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Post by Rhondito on May 26, 2020 15:14:06 GMT
Although the way she treated her dog was HORRIBLE, I think what I quoted above is what disturbed me the most. The way she progressed throughout the call was disgusting and if you were on the other end of that call the picture in your head had to be so much worse than what it was. The only thing causing her grief was her dog and that's because she was choking the poor guy the entire time. This is exactly what struck me. Toward the end of the call she had absolute "terror" in her voice. If I'd only heard and not seen what was going on, I would've thought she was truly being attacked. The way she casually endangered this man's life is disgusting. She needs to face charges for false reporting at the very least.
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Post by Zee on May 26, 2020 15:16:36 GMT
The ONLY reason she apologized was because she got caught being a racist asshole. The speed with which she wielded white power? That woman is only sorry it's affecting HER. This is the apology she provided to NBC New York: “I sincerely and humbly apologize to everyone, especially to that man, his family,” she told the network. “It was unacceptable and I humbly and fully apologize to everyone who’s seen that video, everyone that’s been offended… everyone who thinks of me in a lower light and I understand why they do.” bold is mine - she is only sorry she got caught. I don't consider that an apology. Apologies worded this way only imply that the receiver is wrong to be offended by the action. Accept some responsibility. Thanks for posting the "apology". If it would ever occur to you to settle an argument over your unleashed dog with "I'm going to call the police and tell them an African American man is threatening me", your apology is not sincere. I agree with others about the scared little girl voice she put on. Terrible to think what could have happened.
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Post by scrapmaven on May 26, 2020 15:23:30 GMT
She's an awful person. I found that video so hard to watch. First, the way she screamed as though she was being attacked by an innocent person then the way she was choking her poor dog. She's a racist, animal abusing piece of filth or batshit crazy or both.
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Post by crimsoncat05 on May 26, 2020 15:29:10 GMT
That is absolutely horrible. WTF I saw part of this video on instagram (didn't know the backstory), and had to stop watching it pretty much instantly because I couldn't handle watching how she was CHOKING HER DOG. She is a horrible person. Now to read the thread, because I can't bring myself to watch the video. (but yeah, telling the police you're being attacked, because a person is videoing you and you don't like it? seriously?!?) apparently, the dog was a rescue and it's been taken away from her as well, further evidence of her irrationality was how she was handling that dog. whew! I am SOOOO glad to read this!!!
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Post by myshelly on May 26, 2020 15:30:29 GMT
She needs to be charged with a crime.
What I don’t understand is -
Everyone is saying she’s only sorry because she got caught and I don’t disagree with that at all. I don’t believe she’s sorry or that her apology is sincere. She’s sorry because she got doxxed and her employer found out.
BUT, she’s a woman with a cell phone and a twitter account in 2020. She knew she was being recorded. How did she think this would end up? Why would you do that if you know you’re being recorded (not that it’s ok to do if you aren’t being recorded, but to do it when you know you are is another level of psycho)? That’s the weirdest part to me - she knew she was being recorded and STILL thought she was going to get away with it.
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Post by mom on May 26, 2020 15:40:41 GMT
She needs to be charged with a crime. What I don’t understand is - Everyone is saying she’s only sorry because she got caught and I don’t disagree with that at all. I don’t believe she’s sorry or that her apology is sincere. She’s sorry because she got doxxed and her employer found out. BUT, she’s a woman with a cell phone and a twitter account in 2020. She knew she was being recorded. How did she think this would end up? Why would you do that if you know you’re being recorded (not that it’s ok to do if you aren’t being recorded, but to do it when you know you are is another level of psycho)? That’s the weirdest part to me - she knew she was being recorded and STILL thought she was going to get away with it. Well, my first thought is she is psycho. But then, I think she probably has gotten away with things like this before so why would this be any different? She thought she is untouchable.
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Post by mom on May 26, 2020 15:44:20 GMT
The ONLY reason she apologized was because she got caught being a racist asshole. The speed with which she wielded white power? That woman is only sorry it's affecting HER. This is the apology she provided to NBC New York: “I sincerely and humbly apologize to everyone, especially to that man, his family,” she told the network. “It was unacceptable and I humbly and fully apologize to everyone who’s seen that video, everyone that’s been offended … everyone who thinks of me in a lower light and I understand why they do.” bold is mine - she is only sorry she got caught. I don't consider that an apology. Apologies worded this way only imply that the receiver is wrong to be offended by the action. Accept some responsibility. 'That man'? For real? She doesn't know his name by now? Hell, he has the same last name that she does. If you are truly sorry (and she isn't) apologize to Christian Cooper. Not just to 'that man'.
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Post by SockMonkey on May 26, 2020 15:46:42 GMT
The ONLY reason she apologized was because she got caught being a racist asshole. The speed with which she wielded white power? That woman is only sorry it's affecting HER. This is the apology she provided to NBC New York: “I sincerely and humbly apologize to everyone, especially to that man, his family,” she told the network. “It was unacceptable and I humbly and fully apologize to everyone who’s seen that video, everyone that’s been offended… everyone who thinks of me in a lower light and I understand why they do.” bold is mine - she is only sorry she got caught. I don't consider that an apology. Apologies worded this way only imply that the receiver is wrong to be offended by the action. Accept some responsibility. She couldn't even use his name. "That man." FUUUUUUCK HER.
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Post by SockMonkey on May 26, 2020 15:48:00 GMT
She needs to be charged with a crime. What I don’t understand is - Everyone is saying she’s only sorry because she got caught and I don’t disagree with that at all. I don’t believe she’s sorry or that her apology is sincere. She’s sorry because she got doxxed and her employer found out. BUT, she’s a woman with a cell phone and a twitter account in 2020. She knew she was being recorded. How did she think this would end up? Why would you do that if you know you’re being recorded (not that it’s ok to do if you aren’t being recorded, but to do it when you know you are is another level of psycho)? That’s the weirdest part to me - she knew she was being recorded and STILL thought she was going to get away with it. She's a white woman. That power and privilege often leads us to believe we are invincible when we are not actively checking and investigating it. White supremacy's a helluva drug.
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Post by luckyexwife on May 26, 2020 15:52:29 GMT
She needs to be charged with a crime. What I don’t understand is - Everyone is saying she’s only sorry because she got caught and I don’t disagree with that at all. I don’t believe she’s sorry or that her apology is sincere. She’s sorry because she got doxxed and her employer found out. BUT, she’s a woman with a cell phone and a twitter account in 2020. She knew she was being recorded. How did she think this would end up? Why would you do that if you know you’re being recorded (not that it’s ok to do if you aren’t being recorded, but to do it when you know you are is another level of psycho)? That’s the weirdest part to me - she knew she was being recorded and STILL thought she was going to get away with it. I agree with all of this. She needs to be charged with animal cruelty, as well as making the 911 call.
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Post by Deleted on May 26, 2020 15:53:41 GMT
This could have turned out so tragically. It only needed a trigger happy cop to arrive on the scene and shoot first and ask questions later. She should be prosecuted a. for making a false allegation and b. for wasting police time. She's a psycho!
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Post by SockMonkey on May 26, 2020 15:54:39 GMT
And because it's important to know HIS name and his words: www.washingtonpost.com/nation/2020/05/26/amy-cooper-central-park/Christian Cooper: As he started recording, she threatened to call the police.
At that point, he told The Post, he had only one option. “I can be racially intimidated and kowtow to her,” he said, but “I’m not going to participate in my own dehumanization."
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Post by thundergal on May 26, 2020 15:55:35 GMT
Reading this thread...nodding in agreement...feeling heat and pain take residence in my neck and shoulders. The only way I made it through the video crimsoncat05 was to put my hand up and block the bottom portion of the video so I couldn't see what she was doing to her dog. That was horrific. The racist performance she displayed is a whole other thing and is just fucking unacceptable. Like many have said, this was her gut/initial response to the situation, and she knew she was being recorded. Her character is trash. And it's 1000% on her that the world now knows that about her. I know the rescue said they wouldn't comment further. I hope they re-home that baby. Apparently there are quite a few pics on her Insta of the dog after suffering multiple injuries. And I hope she is fired from her job. She should have to go out and find a new one. My gosh. It's all so infuriating.
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Post by MizIndependent on May 26, 2020 15:56:44 GMT
This is the apology she provided to NBC New York: “I sincerely and humbly apologize to everyone, especially to that man, his family,” she told the network. “It was unacceptable and I humbly and fully apologize to everyone who’s seen that video, everyone that’s been offended… everyone who thinks of me in a lower light and I understand why they do.” bold is mine - she is only sorry she got caught. I don't consider that an apology. Apologies worded this way only imply that the receiver is wrong to be offended by the action. Accept some responsibility. Thanks for posting the "apology". If it would ever occur to you to settle an argument over your unleashed dog with "I'm going to call the police and tell them an African American man is threatening me", your apology is not sincere. I agree with others about the scared little girl voice she put on. Terrible to think what could have happened. I wonder if there is any way an apology could make up for what she did. I do believe she actually committed a crime, possibly two crimes: false reporting and animal endangerment/abuse.
She has voluntarily surrendered the dog back to the rescue it came from, thankfully (and probably after they demanded it be done). For Mr. Cooper, I think she should face charges for false reporting and the let the court figure out just punishment and I hope that includes a hefty payout to Mr. Cooper for what he had to endure.
Her behavior was beyond disgusting. Her treatment of the dog was horrifying and I hope she is not ever able to adopt another.
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Post by inkedup on May 26, 2020 15:58:41 GMT
Racist bitch. Also, that dog belongs with someone equipped to take care of it. The way she handled it! I'm glad that man recorded, because she FULLY weaponized her whiteness. Like, immediately. And she knew exactly what she was doing. "I will tell them an African American man threatened me." Lying piece of shit. She deserves to be ruined. She didn't think twice about the implications of her actions. Now she will think about her actions forever.
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Post by thundergal on May 26, 2020 15:58:45 GMT
And because it's important to know HIS name and his words: www.washingtonpost.com/nation/2020/05/26/amy-cooper-central-park/Christian Cooper: As he started recording, she threatened to call the police.
At that point, he told The Post, he had only one option. “I can be racially intimidated and kowtow to her,” he said, but “I’m not going to participate in my own dehumanization."“I’m not going to participate in my own dehumanization." A human being has to say this. Black and brown human beings have to make decisions like this all. the. fucking. time. Can you imagine how exhausting it would be to live like that? Exhausting is only one of many words I could use. fuuuuuucckk her is right.
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Post by inkedup on May 26, 2020 16:02:46 GMT
The ONLY reason she apologized was because she got caught being a racist asshole. The speed with which she wielded white power? That woman is only sorry it's affecting HER. This is the apology she provided to NBC New York: “I sincerely and humbly apologize to everyone, especially to that man, his family,” she told the network. “It was unacceptable and I humbly and fully apologize to everyone who’s seen that video, everyone that’s been offended… everyone who thinks of me in a lower light and I understand why they do.” bold is mine - she is only sorry she got caught. I don't consider that an apology. Apologies worded this way only imply that the receiver is wrong to be offended by the action. Accept some responsibility. "That man" has a name, you bigoted fucking twit. I agree with you, artgirl1. She is only sorry she got caught.
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Post by Deleted on May 26, 2020 16:08:22 GMT
Thanks for posting the "apology". If it would ever occur to you to settle an argument over your unleashed dog with "I'm going to call the police and tell them an African American man is threatening me", your apology is not sincere. I agree with others about the scared little girl voice she put on. Terrible to think what could have happened. I wonder if there is any way an apology could make up for what she did. I do believe she actually committed a crime, possibly two crimes: false reporting and animal endangerment/abuse.
She has voluntarily surrendered the dog back to the rescue it came from, thankfully (and probably after they demanded it be done). For Mr. Cooper, I think she should face charges for false reporting and the let the court figure out just punishment and I hope that includes a hefty payout to Mr. Cooper for what he had to endure.
Her behavior was beyond disgusting. Her treatment of the dog was horrifying and I hope she is not ever able to adopt another.
I would guess she was given an ultimatum from the rescue people - we're taking it or you voluntarily return it to us. It's similar to someone resigning before they're sacked.
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Post by mom on May 26, 2020 16:13:46 GMT
Thanks for posting the "apology". If it would ever occur to you to settle an argument over your unleashed dog with "I'm going to call the police and tell them an African American man is threatening me", your apology is not sincere. I agree with others about the scared little girl voice she put on. Terrible to think what could have happened. I wonder if there is any way an apology could make up for what she did. I do believe she actually committed a crime, possibly two crimes: false reporting and animal endangerment/abuse.
She has voluntarily surrendered the dog back to the rescue it came from, thankfully (and probably after they demanded it be done). For Mr. Cooper, I think she should face charges for false reporting and the let the court figure out just punishment and I hope that includes a hefty payout to Mr. Cooper for what he had to endure.
Her behavior was beyond disgusting. Her treatment of the dog was horrifying and I hope she is not ever able to adopt another.
I think, with time and lots of therapy and genuinely listening and learning from people of color, she could genuinely be remorseful. But I am also white, so who am I to say that an apology should be accepted here at any point. But 24 hours after it happened? Nope. I think animal abuse charges, lying to police, and any charges be amplified to be a hate crime. She is only did this because he was of color.
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Post by auntkelly on May 26, 2020 16:32:52 GMT
If she would have just put her dog on a leash when she was asked to do so, the whole world wouldn't have found out she was a racist liar and an animal abuser.
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Post by crazy4scraps on May 26, 2020 16:52:00 GMT
Wow. WTF is right. That woman is nuts. The whole thing was horrible but I too had a hard time watching her yanking that dog around by the collar instead of just clipping his leash on right away.
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Post by breakfastattiffanys on May 26, 2020 16:52:18 GMT
I agree with all the comments here, what a piece of human trash. She actually aggressively comes towards him at first, until he asks her to stop and his voice had fear in it, rightly so.
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Post by SockMonkey on May 26, 2020 16:53:15 GMT
I wonder if there is any way an apology could make up for what she did. I do believe she actually committed a crime, possibly two crimes: false reporting and animal endangerment/abuse.
She has voluntarily surrendered the dog back to the rescue it came from, thankfully (and probably after they demanded it be done). For Mr. Cooper, I think she should face charges for false reporting and the let the court figure out just punishment and I hope that includes a hefty payout to Mr. Cooper for what he had to endure.
Her behavior was beyond disgusting. Her treatment of the dog was horrifying and I hope she is not ever able to adopt another.
I think, with time and lots of therapy and genuinely listening and learning from people of color, she could genuinely be remorseful. But I am also white, so who am I to say that an apology should be accepted here at any point. But 24 hours after it happened? Nope. I think animal abuse charges, lying to police, and any charges be amplified to be a hate crime. She is only did this because he was of color. So, it’s on people of color, or to be more specific, Black people, to educate her and bring her around? I want to clarify and push back on this a little. Nah. It’s on fellow white people to hold her accountable. And if she’s ready to learn (Narrator: she is not), there are many books and resources. So, yes, she should be listening to and learning from people of color, but not at their peril, with their free labor or time. She can buy the books and do her own internal work first.
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Post by Deleted on May 26, 2020 16:56:07 GMT
I think it’s great that we have the technology to record what would not have been believed 20 years ago. Yeah. That.
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Post by Olan on May 26, 2020 17:08:41 GMT
But no ramifications for the racist comment you made to me that one day. You crack me up. Olan, you said the other day that you didn’t want me to talk to you and that you weren’t going to engage over my comment/question. Yet, you did on the thread. I let you have the last word, even though it was a blatant lie. If you are going to start following me around and commenting, I refuse to just sit here silently and let you continue to be a lying jerk. So, make your your mind. Do you want to have a mutual “no engage” pact, or are we going back to where we were before and ”talking” ? Because, if you continue, I will respond. elaine your comment was the single most hurtful comment a pea had made to me here and I’m sure you remember the number of times my sanity was called into question or someone labeled me a bitter black woman. I have no doubt regarding the findings of the study. Which is incredibly depressing and wrong. And, I would also add that one's interpersonal communication style also impacts how one is treated, regardless of race. If the OP speaks to people IRL as she does here, I would not be surprised if she received less-than-polite responses/treatment in return. It may look benign to someone else reading but nothing I’ve ever said here would warrant the police being less than polite to me. Not a single thing. And we know what less than polite looks like for a Black woman. We have Sandra Bland, Chikesia Clemons, Dajerria Becton and now Breonna Taylor as examples. No black citizen is deserving of the poor treatment we receive. If Amy can lie and scream about a black man harassing her without consequence you’d think I could make some snarky comments on a message board and still walk away alive. When you defend elaine you are condoning the racist thing she said to me and trust and believe if elaine Elaine-Wohlgemuth Shilling encounters a black woman like these Karen’s caught on tape she would behave in a way that wouldn’t at all surprise me but might surprise you. I’ve asked Elaine-Wohlgemuth Shilling more than once both privately and publicly to stop engaging with me in a way that would make someone think we have no history and are BFF’s. That has never stopped her in the years since she said it. I don’t even have that expectation anymore. I will call out shit behavior no matter how loved the pea is especially when it was such a personal attack against me. Polite treatment of black women by police: amp.cnn.com/cnn/2017/01/05/us/texas-mckinney-pool-party-officer-lawsuit/index.htmlyoutu.be/a3eI5F-AUVwwww.nytimes.com/2019/05/07/us/sandra-bland-video-brian-encinia.htmlThe June 2017 thread that started it all: 2peasrefugees.boards.net/thread/62666/updated-police-speak-respectfully-driversOlan my post history won’t show me ever following Elaine-Wohlgemuth Shilling around to get a rise out of her. I usually make a choice not to engage with Elaine-Wohlgemuth Shilling because I think people like her live in the personal hell of their own karma and doings so why bother. Today I thought it especially rich she come here acting like she is any better a woman than Amy Cooper. You aren’t Elaine-Wohlgemuth Shilling. Like I said above peas have said way more personal things but what you said really was a turning point as far as pea interactions go for me. I’ve never forgot it.
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Post by Olan on May 26, 2020 17:08:41 GMT
But no ramifications for the racist comment you made to me that one day. You crack me up. Olan, you said the other day that you didn’t want me to talk to you and that you weren’t going to engage over my comment/question. Yet, you did on the thread. I let you have the last word, even though it was a blatant lie. If you are going to start following me around and commenting, I refuse to just sit here silently and let you continue to be a lying jerk. So, make your your mind. Do you want to have a mutual “no engage” pact, or are we going back to where we were before and ”talking” ? Because, if you continue, I will respond. elaine your comment was the single most hurtful comment a pea had made to me here and I’m sure you remember the number of times my sanity was called into question or someone labeled me a bitter black woman. I have no doubt regarding the findings of the study. Which is incredibly depressing and wrong. And, I would also add that one's interpersonal communication style also impacts how one is treated, regardless of race. If the OP speaks to people IRL as she does here, I would not be surprised if she received less-than-polite responses/treatment in return. It may look benign to someone else reading but nothing I’ve ever said here would warrant the police being less than polite to me. Not a single thing. And we know what less than polite looks like for a Black woman. We have Sandra Bland, Chikesia Clemons, Dajerria Becton and now Breonna Taylor as examples. No black citizen is deserving of the poor treatment we receive. If Amy can lie and scream about a black man harassing her without consequence you’d think I could make some snarky comments on a message board and still walk away alive. When you defend elaine you are condoning the racist thing she said to me and trust and believe if elaine encounters a black woman like these Karen’s caught on tape she would behave in a way that wouldn’t at all surprise me but might surprise you. I’ve asked Elaine more than once both privately and publicly to stop engaging with me in a way that would make someone think we have no history and are BFF’s. That has never stopped her in the years since she said it. I don’t even have that expectation anymore. I will call out shit behavior no matter how loved the pea is especially when it was such a personal attack against me. Polite treatment of black women by police: amp.cnn.com/cnn/2017/01/05/us/texas-mckinney-pool-party-officer-lawsuit/index.htmlyoutu.be/a3eI5F-AUVwwww.nytimes.com/2019/05/07/us/sandra-bland-video-brian-encinia.htmlThe June 2017 thread that started it all: 2peasrefugees.boards.net/thread/62666/updated-police-speak-respectfully-driversOlan my post history won’t show me ever following Elaine around to get a rise out of her. I usually make a choice not to engage with Elaine because I think people like her live in the personal hell of their own karma and doings so why bother. Today I thought it especially rich she come here acting like she is any better a woman than Amy Cooper. You aren’t Elaine. Like I said above peas have said way more personal things but what you said really was a turning point as far as pea interactions go for me. I’ve never forgot it.
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Post by mom on May 26, 2020 17:11:20 GMT
I think, with time and lots of therapy and genuinely listening and learning from people of color, she could genuinely be remorseful. But I am also white, so who am I to say that an apology should be accepted here at any point. But 24 hours after it happened? Nope. I think animal abuse charges, lying to police, and any charges be amplified to be a hate crime. She is only did this because he was of color. So, it’s on people of color, or to be more specific, Black people, to educate her and bring her around? I want to clarify and push back on this a little. Nah. It’s on fellow white people to hold her accountable. And if she’s ready to learn (Narrator: she is not), there are many books and resources. So, yes, she should be listening to and learning from people of color, but not at their peril, with their free labor or time. She can buy the books and do her own internal work first. I never said it needed to be Black peoples free labor or time. I also never said Black People need to educate her. I said she needs to listen and learn. Which is something all of us could do more of. She needs to take it upon herself to do whatever work needs to be done. But I do think Black people can offer an insight that *I* as a white person could never because I have never been afraid to live because of my skin color. The bulk (and beginning) of the work starts with her - her wanting to do better, and be better. And it starts with people calling her out on her bullshit (her bullshit actions and bullshit apology). It starts with her honestly realizing she is racist and wanting to do the internal work.
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Post by Olan on May 26, 2020 17:16:20 GMT
Although the way she treated her dog was HORRIBLE, I think what I quoted above is what disturbed me the most. The way she progressed throughout the call was disgusting and if you were on the other end of that call the picture in your head had to be so much worse than what it was. The only thing causing her grief was her dog and that's because she was choking the poor guy the entire time. This is exactly what struck me. Toward the end of the call she had absolute "terror" in her voice. If I'd only heard and not seen what was going on, I would've thought she was truly being attacked. The way she casually endangered this man's life is disgusting. She needs to face charges for false reporting at the very least. If you research racial violence I.e. lynchings or Massacres they most always begin with a lie a white woman told. Hundreds of thousands of black bodies have met a violent death because of a lie a white woman told. No one likes to talk about that. And of course no justice. Just continued behavior. Same Karen different decade.
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Post by MaryMary on May 26, 2020 17:18:54 GMT
Wow, she is a terrible person! I’m so glad he had video.
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Post by artgirl1 on May 26, 2020 17:27:27 GMT
A human being has to say this. Black and brown human beings have to make decisions like this all. the. fucking. time. Can you imagine how exhausting it would be to live like that? Exhausting is only one of many words I could use. And that is white privilege. While I acknowledge her treatment of the dog is atrocious, I have read this thread several times, and note that more compassion and acknowledgment is being shown to the dog, then to the real victim.
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