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Post by malibou on Aug 23, 2020 15:26:40 GMT
My DS and DDIL spent their married life doing things together. They loved to travel, go to different restaurants, go to movies, go to fairs and festivals, just loved doing stuff together. They were childless by choice because they din't want their lives to change. My son said he was really grateful for the time on lookdown, being able to spend every waking moment with her. She's been gone 3 weeks last friday. I am so very sorry for the loss of ddil. Your son sounds like a wonderful man, and caring partner with a joie de vivre that is enviable. May he find peace.
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Post by nstar358 on Aug 23, 2020 15:32:33 GMT
I'm happy to be able to work from home and spend more time with my pets. I'm enjoying no commute and letting myself completely unplug from work when 5 pm rolls around. Plus I've been able to get more sleep too. I've also enjoyed being able to spend more time outside and really take advantage of my outdoor space. I took the time and taught myself to sew and started making masks which has made me feel more useful than my real job every has. I'm happy to see people giving each other a break, especially retail and foodservice workers who I think were previously overlooked.
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Post by epeanymous on Aug 23, 2020 16:12:21 GMT
There are so many negatives. So many horrible things about this time, but I also see some good. I will start... I see educating shifting from rigor, rigor, rigor to a more balanced approach. Rigor + social/emotional + joy in learning That is not what I have seen around here. I actually think the pandemic has damaged education. I see parents ranting & raving on the internet that kids have to get back in a school bldg. It’s as if they do not care what happens or what their children are doing as long as they do it inside the school for 6 hours a day. I also think the pandemic further damaged the respect for the teaching profession from the general public. It seems more people are on the teachers are babysitters bandwagon.  . Schools might as well be children warehouses as far as parents are concerned. Just a place to check your kids in for several hours a day and get them back later. There is a local school district here that has a shortage of teachers, too many retired or took leave due to Covid, as soon as they announced in person instruction the leave requests started coming in. They are desperately looking for warm bodies that pass a background check for long term sub positions. Little to no qualifications necessary. It’s completely as if education doesn’t matter just put them inside the school bldg wether they learn or not. I gotta stop reading comments on FB it is depressing how a loud obnoxious portion of my fellow citizens thinks.  I think you are right that with current risk levels, it is not appropriate to have kids in live schools in many or most places, but I do think that the in-person aspect of school is valuable, and that it’s not just parents looking for “babysitters.” To the extent parents are looking for “babysitters,” it is probably helpful to realize how many parents are facing dire work circumstances, and that there isn’t an alternative public infrastructure for child care. I have also heard numerous reports of teachers requiring parents to be in the room for online education, which is onerous for both working parents and parents with more than one child. Parents and teachers need to stick together and be patient with one another, or public schooling isn’t going to survive.
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Post by gmcwife1 on Aug 23, 2020 16:19:33 GMT
Neighbors reaching out and looking out for each other more. We have started talking to our direct neighbors more during the past few months then ever before. We are even sharing our extra veggies with two of them.
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Post by mammajamma on Aug 23, 2020 16:25:32 GMT
Hours of saved sanity from avoiding traffic and commutes for my husband going to work. Which means more time for being outside and exercise. I think this could greatly benefit Americans in their health.
We bought a small lake condo and a boat - we would have never pulled the trigger on that if it weren’t for covid.
Telehealth doctors visits for check-ups and check-ins!
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Post by gypsymama on Aug 23, 2020 16:32:29 GMT
i definitely appreciate social distancing... i guess its regional/cultural, but i feel like in Upstate NY, as opposed to places i lived in TX, people just walk so close... walk thru doors ahead of you, step right up next to you and grab something off a shelf... just no personal space. but now we have it!
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Post by fredfreddy44 on Aug 23, 2020 16:37:47 GMT
People buying less, traveling less, making do with what they have. Our planet cannot continue with humans current level of consumption so I hope in the long run people adjust.
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Post by Darcy Collins on Aug 23, 2020 16:40:28 GMT
Spending more time with my perpetually busy daughter was definitely the silver lining. I cannot disagree vehemently enough with the OP that there is any kind of positive shift relating to education. It's been beyond negative and I am in the camp that public education is going to get much much worse before better.
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Post by sam9 on Aug 23, 2020 16:46:24 GMT
That is not what I have seen around here. I actually think the pandemic has damaged education. I see parents ranting & raving on the internet that kids have to get back in a school bldg. It’s as if they do not care what happens or what their children are doing as long as they do it inside the school for 6 hours a day. I also think the pandemic further damaged the respect for the teaching profession from the general public. It seems more people are on the teachers are babysitters bandwagon.  . Schools might as well be children warehouses as far as parents are concerned. Just a place to check your kids in for several hours a day and get them back later. There is a local school district here that has a shortage of teachers, too many retired or took leave due to Covid, as soon as they announced in person instruction the leave requests started coming in. They are desperately looking for warm bodies that pass a background check for long term sub positions. Little to no qualifications necessary. It’s completely as if education doesn’t matter just put them inside the school bldg wether they learn or not. I gotta stop reading comments on FB it is depressing how a loud obnoxious portion of my fellow citizens thinks.  And my take on education is the exact opposite of yours. My kids have missed their teachers so much. They realize more than ever just how influential and inspiring they have been in their lives. Even the less favourite ones. They are irreplaceable. They are so ready to go back to school this week and learn and see different perspectives on things. At home, all they really get is our family's experience. It's so confining and restrictive. They go to schools with diverse teacher and student populations and I think it makes them better human beings. School has never been about babysitting or just curriculum. We've run into teachers a couple of times over the summer and it's shown me how much my kids idolize and look up to them. I thought they were going to ask them for autographs a couple of times, LOL. My family has thrived during the pandemic. We've formed a really tight bond. We're supportive of each other and we've learned just how very much we love each other. We are fortunate not to have suffered financially and it really has made us to be more appreciative of what we do have. I'm hoping we never go back to mindless spending. We don't need very many things to be happy.
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Post by KelleeM on Aug 23, 2020 16:54:59 GMT
I’ve spent part of almost every Saturday since the last week of March on Zoom with a group of friends. Sometimes there are two or three of us and once there were 12 for a few minutes. We’ve talked and lamented and whined a bit but mostly we’ve scrapbooked and had a great time. We’re in three different countries, 5 or 6 different time zones, and with the exception of my sister and her bff, we all met on line.
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Post by gar on Aug 23, 2020 17:01:56 GMT
The planet was granted a tiny respite with less car travel, less industrial pollution etc for a short time at least and the ozone layer healed itself a little. Id people continue to work from home more a degree of reduction could be permanent.
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Post by chendra on Aug 23, 2020 17:03:23 GMT
No school shootings.
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Post by maryland on Aug 23, 2020 19:12:58 GMT
I hope they start to give more money to health care research!
I can't really think of many positives. I have enjoyed no obligations! But I am sad my kids will miss their senior years (hs and college) and no pom and dance team season. And my college daughter will miss traveling to all the away ACC games.
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Post by Scrapper100 on Aug 23, 2020 19:31:50 GMT
I’m hoping curbside pickup stays. I went into Walmart as I wanted to actually look at a few things and shopping took forever. I only found a couple of things that I couldn’t get through curbside as they were out of the things I wanted to look at. The store was a mess unlike I have ever seen snd it took forever lol.
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Post by breetheflea on Aug 23, 2020 19:58:42 GMT
Well... DH now works from home (he doesn't even have a desk at the office anymore) and doesn't have a 40+ minute commute to deal with. He's had time (his lunch break) to exercise and has lost a lot of weight. I haven't lost any weight, but good for him!
Our house is less cluttery due to our local Buy Nothing and no-contact, it's on my porch come get it-ing a ton of stuff we don't need anymore. We also took a load to the dump, two loads to the wood recycler, and have a pile for Goodwill.
After six years (and five months of pandemic not feeling like working on it) but I'm now in full writing mode and very close to finishing writing a novel. I hope I didn't just jinx myself.
We adopted two guinea pigs a few weeks ago from someone giving them away. We have plenty of time to give them unlimited loves and attention these days. They are fun!
This time of year I'm usually super busy with PTA, and running our 1st fundraiser of the year and am running around like crazy. This year we've been told we're not allowed in the building, so we aren't doing much PTAing right now, so for the first time in four years I get to enjoy September... well as much as I can while virtual schooling 4 kids starting in about a week.
It's the little things...
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Post by janeinbama on Aug 23, 2020 20:07:53 GMT
I have enjoyed FB church and it will be soo hard for me to go back in person. My commute is a little lighter, I have not missed any days of work. I do believe some people are nicer and I have tried to be nicer. I love that we have the option to pick up "nice" restaurant food and not just fast food. I have a 28 mile commute and we enjoy dinner brought in a couple of times a week. Great thread.
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Post by lesserknownpea on Aug 23, 2020 20:44:05 GMT
May I just say this has been an interesting and uplifting thread, and several items I hadn’t thought of before,(school shootings)
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Post by Really Red on Aug 23, 2020 21:29:27 GMT
This is just how it affected me. I got to spend time with my children that I didn’t think I would otherwise have as they are all young adults. That was an incredible gift.
My daughter, who wanted to move to Europe, is now able to move to Europe with the encouragement of her company who is thrilled that she will be able to represent them there.
My other daughter who lives in Europe now, lost her job, but was able to concentrate on the stock market and was able to make me a good amount of money as well as support herself over the summer until a new job starts in October. She also got to enjoy time in Europe that she would not have been able to have and take several diploma classes.
My son didn’t have a job so he came home and did so much work for me around the house that I’m able to read a book sometimes on the weekends!
After the first months of feeling anxious and stressed, I now feel really happy and comfortable.
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Post by cecilia on Aug 23, 2020 21:42:54 GMT
Not having to deal with my cousin/his family, expect for the random drunk calls at 1 AM. I dread spending time with them.
I have also been going to more yard sales more, instead of going inside thrift stores. Been trying to support local businesses too by going to the farmers' markets.
Also got rescue dog leash trained. Only took a year. (We think he was tied up and beat so he had bad reactions to even the sight of the leash).
Also been going through more stuff to donate to Goodwill. All we do here is pop the trunk. Has been like that for years.
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Post by Sarah*H on Aug 24, 2020 0:31:40 GMT
i definitely appreciate social distancing... i guess its regional/cultural, but i feel like in Upstate NY, as opposed to places i lived in TX, people just walk so close... walk thru doors ahead of you, step right up next to you and grab something off a shelf... just no personal space. but now we have it! We were in upstate New York this weekend to drop my son off at school and we took him grocery shopping. That grocery store made me more uncomfortable than I've been in months. We're just to the south of you, not in a hot state and our residents aren't awesome about mask wearing but I guess we take our social distancing very seriously. There was no limit on the number of people in the store and it was quite crowded, people didn't care how close they stood in the aisles, the aisles were both directions, etc. It was the most "people-y" experience I've had in months and it felt very wrong! On the other hand as my husband said, your positive rate is currently under 1% and there was only one person in that entire store who wasn't wearing a mask so maybe the lack of social distancing is okay.
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Post by christine58 on Aug 24, 2020 0:37:04 GMT
i definitely appreciate social distancing... i guess its regional/cultural, but i feel like in Upstate NY, as opposed to places i lived in TX, people just walk so close... walk thru doors ahead of you, step right up next to you and grab something off a shelf... just no personal space. but now we have it! We were in upstate New York this weekend to drop my son off at school and we took him grocery shopping. That grocery store made me more uncomfortable than I've been in months. We're just to the south of you, not in a hot state and our residents aren't awesome about mask wearing but I guess we take our social distancing very seriously. There was no limit on the number of people in the store and it was quite crowded, people didn't care how close they stood in the aisles, the aisles were both directions, etc. It was the most "people-y" experience I've had in months and it felt very wrong! On the other hand as my husband said, your positive rate is currently under 1% and there was only one person in that entire store who wasn't wearing a mask so maybe the lack of social distancing is okay. It is under 1% and has been. What store were you in? We still have mask mandates for stores here in New York State. That has not changed even though we do have very very very few cases. And we are at the lowest they’ve ever been with hospitalizations. I’d be curious to know where you were in New York State. Many of the stores here have never had a limit on the number of people inside with the exception of smaller stores like Trader Joe’s or Michael’s or Joannes or PetCo. We worked our butts off here to get to the low rate.
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Post by Sarah*H on Aug 24, 2020 0:38:28 GMT
Curbside and telehealth is something I hope stick around. I'm not sure that I care if I ever eat inside a restaurant again, getting takeout has been wonderful.
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Post by Sarah*H on Aug 24, 2020 0:57:25 GMT
We were in upstate New York this weekend to drop my son off at school and we took him grocery shopping. That grocery store made me more uncomfortable than I've been in months. We're just to the south of you, not in a hot state and our residents aren't awesome about mask wearing but I guess we take our social distancing very seriously. There was no limit on the number of people in the store and it was quite crowded, people didn't care how close they stood in the aisles, the aisles were both directions, etc. It was the most "people-y" experience I've had in months and it felt very wrong! On the other hand as my husband said, your positive rate is currently under 1% and there was only one person in that entire store who wasn't wearing a mask so maybe the lack of social distancing is okay. It is under 1% and has been. What store were you in? We still have mask mandates for stores here in New York State. That has not changed even though we do have very very very few cases. And we are at the lowest they’ve ever been with hospitalizations. I’d be curious to know where you were in New York State. Many of the stores here have never had a limit on the number of people inside with the exception of smaller stores like Trader Joe’s or Michael’s or Joannes or PetCo. We worked our butts off here to get to the low rate. Wegmans in Syracuse
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Post by paperaddictedpea on Aug 24, 2020 1:10:08 GMT
It is under 1% and has been. What store were you in? We still have mask mandates for stores here in New York State. That has not changed even though we do have very very very few cases. And we are at the lowest they’ve ever been with hospitalizations. I’d be curious to know where you were in New York State. Many of the stores here have never had a limit on the number of people inside with the exception of smaller stores like Trader Joe’s or Michael’s or Joannes or PetCo. We worked our butts off here to get to the low rate. Wegmans in Syracuse If you were at the Wegmans on Genesee Street in Dewitt, that store is always a madhouse - I avoid it like the plague. Pretty much any Wegmans in this area is busy on a weekend afternoon but the Dewitt store is the worst.
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Post by peasquared on Aug 24, 2020 1:10:40 GMT
It's gotten me out of some group things I didn't want to attend. I've turned into an introvert over the last 20 years. More pets have been adopted from shelters. That makes me really happy! I agree with lesserknownpea, this is an uplifting thread. 
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Post by gypsymama on Aug 24, 2020 1:35:45 GMT
i definitely appreciate social distancing... i guess its regional/cultural, but i feel like in Upstate NY, as opposed to places i lived in TX, people just walk so close... walk thru doors ahead of you, step right up next to you and grab something off a shelf... just no personal space. but now we have it! We were in upstate New York this weekend to drop my son off at school and we took him grocery shopping. That grocery store made me more uncomfortable than I've been in months. We're just to the south of you, not in a hot state and our residents aren't awesome about mask wearing but I guess we take our social distancing very seriously. There was no limit on the number of people in the store and it was quite crowded, people didn't care how close they stood in the aisles, the aisles were both directions, etc. It was the most "people-y" experience I've had in months and it felt very wrong! On the other hand as my husband said, your positive rate is currently under 1% and there was only one person in that entire store who wasn't wearing a mask so maybe the lack of social distancing is okay. my local stores haven't been too bad but from what i hear, everything around Lake George is just jam packed. i haven't seen anyone, even in walmart, in months inside a store or restaurant without a mask. pretty surprising bc this is definitely trump territory! edit to say that i'm about 3 hours east of syracuse, near saratoga
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Post by christine58 on Aug 24, 2020 10:49:45 GMT
It is under 1% and has been. What store were you in? We still have mask mandates for stores here in New York State. That has not changed even though we do have very very very few cases. And we are at the lowest they’ve ever been with hospitalizations. I’d be curious to know where you were in New York State. Many of the stores here have never had a limit on the number of people inside with the exception of smaller stores like Trader Joe’s or Michael’s or Joannes or PetCo. We worked our butts off here to get to the low rate. Wegmans in Syracuse Wegmans has never done the aisles with arrows nor have they limited the number of people. I shop at the one near me and have done so since the beginning. I have never ever felt unsafe at any Wegmans.
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Post by sasha on Aug 24, 2020 12:30:24 GMT
COVID-19 def appeals to my anti-social side b/c it gets me out of long convos with people in my neighborhood when walking -- don't want to get too close b/c COVID! Not having get togethers I'm invited to but don't feel like going to!
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Post by schizo319 on Aug 24, 2020 12:42:32 GMT
The bicycle industry is up 75% from last year Sewing machine sales are up. It seems the whole country is learning to bake sourdough bread There's been a huge increase in the number of people taking advantage of outdoor spaces (parks, hiking trails, etc.) Families are cooking/eating more together at home Businesses who swore it was impossible to allow telework are finding out they were wrong. Home Gardening is booming around the world People have time to pursue their hobbies and sometimes even turn them into businesses (a local disabled vet in my town started building outdoor furniture and has been very busy with custom orders despite never having done any woodworking pre-pandemic and a local children's boutique started manufacturing special sidewalk chalk for kids and have expanded to sell state-wide!)
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Post by mikklynn on Aug 24, 2020 13:11:49 GMT
My DS and DDIL spent their married life doing things together. They loved to travel, go to different restaurants, go to movies, go to fairs and festivals, just loved doing stuff together. They were childless by choice because they din't want their lives to change. My son said he was really grateful for the time on lookdown, being able to spend every waking moment with her. She's been gone 3 weeks last friday. I just couldn't "like" this. Giant hugs. My heart was broken for all of you when you posted about her.
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