PrettyInPeank
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Post by PrettyInPeank on Nov 11, 2014 15:31:48 GMT
There have been talks of people being interested in a neighborhood Facebook group, but no one has started one in fear it will become a neighborhood complaint page.
So, if you are a part of one, or manage one, how well does it work?
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Post by eebud on Nov 11, 2014 15:44:04 GMT
My neighborhood has one and I used to be on it but I left the group. It was primarily used to communicate neighborhood things going on or to plan things. For instance, a number of SAHM's will plan get togethers at the park. The page has also been used to talk about things that I feel are should be private to only the neighborhood. The person who started the FB group and is the only admin "feels weird" (her words) about removing people from the neighborhood group that no longer live in the neighborhood. I commented when she said this that the name of the group was "<Neighborhood Name> Community". There wasn't anything weird about keeping it to the neighborhood community. I also told her that she started the group and if that if she wasn't interested in keeping it to only our community, that was her prerogative and I had no problem leaving the group.........which is what I did. I feel that it is VERY misleading to members of the group to feel that what they post is only going to those that live in the neighborhood when in reality, it is going to anyone that lives here now and in the past but didn't remove themselves from the group. This came up one other time and I made comments then too. A number of people in the neighborhood posted that they agreed with me but the admin ignored our posts. On the other hand, the neighborhood that is next to ours and shares our park has it on their front page of the group that if anyone notices anyone in the group that no longer lives in the neighborhood to notify the admin so they can be removed. THIS is what a neighborhood FB group page should be IMO.
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Post by Miss Ang on Nov 11, 2014 15:52:02 GMT
Our city population is around 3,000 so we have a community Facebook page. For the most part, it's used to promote things happening in the city and sharing information. But it's also used to create a $hitstorm of drama sometimes! 
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PrettyInPeank
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Post by PrettyInPeank on Nov 11, 2014 15:53:36 GMT
Why is it so important to you that former residents be excluded? I want to consider all things if I start a group.
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Post by eebud on Nov 11, 2014 15:57:58 GMT
Why is it so important to you that former residents be excluded? I want to consider all things if I start a group. Because sometimes things come up that I feel should be private to the neighborhood. I won't go into details here about specific situations because again, they should have been private to the neighborhood. In one case, there were HUGE issues with a particular homeowner. This homeowner was not on FB or part of the FB neighborhood FB page. The things that were posted about this situation should not have been out there for those who don't live here and were not affected by it, to see.
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Post by traceys on Nov 11, 2014 15:58:07 GMT
Yes, we have one, and I find it helpful to have a place to discuss neighborhood issues or ask questions. It's a closed group and if someone requests to be added and the admin doesn't know them, she will ask the group if anyone else does so that we can limit it to people actually in the neighborhood.
Ours hasn't had any drama in the two years I've been here. When there have been complaint type issues, (dogs running around off leash most recently comes to mind) they have been discussed reasonably with no one getting ugly. It's more often used for people to advertise yard sales, or spread the word about theft in the area, or just find out how far the power outtage extends.
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Post by mirabelleswalker on Nov 11, 2014 16:00:15 GMT
No, but we have a group on nextdoor.com. I like that because I get an email digest daily so I don't have to keep checking back.
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Post by JustCallMeMommy on Nov 11, 2014 16:00:22 GMT
We haven't had any drama on ours. It has been used to get everyone together to purchase a new neighborhood sign (no homeowner's association), to find owners of animals, to spread the news about a boil water notice, and to discuss the best Internet prices. There was one person who complained several times about a barking dog.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 11, 2014 16:03:41 GMT
Mine uses Nextdoor.com as well instead of facebook. People use it to ask for recommendations on different types of home repair, advertise their businesses, discuss neighborhood watch types of things (stranger seen peering behind gates, etc) lost pets....
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anniebygaslight
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Post by anniebygaslight on Nov 11, 2014 16:09:56 GMT
Sounds like a recipe for disaster to me!
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~Susan~
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Post by ~Susan~ on Nov 11, 2014 16:18:03 GMT
Yes, my neighborhood has one and I am one of 8 admins. It was started as part of our neighborhood watch program and most of the time it is cordial and informative. BUT, we have had several situations that got nasty. I mostly stay out of it unless they break the rules that were laid out when the page was set up. I have found out that several people that I thought I liked were nice neighbors, really aren't. Some are down right scary.
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PrettyInPeank
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Post by PrettyInPeank on Nov 11, 2014 16:19:52 GMT
Yes, my neighborhood has one and I am one of 8 admins. It was started as part of our neighborhood watch program and most of the time it is cordial and informative. BUT, we have had several situations that got nasty. I mostly stay out of it unless they break the rules that were laid out when the page was set up. I have found out that several people that I thought I liked were nice neighbors, really aren't. Some are down right scary. What are your group's rules?
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Post by Deleted on Nov 11, 2014 16:20:31 GMT
Yes. It's very useful. The HOA runs it. Membership is limited to HOA members in good standing.
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luvnlifelady
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Post by luvnlifelady on Nov 11, 2014 16:22:06 GMT
Our's does but it's not very active. It was started by a local realtor. It's mostly used to tell about community events so far.
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Post by loco coco on Nov 11, 2014 16:22:51 GMT
we use nextdoor.com, it is a really neat website! You can share things with your neighborhood or expand things to include the subdivisions around you. The police also post weekly on there which is cool.
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Post by bianca42 on Nov 11, 2014 16:24:30 GMT
Ours started last year and has mostly been about getting recommendations for contractors & babysitters and about lost/found pets. There is a kinda awkward situation going on in the neighborhood, but it's mostly stayed off facebook. Of course, the situation has involved flyers in everyone's mailboxes.
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Post by molove on Nov 11, 2014 16:25:36 GMT
Yes, my neighborhood has one. I swear,its main purpose is report every fender bender and loud boom that occurs. These frantic sounding posts that all basically say "DID YOU HEAR/SEE THAT?!!" It's like a hysterical group of people with nothing better to do that try and be the first person to post anything close to news. Hmmmmm. Sounds familiar  There are nuggets of helpful posts, but mostly not. You open a forum up and you get everything that the community has to offer. Everything.
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~Susan~
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Post by ~Susan~ on Nov 11, 2014 16:27:59 GMT
Yes, my neighborhood has one and I am one of 8 admins. It was started as part of our neighborhood watch program and most of the time it is cordial and informative. BUT, we have had several situations that got nasty. I mostly stay out of it unless they break the rules that were laid out when the page was set up. I have found out that several people that I thought I liked were nice neighbors, really aren't. Some are down right scary. What are your group's rules? They are very simple and straightforward (I think so anyway): This Face Book group is for (subdivision name) subdivision property owners & residents, 18 & up, only. The purpose of this group page is to serve as the primary connection to the neighborhood Crime Watch program, provide a place for home owners in the (subdivision name) to meet, post events, post relevant photos, promote personal and area businesses, share information, and discuss issues facing our neighborhood to further develop the safety, value and over all quality and well being within the area we all live. This group also serves as a place for neighbors to get to know neighbors and have fun doing so.
Terms for membership in this group are based on the agreement to keep the conversation and post non-confrontational, civil, respectful and in line with the purpose of this page as stated in the above description.
Use of foul language, arguments between members, inflammatory, slanderous, or accusatory statements indicating, or suggesting, that one believes a person, or persons, have done something wrong, or any expression of personal grievance with other members, will not be tolerated, and will result in deleting of such postings, and may result in members being removed from the group page.
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Post by Peace Sign on Nov 11, 2014 16:29:38 GMT
we have three tightly knit communities, so all three are included on a page that is for selling items/tickets and one page that is just freecycle for the three neighborhoods. it is always busy and fast paced on there - and people like knowing that strangers aren't coming over to buy their old bike or whatever. it is super successful.
then, there are separate pages for each community for block watch type activities. not specifically an endorsed block watch, but similar. as someone else mentioned, they are sort of a catch-all for lost dogs, solicitors in the area, business recommendations, etc. then you have the occasional car break in to mention.
what happens with all of these (5 I think) FB pages is that you have the same people posting the same things on EACH page. my dog is lost...1,2,3,4,5 times! it doesn't bother me, some of the audience is different, but not a lot.
anyway, last spring I saw a guy right outside my window getting ready to break into my neighbors car. my dog scared him off. I called the neighbor, posted the incident on my facebook page, on which several of my friends are my neighbors. right there I decided to start a page for just or little portion of the community. we had 100 people join within 10 days! I contacted our police liaison and our official block watch was born. since then, we've grown, had meetings, speakers, celebrated national night out last august, and I can say I've "formally" met a lot of neighbors who I already would wave to or whatever when walking the dogs or out with the kids. the page was just a way to cement what many of us were already doing, and to provide a place for everyone else to see items of concern quickly and easily.
not everyone is on facebook, so we also have an email list. the emails are usually very watered down information, though, because I don't include each and every comment made. I keep it to crime alerts and serious things like that.
I feel much more connected to my neighborhood than I ever did, and I've lived here almost 15 years. I knew tons of people in the neighborhood before but this is much much different. we've learned how to come together to get a landlord to evict suspected drug dealers, there is a connected effort to control speeding in the neighborhood, there are going to be neighborhood clean ups, events for kids, and a much better connection to our precinct officers.
it's a lot of work. I found help. I'm looking for more.
the facebook page does get very complain-y sometimes. there are a couple individuals in particular who "embellish" things and then I have to deal with panicked residents. there are opinions which may differ from yours. we get some "the police don't do anything about these break ins!" type people, along with unsubstantiated claims of crime on the rise in our neighborhood (it isn't.) people want guns. people want security. people want street lights. people don't like renters. bluntly, you have to deal with a lot of stupidity.
we have pretty loose rules (as of now) but we just began a discussion today about tightening things up a bit.
it can go for weeks and weeks very uneventfully but then something blows up, like ours did yesterday.
nextdoor.com was lobbying hard to get our business, but the facebook page was already well used I didn't see any reason to switch. I know the sheriff's department is involved with our nextdoor page. I have heard they were going to begin charging to use nextdoor in the future. the same stuff happens over there too, I have heard. and I don't see the need to have yet another app.
if you have any other questions, let me know!!
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Post by kristenf on Nov 11, 2014 16:30:23 GMT
We have one for my town, technically "Moms" in our town, but I can't say it's limited to just moms. I think it was open in the past, but is now closed. There were one or two Blips before it became closed about people who don't currently live here being on the list (some live nearby, work here, used to live here, etc...) I kind of stayed out of it and don't know (or care) how the dust ultimately fell!
There is very little drama, which is amazing to me! Most of the posts are "can you recommend a doctor/plumber/salon/dog walker/mechanic/etc... (like, everything you could imagine, seriously)." Some advertisements for local businesses, esp those that are run by moms, which is great-happy to have those. The occasional "pole down on Main Road, crazy traffic, go another way" post is very helpful. School fund raising events (like tricky trays and stuff, not in-school stuff) and board of ed meetings are posted.
It's not used by anyone for personal planning or even neighborhood planning (like garage sales, park meet-ups etc) or anything. One member arranges a gathering spot for all the members to meet and grab a drink around the holidays, and that's a close as it gets.
I think we've got a good thing going, I like the set up and it really serves a useful purpose.
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PrettyInPeank
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Post by PrettyInPeank on Nov 11, 2014 16:30:36 GMT
What are the differences and pros/cons of Facebook and nextdoor.com?
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Post by lisacharlotte on Nov 11, 2014 16:31:04 GMT
Our neighborhood has an association fb page. no drama and no restrictions on who can join. I'm baffled that anyone thinks a neighborhood fb page is "private". we also have the Nextdoor.com with our neighborhood. Our neighborhood association is very active in preserving the historic nature of our neighborhood and also provides tons of info on upkeep of old homes. it's the Dundee-Memorial Park Association in Omaha NE. we also have a website and send a monthly newsletter.
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Just T
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Post by Just T on Nov 11, 2014 16:39:03 GMT
Honestly, I think it's pretty crappy to have a neighborhood facebook page and use it to post about situations with neighbors. That seems gossipy and mean, imo. I think a neighborhood fb group is a great idea if it is used to post about events, neighborhood happenings, etc, but to use it to post about real problems or issues with a specific neighbor? Ick. If you have issues with a neighbor, they should be taken up with the HOA, not posted about on fb.
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Post by tracyarts on Nov 11, 2014 16:41:08 GMT
We have a couple of private community facebook groups for my town. One is a general topic group, the other a crime prevention group. The general topic group is pretty slow, not much ever gets posted there. The crime prevention one gets a lot of posts but the admin is always having to step in and moderate because of drama, rumors, gossip, and fearmongering.
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Post by padresfan619 on Nov 11, 2014 16:42:49 GMT
Nope. There is a buy/sell/trade page for our large community but a neighborhood Facebook page could easily have thousands on it.
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Post by Scrappea on Nov 11, 2014 17:00:59 GMT
We have one and I haven't seen it get weird or nasty. We use it to coordinate events (Halloween, block parties, etc.), talk about utilities (our cable has been wonky for a week or so and it was great to find out it was a neighborhood problem and not just our router), and discuss security (car break-in, reminder to lock your cars, unfamiliar cars roaming the neighborhood). Its been really helpful.
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PrettyInPeank
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Post by PrettyInPeank on Nov 11, 2014 17:04:11 GMT
We have one and I haven't seen it get weird or nasty. We use it to coordinate events (Halloween, block parties, etc.), talk about utilities (our cable has been wonky for a week or so and it was great to find out it was a neighborhood problem and not just our router), and discuss security (car break-in, reminder to lock your cars, unfamiliar cars roaming the neighborhood). Its been really helpful. Does your group have a set of guidelines that help prevent negative or nasty problems?
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Post by annabella on Nov 11, 2014 17:22:56 GMT
Yes and I learn about local crime, events and reason for the fire dept visit.
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Post by Scrappea on Nov 11, 2014 17:29:11 GMT
No, it just seems like everybody gets along and doesn't post that kind of stuff.
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Post by eebud on Nov 11, 2014 17:29:12 GMT
Honestly, I think it's pretty crappy to have a neighborhood facebook page and use it to post about situations with neighbors. That seems gossipy and mean, imo. I think a neighborhood fb group is a great idea if it is used to post about events, neighborhood happenings, etc, but to use it to post about real problems or issues with a specific neighbor? Ick. If you have issues with a neighbor, they should be taken up with the HOA, not posted about on fb. In our case, it was taken up with the police, with the HOA, the HOA had lawyers involved, etc. The neighborhood, especially those who lived near the home and saw the constant activity wanted to be kept up to date on what was happening. I live in a master planned community. The HOA covers about 35,000 people. It was important to the people who lived here to know what was going on. Sorry if you don't agree but if you saw what was happening around the home, you would have wanted to be kept up to date too. It took about 6 months but the home has now been sold and new people will be moving in shortly.
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