves.
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Post by gramasue on Aug 11, 2022 12:08:57 GMT
You are lucky to be rid of him. He probably made a very bad impression on the judge, which means things will swing your way.
I'm sorry he's been so hurtful to your kids. That part alone makes him a total and complete jerk.
My wish for you - BE HAPPY.
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Post by Spongemom Scrappants on Aug 11, 2022 12:14:16 GMT
So far so good. I’m glad you’re officially divorced and I hope you get a very favorable outcome with the ruling.
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