MerryMom
Pearl Clutcher
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Post by MerryMom on Dec 2, 2016 17:36:21 GMT
I usually donate $25 GCs directly to the local organization that handles Christmas wish lists which they give to the teens.
The teens are usually left out. Trust me, especially males.
In our little rural county, the various organizations, including the larger churches and schools, that adopt families (including seniors and disabled) or give toys are all linked through a centralized computer system. I work for children services and we also list our foster kids and protective services families there as well.
It is to avoid duplication of assistance. A family shouldn't "double dip", but then there isn't enough for another family.
Nearly every organization that I have been involved can handle true, last minute emergencies for Christmas help. We give the set phrase, "I'm sorry, but you have missed the deadline. However, we have this date and time to handle last minute emergencies, come in between those hours and what we have left is distributed."
If you don't set deadlines with people, 80% of the cases would all be handled "last minute".
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Post by paperaddictedpea on Dec 2, 2016 17:53:53 GMT
Any program can be abused. It happens. But just like with day to day programs, if you focus on those "working the system" you leave those truly in need with no help. So we choose to donate as if every donation is going to the appropriate people. This is exactly how I feel. Also, I've never seen expensive gift requests on our angel tree tags; just reasonably priced and often practical items. The teen tags that we received at my company (we do a company-wide food and gift drive for the Salvation Army Christmas Bureau at the holidays, plus collect donations for local animal shelters/rescues) request things like a selfie stick or a sweatshirt. I pulled two tags this year - one for a 9 month old girl and one for a 91 year old man. The little girl's tag suggested a developmental toy so I bought that plus some adorable pajamas, and the man's request was blankets (I bought a couple of the Kohls throws that the Peas were raving about recently!)
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Post by gmcwife1 on Dec 2, 2016 18:00:09 GMT
I volunteered at the SA distribution center for two years. After that I could no longer bring myself to donate. Upon chatting with others that did the same, I discovered that the abuse of the system was typical. Yes, typically the children get from multiple agencies. We just got back from buying for a family that dd's school club adopted. This family was selected by the school social worker. The kids are teens and seldom get items through other agencies. Usually it is just younger kids that sign up with Salvation Army. I think this depends on the family. The people that work the system will work the system all over. But the people that don't are the ones that only sign up once.
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