Just T
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Post by Just T on May 29, 2016 0:30:34 GMT
You may remember my post from weeks ago that we are replacing all of the flooring on the main level of our house. We have ripped up carpet, ceramic tile and wood flooring and are replacing all of it with the same wood flooring throughout the whole downstairs. Taking up all of the floors, down to the subfloor, has been a dirty, GROSS, NASTY endeavor. We decided that if we were going to put down new flooring, we would also repaint the ceilings and walls and trim...and kitchen cabinets, that I have wanted to paint for years. Then, of course, we will need a new countertop since the one we have now is white, not in good shape at all, and I am painting the cabinets white. It has turned into one of those "if you give a mouse a cookie" situations.
I have been living with dirty chaos for over a month now because my husband and I are doing the work ourselves. He is a very handy guy, who can do just about anything.
However, things have been complicated. Aren't they always? We had a storm a few weeks ago, and the roof on our porch leaked and damaged some dry wall in our dining room. He started patching/repairing that. It was a pretty large area, so he worked on it over a couple of days, and was close to getting it to the point where I could primer over it and paint the room.
And then, last Sunday, he broke his elbow and a bone in his hand.
And, he is a stubborn person who will not pay anyone to do anything he can do himself. And, he will be unable to do much of anything for 12 weeks. Well, 11 now.
So, our whole first floor and the stairs are down to the subfloor, that is still so dirty and gross even though I sweep it every day. We can't walk on it without shoes because of splinters and nails and staples. We regrouped this week, and my husband, who doesn't let much get him down, has been doing little things as he can with his left hand (he is right handed). It has taken him longer than it normally would have to finish the drywall repairs so that I can paint, but we were feeling like, "Okay, it's a set back, it will take longer, but we will get it done, and it will be lovely."
And then, two days ago, my daughter was upstairs taking a shower, and water started pouring from the ceiling into the kitchen. Today, my husband, with the help of my other daughter's boyfriend, cut a huge chunk of ceiling from the kitchen to expose the upstairs bathroom plumbing. He eventually discovered the problem, was trying to remove the offending piece of pipe (on a ladder, using one arm!), and he accidentally broke the main pipe.
Are you still with me?
If you are...he went to Home Depot to buy the pieces he needs to fix it, and they don't sell that stuff there. He will have to go to a plumbing supply store. It's a holiday weekend, so none will be open until Tuesday. That bathroom, that both of my daughters use, cannot be used at all now, not even the sink.
He is probably going to have to call a plumber, and he is having a fit about that and saying he is not going to.
I can't help but wonder how a one-armed man is going to be able to fix this. He has no doubt that he will be able to.
In the meantime, I am drinking some wine and feeling a bit thankful that I am going to be out of town Tuesday through Thursday for a work trip.
**UPDATE** 6/11
Since I know some of you have been anxiously awaiting an update, I thought I’d give one. Not much has been happening in my house. Not much good anyway, other than a good deal of wine consumption. Well, my husband, daughter and I did manage to fix the broken water pipe last weekend, so there is that.
My crappy back decided to be crappier than normal to me this past week, so I got virtually nothing accomplished. About the only thing I did do was paint part of the downstairs hallway, but I had to stop when I was in so much pain I was in tears. I am loving the colors of the rooms I have painted so far, and I am hoping this weekend is more productive than the last one. I took vacation days next week to HOPEFULLY start painting my kitchen cabinets. I hate to even make plans at this point because every time I overcome one hurdle, something else knocks me down. But, I am still glad we are doing all of this, even though I have been in tears more than once. I try to keep my mind focused on how lovely my house is going when it is finished. I only hope that will be sometime this year.
For those who enjoy seeing pics of things like this, I started blogging about it a few weeks ago. ramblinrose-rose.blogspot.com/
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smginaz Suzy
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Jun 26, 2014 17:27:30 GMT
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Post by smginaz Suzy on May 29, 2016 0:37:44 GMT
Yikes. It is a sign of strength to know when to ask for help.
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J u l e e
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Jun 28, 2014 2:50:47 GMT
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Post by J u l e e on May 29, 2016 1:36:46 GMT
Good grief! That is a LOT going on. You seem to have a good attitude about it! I would not be so patient. I always say my inner calm is dictated by my outer order, so I would have a really hard time with my house like that for so long. But you are right - it will be beautiful when it's finished and you'll have a good story to tell about it when you are able to look back on it and laugh!
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Post by crazy4scraps on May 29, 2016 3:39:17 GMT
We've done our fair share of home improvements over the years, but honestly all of that going on at once is JUST.TOO.MUCH! No way would I have your patience! We've seen couples we know end up getting divorced due in part to taking on massive home renovations all at once, and I'm not even kidding. After that, DH and I vowed, "Never more than one room at a time."
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Post by mom on May 29, 2016 3:46:14 GMT
Holy cow. You have a ton on your hands.
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Post by vicloo on May 29, 2016 4:47:30 GMT
Enjoy your short reprieve. Hope your hotel room is peaceful, calm, and stress free!
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lindas
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Jun 26, 2014 5:46:37 GMT
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Post by lindas on May 29, 2016 5:59:23 GMT
You poor thing, you are obviously married to a clone of my DH.
I feel for you, I really do. A minor project started back in November took on a life of its own and I'm still living in renovation hell so I know how you feel. The scaffolding has been up so long I'm now starting to look at it as part of the decor.
I pour a glass of wine every evening and offer up a silent prayer of thanks that I survived another day without calling a divorce lawyer.
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Sue
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Jun 26, 2014 18:42:33 GMT
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Post by Sue on May 29, 2016 6:04:05 GMT
You poor thing! Hope you can make lemonade out of these lemons but, good grief, it sounds like a tall order to me!
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Just T
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Post by Just T on May 29, 2016 14:23:27 GMT
Thanks everyone! I am trying to find the humor in it all and keep a good attitude about it. I really have no other choice. I decided to blog about the whole journey last weekend, before my husband broke his arm, and I am taking lots of photos. That is helping me keep my sanity. I have been thinking of a column that used to appear in some old scrapbooking magazine, "Don't get mad, take pictures!" so that is what I am trying to do.
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blue tulip
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Post by blue tulip on May 29, 2016 17:28:42 GMT
omg.. unless you are destitute, call someone in to fix this! it's not a sign of weakness, he's freakin' broken and working with his non-dominant hand, which is just going to result in more frustration and possible shoddy work.
I think if I were you I would sit down with him, say honey I know you know how to do this, I know you are capable when you are healthy, but continuing in this way is going to result in something else bad happening and it's time to call someone in to get (at least some of) this done.
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valincal
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Jun 27, 2014 2:21:22 GMT
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Post by valincal on May 29, 2016 17:32:25 GMT
Whoa! Yeah, I think I'd be calling in the professionals at this point! Hope it goes smoothly for you from now on!
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Mystie
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Jun 25, 2014 19:53:37 GMT
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Post by Mystie on May 29, 2016 19:12:31 GMT
OMG, I got stressed out just reading that. Your DH needs a serious reality check, but that's probably not going to happen, is it? So...enjoy your time away, and stock up on your liquor of choice, I guess! So sorry!
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Post by anniefb on May 29, 2016 19:26:48 GMT
Yikes. It is a sign of strength to know when to ask for help. Yep time to call in some help!
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janeinbama
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Post by janeinbama on May 29, 2016 19:26:58 GMT
Tough, tough lady! We did a remodel project with contractors (all referred) for a 3 week project which ended up being 8 weeks. We had no stove for 3 weeks and pretty much "camped" in our bedroom. I love the finished projects but much prefer HGTV's timelines.
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Post by Bridget in MD on May 29, 2016 20:21:57 GMT
WOW, at first, I was thinking, hey! we are replacing all the flooring on our 1st (and 2nd!) floors too! And because of the vinyl planks we picked, the orangish oak wood we have looks horrible, so I have been SANDING since MOTHER'S DAY all our railings and spindles (we have an open walkway, and 2 stair cases) which I plan on staining a dark walnut color.
But girl, that is where our similiar stories stop! I think I'd cry uncle and call the professionals - at least the plumber!!!! Hang in there!
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Post by onlywork2scrap on May 29, 2016 21:09:57 GMT
Wow. And I was stressed about my kitchen/dining room gut job. I feel your pain, but you know your DH and how he would react if you called in the big guns. I am thankful my DH works in the construction world and makes the calls himself. I say have another couple of glasses of wine. You're gonna need them. So sorry you are having to deal with the chaos.
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Post by mikklynn on May 29, 2016 21:21:39 GMT
omg.. unless you are destitute, call someone in to fix this! it's not a sign of weakness, he's freakin' broken and working with his non-dominant hand, which is just going to result in more frustration and possible shoddy work. I think if I were you I would sit down with him, say honey I know you know how to do this, I know you are capable when you are healthy, but continuing in this way is going to result in something else bad happening and it's time to call someone in to get (at least some of) this done. I agree, at least for the plumbing problems. You have my complete sympathy. We hired all our work done, as DH is disabled, but we had no kitchen most of last summer. I burst into tears one day just trying to find everything to have a bowl of cereal. Now my master shower leaked into the family room. Aargh! We just don't even have time to pick out tile so we can redo it.
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Just T
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Post by Just T on May 29, 2016 23:05:48 GMT
LOL We are not destitute. I am just married to a very stubborn man who doesn't want to "waste" money paying for something he can do himself. Today, he did say he is willing to look for a plumber, if he can find one who won't charge a fortune. Which means we probably won't be hiring one. LOL
Your DH needs a serious reality check, but that's probably not going to happen, is it? So...enjoy your time away, and stock up on your liquor of choice, Nope, not going to happen. LOL Believe me, I have a good supply of wine.
so I have been SANDING since MOTHER'S DAY all our railings and spindles Yuck!! I think all of the dust and debris is the worst.
You have my complete sympathy. We hired all our work done, as DH is disabled, but we had no kitchen most of last summer. I burst into tears one day just trying to find everything to have a bowl of cereal. Now my master shower leaked into the family room. Aargh! We just don't even have time to pick out tile so we can redo it. I feel your pain! Most of my stuff is in boxes in the garage and basement, and it is making me crazy.
Thanks again for the sympathy. LOL And I give mine to those of you who are in similar home renovation projects.
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Just T
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Post by Just T on Jun 11, 2016 13:28:28 GMT
BTT for a smallish update!
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