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Post by jenjie on Nov 27, 2020 4:59:57 GMT
I’m so sorry! Praying God’s comfort for you.
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Post by papersilly on Nov 27, 2020 5:21:04 GMT
So sorry for your loss! What a horrible horrible thing that happened.
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Post by Legacy Girl on Nov 27, 2020 5:53:10 GMT
I'm so terribly sorry for your sister's passing. Hope that Pea love and prayers will comfort you in this tragic time.
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Post by lauradrumm on Nov 27, 2020 6:39:25 GMT
I’m so sorry. Sending hugs and love. Her spirit will always exist within you.
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Post by leslie132 on Nov 27, 2020 7:46:13 GMT
I can’t thank you all enough. My family is reeling.....my sister passed away at 10 on Wednesday night and still our family is in turmoil. Now one is allowed to be with my bil so he is at their home alone, and his kids are at their homes. My mom (who turns 80 next week) is desperate to be with him. I keep saying we can’t. We just can’t risk this, which makes me feel like the most selfish person in the world. We want to get him tested to see if we can shorten his quarantine time and get him with his family, but no one will test him.
I’m sitting here in the dark crying because I know my sister would be up either getting ready to run to a store, or in consideration to Covid she would be at her computer ready to shop online. She was so afraid about getting the virus. So very scared that her coworkers didn’t believe in it so they didn’t wear masks in their office and they didn’t limit contact with others. She did all of that and was so afraid of bringing it home.
I don’t know how to move past this pain. Death happens.....just not when your young (60) living your best life with your husband of 36 years, 3 adult children and her 2 young grandchildren. I know it’s early, but I can’t bring myself to think of that, and instead think of her laying their alone on a ventilator fighting a battle half the country doesn’t believe in, an the other half fear. I believed in the virus...... but didn’t fear it. Now I don’t want to let anyone outside my home. I’m terrified.
Most of all......I’m heartbroken. This wasn’t what I thought Thanksgiving would be. Nothing will be the same....... death is a circle of life. I know this, but I know the pain of burying a child. I never wanted my mom to experience the same pain. No parent should have to bury their child.
If you made it this far...... thank you. Please if I haven’t asked to much already keep sending prayers and positive thoughts for my family. We need every one of them.
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Post by malibou on Nov 27, 2020 8:52:01 GMT
On dear, I am so very sorry for your loss. Please know I am holding your family close while they reel. With special wishes for your bil to find a way to get to his family who so desperately need him.
May the memories of your silly days with your sister ease your heart a bit when you need it most.
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Post by LavenderLayoutLady on Nov 27, 2020 9:05:10 GMT
I'm so sorry for your loss.
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Post by SAHM wannabe on Nov 27, 2020 9:53:58 GMT
I’m so sorry. Your words have really brought the reality of this terrible disease to the forefront.
I wish your family strength during this tragically difficult time. With much sympathy and deep sorrow.
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Post by christine58 on Nov 27, 2020 11:55:00 GMT
leslie132I PRAY your BIL does not have COVID either and find it horrible that no one will test him. Try not to think of her on a ventilator instead as hard as it might be, think of Kennedy Kay meeting her in heaven. Your mom should not go see him until he is either tested or 2 weeks has passed. I am praying for you
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Post by mariemily on Nov 27, 2020 11:57:25 GMT
I am so sorry for your loss.
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Post by SweetieBsMom on Nov 27, 2020 12:39:41 GMT
I am so sorry for you loss.
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Post by peace on Nov 27, 2020 12:47:58 GMT
I am so sorry. I really wish I had some words of wisdom but there aren't any. Sending love and all things good to you and your entire family. I lost my parents (they died 6 months apart) within the last 15 months. But that isn't the same as losing a sibling- or a child (for your mom). And the healing is so hard to do when you can't all be together. I hope you are able to get BIL tested- that will at least help on one front. Light and love.
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Post by mikklynn on Nov 27, 2020 14:47:55 GMT
I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. Hugs, dear Pea.
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Post by YooHoot on Nov 27, 2020 14:50:59 GMT
I am so sorry for your loss.
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Post by iluvpink on Nov 27, 2020 17:12:18 GMT
I am so sorry for your loss. Lots of (((HUGS))).
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Post by freecharlie on Nov 27, 2020 17:39:13 GMT
My heart breaks for you and your family.
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Post by scrapcat on Nov 27, 2020 19:16:13 GMT
I was praying for you and your family and I'm really sorry to read this update. Will pray for your strength and peace. So sorry.
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Post by christine58 on Nov 29, 2020 22:32:31 GMT
leslie132 How are you doing?? I hope and pray your BIL does not have COVID and his kids can come be with him. I am just so heartsick for your loss.
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Post by laurasw on Nov 30, 2020 1:09:31 GMT
I'm so sorry.
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Post by leslie132 on Nov 30, 2020 1:12:27 GMT
leslie132 How are you doing?? I hope and pray your BIL does not have COVID and his kids can come be with him. I am just so heartsick for your loss. Thank you so much for checking on us. It has been hard. My brother in law was able to get tested, as did all of their children and everyone has come back as a negative. They are together for the first time tonight. I can’t imagine the pain that had to cause. We are all trying to work through the shock, and obvious pain that we are in. It’s not an easy thing to do. The funeral will be just immediate family. The biggest heart break is that my sister worked in a school district and the news media somehow broke the story. My family hasn’t even begun to process the pain, and now we see her on the news and it is being used in the “ should we be in schools or should we go remote’ debate. The family deserves our time to heal and process, and my sister’s family (kids)deserve the privacy. Thank you for asking. You have always been in my corner and such a comfort on this page.
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Post by scrappinmom3 on Nov 30, 2020 1:18:28 GMT
I am so sorry for your loss.
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Post by tryingtobewise on Nov 30, 2020 1:19:07 GMT
Oh bless you, and your sister and the whole family. Again, I am so sorry for this agonizing loss. I am very glad your bil and their children can now be together.
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Post by marie on Nov 30, 2020 1:20:40 GMT
My heart breaks for your family. Continued prayers for all of you.
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Post by christine58 on Nov 30, 2020 1:26:55 GMT
leslie132 How are you doing?? I hope and pray your BIL does not have COVID and his kids can come be with him. I am just so heartsick for your loss. Thank you so much for checking on us. It has been hard. My brother in law was able to get tested, as did all of their children and everyone has come back as a negative. They are together for the first time tonight. I can’t imagine the pain that had to cause. We are all trying to work through the shock, and obvious pain that we are in. It’s not an easy thing to do. The funeral will be just immediate family. The biggest heart break is that my sister worked in a school district and the news media somehow broke the story. My family hasn’t even begun to process the pain, and now we see her on the news and it is being used in the “ should we be in schools or should we go remote’ debate. The family deserves our time to heal and process, and my sister’s family (kids)deserve the privacy. Thank you for asking. You have always been in my corner and such a comfort on this page. I’m so sorry it’s all over the news. I added you to a prayer list along with your entire family. I will continue to pray for healing. As you know grief has no timetable whatsoever. But make sure to take care of yourself and your husband and your boys. Try to take some solace in the fact that she’s holding your Kennedy Kay in her arms
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Post by scrappyesq on Nov 30, 2020 1:33:09 GMT
I am so sorry for your loss.
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Post by freecharlie on Nov 30, 2020 1:35:22 GMT
leslie132 How are you doing?? I hope and pray your BIL does not have COVID and his kids can come be with him. I am just so heartsick for your loss. Thank you so much for checking on us. It has been hard. My brother in law was able to get tested, as did all of their children and everyone has come back as a negative. They are together for the first time tonight. I can’t imagine the pain that had to cause. We are all trying to work through the shock, and obvious pain that we are in. It’s not an easy thing to do. The funeral will be just immediate family. The biggest heart break is that my sister worked in a school district and the news media somehow broke the story. My family hasn’t even begun to process the pain, and now we see her on the news and it is being used in the “ should we be in schools or should we go remote’ debate. The family deserves our time to heal and process, and my sister’s family (kids)deserve the privacy. Thank you for asking. You have always been in my corner and such a comfort on this page. I am sorry the news is doing that. I hate that for your family. I am keeping your family in my thoughts
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Post by amom23 on Nov 30, 2020 1:37:32 GMT
I am very sorry for your loss.
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Post by Really Red on Nov 30, 2020 1:42:09 GMT
leslie132 How are you doing?? I hope and pray your BIL does not have COVID and his kids can come be with him. I am just so heartsick for your loss. Thank you so much for checking on us. It has been hard. My brother in law was able to get tested, as did all of their children and everyone has come back as a negative. They are together for the first time tonight. I can’t imagine the pain that had to cause. We are all trying to work through the shock, and obvious pain that we are in. It’s not an easy thing to do. The funeral will be just immediate family. The biggest heart break is that my sister worked in a school district and the news media somehow broke the story. My family hasn’t even begun to process the pain, and now we see her on the news and it is being used in the “ should we be in schools or should we go remote’ debate. The family deserves our time to heal and process, and my sister’s family (kids)deserve the privacy. Thank you for asking. You have always been in my corner and such a comfort on this page. I just simply cannot imagine your pain. I am so sorry for you, your mom, your brother-in-la, nieces and nephews. It is awful that you’re not allowed any grieving time before things go on the news. I hope that maybe the story reached one person and changed one person’s mind. Nothing can alleviate your pain, though☹️.
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Post by Skellinton on Nov 30, 2020 1:49:03 GMT
I will continue to pray for your family. I am so very sorry for your loss and the added horror of having it on the news. I am thankful you can be together. I am just so sorry for your loss.
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Post by leslie132 on Nov 30, 2020 2:02:56 GMT
Thank you so much for checking on us. It has been hard. My brother in law was able to get tested, as did all of their children and everyone has come back as a negative. They are together for the first time tonight. I can’t imagine the pain that had to cause. We are all trying to work through the shock, and obvious pain that we are in. It’s not an easy thing to do. The funeral will be just immediate family. The biggest heart break is that my sister worked in a school district and the news media somehow broke the story. My family hasn’t even begun to process the pain, and now we see her on the news and it is being used in the “ should we be in schools or should we go remote’ debate. The family deserves our time to heal and process, and my sister’s family (kids)deserve the privacy. Thank you for asking. You have always been in my corner and such a comfort on this page. I just simply cannot imagine your pain. I am so sorry for you, your mom, your brother-in-la, nieces and nephews. It is awful that you’re not allowed any grieving time before things go on the news. I hope that maybe the story reached one person and changed one person’s mind. Nothing can alleviate your pain, though☹️. As most news stations they have a FB page. It has the link and I can tell you that while I read a few arguments about “you live your life in fear....my kid deserves school”, the majority of the posts are being done by parents with memories of my sister helping their children, and friends my sister had back in her HS days. So it was super startling for all of us to see her pop up in the news..... now we are able to smile and think how amazing it is to see the love the community is sharing.
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