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Post by katyscrap on May 4, 2021 0:55:16 GMT
California is so behind on funerals that they estimate that hers won’t be held until the end of May or beginning of June.
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Post by greendragonlady on May 4, 2021 1:00:36 GMT
California is so behind on funerals that they estimate that hers won’t be held until the end of May or beginning of June. How is everyone holding up? I think about you often.
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Post by Skellinton on May 4, 2021 1:01:15 GMT
California is so behind on funerals that they estimate that hers won’t be held until the end of May or beginning of June. Oh my, that is so sad. How are you doing? I think about you and your Ava often.
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Post by Laurie on May 4, 2021 1:31:24 GMT
I am so sorry for your loss. . Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.
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Post by pancakes on May 4, 2021 1:42:03 GMT
California is so behind on funerals that they estimate that hers won’t be held until the end of May or beginning of June. Hugging you from afar ❤️❤️❤️
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Post by snoopy on May 4, 2021 2:58:32 GMT
I’ve been thinking of you as well and wondering how you are all holding up. I’m so sorry for your loss and continue to keep you all in my thoughts and prayers.
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Post by tanya2 on May 4, 2021 3:01:10 GMT
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Post by vsimone on May 4, 2021 8:38:41 GMT
Wow that's a long delay. My husband and I have been thinking of you all. We hope you are ok.
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Post by katyscrap on May 4, 2021 13:03:19 GMT
We’re ok...I’m good as long as I don’t think about her, then the tears just come. I feel so bad for my DIL with Mother’s Day on Sunday. My poor son is having a terrible time with anxiety and sleeplessness, I advised he should try and get some meds to help him for now..
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Post by AussieMeg on May 4, 2021 13:13:51 GMT
I feel so bad for my DIL with Mother’s Day on Sunday. Oh my goodness, that's going to be so very hard for her, and for all of you. I'm sorry that your son is suffering from anxiety and sleeplessness.
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Post by malibou on May 4, 2021 15:27:03 GMT
You all remain tucked up safely in my thoughts. I will certainly put out extra vibes of love for your dear dil as she deals with Mother's Day.
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Post by pancakes on May 4, 2021 17:11:07 GMT
We’re ok...I’m good as long as I don’t think about her, then the tears just come. I feel so bad for my DIL with Mother’s Day on Sunday. My poor son is having a terrible time with anxiety and sleeplessness, I advised he should try and get some meds to help him for now.. My close friend lost their daughter in a similar way and has credited therapy with helping him. It’s been 8 years, and he still goes. Just having someone to talk to who isn’t also going through the same amount of grief can be really helpful when they are ready. ❤️❤️❤️
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Post by mikklynn on May 5, 2021 12:17:11 GMT
I am so incredibly sorry. Ava was such a fighter and a beautiful baby.
Please tell her parents we all will remember sweet Ava.
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Post by gramasue on May 5, 2021 17:09:12 GMT
Keeping you and your family in my thoughts daily. Your new avatar is absolutely precious!
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Post by twinks on May 5, 2021 17:40:18 GMT
Keeping you and your family in my prayers, especially your DIL. Yes, Mother’s Day is going to be a hard one. Too close to one’s heart.
Sweet Ava was very much loved and cared for. Of course everyone is grieving and grieving differently. A grief support group may help. Some temporary medication may help, or some counseling may help. Each person needs to decide what they need. No judgment. No time line. This has to be as hard as life gets.
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Post by katyscrap on May 21, 2021 17:57:43 GMT
They finally were able to meet with the funeral home and they got a date for the funeral, June 4th. At least they won’t be in limbo anymore.
Yesterday they went back to the hospital and brought all the doctors and nurses purple butterfly necklaces to remember Ava by and to show how much they appreciated the care and love they gave Ava.
I’m still having a really hard time of it all. I still cry a lot and can’t sleep. I just hope it gets easier. I miss that little pumpkin’s face and the daily photos and FaceTime.
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Post by Susie_Homemaker on May 21, 2021 18:12:11 GMT
(((hugs))) I'm so sorry for your loss and for the gaping hole that her absence has left.
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Post by LilyRose on May 21, 2021 18:21:15 GMT
Hugs to you.
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Post by berty on May 21, 2021 18:31:34 GMT
I’m so sorry
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Post by peabay on May 21, 2021 18:40:28 GMT
Sending my best.
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Post by Skellinton on May 21, 2021 18:56:43 GMT
What a lovely thing to do for Ava's care staff. I can't even imagine the loss you are feeling. I hope you have someone you can talk with about Ava and her passing. Thank you again for sharing her with us. She was such a beautiful and strong baby.
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Post by inkedup on May 21, 2021 19:21:04 GMT
I would imagine that Ava's care staff are also grieving. Your son and DIL are so sweet to have thought of them. Little Ava touched so many lives.
Continuing to send my wishes for comfort and healing for you all.
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Post by Baseballmom23 on May 21, 2021 20:18:17 GMT
They finally were able to meet with the funeral home and they got a date for the funeral, June 4th. At least they won’t be in limbo anymore. Yesterday they went back to the hospital and brought all the doctors and nurses purple butterfly necklaces to remember Ava by and to show how much they appreciated the care and love they gave Ava. I’m still having a really hard time of it all. I still cry a lot and can’t sleep. I just hope it gets easier. I miss that little pumpkin’s face and the daily photos and FaceTime. (((hugs))) is there anywhere designated to make donations in Ava's honor?
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Post by katyscrap on May 21, 2021 20:19:23 GMT
My younger son started a go fund me to help with the funeral costs. Please don’t feel obligated at all to donate though. The prayers and support you have given are more than enough. You truly have all given me the strength I needed to get through all the stress and grief of the last year.
Im going to try to link it, not sure if it will work. [/https://gofund.me/2f3b5f94]
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Post by katyscrap on May 21, 2021 20:21:16 GMT
That didn’t work. Google A v a G ia r d i l l o and it should come up
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Post by moodyblue on May 21, 2021 20:34:58 GMT
They finally were able to meet with the funeral home and they got a date for the funeral, June 4th. At least they won’t be in limbo anymore. Yesterday they went back to the hospital and brought all the doctors and nurses purple butterfly necklaces to remember Ava by and to show how much they appreciated the care and love they gave Ava. I’m still having a really hard time of it all. I still cry a lot and can’t sleep. I just hope it gets easier. I miss that little pumpkin’s face and the daily photos and FaceTime. Please don’t feel that you "still" crying a lot or having a hard time is somehow wrong. You are in early, raw grief, and it will take as long as it takes to move forward. You’ll always cry over sweet Ava.
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Post by tanya2 on May 21, 2021 20:55:12 GMT
Thinking about you guys a lot
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Post by gillyp on May 21, 2021 21:05:18 GMT
What a lovely gift of appreciation for the staff. They will all have grown very fond of Ava and her mommy and daddy.
Let the tears flow, it’s such early days and you are not just mourning your own loss of Ava but you will be mourning for her parents loss too. The funeral will be especially hard, hugs and strength to you.
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Post by Deleted on May 21, 2021 21:10:33 GMT
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Post by myboysnme on May 21, 2021 21:14:36 GMT
My younger son started a go fund me to help with the funeral costs. I only found the one for her medical costs last updated in February.
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