Judy26
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MOTFY Bitchy Nursemaid
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Jun 25, 2014 23:50:38 GMT
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Post by Judy26 on Dec 2, 2017 13:50:17 GMT
You are one of the bravest people I have ever “met”. Your story is raw and gritty and an inspiration to all. I hope you continue to find peace and joy in your life. And I hope you continue to share your story to give hope to those who are struggling on their own journey.
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Julie W
Drama Llama
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Jun 27, 2014 22:11:06 GMT
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Post by Julie W on Dec 2, 2017 13:57:17 GMT
You are AMAZING. I wish you happiness and peace!
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Post by quinlove on Dec 2, 2017 14:15:17 GMT
lesserknownpea , You are inspirational. I'm sorry you had to experience this, so I hope that's not rude. I am in awe and believe you sharing your story is helping more women than you know. I would have always wondered about you had this message Board not continued. Thank you, admin for creating a place for us to still be connected. Thank you, all, for you encouragement. And I’d like to add my thank you to admin for creating this place so Pea Love could continue. Pea Love. I'm so glad that you can feel all the love coming your way. Pea Love 💚
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Post by jenjie on Dec 2, 2017 14:38:13 GMT
You, my dear, are a warrior. You marched onto the battlefield and came away victorious. Not without sustaining injury, but victorious just the same. I am so proud of you.
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teddyw
Drama Llama
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Jun 29, 2014 1:56:04 GMT
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Post by teddyw on Dec 2, 2017 14:57:01 GMT
Thanks for the update. So glad it was what you needed and that you had support also.
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Post by shamrock on Dec 2, 2017 15:00:59 GMT
Thanks for sharing! I'm glad you were able to have the opportunity to have that meeting. I hope you feel the strength that I see in you because I see so much strength!
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AnotherPea
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Jan 4, 2015 1:47:52 GMT
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Post by AnotherPea on Dec 2, 2017 15:31:44 GMT
Wow. I read your original post and update at one time.
Good for you. I pray this leads to the closure and healing you are hoping for. What a strong and brave thing to do.
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moodyblue
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Posts: 6,178
Location: Western Illinois
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Jun 26, 2014 21:07:23 GMT
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Post by moodyblue on Dec 2, 2017 15:34:36 GMT
Sounds so emotional, but you seem glad that you did it - and that's what matters most. It takes a lot of strength to do that! I wish you all the peace you need.
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RosieKat
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PeaJect #12
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Jun 25, 2014 19:28:04 GMT
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Post by RosieKat on Dec 2, 2017 16:48:39 GMT
I missed the original post. It sounds like it was a very cathartic visit, and hopefully helps close a few more doors for you. Lots of love and hugs to you!
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Post by scrapmaven on Dec 2, 2017 17:16:31 GMT
That level of closure is rarely achieved. You were able to express your feelings your way, in your time and now he was made to listen. You were and are now in control of yourself. He knows what he did and who he is. Fate has been most unkind to him. This will go a long way twd helping you deal w/your ptsd and now you'll go farther into your recovery from all of this. I'm very proud of you and I think you're a strong courageous woman who is a force to be reckoned with.
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Post by MZF on Dec 2, 2017 17:20:27 GMT
You are one of the bravest people I have ever “met”. Your story is raw and gritty and an inspiration to all. I hope you continue to find peace and joy in your life. And I hope you continue to share your story to give hope to those who are struggling on their own journey. I so agree. I wish you much peace and happiness.
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gloryjoy
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Jun 26, 2014 12:35:32 GMT
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Post by gloryjoy on Dec 2, 2017 18:05:33 GMT
I'm glad your visit provided you with what you needed, peace to you.
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Post by jumperhop on Dec 2, 2017 18:12:27 GMT
Sending my love, you are in inspiration to us all. There is no way I could have done what you did. Hugs and prayers for peace. Jen
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scrappinghappy
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“I’m late, I’m late for a very important date. No time to say “Hello.” Goodbye. I’m late...."
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Jun 26, 2014 19:30:06 GMT
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Post by scrappinghappy on Dec 2, 2017 18:15:11 GMT
your children just need to look to you to see the good in people! you show a lot of compassion for your ex despite what he has done to you. i am glad you have closure and wish you peace and happiness as you keep moving forward
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Post by Patter on Dec 2, 2017 18:22:23 GMT
Your story and updates bring tears to my eyes. So thankful you have closure. Praying for many better days ahead in your future!
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Post by lesserknownpea on Dec 2, 2017 18:55:26 GMT
your children just need to look to you to see the good in people! you show a lot of compassion for your ex despite what he has done to you. i am glad you have closure and wish you peace and happiness as you keep moving forward That really got to me, thank you.
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Post by lesserknownpea on Dec 2, 2017 18:57:11 GMT
You, my dear, are a warrior. You marched onto the battlefield and came away victorious. Not without sustaining injury, but victorious just the same. I am so proud of you. That’s beautiful! Thank you.
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Post by katlaw on Dec 2, 2017 19:00:17 GMT
Thanks for the update. You are very brave to have gone and been able to say all of that to him. I hope this brings you peace.
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Post by Merge on Dec 2, 2017 19:00:33 GMT
I’m so sorry for what you’ve been through. You are incredibly strong!
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valleyview
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Jun 27, 2014 18:41:26 GMT
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Post by valleyview on Dec 2, 2017 19:03:13 GMT
Thank you for the update. I am so happy that you found the strength to meet with him and face your hardest times. I am in awe of your courage and fortitude!
I hope that you have found a lasting peace in this closure. Instead of a hug, let me send you a virtual hand squeeze.
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MDscrapaholic
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Posts: 6,369
Location: Down by the bay....
Jun 25, 2014 20:49:07 GMT
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Post by MDscrapaholic on Dec 2, 2017 19:18:17 GMT
Hugs to you!
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Post by redshoes on Dec 2, 2017 19:24:23 GMT
Oh I’m so glad it was a visit that helped you. You deserved to get to say every single thing you wanted to. If I’m not being too nosy, what was his message to you? I would hope it’s one of apology, but I’m guessing he doesn’t have any good in him anymore. You certainly don’t have to answer that if you don’t want to.
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Post by librarylady on Dec 2, 2017 19:28:37 GMT
I am glad you did something to bring you peace. Now, I hope you find joy in life again and find ways to rid yourself of most of your pain (I know it won't all leave.)
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Post by flanz on Dec 2, 2017 19:46:20 GMT
Huge hugs and kudos to you!! I'm so happy to learn that you are in a far better place now. You are STRONG and I predict that life has many happy surprises in store for you as you go forward. Well, some surprises, and some great things that happen because you make them so! All the best to you, lesserknownpea! MWAH!
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Post by flanz on Dec 2, 2017 19:47:04 GMT
I think of you often (I work for a SA/DV crisis center).
I wish you all the best as you make this visit with your ex. Please update us when you feel ready to share.
Bless you for doing this vital work! You must have a big heart. <3
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IAmUnoriginal
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Jun 25, 2014 23:27:45 GMT
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Post by IAmUnoriginal on Dec 2, 2017 19:52:09 GMT
You are an inspiration.
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Post by flanz on Dec 2, 2017 19:52:27 GMT
your children just need to look to you to see the good in people! you show a lot of compassion for your ex despite what he has done to you. i am glad you have closure and wish you peace and happiness as you keep moving forward That really got to me, thank you. It's so true!!!
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Post by welshjenni on Dec 2, 2017 21:34:18 GMT
Wow - you are truly an amazing and strong woman.May you now find closure and move forward from strength to strength x
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Post by workingclassdog on Dec 2, 2017 22:03:42 GMT
Love to you... here’s to a wonderful 2018!!
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Post by birukitty on Dec 3, 2017 1:49:42 GMT
I just finished reading your update. You are such an inspiration for so many women out there! I am so happy for you that this visit was all that you wanted it to be. I know it wasn't easy, but it sounds like it gave you exactly what you needed to bring about the closure you were looking for. You are so incredibly strong and brave and I wish a life of peace, joy and happiness for you as you venture forward in this new life for yourself.
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