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Post by supersoda on Aug 21, 2021 11:37:00 GMT
I’m so sorry. I hope you can find a way to relax and enjoy your trip. Keeping my fingers crossed and sending positive thoughts to you.
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Post by quinlove on Aug 21, 2021 12:07:42 GMT
((( mom )))
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Post by papercrafteradvocate on Aug 21, 2021 12:37:40 GMT
I just had a mammogram last Friday, it was 3 days later that they asked me to come back for an ultrasound—10 days away. Not sure if that’s a big deal or not! (The 10 days)
I’m in high risk because of family history—and we have family genetics already documented with the hospitals.
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Post by mikklynn on Aug 21, 2021 13:07:50 GMT
Well, rats! I hope you will be able to put it out of your mind (as if) and enjoy your Hawaii trip.
I'll have you in my prayers, dear Pea.
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Post by mom on Aug 21, 2021 13:52:39 GMT
Deep breaths. If it's any consolation I just saw my older sister for the first time since COVID started last year and she was diagnosed with breast cancer. She has gone through surgery and radiation and shingles to boot. Her scans last week show no signs of cancer and she looks absolutely FABULOUS. However this turns out you can and will get through it all. That is awesome! |
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Post by mom on Aug 21, 2021 13:53:31 GMT
The radiologist says it’s nothing. I will discuss further with my doctor when I see her again in a couple of weeks. I’m delighted if it’s nothing, but I want to remind them that the last time I was diagnosed, three different doctors thought it was nothing (four if you count the one who read my mammogram) … right up until the path report came back and it was ugly. I just saw this update, and do remind them about last time! |
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Post by mom on Aug 21, 2021 13:55:25 GMT
Hugs to you.  FWIW, I would make the same decision as you have about the timing of your biopsy. I will be honest - the big reason I am waiting is because my son is stationed in Hawaii and I havent seen him in 9 months. Short of having covid or dying, I am NOT missing that trip so I get to see him. |
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Post by mom on Aug 21, 2021 13:56:46 GMT
I've been thinking about you and this thread. My update: Went for second biopsy today. Hoping to get some results in the next day or so. Hug. Oh friend. I hope your results are good. I will be thinking of you! Let me know what you find out. ❤️ |
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Post by withapea on Aug 21, 2021 13:58:19 GMT
I’m sorry. I know how daunting it is but the not really having answers is the worst. I’ll be keeping you in my thoughts. My best friend had two types of breast cancer at the same time two years ago. She’s doing so well now and is expected to be completely fine.
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Post by Neisey on Aug 21, 2021 13:58:19 GMT
So sorry to read your update but sending positive thoughts your way. I hope that Hawaii will be a great distraction.
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Post by mom on Aug 21, 2021 13:59:14 GMT
I was not expecting your update either. I am hoping you keep yourself busy enough and have a wonderful trip to Hawaii that you have no time to worry until your next appointment. (()HUGS))) I was so not expecting this...to the extent I didn't even take my DH or a friend with me. I really thought it was gonna be a bunch of nothing. Thankfully, the Dr has the nurse take notes for patients. I wasn't even prepared to ask any questions |
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Post by destined2bmom on Aug 21, 2021 14:00:35 GMT
Hugs mom and @zingermack . Enjoy your time with your DS in Hawaii mom. I am sending you healing prayers and positive thoughts. |
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Post by mom on Aug 21, 2021 14:01:39 GMT
I just had a mammogram last Friday, it was 3 days later that they asked me to come back for an ultrasound—10 days away. Not sure if that’s a big deal or not! (The 10 days) I’m in high risk because of family history—and we have family genetics already documented with the hospitals. Oh I hope its nothing! I will be praying for you! |
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Post by mom on Aug 21, 2021 14:02:36 GMT
I’m sorry. I know how daunting it is but the not really having answers is the worst. I’ll be keeping you in my thoughts. My best friend had two types of breast cancer at the same time two years ago. She’s doing so well now and is expected to be completely fine. Oh wow!! Thats crazy (and I totally didn't know that was even possible!). |
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Post by revirdsuba99 on Aug 21, 2021 14:08:37 GMT
mom wishing the very best... Have a great time with your DS in Hawaii! Soak up a bit of sun and master those waves!!
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Post by drivingmisscrazy on Aug 21, 2021 14:14:23 GMT
I’m just starting my journey with this and am in a bit of shock. Went for my annual mammo a week and a half ago. Got a call back for more imaging. Then in for biopsy next day. Last Monday, we were in Boston for my daughter to attend workshops and classes at Berklee. Got the call that it’s cancer. Since we were out of town, my first oncology appointment is Monday morning. I don’t know much and have replayed the conversations in my head. I know it’s invasive ductal carcinoma. I will likely need chemo first then surgery. I’m a bit terrified. Haven’t told anyone outside of dh, sister, and BFF. Decided we will tell kids after my appointment.  |
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Post by SabrinaP on Aug 21, 2021 14:19:31 GMT
Hugs to you. I hope you are able to have a fantastic time seeing your DS in Hawaii.
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Post by mom on Aug 21, 2021 14:27:14 GMT
I’m just starting my journey with this and am in a bit of shock. Went for my annual mammo a week and a half ago. Got a call back for more imaging. Then in for biopsy next day. Last Monday, we were in Boston for my daughter to attend workshops and classes at Berklee. Got the call that it’s cancer. Since we were out of town, my first oncology appointment is Monday morning. I don’t know much and have replayed the conversations in my head. I know it’s invasive ductal carcinoma. I will likely need chemo first then surgery. I’m a bit terrified. Haven’t told anyone outside of dh, sister, and BFF. Decided we will tell kids after my appointment. I am so sorry. Im gonna tag elaine as I think this was the type she had. I could be wrong though. I get not telling your kids till you have more info - knowledge is power and there's no need worrying about all the 'what if's' until you have all the facts. Check back in after your appointment on Monday. We are here for you, even if you just need to vent. ❤️ |
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Post by withapea on Aug 21, 2021 14:30:04 GMT
I’m just starting my journey with this and am in a bit of shock. Went for my annual mammo a week and a half ago. Got a call back for more imaging. Then in for biopsy next day. Last Monday, we were in Boston for my daughter to attend workshops and classes at Berklee. Got the call that it’s cancer. Since we were out of town, my first oncology appointment is Monday morning. I don’t know much and have replayed the conversations in my head. I know it’s invasive ductal carcinoma. I will likely need chemo first then surgery. I’m a bit terrified. Haven’t told anyone outside of dh, sister, and BFF. Decided we will tell kids after my appointment.  I’m so very sorry. It’s scary and overwhelming. I have a different type of cancer, ( bad flavor and prognosis ) so I know a bit of what you’re going through. There’s a lot of support here if you need it. Unfortunately too many of us on the journey. Sending you lots of strength and good thoughts. |
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Post by malibou on Aug 21, 2021 14:33:00 GMT
I've got a long comforting hug for you mom. drivingmisscrazy keeping you tucked up safely in my thoughts while you navigate your new diagnosis. |
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Post by RedSquirrelUK on Aug 21, 2021 15:01:07 GMT
I’m sorry. I know how daunting it is but the not really having answers is the worst. I’ll be keeping you in my thoughts. My best friend had two types of breast cancer at the same time two years ago. She’s doing so well now and is expected to be completely fine. Oh wow!! Thats crazy (and I totally didn't know that was even possible!). Yup it is, I had 3 different types. I didn't know it was possible either. Oh and they think the surgery got it all.  The chemo is belt and braces. |
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Post by tanya2 on Aug 21, 2021 17:35:41 GMT
Hugs to you. FWIW, I would make the same decision as you have about the timing of your biopsy. I will be honest - the big reason I am waiting is because my son is stationed in Hawaii and I havent seen him in 9 months. Short of having covid or dying, I am NOT missing that trip so I get to see him. I did the same thing actually. I did the surgery on their schedule but then I had a vacation planned, so I put off starting chemo until after that was over. And then did the same thing again after chemo before starting radiation. My oncologist wasn't thrilled but it worked out just fine. It was necessary for my mental health. But mine wasn't super aggressive, that might have changed my mind |
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Post by tanya2 on Aug 21, 2021 17:37:53 GMT
I’m just starting my journey with this and am in a bit of shock. Went for my annual mammo a week and a half ago. Got a call back for more imaging. Then in for biopsy next day. Last Monday, we were in Boston for my daughter to attend workshops and classes at Berklee. Got the call that it’s cancer. Since we were out of town, my first oncology appointment is Monday morning. I don’t know much and have replayed the conversations in my head. I know it’s invasive ductal carcinoma. I will likely need chemo first then surgery. I’m a bit terrified. Haven’t told anyone outside of dh, sister, and BFF. Decided we will tell kids after my appointment.  Huge for you. You will get through this! |
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Post by lucyg on Aug 21, 2021 17:58:57 GMT
mom , I don’t like your update, but I want you to get on that plane and forget about possible breast cancer for a week. It’ll still be here waiting patiently for you when you get back, don’t you worry.  Have a wonderful time with your son. My lump I was worried about has practically disappeared, so I’m thinking my doctor was right and it’s a cyst. In any case, I’m over it! First scare in all these years, and I’m so glad it turned out to be nothing. drivingmisscrazy , thoughts go with you as you start on this journey. I had an aggressive, invasive ductal carcinoma that had spread to my lymph nodes, two surgeries, chemo, and radiation, and I’m here to tell the tale 24 years later. Don’t let the damn cancer get you down.
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Post by RedSquirrelUK on Aug 21, 2021 20:04:53 GMT
I’m just starting my journey with this and am in a bit of shock. Went for my annual mammo a week and a half ago. Got a call back for more imaging. Then in for biopsy next day. Last Monday, we were in Boston for my daughter to attend workshops and classes at Berklee. Got the call that it’s cancer. Since we were out of town, my first oncology appointment is Monday morning. I don’t know much and have replayed the conversations in my head. I know it’s invasive ductal carcinoma. I will likely need chemo first then surgery. I’m a bit terrified. Haven’t told anyone outside of dh, sister, and BFF. Decided we will tell kids after my appointment. Big hugs to you. That's what I was diagnosed with in January. Had surgery in March, started chemo in May and I'm 5 down out of 7. Please PM me if you have any questions or want to offload. It's tough, but you've lots of allies here who have been and are going through it. Let us know how you get on on Monday? |
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Post by RedSquirrelUK on Aug 21, 2021 20:05:50 GMT
lucyg that's awesome news! I'm so pleased for you.
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Post by peabay on Aug 21, 2021 20:09:04 GMT
Sending my best to you and to all of our Peas who are dealing with this.
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Post by mom on Aug 21, 2021 21:26:06 GMT
mom , I don’t like your update, but I want you to get on that plane and forget about possible breast cancer for a week. It’ll still be here waiting patiently for you when you get back, don’t you worry. Have a wonderful time with your son. My lump I was worried about has practically disappeared, so I’m thinking my doctor was right and it’s a cyst. In any case, I’m over it! First scare in all these years, and I’m so glad it turned out to be nothing.
drivingmisscrazy , thoughts go with you as you start on this journey. I had an aggressive, invasive ductal carcinoma that had spread to my lymph nodes, two surgeries, chemo, and radiation, and I’m here to tell the tale 24 years later. Don’t let the damn cancer get you down. Now thats a good update! |
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Post by missmcd on Aug 21, 2021 23:29:57 GMT
I’m just starting my journey with this and am in a bit of shock. Went for my annual mammo a week and a half ago. Got a call back for more imaging. Then in for biopsy next day. Last Monday, we were in Boston for my daughter to attend workshops and classes at Berklee. Got the call that it’s cancer. Since we were out of town, my first oncology appointment is Monday morning. I don’t know much and have replayed the conversations in my head. I know it’s invasive ductal carcinoma. I will likely need chemo first then surgery. I’m a bit terrified. Haven’t told anyone outside of dh, sister, and BFF. Decided we will tell kids after my appointment. I was diagnosed in May 2020, smack in the middle of quarantine. I did chemo, surgery, radiation and then six months of oral chemo. If you have any questions or want to chat/vent I'm here. It's no freaking fun but you can do it!! |
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Post by missmcd on Aug 21, 2021 23:32:09 GMT
mom , I don’t like your update, but I want you to get on that plane and forget about possible breast cancer for a week. It’ll still be here waiting patiently for you when you get back, don’t you worry. Have a wonderful time with your son. My lump I was worried about has practically disappeared, so I’m thinking my doctor was right and it’s a cyst. In any case, I’m over it! First scare in all these years, and I’m so glad it turned out to be nothing. drivingmisscrazy , thoughts go with you as you start on this journey. I had an aggressive, invasive ductal carcinoma that had spread to my lymph nodes, two surgeries, chemo, and radiation, and I’m here to tell the tale 24 years later. Don’t let the damn cancer get you down. LOVE to hear this update! Your'e my hero and inspiration, TNBC is so scary and hearing 24 year survivor gives me so much hope! |
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The chemo is belt and braces.
Have a wonderful time with your son.
