ddly
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Post by ddly on Mar 26, 2020 13:14:54 GMT
I'm so sorry you are having to deal with this. Keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers!
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Post by crazy4scraps on Mar 26, 2020 13:32:51 GMT
I’m so sorry and I totally can understand your fear and worry. Everyone else that is saying he should not go is right, the odds are that he wouldn’t be able to get in to visit anyway so he would be going there for nothing and potentially exposing a lot of other people in the process. The whole situation just sucks. Your family will be in my thoughts. ((Hugs)) to you and everybody else who is dealing with the fallout from this stupid virus!
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lisaknits
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Post by lisaknits on Mar 26, 2020 13:36:38 GMT
((HUGS)) I am so sorry. You are in our hearts.
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Rhondito
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Post by Rhondito on Mar 26, 2020 13:57:02 GMT
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Post by MZF on Mar 26, 2020 13:57:57 GMT
I'm sorry. Keeping your family in my thoughts.
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Post by Merge on Mar 26, 2020 14:01:06 GMT
I'm so sorry! Sending positive thoughts your way.
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Post by jmd74 on Mar 26, 2020 14:08:49 GMT
I’m so very sorry. My thoughts are with you and your family right now.
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Post by jubejubes on Mar 26, 2020 14:09:00 GMT
((((Hugs)))) I am so sorry. I would be beyond scared if I were in your shoes. I wish that I could do more for you than a cyber hug. I will add your BIL to my prayers. If there is anything we can do for you, even if it is just to give you a safe place to talk, we are here for you. Thank you. I came here because I KNOW its a safe place to talk even though no one here knows me irl. i asked dh to get permission to talk to the drs but he thinks his sister in law is fine as a point of contact. I dont agree but that is not something I will argue over. I’m a talker, i like to talk through things. My husband withdraws. He's asleep. How can he sleep. I am going to be awake all night. I'm sorry that you scared about your BIL, but his wife IS the next of kin, as the spouse, so she would be the first point of contact. I also agree with other posters that the docs are really busy and not to contact them, as HIPPA will not allow them to discuss this with your husband. Go in the car and scream if you must.
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Post by withapea on Mar 26, 2020 14:16:44 GMT
I'm so sorry, it is scary. I hope your DH sees the light and stays home. I'll be sending good thoughts.
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Post by peasapie on Mar 26, 2020 15:11:35 GMT
Thinking of you. It's so hard to make decisions right now - all the usual things we would do are being upended. You've gotten wonderful advice, above. Praying for your BIL's recovery.
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Post by Susie_Homemaker on Mar 26, 2020 15:18:16 GMT
I’ve told my girlfriends but cant talk to them without dh and the kids hearing and i don't want them to know how freaked out I am. Go outside and take a short walk and call someone to talk to. ((hugs)))
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Post by jenjie on Mar 26, 2020 15:20:06 GMT
scrappinghappy and SabrinaP big hugs to you both! Praying for your ill ones and peace for you and yours while you wait for good news.
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Post by librarylady on Mar 26, 2020 15:26:04 GMT
Hug and a prayer.
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Post by KikiPea on Mar 26, 2020 15:32:25 GMT
Oh, scrappinghappy, I am so sorry to hear this news. Your fear is completely warranted and understood. Unfortunately, I have no words of wisdom, except to not let DH go. I have added all of you to my prayers. Stay safe!
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Post by destined2bmom on Mar 26, 2020 15:43:25 GMT
scrappinghappy I am so very sorry. This is so frightening for you and your family. How did your BIL end up in CO? And anyone who is in the hospital because of COVID-19 is not allowed to have visitors. Which is so sad for those who are so sick and want to be with their family. I understand the way both of you are feeling and how each of you deal differently with situations. stormycat is right, if you are in PA, you should be on not only self-quarantine, but self-isolation. I am in Berks county and we are not under the rule of shelter in place. But we are doing exactly that and self isolating ourselves. Because we do not want to get it. I pray that your BIL gets better and that neither you, your DH or SIL come down with it. SabrinaP Sending prayers for your grandmother.
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oh yvonne
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Post by oh yvonne on Mar 26, 2020 15:56:05 GMT
I am so sorry, I agree going to sit in your car for a bit is probably the safest. Lots of good advice, here none more to add but my <hugs> and prayers he recovers and your DH stays put, with you guys which is where he belongs right now. <big hugs> I pray for a good outcome for you/
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Post by atomicdog on Mar 26, 2020 16:23:58 GMT
Hating to hear this. I have no words - I understand how hard it can be to need to verbalize worries, but not be able to do so. Yes, come here - everyone here is concerned and will listen. Offering up prayers for everyone.
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Post by atomicdog on Mar 26, 2020 16:24:11 GMT
Hating to hear this. I have no words - I understand how hard it can be to need to verbalize worries, but not be able to do so. Yes, come here - everyone here is concerned and will listen. Offering up prayers for everyone.
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Post by lostwithout2peas on Mar 26, 2020 17:11:37 GMT
Man, this is so scary for your husband, his family and you. I am so sorry! Praying for your BIL!!
It just scares the heck out of me that this could be more and more of us refupeas coming and saying these very things about our loved ones. Damn, I fucking hate this!!!!
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Post by papercrafteradvocate on Mar 26, 2020 18:15:05 GMT
Sending calming thoughts your way 😊
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joelise
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Post by joelise on Mar 26, 2020 19:41:35 GMT
Thinking of you.
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Post by Menjiness on Mar 26, 2020 19:46:51 GMT
I am so sorry. You have gotten lots of good advice here. You and you family are in my thoughts.
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Post by sleepingbooty on Mar 26, 2020 19:53:43 GMT
Keeping you and your family in my thoughts, scrappinghappy. This is sad and frightening. Vent away in here as much as you need. *safe distance hugs* Obviously, as many others have said: your DH needs to stay home and you two need to quarantine for at least another 5 days. Your DH will not be allowed near his brother at the hospital. The protocol is to keep infected patients quarantined away from all outsiders. No visitors allowed, period.
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scrappinmama
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Post by scrappinmama on Mar 26, 2020 19:55:40 GMT
I'm so sorry. I'm praying for you all!
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Post by Deleted on Mar 26, 2020 20:04:24 GMT
I'd be petrified too. I'm hoping that as this virus has progressed, there's a better understanding as to how to best treat it and that your BIL will fully recover.
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Post by peace on Mar 26, 2020 22:03:07 GMT
sending hugs and well wishes and kindness and support. And whatever else you need at any time.
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Post by birukitty on Mar 26, 2020 23:46:11 GMT
scrappinghappy and SabrinaP big hugs to you both! Praying for your ill ones and peace for you and yours while you wait for good news. Just wanted to add that I'm sending you both big hugs too and will be praying for your loved ones to make quick and full recoveries, and for your families to find peace as you make your way through the next few weeks.
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samantha25
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Post by samantha25 on Mar 26, 2020 23:58:45 GMT
What hospital in CO? If at University, he's in good hands. Hugs...
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Peamac
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Jun 26, 2014 0:09:18 GMT
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Post by Peamac on Mar 27, 2020 0:32:57 GMT
Colorado is shelter-in-place now, as of 6am this morning and many or most hospitals aren't allowing visitors either.
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jayfab
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Post by jayfab on Mar 27, 2020 2:17:51 GMT
Hugs hugs and more hugs to you. I’m keeping you and your family in my thoughts.
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