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Post by Judie in Oz on Jun 29, 2014 16:42:04 GMT
I'm so sorry that one person did that. How mean-spirited of them. Please don't judge the rest of us by them.
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oldcrow
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Post by oldcrow on Jun 29, 2014 16:46:32 GMT
That was just one mean and nasty person. I am so glad you were able to over come her comments.
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Post by airforcemomof1 on Jun 29, 2014 16:47:12 GMT
I'm so sorry that one person did that. How mean-spirited of them. Please don't judge the rest of us by them. That.
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Post by Laura in OK on Jun 29, 2014 16:52:58 GMT
I'm so sorry you had that happen to you. Hopefully, the meanness & hatefulness were left on the old board.
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Post by miominmio on Jun 29, 2014 16:57:03 GMT
I'm so sorry someone responded that way. What an awful thing to say.
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Post by peajays on Jun 29, 2014 17:01:34 GMT
What a cruel thing to do!
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Post by SallyPA on Jun 29, 2014 17:09:26 GMT
I'm sorry that happened to you.
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tiffanytwisted
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Post by tiffanytwisted on Jun 29, 2014 17:13:18 GMT
I don't remember much about past threads, but I do remember that.
I am so sorry - for what you went thru, for how some horrible person made you feel and for feeling forced to create a new identity because of it.
What a strong woman you are.
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rodeomom
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Post by rodeomom on Jun 29, 2014 17:19:29 GMT
I'm sorry that happened to you.
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Post by jenjie on Jun 29, 2014 18:08:15 GMT
I remember. I'm so sorry that you were raped and then were then all those years later treated so horribly when you shared your story.
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scrappinmama
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Post by scrappinmama on Jun 29, 2014 18:30:33 GMT
I don't remember your story, but how brave of you to step forward. I'm so sorry it happened to you.
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Post by Deleted on Jun 29, 2014 18:30:41 GMT
I am so sorry you were treated that way. I am glad to see you feel safer on this board.
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Post by elaine on Jun 29, 2014 19:54:34 GMT
Liz, I'm sorry that happened to you. Mean people suck.
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newlywoods03
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Post by newlywoods03 on Jun 29, 2014 20:01:09 GMT
I am so sorry that happened to you!
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Post by jenettycakes on Jun 29, 2014 20:04:24 GMT
Very sorry you were physically and emotionally assaulted as well as the poor judgement on the pea's part....you are brave to tell your story.
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Post by tuva42 on Jun 29, 2014 20:20:40 GMT
I'm always amazed at folks who think its okay to be mean on-line, when they would never say something like that in person. It hurts just the same.
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Post by I-95 on Jun 29, 2014 20:29:51 GMT
I don't remember much about past threads, but I do remember that. I remember that one too. Whoever the person was who got nasty and accused you of lying was just dirt beneath your feet. Unbelievable what some folks will do.
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thatgirlintexas
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Post by thatgirlintexas on Jun 29, 2014 21:04:07 GMT
I remember your story and I absofreakinglutely remember who called you a liar!
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Post by mikklynn on Jun 29, 2014 21:06:44 GMT
I am happy to see you here. I'm glad you won't let one awful person keep you away!
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Mary Kay Lady
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Post by Mary Kay Lady on Jun 29, 2014 21:13:32 GMT
I remember your post on 2 Peas. I'm so sorry that one of the Peas was so cruel and mean to you. You are very brave to share your story.
I hope that your experiences on this board are all positive.
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Post by pattipea on Jun 29, 2014 21:16:35 GMT
I don't know anything about your story on the other board, but I respect your bravery and honesty here. That has got to be one of the worst things a woman can be forced to endure, and then to be accused of not being truthful about it when nobody knows what you're feeling is just plain brutal. I'm sorry you had to go through any of that.
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Post by peasapie on Jun 29, 2014 21:25:49 GMT
I'm sorry that happened to you. I'm glad you felt comfortable enough to share it here.
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Post by MsChiff on Jun 29, 2014 21:28:47 GMT
I don't remember your story, but am so sorry that happened to you and that a Pea was so cruel to you.
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Post by Sam on Jun 29, 2014 21:38:52 GMT
Oh, Liz, just say the name. This passive-aggressive stuff you pull gets boring.
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Post by lovemybabes on Jun 29, 2014 21:49:23 GMT
I'm so sorry for what you went through, and then for that person to be awful... ((hugs))
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back to *pea*ality
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Post by back to *pea*ality on Jun 29, 2014 22:41:32 GMT
I remember the thread/incident well.
I said then to Beautiful Morning and I will say to you Liz now that I am sorry for your pain. No woman should ever be subjected to such brutality.
I also remember that overwhelmingly the vast majority of peas including myself had your back.
Then in retaliation you said something unkind about her granddaughter in one of her threads. Most peas abide by a code to not drag children into the ugliness.
I think your resurrecting this on the new board is indeed passive -aggressive. I hope that Lauren will take the high road (I would have never mentioned her name but you did) and put you on ignore. You should do the same. It will make it more enjoyable for the rest of us.
I think making this board "enjoyable" for you is doing exactly what you have done here. Please get help - it is not healthy.
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back to *pea*ality
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Post by back to *pea*ality on Jun 29, 2014 22:42:51 GMT
Passive aggressive stuff, Sam? Really? What an awful thing to say to me. If I told everyone the name of the person I'd be called names and now that I haven't I get called passive aggressive. That's totally uncalled for.
You want to know why I have such a problem with Lauren? It's because she was the one who started an entire thread accusing me of lying about my rape. She's disgusting and I'm sick of her using alternate identities to attack me. I will not have anything to do with her from now on. I want this board to be enjoyable for me.
Just if case - the rules.
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back to *pea*ality
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Post by back to *pea*ality on Jun 29, 2014 22:50:33 GMT
See? I cannot win. Damned if I do and damned if I don't.
For the record, I said nothing unkind about her granddaughter. Feel free to post from the thread to prove what you think I said, though.
No, I am not taking the bait and escalating this with you. I don't have to prove anything.
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ingrid
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Post by ingrid on Jun 29, 2014 22:51:54 GMT
Look, the fresh start, "I'm starting over" stuff is swell and all, but seriously.
Accusing someone of lying about rape isn't okay. I'm upset that you were raped and I'm upset that you were accused of lying about it. I'm sorry that those things happened.
But your behavior under your various ID's was awful. Repulsive, really. And not just towards Lauren. You kicked so many people when they were already down who hadn't done a damn thing to you. You just didn't stop. No matter how kindly you were treated or how many peas encouraged you to turn it around, you just couldn't or wouldn't.
I think everyone deserves a fresh start, but I'm already seeing a pattern from you here of being stuck in the past. You're still hyper-focused on Lauren and want to make sure everyone knows what a bad person she is. You've brought her up several times just for the sake of putting her down. If you really want a new start and to be a positive force here, you have to let it go.
I've seen Lauren make some incredibly positive changes in the way she interacts with people. Was she a jerk in the past? Yep. Is there a chance she could backside and say something that's way off-base and offensive? Yeah, just as much as any of us are. But I truly believe she's done some serious work on how she approaches interacting with others and I'm pretty impressed. One of her posts to you a few weeks ago wished you peace and I think she's tried to move along. Considering the insults you've hurled at her about her children/grandchildren and the fact that you told her that you hope she kills herself, I'd say she's doing a decent job with taking the moral high-road.
Stop picking fights, stop wallowing in all the ways you were wronged. There are so many people here who don't even know your backstory, you really could start anew if you wished. But you've got to let the Lauren stuff go. I bet you have a lot to offer people, Liz, but you have to stop with the Lauren stuff for people to believe that it's going to be different this time.
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marianne
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Post by marianne on Jun 29, 2014 23:03:43 GMT
Very well put, Ingrid, and I agree.
Liz, I'm also betting that you have a lot to offer but the obssession with Lauren gets in the way of any of us enjoying your input. Give yourself a chance - just put her on ignore and enjoy the board.
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