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Post by mikklynn on Jul 1, 2020 17:46:56 GMT
My 88 year old MIL went out for breakfast Sunday, with DH's brother. She is as high risk as one can be. Besides her age, she is on dialysis!
I don't care if restaurants are open. She should not be going out. Thank God I am no longer her care giver.
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freebird
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Post by freebird on Jul 1, 2020 17:48:37 GMT
I think older ppl are the largest group of "I don't give a shit".
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iluvpink
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Post by iluvpink on Jul 1, 2020 18:05:49 GMT
I think older ppl are the largest group of "I don't give a shit". My parents in their 70's just don't care. They are going out and about and I'm pretty sure my dad at least is not wearing a mask. He has all sorts of health issues. Heart, thyroid, arthritis, GERD etc. Talking to my mom on the phone the other day and she was complaining and saying she is just NOT going to live her life in fear for the next year or two and she is going to go out etc no matter what other people do. I wonder if some of it is people who are older are worried that they don't have as long and want to enjoy what time they have left? I don't know. I do not live in fear, but I do live with precautions and feel that if we wear masks and use common sense and avoid very crowded places/super high risk activities (concerts, churches with singing etc) we can still go out and have some reasonable fun.
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momto4kiddos
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Post by momto4kiddos on Jul 1, 2020 18:10:20 GMT
You're describing my parents too!
Boy could I use a vent thread today! Going round and round with 2 different vets today trying to 1. get food for dog who was in ER last week (and food has been ordered since last week.) 2. Other dog I think has a uti...dropped off urine and they'll have results tomorrow or Friday. Won't treat without urine back or being seen. No appt's month of July. ARGH! Dog #1 was seen at ER vet last week because regular vet is too busy!
Second vent - had a dental issue 2 months ago, called dentist and he said ok to wait until he can reopen. I called a couple weeks ago for update, their message indicated they were awaiting supplies to reopen. Left a message anyway and got no call back...until about a week later when I got a we're retiring letter.
While I am extremely grateful that our family has stayed healthy, the effects of covid on everything is really wearing on me. I literally was almost in tears over the dog food this morning!
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scrappington
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Post by scrappington on Jul 1, 2020 18:11:27 GMT
It's Canada Day. I have a day off. My day off has consisted of cleaning the bathroom , vacuuming , wet swiffering, 6 loads of laundry ,( new washer delivered yesterday ) putting away laundry, dishes, taking out recycling and trash , and I still have to make orzo for the salad I'm making to go with dinner. It's hot and humid and no central air. I still need to shower . Vent part hubby is enjoying his day.
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Post by berty on Jul 1, 2020 18:53:57 GMT
I’m tired. Even formerly simple things need to be thought out and considered in detail.
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paigepea
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Post by paigepea on Jul 1, 2020 18:57:23 GMT
Whenever we try to do something fun with younger dd she gets stressed out and there goes the fun.
We are tie dying in the garage and she just screamed at me and older dd so we left.
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Post by tc on Jul 1, 2020 19:06:11 GMT
I tried to get out of hosting 4th of July. I really did. I caved to "peer pressure" from my sister. And I don't know why I don't just stand up to her more and tell her it's not happening. But then I feel guilty because my son has very few people he's comfortable around and her kids are a couple of the few. Now I'm making lists of everything that has to happen by Saturday and I was just hoping to have a nice, relaxing weekend at home. Covid worries don't help anything. Their family is of the mindset that they're over the restrictions and life should return to normal. My mother just wants to see us even though it's really not safe for her to do so. And we're going to invite my husband's brother who is a germaphobe WITHOUT a global pandemic - not sure he's going to show. I don't blame him if he doesn't, but then I feel guilty because he'll be spending fourth of July huddled in his apartment by himself. I have GOT TO stop taking on other people's guilt.
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Post by ScrapbookMyLife on Jul 1, 2020 19:22:41 GMT
Mine vent is deals and coupons that are only available if I use the app on my phone.
My phone is older, and it won't let me download certain apps. Not enough strength or room or whatever is needed to support the app. Therefore, I miss out on a money off coupon.
I don't plan to upgrade my phone, until it is necessary due to lack of performing and functioning properly.
I wish the coupons would be offered for online use, as well.
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Post by freecharlie on Jul 1, 2020 19:25:39 GMT
Ods 8s going to look at apartments with a friend today. Yes, he is 19 and it is his decision, but it is a stupid decision. He has had a job for ONE month and while he makes pretty good money, he already seems to spend it all. The boy he would get a place with is not responsible, and usually gets fired from. A job within 3 months. Ds is a follower when it comes to this kid (who I love) and doesn't use his head.
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Post by huskermom98 on Jul 1, 2020 19:29:06 GMT
Vent #1--I'm headed to an orthodontics appointment with my 15yo in a few minutes because his 12 year molar never came in (it's there, but has barely broken through the gums). His teeth are straight and great otherwise, but now we might be looking at extensive dental work...although in my mind I can't see how it might be necessary...
Vent #2--We've been waiting for an appointment with a psychiatrist for our 12yo's ADHD issues (he didn't gain any weight between his physical and his 6 month weight check so his pediatrician won't up his meds, but he needs something different because he was getting worse about getting schoolwork done). The appointment was made in late February for 6/26 and we found out a week before the appointment that it would be virtual...how the heck can you evaluate someone over a freakin' cell phone... BUT wait, there's more! The Monday before the appointment I get a call that the provider won't be in the office on Friday and we need to reschedule...WTF??? Thankfully we only have to wait until the 10th, but seriously? really?
Vent #3--I've hit a Covid brick wall this week...done, sick of it, ready for normal life again...
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Post by iteach3rdgrade on Jul 1, 2020 19:37:21 GMT
The accountant isn't returning calls.
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Rhondito
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Post by Rhondito on Jul 1, 2020 19:40:27 GMT
I need a vacation. Desperately. I've been working from home for almost 4 months and my company has gotten crazy busy. I need a break. I want to see my friends who live Florida, PA, GA, and the Northeast. But I can't go anywhere because of the virus, so there's no use in taking time off.
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momto4kiddos
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Post by momto4kiddos on Jul 1, 2020 20:49:02 GMT
Ods 8s going to look at apartments with a friend today. Yes, he is 19 and it is his decision, but it is a stupid decision. He has had a job for ONE month and while he makes pretty good money, he already seems to spend it all. The boy he would get a place with is not responsible, and usually gets fired from. A job within 3 months. Ds is a follower when it comes to this kid (who I love) and doesn't use his head. I feel for you! I've been there, done that, more than once. The good news, they come back MUCH smarter from their life lessons. Mine all ended up home again, but this time they were actually smarter imo not just their own
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Post by Spongemom Scrappants on Jul 1, 2020 20:58:46 GMT
My vent is living two states away from my 10-week-old grand baby. I want to cuddle that little squishy body and smell that sweet head every single day.
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Post by tracyarts on Jul 1, 2020 22:09:53 GMT
The dumbass mayor and pack of morons on the city council of the biggest town in the county I live in decided to go full steam ahead with their 4th of July festivities. Parade, street festival, concert, and fireworks. No changes to the plans and schedule whatsoever.
And released a statement saying that face coverings and social distancing are "highly recommended" at all the events, but neither recommendation will be enforced, because the day is about celebrating freedom.
The county judge won't pull the plug on it or enforce a county-wide mask policy because of Bubba Politics and the fact that the residents of our county have been so minimally affected by the virus.
So, this display of wanton carelessness and irresponsibility will attract people from far and wide, including all the surrounding counties with rapidly rising Covid-19 case counts and death tolls.
And that low case count and nearly nonexistent death toll we've had here in our county? Bye fucking bye.
I know a LOT of people around the county are absolutely horrified over it and will be staying far away from that town this weekend. We're not all dumbasses. Unfortunately the people who have the power to do something seem to be.
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Peal
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Post by Peal on Jul 1, 2020 23:57:37 GMT
My MIL passed away in April and FIL is, understandably, very lonely. He is 84. He invited his entire congregation to his house for a cook out tomorrow. I don't know how many will come, probably some. We have been trying to get him to understand since March that we are wearing masks and socially distancing to protect our son, who is immuno-compromised. My SIL has made multiple attempts to explain that she wears masks and social distances because she is high risk. We all live in Utah where cases are only going up. We thought we finally got him to see our reasons last week, but then he invites everyone he knows over to his house, so maybe not.
Then there is the family reunion DH's family has been planning for a year and, come hell or high water, they will be holding it next week. Of DH's 6 siblings, only us and his little sister's family won't be there. (lots of cousins and aunts and uncles are going) I've been watching the facebook conversation about it on the group page in fascination. Someone finally asked if anyone would be wearing masks, some yes, some grudgingly. Breakfast and lunch are communal buffet style. They'll be fine, right? It's all outside. Unless they congregate inside each other's trailers.
This virus needs to either disappear or kill us all because I am done with it.
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SabrinaP
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Post by SabrinaP on Jul 2, 2020 0:11:02 GMT
This is definitely a 1st world problem vent, but it’s driving me batty!
My stupid couch throw pillows are feather filled. The feathers are constantly popping out and getting all over the floor. I can vacuum and 2 seconds later feathers on the floor. I’m so tired of picking them up. I know I can toss the pillows, but then I would have none on the couch. It’s not the time to go browsing stores for throw pillows so I’ll just vent instead!
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scrappington
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Post by scrappington on Jul 2, 2020 0:19:29 GMT
I downloaded June's Journey again. I hate this game. Why do they have tv commercials for it
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Post by stampnscrap1128 on Jul 2, 2020 0:31:57 GMT
I realize it is July, it is summer, and it is going to be hot as Hades. My body is already dealing with fatigue from cancer. I've never done well with heat. Today the heat index was over 105 degrees. Thank God our a/c is working (knock on wood). But the heat just seeps in anyway and makes sleeping at night difficult. I'm tired, I'm cranky, my stomach is nauseated, I have a constant headache. DH loves to watch MSNBC all evening so I am weary of politics, covid and its covidiots. And I hate being so whiney! LOL
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Post by natscraps on Jul 2, 2020 0:35:39 GMT
I went for bloodwork this morning at the outpatient hospital clinic. Masks are required by all. No exceptions. The tech comes out to get the person in front of me with mask dangling from one ear. Comes out to get me next and had the mask on but under her nose. She was extremely offended when i asked her to please put it on correctly as I have autoimmune problems. Can’t wait to get the “how was your experience?” survey they always send.
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Post by papercrafteradvocate on Jul 2, 2020 2:15:32 GMT
I’m stressed as fuck to the point that I just drop and cry. Im on our back patio crying now.
I.am.stressed.
Anxious.
I don’t know where to start...
Of course the administration has induced stress and anxiety on a daily basis. I fucking hate what this administration is doing, the ugly, mean, division..the lying. God dammit they make me so mad.
I started off with a funk a few weeks ago that was fleeting—the last few weekends hubby has “had to go” help other family with projects (building a fence and another weekend it was a deck for a new pool—my hubby has the tools and knowledge and is very handy) any projects here at home, I get the sigh and eye roll, so I tackle them myself—so far mostly out doors requiring heavy lifting and construction of sorts gardens, 2 trees fell/lost huge limbs during back to back storms. I’m capable of doing g the work, but I’m freaking tired and sunburnt and bugs love me. I literally have 18 bites from flies, bees, mosquitoes on each limb. I look like I have chicken pox!. {{sigh}} everyday I’m outside doing something that needs done...
Then what is killing me the most is our 15 yr old dog. A few months ago and an $5000 ACL surgery, he’s recovered and doing well from that. We were super fortunate to have savings to have been able to get him the surgery (he was unable to stand on his leg) Then Monday hubby walks him in the morning before having to go out of state for work this week, and comes back and says dog has diarrhea. I’m like okay. Then yesterday on my walk with him I noticed that the diarrhea is coming out like someone turned on a hose. Upon closer inspection it’s super watery and blood, (its actually called the “strawberry jam” According to pet sites) It’s too late to call the vet and everything else about the dog is normal—his disposition is good, he was still eating/drinking, gums are the right color...then with the pooping, he wanted to go out every 2 hrs...so all through the night 11 pm, 2 am, 4 am, 5:30 am....every time I’d get back in to fall asleep, just as I’d start to doze off, he’d let me know he had to go out again...since hubby is out of town and kids are too young yo be out with the dog in the middle of night....so I’m exhausted.
So I’m reading everything I can yesterday about his situation and most online articles suggest taking away food and going to a rice/bland chicken diet, so I do that and he’s happy to eat. I took him out last night at 11:40 pm, we went to bed (he usually will sleep in his bed next to my side) and I reach down to pet him and asked him to try to sleep all night (lol) funny thing is he did! He didn’t need to go out until 5:30 am!
So I had to leave et 9:00 am for a meeting took him out again before I left and his stool looked more brown and a bit thicker...i was relieved thinking the rice/chicken was helping. Got through my meeting and immediately called the vet who told me that it’s not uncommon, and that it’s better to have the “strawberry jam” diarrhea he does vs another type. And she said it was good that he was eating small bits and not vomiting. We set the appointment for tomorrow morning (vets office was closed today) and they did not think it’s emergency given he had no other distress. I got home and he had diarrhea all over the master bathroom floor...tiles, rugs....ugh.
So this evening, he starts wanting to go out every 45 minutes and it’s back to watery bloody coming out a hose like....
And then while out, he vomits everything he ate 20 minutes prior...😳😳😳😩😩😩
So I’m sitting here, silently freaking out (although it’s likely he has HGE (caused by stress, bacteria/virus) that is treated by hydration) but may require a day or two hospital stay....😥😥😥. But I’m just guessing.
I’m thinking about sleeping on the back porch (it’s enclosed) with him (he’s in his bed by me right now sleeping) just to be close to the outside door because he’s needing to go out so often.
I have not eaten much the last 2 days —have not felt like it with the stress and heat. I’m staying hydrated though.
All this stress has just been building and today is the day I want to just cry...and cry...and cry...
(Although it’s been a great distraction typing this all out)
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edie3
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Post by edie3 on Jul 2, 2020 2:32:24 GMT
Just wear the damn masks! Its required in this state.
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Post by christine58 on Jul 2, 2020 2:44:10 GMT
The dumbass mayor and pack of morons on the city council of the biggest town in the county I live in decided to go full steam ahead with their 4th of July festivities. Parade, street festival, concert, and fireworks. No changes to the plans and schedule whatsoever. And released a statement saying that face coverings and social distancing are "highly recommended" at all the events, but neither recommendation will be enforced, because the day is about celebrating freedom. The county judge won't pull the plug on it or enforce a county-wide mask policy because of Bubba Politics and the fact that the residents of our county have been so minimally affected by the virus. So, this display of wanton carelessness and irresponsibility will attract people from far and wide, including all the surrounding counties with rapidly rising Covid-19 case counts and death tolls. And that low case count and nearly nonexistent death toll we've had here in our county? Bye fucking bye. I know a LOT of people around the county are absolutely horrified over it and will be staying far away from that town this weekend. We're not all dumbasses. Unfortunately the people who have the power to do something seem to be. Where so I can stay away
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Post by Deleted on Jul 2, 2020 2:57:10 GMT
All this stress has just been building and today is the day I want to just cry...and cry...and cry... I just wanted to say I am so so sorry. That sounds awful!!! Sending hugs/thoughts/positive vibes your way in the hopes that things improve.
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Post by epeanymous on Jul 2, 2020 3:09:41 GMT
My inlaws are in their 70s and my MIL has advanced Parkison's. They have homes in south FL and the Hamptons, and have been in their Florida home. They are planning to fly up to the Hamptons next week. Which -- I would rather them not fly, or drag their germs around, but I get why you would go from FL to NY right now.
BUT.
My BIL is a dentist and his wife works on occasion very part time. He has been closed for months and her casual job has dried up. They have two kids around 12/14 who usually go to camp for the summer, but camp is closed. He is reopening his dental practice. His wife has type one diabetes. They are planning to have the wife go out to the Hamptons much of the summer with the kids and the inlaws and have the husband (who works in PA) drive out there on weekends from the dental practice.
I am really o.O about everything in this situation, but my mouth is completely buttoned shut because they are not my parents.
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Post by epeanymous on Jul 2, 2020 3:15:08 GMT
I need a vacation. Desperately. I've been working from home for almost 4 months and my company has gotten crazy busy. I need a break. I want to see my friends who live Florida, PA, GA, and the Northeast. But I can't go anywhere because of the virus, so there's no use in taking time off. I had the hardest period of work I've had in I don't know how long over the 18 months before this hit. I had some deadlines in the fall and late winter that were really stressful. So I'd planned a spring break trip in March by myself; a London trip in May with just a few of my kids; and two summer trips, one solo. All cancelled. I could really use a few days to myself, or even a few days with just some of my most self-contained kids. I just spend the evening looking on VRBO for rentals in easy driving distance, but I'm nervous to pull the trigger even on those because I'm worried we're going to shut down again.
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Post by pmm on Jul 2, 2020 3:42:19 GMT
This is definitely a 1st world problem vent, but it’s driving me batty! My stupid couch throw pillows are feather filled. The feathers are constantly popping out and getting all over the floor. I can vacuum and 2 seconds later feathers on the floor. I’m so tired of picking them up. I know I can toss the pillows, but then I would have none on the couch. It’s not the time to go browsing stores for throw pillows so I’ll just vent instead! Can you take the covers off the pillows and buy new pillow inserts?
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Post by pmm on Jul 2, 2020 3:42:47 GMT
This is definitely a 1st world problem vent, but it’s driving me batty! My stupid couch throw pillows are feather filled. The feathers are constantly popping out and getting all over the floor. I can vacuum and 2 seconds later feathers on the floor. I’m so tired of picking them up. I know I can toss the pillows, but then I would have none on the couch. It’s not the time to go browsing stores for throw pillows so I’ll just vent instead! Can you take the covers off the pillows and buy new pillow inserts?
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Post by VanC on Jul 2, 2020 3:42:48 GMT
My vent is about my super dumba$$ patriotic neighbours who are shooting off fireworks early before it's legal. We've had very little rain this spring and everything is super dry. Huge fire danger and they are risking big fines. Apparently they have way more money than sense because they are bragging on how they went to Wyoming for all sorts of illegal bottle rockets here in Utah. My brother and his husband had to evacuate their home over the weekend because of a manmade fire started by fireworks thankfully they and the animals were safe.
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