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Post by ss on May 10, 2021 16:24:16 GMT
Sixteen years ago, I was diagnosed with lymphoma, found VERY early. Had treatment and have been in remission since.
I am anticipating retirement! Worked 40 years! Just 238 days to go!
Mammogram. Called back. Ultrasound. Biopsy. Seeing surgeon next week.
Not on my radar. Not in my retirement plan.
But once again, found early, very small. Thankful for that. Some days I just think, it’s not a big deal. Other days I’m panicky.
Hoping just for a lumpectomy. I take care of my mom on the weekends. My sister died on pancreatic cancer 3.5 years ago. I can’t let her know what is happening. She would be devastated.
Looking for your lumpectomy stories. I can do this, I think today.
Forgive the woe is me post. I know so many people are dealing with bigger issues. Just stressing here.
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Post by hop2 on May 10, 2021 16:25:28 GMT
Positive thoughts & prayers for you. And hugs
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Post by cadoodlebug on May 10, 2021 16:26:16 GMT
No stories to tell but wanted to let you know I'm thinking about you and hope the treatment is easy and successful.
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peabay
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Post by peabay on May 10, 2021 16:28:52 GMT
There are so many survivors here who can offer you hope and support.
Sending you my very best!!
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Post by mom on May 10, 2021 16:31:17 GMT
You can do this! And on the days you think you cant, come tell the Peas and we will cheer you on!!
Praying for you!
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Post by leannec on May 10, 2021 16:35:01 GMT
Hugs and positive thoughts coming your way!
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Post by femalebusiness on May 10, 2021 16:37:20 GMT
Sending positive thoughts. The worst time is the waiting to know what you are dealing with. May it be only a small blip on your radar.
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Post by gramasue on May 10, 2021 16:41:06 GMT
Of course you're stressing! That sucks. Stay strong and be confident that you will beat this thing. Sending prayers for you.
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Post by KikiPea on May 10, 2021 16:42:21 GMT
I’m so sorry. Sending healing prayers and hugs to you!
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Post by floridagirl on May 10, 2021 16:42:35 GMT
Sending positive healing thoughts
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rgibson
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Post by rgibson on May 10, 2021 16:47:57 GMT
Forgive the woe is me post. I know so many people are dealing with bigger issues. Just stressing here. There is certainly nothing to forgive for your post - this is a very big issue and I can certainly understand why it is causing you stress. I have no experience with this but I have no doubt others will be along who will share theirs. I hope you get some positive news from the surgeon.
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Post by epeanymous on May 10, 2021 16:52:32 GMT
I am sorry you are dealing with this, again. I hope that it's been caught early enough that your recovery is swift and easy.
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Post by gar on May 10, 2021 16:54:08 GMT
You can definitely do this! I don't blame you for having wobbly moments but you've got this!
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hutchfan
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Post by hutchfan on May 10, 2021 16:55:56 GMT
Sending hugs and I will be saying prayers.
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Post by Lexica on May 10, 2021 17:00:58 GMT
Sixteen years ago, I was diagnosed with lymphoma, found VERY early. Had treatment and have been in remission since. I am anticipating retirement! Worked 40 years! Just 238 days to go! Mammogram. Called back. Ultrasound. Biopsy. Seeing surgeon next week. Not on my radar. Not in my retirement plan. But once again, found early, very small. Thankful for that. Some days I just think, it’s not a big deal. Other days I’m panicky. Hoping just for a lumpectomy. I take care of my mom on the weekends. My sister died on pancreatic cancer 3.5 years ago. I can’t let her know what is happening. She would be devastated. Looking for your lumpectomy stories. I can do this, I think today. Forgive the woe is me post. I know so many people are dealing with bigger issues. Just stressing here.You do not need to apologize for being stressed over this. It sounds like you have a great deal on your plate. I have no personal lumpectomy story, but cancer has touched my family so I know the fear that "C" word can bring. My son has been cancer free for years now. My sister, a nurse, whose husband is a doctor in cancer research taught me to find a hospital that sees the majority of whatever type of cancer being dealt with to push the odds of beating it in your corner. You want doctors who see hundreds of cases a year, not two or three. I wish you a successful procedure and a speedy recovery.
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inkedup
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Post by inkedup on May 10, 2021 17:07:10 GMT
Please, don't ever apologize for seeking support!
This is scary news and you have every right to your feelings. Please keep reaching out. Isn't that what invisible friends are for?
I'm sending you huge hugs and hoping for the best possible outcome for you.
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Post by auntkelly on May 10, 2021 17:09:42 GMT
I’m so sorry. I have a friend who just went through something similar and it was so stressful. She had a good outcome and I hope you do as well.
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finaledition
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Post by finaledition on May 10, 2021 17:13:33 GMT
You have every right to be concerned and whine about it. Wishing you all the positive thoughts and a team of professionals to hold your hand through the treatment.
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Post by Really Red on May 10, 2021 17:14:26 GMT
Of COURSE you can have a woe is me post. You need to only think about you right now.
I am glad you are diligent and check yourself regularly. I am happy this is small and hope it's over with quickly. Many hugs!
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cakediva
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Post by cakediva on May 10, 2021 17:15:45 GMT
Hugs...
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peasquared
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Post by peasquared on May 10, 2021 17:25:25 GMT
Sending you my warmest and most positive thoughts your way. You will be in great hands here for your questions and support. The peas are the BEST!
Hugs!!
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tanya2
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Post by tanya2 on May 10, 2021 17:37:37 GMT
I'm so sorry.
great news that it was caught early.
you got this!!
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Post by elaine on May 10, 2021 17:40:43 GMT
(((Hugs))))
I am so sorry you are joining the BC club.
I don’t have a lumpectomy story - I had a bilateral mastectomy. But there are a number of peas here who have had lumpectomies - I’m sure they will chime in. If you put breast cancer in your thread title, you might get more stories. I just happened to open your thread, not knowing what it was about - I would have opened it immediately if it mentioned cancer in the title.
I also had chemotherapy - my cancer was E+/P+/HER2- I can try to answer any questions you have about that.
If there is any support that we can give you, or if you have any specific questions, don’t hesitate to ask. There are way too many here who have walked the breast cancer path, so hopefully at least one person will have an answer.
(((Hugs))) again.
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Rhondito
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Post by Rhondito on May 10, 2021 17:40:45 GMT
I'm sorry you're going through this; it's no fun.
I had the same thing happen to me almost two years ago. I ended up having a lumpectomy - I had very little discomfort and have no scar except for about a 1/2" under my arm where they took lymph nodes to biopsy.
Because my oncotype score came back too high, I had to do chemo but I had very little side effects; I did cold-capping and kept my hair. After chemo I had to do about 36 rounds of radiation, and again had no side effects or burns. I now have to take Tamoxifen for another 9 years because my tumor was fed by estrogen - I'm not too happy about that but it's what I have to do.
Try not to stress or worry too much before you have to, because you may end up worrying for nothing. I wish someone had told me that cancer treatment doesn't always mean you're sick and throwing up, or that not everyone gets horrible burns with radiation - I was terrified for months and it ended up not being anything like I imagined.
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Post by shessoaverage on May 10, 2021 17:50:38 GMT
I totally understand. You have every right to express your anger, disappointment, "why me", and "why now". I'm post-lumpectomy and just finished the first third of my radiation treatments. My lump, like yours, was very small - 3mm, and hadn't spread to the lymph nodes, so Chemo wasn't recommended. I know I am lucky, though I was diagnosed with cancer, so.... Some days I want to cry. Some days I want to clean out closets so DH won't have to do it. Some days, I'm filled with rage. Most days, I feel positive and strong, which is probably the healthiest and most healing mindset.
You've already beaten the bitch once, which is powerful knowledge! You know you can do it again! Come back any time and unload your feelings on us. We can take it, and we are here to support you.
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Post by clarencelynn on May 10, 2021 18:09:41 GMT
I was diagnosed with breast cancer in Feb 2019. It was a very small tumor. I had a lumpectomy in March, 20 radiation treatments and continue to take Tomoxafen for x number of years. The surgery was really pretty easy - recovery (felt good enough to go back to work) within a week. My scars are hardly noticeable. The radiation 'burn' was irritating but cleared up quickly after the last session. As the doctor at the mammography office said when she was talking to me about what they found "this will be a blip in your past that you may forget about down the road'. I hope this sentiment is the same for you, ss !
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Post by mikklynn on May 10, 2021 18:16:35 GMT
Giant hugs. Cancer sucks.
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janeinbama
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Post by janeinbama on May 10, 2021 18:19:19 GMT
Hugs and Strength headed your way. So glad it was caught early.
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Post by Mel on May 10, 2021 18:19:22 GMT
Woe is me? No way!! The Peas are here to share your bad AND your good!! Praying for an easy outcome & recovery!!
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sassyangel
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Post by sassyangel on May 10, 2021 18:24:22 GMT
You know, it doesn’t really matter if it’s comparatively better or worse than mine or anyone else’s issues, it’s big in your world, and therefore deserving of all our support. And this is a great place for support on this. Wishing you nothing but the best outcomes for this.
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