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Post by gillyp on Aug 16, 2019 8:22:37 GMT
I have nothing I can say of any use other than to send you a cyber hug and my good wishes to your family for the future and some space to breathe when you can. I think in your shoes I’d be screaming “make it stop!” If just for a little while. Or “is that it?” In disbelief. I think you are the strongest woman I have encountered. You might not think that but you certainly come across that way here imho. A force to be reckoned with and admire.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 16, 2019 9:05:42 GMT
I'm so sorry Elaine and my heart breaks for you and your DH. I can only imagine how difficult and unpredictable each day must be for you. Big (((hugs))) from across the pond.
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Post by JoP on Aug 16, 2019 9:21:07 GMT
Sending you all from across the pond.
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Post by monklady123 on Aug 16, 2019 10:16:00 GMT
Wow Elaine. I am so sorry.
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Post by MZF on Aug 16, 2019 10:36:06 GMT
I have nothing to contribute other than to say how sorry I am that your family is going through so many struggles. I wish you and your family only the best. Many ((hugs)) sent your way.
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Post by purplebee on Aug 16, 2019 10:55:06 GMT
Elaine, I cannot begin to imagine the daily challenges you face. You are an example of motherhood at its finest, and I so admire your strength and dedication to your son.
Sending hugs and prayers for a lightening of the load.
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Post by GamGam on Aug 16, 2019 10:58:06 GMT
My heart aches for you and your family.
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Post by CeeScraps on Aug 16, 2019 11:01:55 GMT
I’m so sorry Elaine.
Do you have any family or friends that could give you even an over night break? There has to be someone in your community that could help you just a little bit. I would guess that person would have to spend quite a bit of time with your son before you would leave them alone with him.
I hope you can get some help.
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Post by salem on Aug 16, 2019 12:13:54 GMT
I’m sorry that your family is dealing with these difficult decisions and the future is so overwhelming. You sound exhausted, frustrated and heartbroken, but the love a parent has for their child makes us sacrifice in so many ways . So many of us have children and take for granted that we send them off into the world prepared to take it on, and don’t realize just how lucky we are. Your post is a real eye opener. I’ll be thinking of you today.
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Post by luckyexwife on Aug 16, 2019 12:19:59 GMT
I have read this several times, and wanted to reply, but everything I think of seems so useless. Just know that you have a huge group of awesome ladies cheering you on, we are here when you need to cry or vent, and we are praying for you. You are amazing, and your sons are very lucky to have you with them every step of the way.
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Post by jeremysgirl on Aug 16, 2019 12:22:23 GMT
My heart goes out to you, Elaine. I will keep your family in m prayers.
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Post by pierkiss on Aug 16, 2019 12:24:24 GMT
Big hugs coming your way Elaine. I am so sorry.
The fact that you are doing all of this so that you can continue to care for your son in every possible way for the rest of your life is amazing. You and your husband are wonderful parents.
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Post by peabrain on Aug 16, 2019 12:30:42 GMT
Hugs. I don't even know what to say. I wish I could ease your pain.
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Post by Kerri W on Aug 16, 2019 12:42:39 GMT
Big (((HUGS))) Elaine. You continuously show such strength that I know you've got this, but know our good thoughts and prayers are behind you.
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Post by Spongemom Scrappants on Aug 16, 2019 12:44:53 GMT
I read this last night and simply struggled with finding anything adequate to say. I thank you for sharing the truth of your situation. And I’m sending love.
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Post by pjynx on Aug 16, 2019 12:51:29 GMT
Elaine, I am so sorry that you and your family are going through all this ((HUGS))
Pam
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Post by yodutchess on Aug 16, 2019 12:54:18 GMT
I wish I could help you. You have more strength than I think I could find in myself.
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Post by elaine on Aug 16, 2019 12:56:14 GMT
Good morning, everyone! I’m sitting here with Dh, ds, and our lawyer waiting for court to start in 5 minutes. I’ve been reading eveyone’s responses and drawing strength and love from them. My goal was to thank each of you individually, but I have run out of time. So, please know that I have read each post and appreciate every one of them. This is one of the best communities that I could imagine in so many ways - you all are such an amazing group of women and I am blessed/fortunate to have you in my life.
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Post by mvavw on Aug 16, 2019 13:02:16 GMT
You'll be in my thoughts and prayers today. Praying for strength for you. I also have 2 on the spectrum (and another with health and other issues) and many days are so hard to get through, let alone plan for the future. Yet, when you look back, you can see how much you have done for your kids and that they have made progress.
I can't imagine how hard today is going to be for you, but the fact that you're doing it shows what strong, supportive and loving parents your son has. Your son will live his best life because he has you advocating for him with love.
((((HUGS)))) to you today (and every day you need one).
Maria
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Post by Darcy Collins on Aug 16, 2019 13:09:56 GMT
I hope things go smoothly at court - and very much hope that you're safe. Decisions about our kids are hard, but if you're not in a safe place, you can't help him either. ((hugs))
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Post by mikklynn on Aug 16, 2019 14:10:08 GMT
elaine Best wishes at court today. I hope there are no bumps. I admire you and your DH more than I can say. I can offer no advice, only lots of love and an ear to listen. refugeepea I know you are in a similar situation and send my love your way.
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Post by papersilly on Aug 16, 2019 14:32:53 GMT
I commend you on your patience, strength and dedication.
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Post by iamkristinl16 on Aug 16, 2019 14:35:53 GMT
I'm sorry you are going through this. Sending positive thoughts for strength today.
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Post by scrapmaven on Aug 16, 2019 14:40:19 GMT
Thinking of you and sending best possible outcome vibes.
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Post by Crack-a-lackin on Aug 16, 2019 14:41:35 GMT
Thinking of you today ((hugs))
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Post by Rhondito on Aug 16, 2019 14:54:02 GMT
Oh Elaine, you are so very special to me and it absolutely breaks my heart that you are going through this every day. Please know that I'm praying for you and we're all here for you anytime.
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Post by alexa11 on Aug 16, 2019 14:56:33 GMT
I just saw your post. I was going to suggest a group home, too. I'm so sorry and I can hear the frustration in your words. You have been through so much and I hope you can find some peace.
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Post by georgiapea on Aug 16, 2019 15:02:31 GMT
Wishing you the very best in these final moments and for the future.
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Post by giatocj on Aug 16, 2019 15:05:46 GMT
Elaine, {{Hugs}}. I can't imagine your struggles and am so, so sorry to hear what you are facing.
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Post by katiescarlett on Aug 16, 2019 15:09:16 GMT
I'm so sorry your family is going through this. I hope things go smoothly today. (((Hugs)))
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