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Post by snugglebutter on Jun 9, 2021 20:58:49 GMT
Prayers and hugs. I haven't been through her exact situation but am familiar with the stresses of pregnancy after loss.
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Post by gar on Jun 9, 2021 21:02:26 GMT
Wishing your DD all the very best and peace of mind for you both.
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kate
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Post by kate on Jun 9, 2021 21:03:04 GMT
Praying for her and her baby.
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Post by christine58 on Jun 9, 2021 21:09:20 GMT
My OB always said no ER for the first trimester with spotting/light bleeding. I too thought the same thing with my miscarriages. But there isn't anything an ER can do to save a pregnancy that early along, and if there is no hemorrhaging it's not life threatening. If someone has signs of an ectopic pregnancy that would be different. My niece was told the same thing...she spotted with both boys (one is 3 and the other is 18 months)
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Post by peasquared on Jun 9, 2021 21:10:04 GMT
I'm saying a prayer for her. It could be something very minor. When I was pregnant with my youngest, I spotted off and on throughout the pregnancy. The placenta was what they called very low and tiny pieces would break off. Everything went just fine. I hope it's something as easy as that. My heart goes out to you. It must be so hard to not be there. HUGS!
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Post by mom on Jun 9, 2021 21:12:12 GMT
I am praying for her. It must be so scary for her. ❤️
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Post by beachbum on Jun 9, 2021 21:13:43 GMT
I had an ectopic pregnancy too (mine ruptured ) and spotted with my first pregnancy after that. That baby will turn 38 next month. Hoping your daughter has a healthy happy baby. Sending thoughts of sticky baby glitter for her.
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Post by Crack-a-lackin on Jun 9, 2021 21:21:01 GMT
Sending prayers and hugs. That is a stressful situation for all.
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Post by leannec on Jun 9, 2021 22:12:23 GMT
Positive thoughts coming your way for your dd!
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Post by Spongemom Scrappants on Jun 9, 2021 22:48:26 GMT
I hope this turns out fine for her and the baby. Really wishing the best for all of you.
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Post by KikiPea on Jun 9, 2021 22:49:45 GMT
So scary. Sending prayers!
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Post by malibou on Jun 9, 2021 23:33:19 GMT
Wish wish wishing that everything checks out fine.
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Post by Skellinton on Jun 9, 2021 23:46:22 GMT
Positive thoughts being sent to your daughter!
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Post by inkedup on Jun 9, 2021 23:50:31 GMT
Oh, how my heart goes out to you both. Pregnancy after a loss is so terrifying.
I lost several babies in between my two boys. When I got pregnant for the final time, I started to bleed. After several losses, I was a mess and was certain we were walking that terrible road again.
But my son stayed put. This story didn't end like the others. He's now an active, amazing 3 year old.
Wishing for the same for your daughter. ❤
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Post by seaexplore on Jun 10, 2021 0:24:57 GMT
I am so sorry. I was about as far along as she is when I had a miscarriage after years of trying. I too was out of town when I started spotting. I have often wondered if I had went to the ER if the outcome would have been different. Dh had said to the doctor we should have went to the ER and she said that this early they probably wouldn’t have been able to do anything. However, I still 13 years later wonder if it would have changed the outcome. I had the same happen and my doctor told me the same. It if was going to happen, it was going to happen no preventing it. I often wonder about my MANY losses in the journey to have my beautiful kids.
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Post by seaexplore on Jun 10, 2021 0:32:10 GMT
casii sending love and healthy baby thoughts to you and your dd. You may not want to read any further- this is what my experience was with early bleeding... I had an ectopic after multiple losses after having my DD. Lost my right tube to it. A month later, I was pregnant with my DS who just turned 5. The heart hurts so much after a loss. They stay with you forever but it does lessen as time goes on. I will say that it sucks the joy out of being pregnant because you're always second guessing every little twinge and always watching for blood that you hope is never there. It sucks. My heart hurts for your DD right now. It's not a good place to be in. I remember when I started bleeding with one of mine at 10 weeks, I was at a teacher workshop and can picture the room and every detail. I called my doctor and he said I could come in the next day but that anything that was in process would continue. I cried so hard all the way home. Went in the next day and had already passed it. No medical intervention can prevent a loss this early sadly. If it is a loss...... be there for her. Let her cry, vent, eat all the ice cream.
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Post by mollycoddle on Jun 10, 2021 0:35:29 GMT
Positive thoughts heading your way!
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Post by J u l e e on Jun 10, 2021 1:30:48 GMT
Prayers and hugs for you both!
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Post by destined2bmom on Jun 10, 2021 1:38:36 GMT
Sending many prayers and healing thoughts to your DD.
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Post by mellyw on Jun 10, 2021 4:16:40 GMT
Many positive thoughts for your DD and grandbaby
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Post by mikklynn on Jun 10, 2021 11:13:59 GMT
Adding my prayers!
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Post by iamkristinl16 on Jun 10, 2021 11:42:44 GMT
That has to be so stressful! I hope everything is ok.
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Post by peabay on Jun 10, 2021 12:39:15 GMT
I really hope all is well.
I had four healthy pregnancies after an ectopic. I really do understand her fear and worry.
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Post by hookturnian on Jun 10, 2021 12:45:38 GMT
Wishing your daughter all the very best.
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Post by casii on Jun 10, 2021 14:13:22 GMT
She flew home this morning and has an appointment for an ultrasound at 1:30. The bleeding lightened up into spotting and she hasn't felt any real cramping. Only upset stomach that she mostly attributes to stress.
It is at once terrible and wonderful to know that many have walked the road she's walked on. She is not alone in her experience even if it's uniquely hers in this moment. Thank you to so many for sharing your stories from loss to hope to healing.
I know I'm not alone that when a crisis is going on, we turn to the Peas for answers or help, but I don't know if you realize that even my DH and my children will say "Ask the Peas" or "What do the Peas say". DD was reassured to know the Peas are all pulling for her. I imagine my family is one of many that feel this way.
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Post by dewryce on Jun 10, 2021 15:24:36 GMT
I’ve been anxiously waiting your update, I can’t imagine how you are feeling right now. Thinking all positive thoughts that this afternoon’s about is reassuring.
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Post by scrapmaven on Jun 10, 2021 16:13:36 GMT
I'm thinking the best thoughts for your dd and her baby.
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Post by twinks on Jun 10, 2021 16:26:06 GMT
Prayers for your DD
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Post by scorpeao on Jun 10, 2021 16:31:15 GMT
I bled early on with my first pregnancy and ended up miscarrying. I got pregnant a couple months later and I bled the entire pregnancy...that baby just turned 24, so bleeding doesn't always mean something sinister. I hope it's just normal spotting for your daughter.
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Post by Deleted on Jun 10, 2021 16:32:24 GMT
Praying for her. I hemorrhaged with Matthew around this stage of pregnancy. There was no explanation for it, but he was fine. I pray she gets similar news.
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