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Post by Chips on Mar 28, 2020 2:43:38 GMT
I gave my Dad a haircut today, I am not a hair dresser and it looks great!
In the past I would give my sons trims but when I could not get my Dad into the barber I pulled out my clippers and scissors and convinced myself I could give my Dad a great haircut. He is 84 and has Lewy Bodes Dementia so everyday things are hard. I kept reminding him to be patient because I was so slow. Next time I am at my hairdressers I will be giving her a great big tip because they make it look so easy.
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Post by Chips on Mar 28, 2020 2:48:40 GMT
I thought this was a great idea - in my neighborhood a local towing company brought in about 6 tow trucks for a parade for a little boy's birthday. It was so sweet they honked and stopped in front of his house. Gotta be creative!
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Post by Deleted on Mar 28, 2020 3:06:15 GMT
Much to the delight of the outside residents, I was able to to catch and put in prison the 2 local thugs!
I caught the geese and put them in a pen. My yard is much quieter and the ducks were able to get in their cage with no loss of feathers.
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Post by snyder on Mar 28, 2020 3:47:06 GMT
Took groceries to my mom today and her next door neighbor came home and chatted a bit. She said she was on a mission to find tp. She said she scored a 12 pk. However, a quite elderly couple asked where she found it, and she also noticed they had a couple of boxes of Kleenex in their cart. She gave them her tp. Said she would go again tomorrow to see if she could find her some. Thought that was very sweet of her.
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Post by M~ on Mar 28, 2020 3:51:03 GMT
We made a big pot of oxtail soup to share with our sister, my BIL, and my cousin. We called them when the soup was ready and told them to let us know when they were near the house so we could leave the container outside for them to pick up.They were delighted and so were we.
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Post by camomoftwins on Mar 28, 2020 3:52:55 GMT
I contacted the management company for my place in Yosemite and told them the staff could have whatever food, cleaning supplies, etc., they wanted from my place. There’s not a lot but anything might help, right?
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Post by flanz on Mar 28, 2020 3:56:04 GMT
I love reading about what others do, but usually keep mine to myself. Thanks to all who are spreading good will, kindness, love, support and help in all forms!
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Post by mnmloveli on Mar 28, 2020 3:58:29 GMT
I shared a pot of homemade sauce, meatballs & sausage with my elderly widowed next door neighbor who lives alone. He loved it 🍝
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Post by elaine on Mar 28, 2020 4:02:50 GMT
I gave my Dad a haircut today, I am not a hair dresser and it looks great! In the past I would give my sons trims but when I could not get my Dad into the barber I pulled out my clippers and scissors and convinced myself I could give my Dad a great haircut. He is 84 and has Lewy Bodes Dementia so everyday things are hard. I kept reminding him to be patient because I was so slow. Next time I am at my hairdressers I will be giving her a great big tip because they make it look so easy. I cut my 2 sons’ and Dh’s hair on Tuesday night. I normally cut the boys’ hair, but dh decided since the barbershop is closed down to let me do his too. My clippers will get extra use for the next few months.
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Post by samantha25 on Mar 28, 2020 4:32:41 GMT
Who knew my paper trimmer (fiskars with titanium rotary blade) could cut fabric for masks. My neighbor making masks for maidpro....I cut and she sewed..
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Post by mikklynn on Mar 28, 2020 13:26:11 GMT
I received some help. DH's brother's wife is now getting all the updates about my MIL and passing them on. I was losing my mind over all the calls. Seriously, the sisters were calling 3 times per day. If I had an update I told them immediately.
Whew!
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Post by Miss Lerins Momma on Mar 28, 2020 14:30:50 GMT
We dropped off care packages on some friends porches yesterday.
I’ve been taking food to my grandparents. And doing porch/yard visits.
Monday we are mailing all of our friend’s kids letters and cards.
Teaching my kids to make others smile through all of this!
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Post by SweetieBsMom on Mar 28, 2020 14:39:40 GMT
The assisted living, where my Dad was when he passed, put out a plea for books on tape/cd as there are a number of blind residents that are confined to their rooms due to corona virus. I used some amazon gift cards to send a bunch of books on tape/cd to them.
I’ve been constantly checking with my aunts to make sure they don’t need anything.
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Post by scrapsotime on Mar 28, 2020 17:28:41 GMT
This isn't much, but at least we could help.
My daughter does in home care for the elderly. She called one day because she couldn't find toilet paper for her clients. Dh went to his business which is just down a shopping center from a grocery store. He went to the store and they had 4 packs of toilet paper. They were limiting it to one pack. He went back to get more until he had enough for our daughter's clients.
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Post by maryland on Mar 28, 2020 17:38:07 GMT
We saw a story on the local news about a local pharmacy needing isopropl alcohol to make sanitizing spray. If they couldnt get it, they would have to close down. They are located near my daughter's university. We had an extra bottle in the basement ( always keep it on hand), so we called and asked if they could use it and they said yes! So we took it to them that day.
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Post by maryland on Mar 28, 2020 17:39:35 GMT
I mentioned this on another thread but exterior house painting was completed yesterday. I went to HEB to grab food for us but also put together a gift bag for the 3 painters. I got them each a 6 pack of beer ( 2 12 packs of soda for the one that doesn't drink ) chex mix, extra cheese goldfish, chips and a box of granola bars. I also gave them each a box of tissues, a package of Tylenol, a bag of cough drops, and packs of fruit (things I like when I get sick). Dh and I scrounged together the cash we had and were able to come up with $20 for each of them. They were so appreciative. The one who got the soda pop couldn't stop smiling and I heard him telling the others that I got him soda because he doesn't like beer. I understand spanish so I could tell he was happy. That's so nice!
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Post by myshelly on Mar 28, 2020 17:46:02 GMT
A woman came to my door yesterday. She said she lives on the next street over and has two small kids. She wondered if there was any way she could buy the big Step 2 play structure in my front yard. She can’t get one delivered from anywhere before May, her kids are going crazy staying at home, and she hadn’t seen anyone playing in my yard for awhile.
I told her she could just have it. My youngest is finally a little too old for it.
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Post by flanz on Mar 28, 2020 20:07:28 GMT
I just love reading these! So many great ideas - that's the best part of sharing what we do, isn't it? Thanks to all. Let's keep sharing and INSPIRING others. I don't usually share what i do but I will in case it inspires others.
Prior to the lockdown I helped 4 families/singles who were in tough spots get stocked up on supplies. I was able to purchase and gift these to them - an enormous privilege.
Since the lockdown: 1. I have organized the sewing of 35 fabric masks by cutting the fabric and providing elastic or seam binding to finish them. 3 friends have sewn these up as I prep more kits for people interested in sewing. In my area there is a need for these right now, for housekeeping staff cleaning the rooms of first responders who are being quarantined. They are being worn over N-95 masks and each employee will eventually get three. Maybe more. The masks were returned to me this morning to be washed, dried and delivered this afternoon. I haven't left the house in two weeks so it will be good to go for a 10 minute drive and drop these off, at a safe distance.
2. Sharing what I've learned from the mask project with other sewists: ie., pin the fabric ties to each other on a mask BEFORE you launder them. Learned that one the hard way!
3. We always have a major supply of tp (part of my earthquake disaster prep) and I shared with a neighbor who needed some.
4. When my sewing friends came by for their fabrics I included some sort of treat as a wee thank you. Small gestures are really important I think.
5. There are several elderly people I check in with regularly, and my 88 yo mom daily. She's blessedly healthy physically and cognitively, recovered from a hip fracture and wicked case of shingles within the last 18 mos, and lives in my childhood home, alone. My sister lives 3 miles away but can no longer visit. 3 weeks ago I implored my sister to do a huge shopping to stock her home and mum's with non-perishables, etc. and she did.
Thanks everyone for your inspiration! May you and your loved ones all stay healthy and survive the pandemic intact!
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Post by myboysnme on Mar 28, 2020 20:44:11 GMT
I posted yesterday that I bought about $150 worth of ladies and boys clothes and winter boots and school supplies from Walmart that were on $1 clearance to send to the Pine Ridge reservation in South Dakota. I boxed them up and mailed the first 2 of 5 boxes. I spend $75 on postage for the first 2. I was wondering if it would have been better to just send them the money but I know they have great difficulty getting the actual items that they need. I have no idea what it will cost to send the rest of the boxes, but I will get it somehow.
The thing about Pine Ridge is they are so poor they never ever send out cards or calendars or any fund raising materials. They can't even afford stamps and all that to send thanks to donors. So when I send to them I know they are just going to receive it and use it and not have to worry about thanking me. I mean their wish list includes tampons and sanitary napkins for girls because they can't afford them.
Anyway that is my recent act of kindness.
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Post by ameslou on Mar 28, 2020 21:20:51 GMT
After I left the grocery store this morning (I found everything on my list! Even TP!!), on a whim I stopped at a local restaurant that makes the.best.lemon.cookies and picked up 3 dozen for DH's crew at work.
Earlier this week, an elderly couple on their way from FL to VT got lost in my neighborhood. I stopped what I was doing and let them follow me there. We live just off an interstate exit and although WM is close, it's easy to find your way into our neighborhood but not know how to get out.
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Post by flanz on Mar 29, 2020 1:13:44 GMT
I posted yesterday that I bought about $150 worth of ladies and boys clothes and winter boots and school supplies from Walmart that were on $1 clearance to send to the Pine Ridge reservation in South Dakota. I boxed them up and mailed the first 2 of 5 boxes. I spend $75 on postage for the first 2. I was wondering if it would have been better to just send them the money but I know they have great difficulty getting the actual items that they need. I have no idea what it will cost to send the rest of the boxes, but I will get it somehow. The thing about Pine Ridge is they are so poor they never ever send out cards or calendars or any fund raising materials. They can't even afford stamps and all that to send thanks to donors. So when I send to them I know they are just going to receive it and use it and not have to worry about thanking me. I mean their wish list includes tampons and sanitary napkins for girls because they can't afford them. Anyway that is my recent act of kindness. Super Awesome!!! Thanks for being so generous and kind! Do you have a way of contacting someone there and telling them about the Days for Girls program, if they'd be interested?
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Post by myboysnme on Mar 29, 2020 1:16:56 GMT
Do you have a way of contacting someone there and telling them about the Days for Girls program, if they'd be interested? Alice Phelps is the director of First Families Now. Her address is 2904 BIA 27, Porcupine, SD 57772-3027
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Post by jenjie on Mar 29, 2020 1:20:26 GMT
I have a newish older retired friend who lives out of state in one room in a retirement complex. She also doesn’t drive. I’ve been reaching out to her every week to give her someone else to talk to.
I ordered some goodies - candies, cookies and coffee pods - from amazon for the staff on the oncology floor at the hospital that took care of dh.
I also have been trying to organize people sewing masks, with the blessing from one of the nurses, but the hospital came out with an approved supplies list so that didn’t work. I ordered masks and gloves but they are on backorder.
A friend had a box of masks she uses when mowing the grass. She brought them to me and I immediately took them to my nurse friend who lives nearby.
While I was talking with my friend she was telling me how much a mutual friend has blessed her over the years. I encouraged her to share that with her bc I knew she could use it. She hadn’t thought to do that, but she did and it was gratefully received.
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Post by salem on Mar 29, 2020 1:22:27 GMT
Our company receptionist has a fiancé with multiple health problems. She takes care of him, works full time and is stressed about either of them catching this. She could not find TP and had almost run out and really didn’t want to go store to store. She has her own health issues and both are in their late 50’s.
My DH had stopped at a grocery near our house and saw they had some. I had been working at home, but took the two packs of TP, a couple rolls of paper towels and a box of cookies I had picked up over to work. She was so thankful. The stress of life is just too much right now. Lack of TP should not be the thing that pushes you to tears.
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Post by moodyblue on Mar 29, 2020 4:21:45 GMT
I went shopping yesterday for my brother and sister-in-law. They are both pretty high risk and have been staying home and not going anywhere except my brother to the dialysis center. I had gotten everything on their list except toilet paper, and then I went to Target to pick up a prescription for him - and they had packs of the toilet paper they prefer right inside the door. So I was able to get everything on the list.
Because I was paying for it all I also added some extra meat, including some cuts they don’t normally buy because of being on a tight budget. The money I spent will give them a little breathing room right now, which maybe will reduce some of the stress for them, and they have what they need for a while.
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Post by Legacy Girl on Mar 29, 2020 8:01:49 GMT
We played a silly card game that we hadn't played before. I can't recall the name of it, but it has a deck of cards with cartoon illustrations that represent a song title and an artist. We made up our own rules and played as a family, giving ourselves a maximum of 30 seconds to work together to solve the puzzle. We were SO bad at it -- I think we scored 17 cards out of more than 60 possible. Anyway, our neighbors are going through a tough time right now, so we ended up putting the game in a bag, telling them the rules and asking them to see if they could beat our pitiful score. Their son is a music major, and we're thinking he may have better luck than we did. Hoping they'll be able to laugh at themselves as much as we did as we tried to brainstorm crazy answers to describe the even crazier cartoons.
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Post by theroadlesstraveledp on Mar 29, 2020 8:12:04 GMT
Dropped off TP and tissue to a friend that needed it. Called a friend at church that’s in an assisted living facility, to make sure she had everything she needed. Her son had taken her shopping recently so she was good. Called SO’s grandma who lives about an hour away if there was traffic, to make sure she got TP. Another family member that lived closer found her some. Dang elusive TP!
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Post by peasapie on Mar 29, 2020 8:16:44 GMT
My estranged brother and I have reconnected via email. It’s been 10 years Life is too short.
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Post by scrappintoee on Mar 30, 2020 4:14:11 GMT
The assisted living, where my Dad was when he passed, put out a plea for books on tape/cd as there are a number of blind residents that are confined to their rooms due to corona virus. I used some amazon gift cards to send a bunch of books on tape/cd to them. I’ve been constantly checking with my aunts to make sure they don’t need anything. So kind of you! Wow.....being blind AND confined would be beyond horrible!! I should do that, too. I saw a sweet story of kids making cards for the residents of nursing homes. This sweet man who just had a stroke and is confined to the home is missing his grandchildren terribly. He had tears in his eyes, saying how thankful he was for a card!
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Post by tampascrapper on Mar 31, 2020 3:19:48 GMT
This evening I was having a social distancing date. The guy I’m dating works suggested it. We went through a drive thru and then parked next to each but facing opposite directions so we could stay in our cars but talk while we ate dinner. While we were there an older man and 2 kids approached. He asked if we would buy then something to eat. At first I said I would buy something for the kids. He said thank you, they would really appreciate it. As I was going to the drive thru I started thinking 3 meals at the drive thru (yes I had decided to but the man something too) was going to be $25. I decided I could get a lot more food at the grocery store for the same amount of money. I told the man and kids my plan and went to Aldi about 1 block away and spent $35 to get 3 bags full of groceries for them. I was able to get quite a lot of food for that small amount.
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