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Post by KikiPea on May 4, 2021 22:40:46 GMT
I am a long haul scrapper. I’ve been doing it for over 20 years. My style has changed tremendously over the years, and even though I scrap just for me and DH, I still put my focus on my photos.
I have read yet another post on FB where someone just does not understand, or like, one photo layouts. This person (as well as many others) cannot fathom scrapping only one photo when there is a story to tell!
Here’s my thing, I am a scrapper who may, or may not, have a major story to tell. If I can tell the story in one small photo I will. If the story needs two, 5, 10, 25 I will scrap that many photos, and have many, many times. I may want to highlight one photo and make it artsy while scrapping other photos from the same event on other pages. There are things that these people just do not understand. We are all built differently. We all scrap for different reasons. Some of us have families that we want to pass the memories along to. Some of us have no children and scrap entirely for ourselves. Some of us scrap for the art of it. Some of us like it simple. Some of us like the fluff. Some of us like paper and glue. Some of us like digital.
Why do we have to question why people do the things they way they do? Can we not just enjoy our art and share it with others and not have to worry about others not liking it because it’s not their way? I LOVE sharing here and on other social media platforms, but this question really gets my goat. “I see the trend is now one photo completely surrounded fluff and I don’t like it.” I’m so sorry I’m not your cup of tea.
Getting off my soapbox now. I hope I didn’t offend anyone, but I have just seen this a lot lately, and it’s getting under my skin. I love seeing every single piece of ART, no matter how simple or busy, posted here. I love that you do you! 🥰
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Post by aj2hall on May 4, 2021 22:51:56 GMT
The majority of my layouts are 2 pages with multiple photos. However, I still enjoy single pages and single photo layouts. Missy Whidden (? Not sure I spelled that right) on you tube creates beautiful layouts with a lot of mixed media. Completely different from my style, but I still enjoy watching her.
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Post by grammadee on May 4, 2021 22:55:19 GMT
I agree, KikiPea , that we all have different reasons for scrapping and different ways to go about it. I am really inspired by seeing other people’s creations, and hope scrappers continue to share, whether they craft in my style or not.
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Post by myboysnme on May 4, 2021 23:13:17 GMT
Like you, I have been scrapping this way more than 20 years. If I have one photo I scrap it. If I have only memorabilia I scrap it. If I have 38 photos of DGD in a pink dress with a slightly different facial expression in each one I scrap them. Now back when I used magnetic photo albums, I cropped my photos to fit 4 photos per page and kept going until the book was full. Memorabilia went into a scrapbook. I can see how non scrappers might think it doesn't make sense to have just one photo on a page. My mom's black page albums with white corners only had one photo if it was an 8x10. I may have one photo and no story to tell. I am not a big journaller. I tend to use photos, paper and embellishments to tell the story. When DGD goes to gym each week and I take photos each week, what am I going to say? Basically, I am cropping a whole lot with 90% CM scrappers these days for lack of any other crops, and I see circle cut photos in overdrive and the most basic pages. I have nothing to say anymore about any of it. I want to get my photos scrapped and so do they. If they don't want to but just want to play around, that's cool. Believe me I have no time or desire to pay attention to what they are doing and why. KikiPea your layouts are awesome and you have a really great style, so with that said, don't waste any time or thought on those with a different view. At this point in the hobby, you are a leader, not a follower. As for the trend of one photo, this was a thing in the early 2000's. The focus on the face era. What's old is new again.
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Post by jenna on May 4, 2021 23:22:23 GMT
Yesssss! Anyone trying to gatekeep others' creative outlets need to take a step back and see it's not that serious.
IMO there's a difference between "i don't do that/like that" and some people who get dramatic of "oh my god i don't know why anyone would ever want to do that!!" idk susan, maybe because they enjoy it??? life is short and water is wet, let me live!
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Post by ComplicatedLady on May 5, 2021 0:17:22 GMT
The variety is part of the fun. I like seeing different ways that people scrap. Besides, if you all scrapped the way I did and liked what I like, then I wouldn’t be able to buy as much because it would all be sold out!!
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Post by mom on May 5, 2021 0:42:08 GMT
I completely agree with you. And it is why I very rarely share anything online anymore. Just like in every other area of life now a days, people think their way is right and if you don't do it their way, well, then you're wrong. And not only are you wrong, they will tell you about it. No thanks. I do what I do for me, period.
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Post by Linda on May 5, 2021 1:04:46 GMT
I agree with you - everyone has their own style and their own reasons for scrapbooking. There's no one right way to do it.
It took me a long time to become comfortable sharing my layouts here because they are so simple compared to most that are shared but everyone is so kind and encouraging. I love looking at the arty and mixed media layouts and the pocket layouts and the TNs etc...but I'm not very creative and my goal is to focus on the photos - fancy photo albums in a sense.
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Post by don on May 5, 2021 1:28:18 GMT
Everybody has an opinion, and they are entitled to it. I have had only one "nay sayer", and she blasted me all over the place. She's all rich and famous now, and I still make my own tools if I can.
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Post by caangel on May 5, 2021 1:36:58 GMT
Honestly I think this shows the lack of exposure to diverse people and ideas of the person who is criticizing. If you can't fathom people doing things, believing, living differently from you, you have missed a lot of learning opportunities and need to broaden your world.
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Post by refugeepea on May 5, 2021 1:42:42 GMT
I agree. I was more picky about the "right way" when I first started. It was more about the pressure of having to preserve family memories to be passed on for generations. It took me far too long to realize I do not care what happens to my albums when I die. I also don't care about recording the good and the bad. I record the happy moments and rarely put the bad stuff in there.
When I switched to 12x12 with divided sheet protectors, it was the best decision for me. I am not an artist. I struggle with page design. The only thing that has remained consistent is basic pages.
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Post by refugeepea on May 5, 2021 1:48:43 GMT
I completely agree with you. And it is why I very rarely share anything online anymore. Just like in every other area of life now a days, people think their way is right and if you don't do it their way, well, then you're wrong. And not only are you wrong, they will tell you about it. No thanks. I do what I do for me, period. Or just mentioning you scrapbook. "I wish I had the time!"
It took me a long time to become comfortable sharing my layouts here because they are so simple compared to most that are shared but everyone is so kind and encouraging. I truly love your pages!
Honestly I think this shows the lack of exposure to diverse people and ideas of the person who is criticizing. If you can't fathom people doing things, believing, living differently from you, you have missed a lot of learning opportunities and need to broaden your world. Exactly. My style will always be basic and simple. I can glean ideas from people like Page Taylor Evans. Or from junk journalers who use mixed media. I'm not much of a card maker, but I can find ideas to incorporate into scrapping.
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Post by quinmm14 on May 5, 2021 2:19:19 GMT
Ya know what? Scrapbooking is something I love doing and I look at it as anything goes, there's no rules. I don't make it stressful for myself and I'm not going to let someone else stress me out because they think differently about it.
There are too many other things in life where there are rules to follow so I'm not going to make my hobby have rules. 🙂
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Post by ScrapbookMyLife on May 5, 2021 2:41:01 GMT
People are judgemental. Ignore them!
I scrapbook how I like. Stickers, mixed patterns, photos mounted, frames, bright bold colors, 8.5 x 11. My scrapbooks are only to please myself. I don't worry about anyone else's opinion.
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Post by AussieMeg on May 5, 2021 2:53:34 GMT
I have read yet another post on FB where someone just does not understand, or like, one photo layouts. This person (as well as many others) cannot fathom scrapping only one photo when there is a story to tell! I never knew it was a "thing" to not like or understand one photo layouts, until I read it here on another thread the other day. That's probably because I only really visit digital scrapbook sites, and one photo layouts are very common in digi scrapping. I'm in such a foul mood today, that if I saw a post on FB bagging one photo layouts, I'd probably tell her to %&#$ &#$ @#&%
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Post by christinec68 on May 5, 2021 3:36:01 GMT
One of my favorite things about scrapbooking is that there is plenty of room to do this anyway anyone wants. Since how other people scrapbook has absolutely ZERO impact on someone else's life, they can keep their unsolicited opinions to themselves.
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Post by jeremysgirl on May 5, 2021 11:48:38 GMT
Or just mentioning you scrapbook. "I wish I had the time!" This is my scrapbooking pet peeve. So many people will look at my albums, 21 years worth and say this. You do have time, you just spend your time doing other things. People say that about my crochet projects too. It took me a long time to become comfortable sharing my layouts here because they are so simple compared to most that are shared but everyone is so kind and encouraging. One thing that is consistent in your layouts is that you have beautiful photos. The photos you scrapped this weekend of Hawaii were gorgeous. I don't care how you choose to showcase them, I'm just glad you do. There are too many other things in life where there are rules to follow so I'm not going to make my hobby have rules. This is exactly the way I feel about it too. I do this *for me* not for anybody else. You'd probably be shocked too how many people ask me to crochet things for them and want their particular pattern done with their particular yarn. Uh, nope. I do what I want, when I want. If it takes me 5 years to finish something, so be it. And if I choose to give it away, that's my choice. But I decide what patterns I want to do and with what yarn. I don't craft for anyone else but me. I enjoy scrapbooking. When I look back at all those years worth of memories, I'm so glad I preserved them. I am just glad to see others doing the same and I don't care how you do it. It's funny because non-crafters don't have clue about time and effort that goes into these things. And then within the crafts, so many people are judging what others are doing. That's one thing I appreciate and have tried to instill in my kids---to be authentic. No matter what anyone thinks.
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Post by mikklynn on May 5, 2021 12:20:21 GMT
Those bitches criticizing how someone chooses to create are out there criticizing everything. Some people are just miserable. Screw them.
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Post by jeremysgirl on May 5, 2021 12:32:18 GMT
Those bitches criticizing how someone chooses to create are out there criticizing everything. Some people are just miserable. Screw them. You are probably right. So many times I hear some people bothered by things that just fly right over my head. It's a peaceful way to live to be unconcerned with everyone else.
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Post by hop2 on May 5, 2021 12:45:58 GMT
Well, is it possible they aren’t complaining about that as an over all style? When scrolling thru YouTube or insta I might ‘complain’ about one photo layouts. At some times that’s all there is out there. One photo product heavy layouts. And sometimes it’s hard to find that one photo too. I get it, those people are paid to feature products on layouts not to write a novel. I do one photo layouts, with both big & small photos, there isn’t anything wrong with it as a ‘style’, but we all like variety. I find way more inspiration from fellow peas than from the people who feature products on pages. And sometimes IG can be overwhelming with ‘sales’ pages. Even if I unfollow people who do that, I don’t follow a lot of people so IG just randomly gives me those anyway. So if I complain about too much of whatever, and other than in discussion here I don’t think I have, it’s because I’m inundated with useless to me inspiration because IG or FB or YouTube has decided that’s what they are showing me. I do get ‘tired’ of page upon page upon page of tiny photo and a billion products so I can barely find the photo. It can be like ‘sticker sneeze’ but product sneeze to get as much product as possible on that page sometimes. Then I know I need a break because it’s draining to imagine the costs of that and how I could never afford it. It’s just a buy lots of stuff page and I get that is their job and that’s my cue that I need to find inspiration else where because that is a me problem not a them problem. Other times I like to just scroll thru pretty things and don’t care. Also, when the vibe in the industry is same same all over, it also stems from the lack of diversity in the professional scrapping industry, and that bothers people and they can’t always define it. So they will say I’m tired of... when really they want more diversity of mind/style/background everything. Like I said I don’t ever say that on social media. I’ll say things like that here generically in a discussion. But I would never tell anyone any of that about their page. That’d be rude. Plus, there are several valid reasons for removing the emphasis of your page from the story and/or the photo. For example, if it’s a difficult story or a personal story the person might not want the attention on the photo or the story, they might want that memory documented but not want it in their face every time they are in their books. Or they might want to do their job of scrapbooking but not tell all of us that particular story. Not our business. There’s no wrong way to scrap. But it might not be my thing. It might not be my thing today. But if it’s your thing, do it. And if anyone says anything let us know we can hold your earrings or circle the wagons if necessary.
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Post by myboysnme on May 5, 2021 13:08:52 GMT
It took me a long time to become comfortable sharing my layouts here because they are so simple compared to most You and I have a similar scrap style and I appreciate you sharing your layouts.
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Post by myboysnme on May 5, 2021 13:19:22 GMT
I agree generally there are no rules, but to pursue certain types of scrapping there may be a few rules. If you are really into photo preservation, there are archival considerations. One thing I personally find not good is to cut original photos taken before 1970, when the photo processes were different. I used to think wonky cropping was the way to scrap, until I realized I was mutilating one of a kind photos. Then the scrap instructors started encouraging people to make copies and scrap the copies. So you still end up with boxes of original photos.
I was looking through my son's elementary school scrapbook a few days ago and one year his teacher had given me a stack of photos of him through the year, and she had cut every one of them all crazy. I'm not talking even circles or ovals. I'm talking about when we, some of us anyway, used to cut the photos into weird shapes, cutting out half a wall or cutting around the person in the photo. It made me sad because the things about his classroom and friends were basically cut away. So I always suggest not hacking up photos, but I don't go up to people and say it. I rarely wander around and look at people's pages but CMers love to hold up their completed pages. When someone looks at my pages, however, and they compliment or ask about them, I may throw in that I got my current style because I used to wonky cut and I regretted it so I went from there.
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Post by jeremysgirl on May 5, 2021 13:51:23 GMT
Also, when the vibe in the industry is same same all over, it also stems from the lack of diversity in the professional scrapping industry, and that bothers people and they can’t always define it. So they will say I’m tired of... when really they want more diversity of mind/style/background everything. This is a really good point and maybe a jumping off point to giving others grace. It might be frustration poorly shared in a way that may be slighting someone else. While I would never discount of the feelings of someone who might take offense because it does feel like a personal criticism of yours or my scrapping style, the person might not mean it as a personal criticism, but as a criticism of the industry as a whole. They might be just fine with you doing you, but they want to see more inspiration with people doing what they are doing, using products the way they do.
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Post by Deleted on May 5, 2021 14:01:17 GMT
there's a difference between "i don't do that/like that" and some people who get dramatic of "oh my god i don't know why anyone would ever want to do that!!" That is ALWAYS the line for me. Don't like/agree with one-photo layouts? Don't do them. Don't like/agree with homosexuality, don't be homosexual. But when you start telling other people what THEY can/can't do (or legislating what they can/can't do as an extreme), you've crossed the line.
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Post by craftgranny on May 5, 2021 14:28:19 GMT
I don't scrap at all. Just not into it but I appreciate the art that other's provide through their layouts. If I like it, I comment on it or otherwise just keep scrolling. I follow other scrapper's because I enjoy their art and like seeing what products that they use.
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Post by joblackford on May 5, 2021 14:49:13 GMT
If I like it, I comment on it or otherwise just keep scrolling. I think social media (and society in general) encourages the sharing of opinions (engagement -> time on site -> money to be made by someone...) but even here at 2Ps I am trying to train myself to ask if the comment is timely, necessary, and helpful in some way, or if it's better to just shrug and scroll on by... Sometimes I just write it all out and then delete the parts that probably don't need to be said...
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Post by basketdiva on May 5, 2021 14:49:31 GMT
There are scrapbook styles that just don't speak to me ( and I won't say what they are so just don't comment on them. Sadly because of my dislike for those particular styles, I probably miss out on some good layouts I could use. I don't understand small, one picture pages ( especially when place on top of a busy background) but hey- the scrapper likes it so that's all that matters and I keep my comments to myself.
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Post by infochick on May 5, 2021 19:36:36 GMT
I struggle with multiple photo layouts, but it is a function of me just not taking a lot of photos. Many times I only have one photo of an event, so I scrapbook the heck out of it with all my beautiful supplies. That is what I have gotten used to. Other times I might have more than one photo and need to look to others who scrapbook differently for inspiration on multi-photo layouts. I don't understand the energy criticizing people for how they scrapbook. If it floats your boat, go for it. As hop2 said, it might not be my thing today. Tomorrow it might be. Things evolve, trends come and go, our needs change. It's good to have lots of different kinds of inspiration. If we didn't things would be so boring.
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Post by justjac on May 5, 2021 19:41:52 GMT
I think people don't always realize there is a difference between something not being their style and something being "wrong". I remember when Traveler's Notebooks became the rage, I thought to myself, "Well, I would never do that. The pages are so small," but I certainly never criticized the people who liked them. And lo and behold after seeing different examples, I have actually done a couple TN's. If I didn't see different styles and sizes here and on IG and YouTube I would still be scrapping all my pictures on white 12x12 cardstock with sticker sneeze.
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