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Post by Deleted on Jan 26, 2016 0:47:47 GMT
Prayers for strength for your friend and her family. I truly can not imagine the pain involved with having to bury your new born. My heart breaks for them.
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AllieC
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Post by AllieC on Jan 26, 2016 0:51:54 GMT
How heartbreaking for your friend and her family. I'm so sorry
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Post by papercrafteradvocate on Jan 26, 2016 0:52:36 GMT
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sweetpeasmom
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Post by sweetpeasmom on Jan 26, 2016 1:12:49 GMT
How sad and heartbreaking!
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Post by mamastone on Jan 26, 2016 1:36:13 GMT
Sending thoughts and prayers. So sad
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Nicole in TX
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Post by Nicole in TX on Jan 26, 2016 1:58:56 GMT
That is horrible. I will pray.
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Post by crazy4scraps on Jan 26, 2016 3:45:19 GMT
What a terrible thing to have to endure. Prayers for your friend and her family during this trying time.
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Post by lovinlife on Jan 26, 2016 4:14:16 GMT
So sorry...prayers
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Post by k8smom on Jan 26, 2016 8:12:30 GMT
Having lost a child myself, (SIDS) I can tell you with babies you lose your hopes and dreams for that child as well as losing the child. You have to re-envison your future and that is a double whammy. Be kind to your dear friend, include her child in your thoughts and conversations... that will mean more to her than you could possibly know.
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Post by grammanisi on Jan 26, 2016 8:56:40 GMT
Having lost a child myself, (SIDS) I can tell you with babies you lose your hopes and dreams for that child as well as losing the child. You have to re-envison your future and that is a double whammy. Be kind to your dear friend, include her child in your thoughts and conversations... that will mean more to her than you could possibly I am so sorry for your loss, K8smom. Thank you for the advice. It seems to have hit home a little more because of our great grandson only being 6 months old and my granddaughter has been giving the mama our great grandson's clothes that he has out grown. They work together and our families have been friends for over 20 years. I cannot imagine what they are going through.
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Post by bothmykidsrbrats on Jan 26, 2016 10:14:23 GMT
So heartbreaking. 47 years ago, this coming Saturday my mom delivered my still born sister, on her due date. 47 years, and she is still a wreck this week, every year. My thoughts and prayers are with your friend, and her family.
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wellway
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Post by wellway on Jan 26, 2016 10:30:58 GMT
How very sad, sending good thoughts to all.
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Post by beachhappy22 on Jan 26, 2016 12:11:27 GMT
Heartbreaking. Prayers to the family. So sad
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Post by gailoh on Jan 26, 2016 13:46:59 GMT
Heartbreaking...hugs and prayers
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cristinac
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Post by cristinac on Jan 26, 2016 14:06:01 GMT
I'm so sorry. Praying for her and her family.
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Post by caro on Jan 26, 2016 14:40:44 GMT
I just can't imagine that pain. I'm so sorry.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 26, 2016 14:57:03 GMT
so sorry..sending prayers.
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grammanisi
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Post by grammanisi on Jan 27, 2016 4:28:37 GMT
small update in OP
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flute4peace
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Post by flute4peace on Jan 27, 2016 4:30:36 GMT
Oh man, the update makes it even worse. I wouldn't begin to know how to process that.
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grammanisi
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Post by grammanisi on Jan 27, 2016 4:33:22 GMT
That is what is so troubling to them.
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Post by gsquaredmom on Jan 27, 2016 10:12:02 GMT
That is what is so troubling to them. I am sorry for their loss. I thought it was pretty standard not to let women go beyond two weeks late? I am not a sue-type person, but I would likely at least consult an attorney. Records mysteriously disappear, stories change, etc in cases like this. The doctor and hospital probably already have legal counsel. If there really was a breach of care, the family cannot wait a year or two. After my doctor missed a placental abruption and my son and I almost died, I sucked it up and did not see a lawyer because I really liked my doctor. I wish now I had. My son has struggled with frontal lobe deficits and fine motor issues, I believe because of anoxia associated with the abruption I had had for several days that my doc repeatedly missed. I wish them all the best.
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Nicole in TX
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Post by Nicole in TX on Jan 27, 2016 11:22:18 GMT
That is truly awful. I will continue to pray.
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sweetpeasmom
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Post by sweetpeasmom on Jan 27, 2016 13:17:01 GMT
What a horrific update . I agree with gsquaredmom . They need to consult with an attorney ASAP.
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Post by lovinlife on Jan 27, 2016 14:21:18 GMT
What an awful update...I'd consult with an attorney as well. Prayers
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Post by bostonmama on Jan 27, 2016 15:35:49 GMT
Oh, that poor Mama. This was my BIGGEST fear when I was pregnant with my littles. We knew someone who lost a baby the exact same way as your friend. I told my OB I REFUSED to go more than a week over my due date. Because of my OB's schedule, I ended up getting induced 8 days over with my daughter, and my anxiety was through the roof. Just knowing there was a healthy baby at 40 weeks and 41 weeks but not at 42 -- it kills me. I want to hug your friend.
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Post by giatocj on Jan 27, 2016 15:40:25 GMT
Oh my goodness, how heartbreaking. My thoughts are with this family at this sad, sad time.
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grammanisi
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Post by grammanisi on Jan 27, 2016 16:18:28 GMT
The grandma said that they all held him and he was perfect.
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