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Post by workingclassdog on Jan 26, 2021 15:24:37 GMT
How to handle difficult customers.
How to relate to different types of people you work with. Until then all I knew were friends from high school. Working with people that are a few years older than you and different mixes of life showed me more than my sheltered life. Not that it was bad.. just different. How to handle myself in situations that I wasn't used to.
I worked in a restaurant business where you work with all kinds of people with all kinds of backgrounds. I made friends with people I probably would never have to begin with. A kid who lived in the 'projects', a single mom living in an apartment who wasn't much older than me, to fellow classmates, to older men/women just to work part time... you name it. My first real boyfriend. Ya learn a lot in that kind of business. And I loved it.
Oh and how to stand up for myself.
And make strawberry pies... 1,000s of strawberry pies... lol
Edited to add.. how to make change without a calculator!!! Still to this day I do it the same way...
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Post by workingclassdog on Jan 26, 2021 15:33:10 GMT
I worked for my grandparents for my first job. Grandpa taught me how to make change and to keep any bills out while returning the change. That way I’d someone claims to have given you a $20, but you have a $5 laying on the till, you know what change to give. Also, not every job has your grammy make your lunch with quirky jello salads. I learned that as well.. always put that money on top of the register somewhere. Oh I also was taught that you will get robbed and you shouldn't try to jump over the counter to stop him. OR if (in another job) a drug deal is going down in one of the hotel rooms, stay out of the hallway and don't try to grab the guy running out of the room. (I should have been some kind of cop..) lol (this was a nice hotel, Drury Inn)
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Post by workingclassdog on Jan 26, 2021 15:45:14 GMT
I am loving this tread!!!
This isn't a first job what did you learn, but it comes from this work ethic. I will do anything to bring in money if I have to. I had a 20 year job at an accounting firm. Paid well. Cushy job I would say. My boss retired and I lost my job. It was during the recession when jobs were far and few for my profession. I got a job at the grocery store just for some income. I had to fill in at the gas station the store had. I HATED it. People are SO rude at the gas station. And the trash.. Here I am, in my late 40s, dumping gas station trash. NASTY. But I was making money and nothing is beneath me to do if I have to have a job. Thankfully that lasted about six to eight months. Met some great people there and some crummy ones.
My mom has a neighbor who's grandson, who is just a first rate loser, won't get any job where someone is telling him what to do. He has a felony. He didn't graduate. I don't know if he got his GED (I really don't think he did), but he wants to open his own pot business. Good luck with that. No clue how to run a business. No clue what a financial statement is, but he thinks he's gonna do this. Originally he was going to be an eye doctor (without going to school).. this is how smart this kid is.
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Post by malibou on Jan 26, 2021 16:29:13 GMT
My first job was being in the Army, I was 17. Holy cats did I learn things. The first thing I learned was that my parents were right, my smart mouth would get me in trouble one day.
At the end of my first day of basic training, which was the last coed basic training they had, I was over heard imitating a drill sergeant. When confronted, I made it worse by being a smarty clown. Bottom line my punishment was I had to drop and do pushups any time some one in my basic training fucked up and had to drop to do pushups. I was doing hundreds of pushups daily for 3 months. Thankfully I was pretty good at them and in the end I won the sports competition that took place between all of the basic training groups. First girl to win it!
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Post by scrapmaven on Jan 26, 2021 16:39:40 GMT
malibou, thank you for your service to our country. Can you still do pushups like a boss? When my dad was at basic he got nailed for not shining his boots well enough. Apart from ye old toothbrush/bathroom cleaning he had to shine everyone's boots. You don't mess around in the army. I would cave during bootcamp. I don't like to be told what to do.
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Post by malibou on Jan 26, 2021 16:39:48 GMT
I worked Saturdays in an independent jeans shop and I learned to be able to look at someone and know what brand/size of jeans would work for them. I'm on my way! At 56 I don't think I have ever had a pair of jeans I love and that fit right.
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Post by gar on Jan 26, 2021 16:41:24 GMT
At the end of my first day of basic training, which was the last coed basic training they had, I was over heard imitating a drill sergeant. When confronted, I made it worse by being a smarty clown. Bottom line my punishment was I had to drop and do pushups any time some one in my basic training fucked up and had to drop to do pushups. I was doing hundreds of pushups daily for 3 months. Thankfully I was pretty good at them and in the end I won the sports competition that took place between all of the basic training groups. First girl to win it! What a great tale!
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Post by malibou on Jan 26, 2021 16:45:12 GMT
malibou , thank you for your service to our country. Can you still do pushups like a boss? When my dad was at basic he got nailed for not shining his boots well enough. Apart from ye old toothbrush/bathroom cleaning he had to shine everyone's boots. You don't mess around in the army. I would cave during bootcamp. I don't like to be told what to do. I'm not mad keen on being told what to do either. This resulted in my family taking bets on how long it would be before I got kicked out. That just made me more determined. I had a really great 4 years in the Army and realize I would have made an excellent career soldier. The Army had me listed as a male, and couldn't be bothered to correct the error. This led to me getting to do a lot of really cool things that girls didn't typically get to do. Oh, and I'm no slouch in the pushup department. 😁
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Post by scrapmaven on Jan 26, 2021 17:00:49 GMT
WTG malibou . gar, will you go shopping w/me? To this day I have never worn a pair of jeans that look good. Dh and I have an unspoken rule that I will avoid denim at all costs!
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Post by Susie_Homemaker on Jan 26, 2021 17:24:01 GMT
how to make change and to keep any bills out while returning the change. That way I’d someone claims to have given you a $20, but you have a $5 laying on the till, you know what change to give. I learned this the hard way. I had a scammer come in when I was a cashier at Hardee's in high school and he managed to confuse me enough that I gave him way too much change. It only happened once, I learned quickly! I learned to count back change. The registers didn't tell you how much to give back, I had to learn it. I also taught my kids when they started their first jobs. And related to money- I learned to 'run a tape' of every single transaction when I was a bank teller. Our manager had us put in all money- in and out- on the adding machines that ran a tape. We then kept the tape and could go back with the microfiche and find mistakes and correct them. It's a good skill to have!
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Post by slicksister on Jan 26, 2021 17:47:17 GMT
My first job I worked in an "old folks home" from 4-8 pm a couple of days a week. We served the seniors their evening snack and cleaned the kitchen for the next day. Hated that job. Hated it! I don't know what I learned from that job, really. I wasn't there very long. Funny story related to it though, at work we wore a tan uniform dress that buttoned up the front. There was a mall next to the home where I often saw some of the residents. One day I went up to a couple of the ladies and started chatting with them. I soon realized they had no idea who I was in my street clothes. LOL
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Post by 950nancy on Jan 26, 2021 19:31:48 GMT
At 14, I worked at a dining room in a Holiday Inn. I learned that if the plate is full and the seats are empty, the people have just gone back to the buffet and haven't eaten yet.
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Post by workingclassdog on Jan 26, 2021 20:24:15 GMT
My first job was being in the Army, I was 17. Holy cats did I learn things. The first thing I learned was that my parents were right, my smart mouth would get me in trouble one day. At the end of my first day of basic training, which was the last coed basic training they had, I was over heard imitating a drill sergeant. When confronted, I made it worse by being a smarty clown. Bottom line my punishment was I had to drop and do pushups any time some one in my basic training fucked up and had to drop to do pushups. I was doing hundreds of pushups daily for 3 months. Thankfully I was pretty good at them and in the end I won the sports competition that took place between all of the basic training groups. First girl to win it! oh that sucks!!! But at the same time you got strong..lol My daughter wanted to join the Navy and she did. She got all the way through boot camp (and did very well).. she ended up 'getting' a medical discharge over a minor thing which really pissed her off. She was her leader in her group of girls... and some those girls were troublemakers.. So guess who got to do all the pushups? I felt so bad for her when she told me the stories. End the end she got college for almost free because of the Navy thing.. so guess she can't complain too much.
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Post by lily on Jan 26, 2021 22:07:46 GMT
First job was a drug store cashier back in the 70's. I learned that people REALLY liked their cigarettes, photo developing and drugs!
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AllieC
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Post by AllieC on Jan 26, 2021 22:31:16 GMT
I started working at one of Australia's biggest banks a few weeks after I turned 16 (was there for 12 years). I learned how to count notes and coins (fast), customer service & fast data entry. Most bizarrely, we had rifles in the tellers boxes so staff had to learn how to shoot them Fortunately for me, this practice was stopped weeks before my first firing range training.
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Post by birukitty on Jan 26, 2021 23:32:56 GMT
My first job at 16 (besides babysitting) was for my local Parks and Recreation Dept. at a small local park. I worked at the paddle boats with a dock and a pond and was in charge of them all day with another teen girl. This was a summer job. Our duties were to take tickets from the public, put them in the paddle boats making absolutely sure they had their life vests on, gave them the time they were due back and told them to be careful to stay out of the reeds that surrounded the pond. Then we'd sit in our chairs on the dock, bask in the sun and keep track of all of the boats and the people in them. On break we'd jump in the pool next to us to cool off.
I learned-how to talk to and get adults to wear life vests when they didn't want to. keep track of their boat times and call them back in when their time was up. how to constantly rescue paddle boats out of the reeds and get them going again. how to organize the time for several boats and call them back in when their time was up.
We also had to clean all of the boats at the end of the day. It was a great summer job and I had it for two summers.
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Post by scentcrazy on Jan 27, 2021 0:27:07 GMT
Not my first job but as someone who has worked retail (and still does), you learn that people don't read.
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Post by twinsmomfla99 on Jan 27, 2021 0:54:17 GMT
My first real w-2 paying job was as a bagger at a grocery store by my high school. I learned who’s parents were a pain in the ass, who’s were super nice, and even learned that there was a beloved couple of the community that regularly stole from the grocery store I worked at. It was wild. I also learned how to act like a human being with people in service jobs. It takes SO much for me to get aggravated or upset. I have a lot of patience in public. All this! I was shocked at the "upstanding citizens" who were routinely on the "get the check approved at the office before accepting it" list. In 1979, cash, check, or food stamps were the only payment options, and we had to check the "list" before accepting a personal check. I was also introduced to the world of judgy-mcjudgerpants when it came to customers using food stamps. Back in the day of paper food stamps, they got a book of paper vouchers, good for anywhere from $1 to $20. We could give paper food stamps as change, but if there were any coins involved, we had to pay that change in cash. Of course, there were some folks who would buy a 2-cent piece of candy with a food stamp and get $.98 in cash change, which they would then save enough to buy non-food items. Shady, yes, and totally against the intent of food stamps, but also perfectly legal. I can't tell you how many times I caught an earful from a customer in line behind someone who was doing this--"Why do you let them get away with that? They're just going to use it to buy beer!" Maybe so, but I was a 17 yo cashier who had no authority or right to question it, so why were they yelling at me? Even more ridiculous were those who felt it was okay to belittle a food stamp customer for what they bought. MYOB!!!! Probably the most eye-opening lesson I learned was just HOW DIRTY money is! When I saw where people carried their cash on their bodies--ugh, sometimes I wanted to hurl! Or when someone gave me wet paper money--ugh, what is it soaked in? And all that went straight into my cash drawer to be recirculated when dry. I am sure that most former cashiers are a little squeamish about handling money LOL.
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Post by peano on Jan 27, 2021 1:25:52 GMT
1. Compassion! 2. That I didn't want to be a nurse, but I did want to help people. I ended up being a medical lab technologist working in the Biochemistry depts of two large teaching hospitals. For four years, starting when I was 16, I worked full-time all summer and weekends during the school year in Housekeeping at a large hospital. In the summer we would be assigned 2-4 week slots, filling in M-F for the regular employee on their ward. Weekends, we never knew where we would be sent. TMI WARNING - some of the things I describe may be hard to read!
I was a shy teen. A bit of a scaredy cat. When I think about it I am transported to the way I felt back then when entering the Psych ward with my cart of supplies and hearing the door click and lock behind me. I was really nervous entering every room! LOOOONG days on the Psych ward! Tied for hardest assignments were Oncology and Children's Hospital across the street. I had to really brace myself and take a deep breath before entering the rooms there, never knowing what I'd be seeing/ who I'd be meeting if they were awake/conscious. I vividly remember going into a room in Oncology at the hospital for adults and seeing a 16 yo girl, my age. She had super long hair and most of it was on the floor and her pillow. In the children's hospital I saw a young girl and her parents every day for 3 weeks one summer. She was 8 years old and had suffered a massive stroke. She had been a piano prodigy and was unrecognizable from the portrait in her room. I also saw a hydrocephalic child who was many years old. That was really hard. I was thrilled to never have been sent to the Burn Ward, where friends my age were working. the stories I heard were heartbreaking. I don't think my 16yo heart could have handled it! I remember meeting a man who had just been admitted to the hospital. He was alone in his room weeping. He knew that the next day he would have his larynx removed and he would never again be able to speak normally, if at all. I saw him most every day for three weeks, and he cried an awful lot. I always did my very best to make eye contact and let the patients know that I "saw them," and tried to somehow lighten their day a wee bit. One of the most inspiring people I got to meet was a delightful 85 year old man who had gone blind 3 years earlier. At 82 he had learned how to be independent in his new reality! What an inspiration. He had been born in the late 1800s and told me so many interesting stories about the Depression and his childhood prior to that. As hard as it was some days, I have always been very grateful for the personal growth that occurred as a result of my experiences at the hospital. I quit working there when I began working full-time as a lab tech upon graduation. I was in the lab 99% of the time, but on occasion I was assigned to be one of the techs who went to the NICU at specified times each day to draw blood from the preemie babies, and sometimes we had to go elsewhere in the hospital to take capillary samples from patients when the IV nurses couldn't get venous blood draws. I wouldn't trade those experiences if I could. Wow, flanz, that was powerful. Thank you. I learned from my first job I liked the smell of wet metal as it rode on a conveyor belt to the top of a metal tower, as I separated the pieces of steel from the pieces of aluminum from the pieces of copper that had once been a car. I learned that aluminum has a distinctive dull sound when you whack it against the side of the metal conveyor belt in order to ID it so it goes into the right bin. I learned that as the boss's daughter, I didn't have to worry about getting fired or ridiculed for leaving the tower for safety when a big old Arkansas summer afternoon thunder and lightning storm blew in. I realized my coworkers felt they didn't have the same right, and this made a very self-centered teenager a bit more compassionate.
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