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Post by salem on Oct 13, 2016 23:40:34 GMT
There are some miserable people in this world. I'm sorry your Mom is one of them.
Congrats on 20 years.
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Post by anniefb on Oct 13, 2016 23:42:23 GMT
Happy 20th anniversary and so sorry you had to put up with that crap.
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Post by kelly8875 on Oct 13, 2016 23:47:07 GMT
Happy 20th! Sorry your family is like that.
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Post by LavenderLayoutLady on Oct 14, 2016 1:02:29 GMT
Wow. I'm sorry that you have to deal with such crap. I second this. (((hugs))) You deserve better treatment.
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Post by Spongemom Scrappants on Oct 14, 2016 1:08:20 GMT
I'm betting your mom would still be finding something to be negative about whether you had married your husband or not. My policy is to just let unhappy people be unhappy... I'm not wasting any of my happiness trying to "fix" them.
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Post by txdancermom on Oct 14, 2016 1:09:35 GMT
Happy anniversary!
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Post by Deleted on Oct 14, 2016 1:28:50 GMT
So sorry you are having to deal with toxic people like this. Sounds like they are the black cloud. You and your successful marriage are a bright spot.
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Post by craftsbycarolyn on Oct 14, 2016 2:12:33 GMT
You put up with that shit for 20 years?
Congrats on your 20th anniversary!
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Post by peasapie on Oct 14, 2016 2:38:23 GMT
Congratulations on 20 years! Sometimes adversity brings couples together. It sounds like it worked for you two.
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Post by roberta on Oct 14, 2016 2:50:48 GMT
Congrats on 20 years! It's too bad you have to put up with that kind of crap, but living well is the best revenge. ditto
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Post by nlwilkins on Oct 14, 2016 3:00:21 GMT
what a sad, sick woman. Actually, what a aweful mother. It is to your credit that you turned out so well and no credit for your sucess as a person to her and your grandmother. Despite what and who they were, you rose above it. Congratulations on the 20 years.
Just laugh and see how hollow her words are. they (the words) mean nothing.
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Post by anonrefugee on Oct 14, 2016 3:31:54 GMT
THEY treated you like that, yet you are the black cloud? It might be perverse but, good job!!!
And congrats for surviving 20 years, that's a huge accomplishment. Don't let the witches get you down!
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Post by Really Red on Oct 14, 2016 5:12:35 GMT
I agree with the Peas. You showed them!!! 20 years and counting! Good for you and your husband. Happiness is better than anything!!!
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Post by craftykitten on Oct 14, 2016 6:57:03 GMT
I can't imagine anyone holding on to that level of hate for 20 years! I think you've definitely had the last laugh though. Congratulations on your anniversary.
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Post by monklady123 on Oct 14, 2016 10:07:33 GMT
having a long and happy marriage was the best comeback to that statement. Happy 20th, and many more.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 14, 2016 10:44:23 GMT
Some people just like to spread poison, in a twisted way they must think it makes them happy. It doesn't it just makes them sad and lonely and it's what they deserve. I'm not going to mince my words here, your mother is a bitch. Having a long happy marriage is the perfect revenge.
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Post by carhoch on Oct 14, 2016 11:00:54 GMT
First and foremost Happy Anniversary that been say it's your mother you do whatever but I would have no relationship with a mother like that .
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Post by mollycoddle on Oct 14, 2016 11:21:47 GMT
Happy Anniversary! As for your mom, her attempt to make you feel badly is just a bit too obvious. Sounds like you escaped a very dysfunctional bunch of relatives. Congrats on that, too.
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Post by grinningcat on Oct 14, 2016 11:22:24 GMT
Why is this vile person still in your life? Cut her out and enjoy the peace. Don't give her and her idiots another thought. Walk away as the better person.
I'm sorry you didn't get the mom you deserve.
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Post by anniebygaslight on Oct 14, 2016 11:58:38 GMT
Cut such negativity out of your life.
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Post by mikklynn on Oct 14, 2016 12:31:33 GMT
Happy anniversary. I am so glad you and your DH have built a better life together.
Honestly, why do have any contact with those people. They may be blood relations, but they are not family.
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Post by imsirius on Oct 14, 2016 12:36:35 GMT
Why is this vile person still in your life? Cut her out and enjoy the peace. Don't give her and her idiots another thought. Walk away as the better person. I'm sorry you didn't get the mom you deserve. I was going to say the exact same as grinning cat. Cut her out and stop talking to her or taking her calls. You started a life together and without her, so why keep her in it? She sounds bitter and miserable. I've learned many lessons over the last 30 years or so and one of the biggest and most satisfying to me was "removed toxic people from your life". I did it with my sister in law and a very manipulative and negative friend and it's the best thing I've ever done.
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Post by mellowyellow on Oct 14, 2016 12:48:08 GMT
What an ugly thing to say! I'm so sorry and congratulations on your anniversary!
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Post by Horse scrap on Oct 14, 2016 15:19:28 GMT
Congrats on 20 yrs!! Sounds like mom is jealous!!! Go celebrate and toast to that black cloud!
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