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Post by tara on Feb 21, 2019 4:01:15 GMT
I’m so sorry.
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dald222
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Post by dald222 on Feb 21, 2019 4:06:58 GMT
I am so deeply sorry to hear this
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Post by compeateropeator on Feb 21, 2019 4:11:01 GMT
I am so sorry!
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Post by Deleted on Feb 21, 2019 4:11:59 GMT
Sometimes it is the best decision for a couple/family. I wish you peace and happiness in the transition and afterward. HUG.
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MaryMary
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Post by MaryMary on Feb 21, 2019 4:41:21 GMT
I’m sorry.
Happiness is out there. Go get it.
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PLurker
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Post by PLurker on Feb 21, 2019 4:49:16 GMT
Thank you for all the hugs and good thoughts. Announcing it to you all has been oddly difficult. We made the decision on Friday and I have come here to tell you guys a number of times since then but couldn't do it. We are on good terms and that has made it very tempting to give into hope again. I had a very difficult day yesterday but DH did me a favorite and did a really assholian thing today and reminded me of why we are splitting. So I popped right over and told you all. Feels good. I get ya. When XDH shows the side of him that reminds me why I divorced, it oddly makes me feel good- with my decision, I guess. hugs and more hugs.
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Post by notjstamom on Feb 21, 2019 5:23:26 GMT
I'm so sorry ☹
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Post by cindytred on Feb 21, 2019 5:28:56 GMT
Hugs
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FurryP
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Post by FurryP on Feb 21, 2019 5:34:47 GMT
I am very sorry to hear (read) this. My thoughts are with you. It's never easy, no matter if mutual or not.
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Post by destined2bmom on Feb 21, 2019 5:34:49 GMT
I am really sorry. Hugs.
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Post by kristi on Feb 21, 2019 5:35:27 GMT
{HUGS}
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Post by malibou on Feb 21, 2019 5:49:22 GMT
Wishing you peace as you navigate your new life path.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 21, 2019 6:00:28 GMT
Well you know the drill!
Get your ducks in row. Get all the account numbers and passwords . . . I hope it all goes very smooth and quick!
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Post by Basket1lady on Feb 21, 2019 6:12:46 GMT
I’m so sorry. What a difficult decision that must have been to make.
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cycworker
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Post by cycworker on Feb 21, 2019 6:15:22 GMT
So very sorry.
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ddly
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Post by ddly on Feb 21, 2019 13:22:51 GMT
I’m sorry. It’s never an easy decision to make but I hope you find happiness.
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Post by Katie on Feb 21, 2019 13:25:08 GMT
So sorry. Sending you strong vibes to get through this.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 21, 2019 13:30:23 GMT
I'm sorry, sending you (((hugs)))
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scrappert
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Post by scrappert on Feb 21, 2019 13:30:23 GMT
Ugh, hate that you have to be a part of this club. I guess it's "good" it is a mutual decision, but hard none the less.
We are here for you with any questions and just a place to vent.
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ashley
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Post by ashley on Feb 21, 2019 13:58:49 GMT
I’m so very sorry. Even when it’s the right thing, it is a very tough decision. The good news is that life really does get better — much, MUCH better. And the diffculties aren’t as difficult as the on-going battles within a marriage that just isn’t working.
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Post by myboysnme on Feb 21, 2019 14:03:26 GMT
We are here when you need us.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 21, 2019 14:09:34 GMT
I'm sorry
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amom23
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Post by amom23 on Feb 21, 2019 14:46:37 GMT
I'm sorry too. Remember it takes courage to leave a situation that isn't the best and know that you deserve better.
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Post by thundergal on Feb 21, 2019 14:49:59 GMT
Amicable or not, it's just a total shit time and I'm so sorry you're going through it.
You're right...you're now a member of a big club. That doesn't make it any easier either...except for the fact that you hopefully know you aren't alone and will have a lot of support from people who have walked it already.
Sending you a big hug.
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Post by originalvanillabean on Feb 21, 2019 14:57:40 GMT
I'm sorry.
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Post by Blind Squirrel on Feb 21, 2019 15:00:45 GMT
I'm sorry; wishing you the best.
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maurchclt
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Post by maurchclt on Feb 21, 2019 15:52:27 GMT
Hugs, So sorry.
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Post by karinec on Feb 21, 2019 17:04:44 GMT
I'm sorry. It's never easy when that happens.
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Post by KelleeM on Feb 21, 2019 17:07:02 GMT
I’m sure it wasn’t an easy decision. Hugs.
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Post by mariemily on Feb 21, 2019 17:31:30 GMT
It's not an easy decision but you'll get better over time. Give yourself time. I've been there myself 15 months ago and it's the best decision I've ever made. Hugs to you xxx
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