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Post by gar on Jan 29, 2022 17:55:21 GMT
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Post by papercrafteradvocate on Jan 29, 2022 18:26:14 GMT
Have you tried massage for your dog? Or a heating pad under a blanket he lays on? Or warm baths? My DM facebook group says dogs with DM can't control their body temp very well and often pant because they are too warm. That they like a fan on them. But that doesn't always work, so it can't hurt to try the heating pad and see if that helps. Thanks for the idea!
She doesn't like baths but needs them because she smells so bad (bladder leaks). We have stairs and I can't get her up the stairs without lots of help. My 22 yr. old is coming over today to help us give her a bath.
I tried a massage a few months ago as our dog PT recommended it but she wasn't a fan. I should try again. Thanks! She has lost most of the muscle in her back legs as she hasn't been able to use her left leg since Oct. and her right leg since Dec.
Thanks for your suggestions! I appreciate them and often forget other options as I keep busy with her day to day care.
Our dog didn’t do much like massages either, but now that he’s used to them, we can go deep into his muscles and joints and roll his fur/skin. He loves it now and it settles him down every time. He’s been squeaking and pacing doing circles, couldn’t sit/lay comfortably lately because of joint pain/arthritis —he was doing it this morning and I got down on the floor and made him come over and I started in on his hind quarters and worked towards his toes and back up through his butt, back, spine, and he’s still sleeping right where I left him 2 hours ago! He tore right through his meniscus in 2020, a $5000 surgery and lots of rehab. He’s 16 years old and still thinks he’s a pup, but cannot always successfully maneuver steps. Try massage, it’s free and it’s both therapeutic for the dog and yourself! ❤️ |
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Post by maryland on Jan 29, 2022 20:15:09 GMT
My DM facebook group says dogs with DM can't control their body temp very well and often pant because they are too warm. That they like a fan on them. But that doesn't always work, so it can't hurt to try the heating pad and see if that helps. Thanks for the idea!
She doesn't like baths but needs them because she smells so bad (bladder leaks). We have stairs and I can't get her up the stairs without lots of help. My 22 yr. old is coming over today to help us give her a bath.
I tried a massage a few months ago as our dog PT recommended it but she wasn't a fan. I should try again. Thanks! She has lost most of the muscle in her back legs as she hasn't been able to use her left leg since Oct. and her right leg since Dec.
Thanks for your suggestions! I appreciate them and often forget other options as I keep busy with her day to day care.
Our dog didn’t do much like massages either, but now that he’s used to them, we can go deep into his muscles and joints and roll his fur/skin. He loves it now and it settles him down every time. He’s been squeaking and pacing doing circles, couldn’t sit/lay comfortably lately because of joint pain/arthritis —he was doing it this morning and I got down on the floor and made him come over and I started in on his hind quarters and worked towards his toes and back up through his butt, back, spine, and he’s still sleeping right where I left him 2 hours ago! He tore right through his meniscus in 2020, a $5000 surgery and lots of rehab. He’s 16 years old and still thinks he’s a pup, but cannot always successfully maneuver steps. Try massage, it’s free and it’s both therapeutic for the dog and yourself! ❤️ Thank you so much! I hope it works as well as it does for you! That's an expensive surgery, and rehab is expensive too. I'm glad your dog is doing better. |
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Post by MichyM on Jan 29, 2022 20:25:36 GMT
I need to go through and catch up on this thread since last night but do want to say something after just reading a couple of posts. To those who are struggling right now, I am truly sorry. This thread is for all of us, whether your life is good today, this week, this year or crap. Hell, I only posted this because I WAS feeling content (which is a pretty unusual feeling for me), and wanted to share.  Many of us care, and are here to buoy each other up as much as possible. |
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Post by MichyM on Jan 29, 2022 20:34:22 GMT
oh, MichyM on a happy note today, I sold another rainbow barn star last week and was happy to sell another this morning. As I was packaging it up, another sold. I've sold a few, enough that I need to make some more. It's not a lot of $$$ but all proceeds are donated to the group my eldest heads, TLU (TeensLikeUs) out of Brairpatch Youth Services for LGBTQI+ teens. There! I just cheered myself up a bit. LOL That's fantastic! Are you selling them online? I just love mine  I moved it so it's to the right of me when I'm sitting at my desk. I cannot thank you enough for it! You are a good egg pea |
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Post by rickmer on Jan 29, 2022 20:36:02 GMT
today is okay. i have had a rough go with working a lot of additional hours yet feeling i am not doing enough. had a bit of a breakdown friday morning, i shed a few tears on a teams call with my boss. she has said working an additional 40-50 hrs a month needs to stop (i do not get paid nor any time in lieu). and not taking breaks needs to stop. that things need to fall apart a bit before they will get us any help. she assured me i am doing an amazing job and wouldn't want anyone else beside her. felt good and i am empowered to fail - lol!! i am stepping away, taking my actual weekend and taking back my life. sorting things around the house, putting some returns in the mail, laundry, clean bedding, a long shower. i am going to submit some expenses for reimbursement, framed some gorgeous prints i had blown up from my trip to BC/Banff in october. eta: restaurants, theatres, etc closed again a few weeks ago here - reopening next week at 50% occupancy. looking forward to going out for a meal.  |
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Post by MichyM on Jan 29, 2022 20:37:45 GMT
Pretty good, today at school one little girl was in the rest room and chatting away to herself so loud I could hear her in the hallway while hanging up art projects. She at one point said, to herself, "Girls, quiet she is trying to tell us a story.". She then talked quietly for a bit then she got loud again and said, "Alright, enough being nice, let's be mean and nasty. Ok? ACTIVATE!!!". I was laughing so hard, unfortunately right after that I was done with my hallway project and had to return to my classroom. Made my day though. I love when kids are weird like that.When I got home 2 of the cats were super happy to see me and I got lots of snuggles. Now it is post dinner and the husband and I are getting ready to watch Yellowjackets. I am sorry for everyone dealing with hard things right now. Right?!? I miss being around children so much. Son and partner say "no children" even though they adore their friends' children, so I live for these stories! |
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Post by MichyM on Jan 29, 2022 20:45:43 GMT
lesley - what a pain! I tagged you in another thread asking how badly the storm was affecting you, before I'd read here. That won't have helped your mood at all I'm sure ((hugs)) craftykitten - lovey to hear that you're feeling well and optimistic  I'm having a lazy Saturday afternoon which is very enjoyable...just had a cuppa and a couple of biscuits This isn't specific to today but...did I tell you guys about my third grandchild? I don't think I did because of how it all happened...2 days after my younger DD had her first baby, a little girl, my elder DD had her (2nd) little boy 11 weeks early  Her other son was 8 weeks early but she'd been having extra monitoring this time and been assured that everything was progressing as normal. Anyway...Alfie had his own ideas and arrived at 29 weeks weighing 3 pounds 3oz. There were a few hiccups along the way but after 5 weeks he came home and is now 8 weeks old and weighs 6 pounds. Thankfully he seems healthy - eyes and ears functioning, kidneys, lungs etc all good. There could still be issues with his eyesight or other things but he's alert and has learned how to suck well although he still has some tube feeds because sucking wears him out 
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Post by moodyblue on Jan 29, 2022 20:50:16 GMT
I am feeling sort of like I can breathe again right now. Last Monday, the 24th, was the date three years ago when my husband died. I worked really hard to have plans and to keep myself busy for several days before, on Monday, and then after that. It’s really hard emotionally, especially if you get sucked into all the flashbacks, and it doesn’t help that few people remember the actual date/say anything. It makes the grief very lonely. I can empathize with everyone dealing with tough times.
Throughout this last week, I have gotten several things done, including some reorganizing, which makes me feel better and more motivated to keep working on things. Today I had a Zoom board meeting and got other stuff done during that as I waited for my part of the agenda. Then after that I watched Tim Holtz's Live on YouTube while also doing some other things. I just sent back the second proof of a newsletter I edit, and am thinking about what I want to eat.
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Post by MichyM on Jan 29, 2022 20:51:55 GMT
I’m genuinely happy for all of you who are in a good place in your lives. Mine is chaotic. I have two adult children with mental health issues and my 6 year old granddaughter living with me in the home that was supposed to be for me and my husband. His death, in October of 2019, began the huge tailspin and it just doesn’t ever get better for more than a day or two. I crave peace and solitude. Edited to add: I recently got a promotion at work and received a significant raise which makes me much happier with my job. Try not to look at each “great, sunshine and rainbows” post as others always being in a good place… I tend to post my feelings in the moment in which I open the thread. For example, yesterday, we got not great news (but no life/death, more annoying) on a medical issue for hubby. The day before, I hated my boss for making me feel “less than” and feeling like a failure. Try capturing the sweet, positive moments in time when you can. First of all KelleeM, you've been through the wringer, several times, and I am so very sorry about that. And you've got a lot of things going on that I'm sure you never wished for at this stage in your life. We are here for you. That said, congratulations to you on your promotion and raise, WTG! 1000 times what papercrafteradvocate said. Holy heck, my life is not sunshine, roses, and champagne. You've all heard me bitch and moan ad naseum. I gotta catch the *content moments* when I can and try to appreciate them all the more. Thinking of those struggling today.... |
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Post by MichyM on Jan 29, 2022 20:56:16 GMT
today is okay. i have had a rough go with working a lot of additional hours yet feeling i am not doing enough. had a bit of a breakdown friday morning, i shed a few tears on a teams call with my boss. she has said working an additional 40-50 hrs a month needs to stop (i do not get paid nor any time in lieu). and not taking breaks needs to stop. that things need to fall apart a bit before they will get us any help. she assured me i am doing an amazing job and wouldn't want anyone else beside her. felt good and i am empowered to fail - lol!! i am stepping away, taking my actual weekend and taking back my life. sorting things around the house, putting some returns in the mail, laundry, clean bedding, a long shower. i am going to submit some expenses for reimbursement, framed some gorgeous prints i had blown up from my trip to BC/Banff in october. eta: restaurants, theatres, etc closed again a few weeks ago here - reopening next week at 50% occupancy. looking forward to going out for a meal.  You've got a good boss! If you feel like sharing your photos of Banff and BC, I'd love to see them, and I bet others would as well. I bet the fall colors were amazing! |
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Post by Deleted on Jan 29, 2022 21:01:29 GMT
Things are quiet and calm. The sun's kinda shining. DH is working on a new pattern for his shop. My sales are holding steady. Not quite November or December levels but much better than I expected. DH is pretty much permanently working from home until his company gets settled into the new space and covid dies down a bit more.
One DS is coming over for dinner tonight. The other got his leave approved so he'll be home for a few days in a month. We're adjusting to the empty nest thing just fine.
I just wish warmer weather would get here. I'm getting cabin fever.
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Post by Delta Dawn on Jan 29, 2022 21:22:49 GMT
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Post by zella on Jan 29, 2022 22:02:58 GMT
It's been a bit of a rough week. I don't want to talk about it on here, but my eldest DD has lost her damn mind and I am SO disappointed in her. Keeping the lines of communication open, though. Doing the GI prep REALLY messed up my body. I am stuck in bed for day 3. Can't sit up for long. Can't use my arms for long (so minimal typing, no coloring), can't do anything crafty. Any of these activities (or walking or standing) bring on pain and attacks of weakness or paralysis. It sucks. But I don't feel sick, and I'm grateful for that. I'm just a totally useless lump. Gah!
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Post by curiouscrafter on Jan 29, 2022 22:53:49 GMT
My day was suppose to be crafting, but I found the couch instead. I have the heated blanket on me, a bag of candy, a cup of cocoa and reality TV on - Loving my day!!
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Post by PLurker on Jan 30, 2022 0:13:53 GMT
oh, MichyM on a happy note today, I sold another rainbow barn star last week and was happy to sell another this morning. As I was packaging it up, another sold. I've sold a few, enough that I need to make some more. It's not a lot of $$$ but all proceeds are donated to the group my eldest heads, TLU (TeensLikeUs) out of Brairpatch Youth Services for LGBTQI+ teens. There! I just cheered myself up a bit. LOL That's fantastic! Are you selling them online? I just love mine I moved it so it's to the right of me when I'm sitting at my desk. I cannot thank you enough for it! You are a good egg pea Yes I am. After putting them online, a got a sale here and there but not that frequently. It was just fun to see them being found and sold the 3 in just a matter of days, especially the 2 within hours or minutes. I almost overlooked the second ship notification as I thought "clearly that's just a hiccup as I'm packaging it up already'. Lol Not huge money for them, the yoots as cousin Vinny/Joe Pesci would say, but every little bit helps, right? and I enjoy making and sharing as you've probably gleaned by now. |
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Post by waffles on Jan 30, 2022 0:54:28 GMT
Another day, a different story,
My ra is flaring up again. I wound up sleeping most of
the day away, which I hate.
I’ve also got a knot trying to come up on my right
Index finger.
Hopefully tomorrow will be a better day.
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Post by Anita on Jan 30, 2022 0:59:56 GMT
Just so damn frustrated. We contracted with what I thought was a reputable local company to install a fence SIX WEEKS ago. So far I have about ten posts in the ground. Some of their excuses were legitimate, and they can't control the weather, but now things are ridiculous, I am fed up with their excuses, and I'm going to call another company on Monday. I'm done. I've been out walking dogs for weeks in subzero temps because there's no yard to let them do their business, and I'm tired of getting sick over and over this winter. I am at the point of frustration that I actually regret buying this house without an already-fenced yard. Even if they magically got my fence put in tomorrow, and it was made of gold, I wouldn't give them a good review online. That's gone forever.
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Post by MichyM on Jan 30, 2022 2:10:32 GMT
That's fantastic! Are you selling them online? I just love mine  I moved it so it's to the right of me when I'm sitting at my desk. I cannot thank you enough for it! You are a good egg pea  Yes I am. After putting them online, a got a sale here and there but not that frequently. It was just fun to see them being found and sold the 3 in just a matter of days, especially the 2 within hours or minutes. I almost overlooked the second ship notification as I thought "clearly that's just a hiccup as I'm packaging it up already'. Lol Not huge money for them, the yoots as cousin Vinny/Joe Pesci would say, but every little bit helps, right? and I enjoy making and sharing as you've probably gleaned by now. Um yes 😁 Have you shared the link with us here? Or if you have, would you again? |
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Post by PLurker on Jan 30, 2022 16:24:20 GMT
Yes I am. After putting them online, a got a sale here and there but not that frequently. It was just fun to see them being found and sold the 3 in just a matter of days, especially the 2 within hours or minutes. I almost overlooked the second ship notification as I thought "clearly that's just a hiccup as I'm packaging it up already'. Lol Not huge money for them, the yoots as cousin Vinny/Joe Pesci would say, but every little bit helps, right? and I enjoy making and sharing as you've probably gleaned by now. Um yes 😁 Have you shared the link with us here? Or if you have, would you again? One place I have them is etsy. I'll (try to) post link below. FunnyFarmTreasures It's rather a half-assed attempt at a shop, really should put more effort in. I do need to make more rainbow stars as I think I'm down to two. They come put together so smaller is cheaper to ship but I am toying with idea of only partially connected to be able to ship in smaller box and including instructions, screws and components to easily put together. Then larger ones might be more reasonable to ship, I'm hoping. I'm not moving really fast with that though. Surprise! It's cold out and my wood and tools are in garage. Brrr... (not lazy at all LOL) So by spring/early summer? Who knows, maybe "talking about it" will start a fire under my a$$ but I'm not counting on it. I do feel good with every donation though, and my "kid" who heads the group loves it and is my biggest source of encouragement and support. If I get my butt in gear again, I'll let ya know. But don't hold your breath. I seem to only have 2 speeds. Stop! and Go! I'm currently on pause. If this link doesn't work, I think there is one on my Instagram www.etsy.com/shop/FunnyFarmTreasures?ref=search_shop_redirect |
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Post by MichyM on Jan 30, 2022 19:50:32 GMT
Um yes 😁 Have you shared the link with us here? Or if you have, would you again? One place I have them is etsy. I'll (try to) post link below. FunnyFarmTreasures It's rather a half-assed attempt at a shop, really should put more effort in. I do need to make more rainbow stars as I think I'm down to two. They come put together so smaller is cheaper to ship but I am toying with idea of only partially connected to be able to ship in smaller box and including instructions, screws and components to easily put together. Then larger ones might be more reasonable to ship, I'm hoping.I'm not moving really fast with that though. Surprise! It's cold out and my wood and tools are in garage. Brrr... (not lazy at all LOL) So by spring/early summer? Who knows, maybe "talking about it" will start a fire under my a$$ but I'm not counting on it. I do feel good with every donation though, and my "kid" who heads the group loves it and is my biggest source of encouragement and support. If I get my butt in gear again, I'll let ya know. But don't hold your breath. I seem to only have 2 speeds. Stop! and Go! I'm currently on pause. If this link doesn't work, I think there is one on my Instagram www.etsy.com/shop/FunnyFarmTreasures?ref=search_shop_redirectYES! I think I mentioned back when you surprised me with mine that I think a kit would be a great way to go. When you really get things up and running I hope you'll let us know so we can promote the hell out of the kits for you. If you can get them together a couple of months before PRIDE in June the timing would be perfect, yes? |
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Post by Skellinton on Jan 30, 2022 20:22:25 GMT
Um yes 😁 Have you shared the link with us here? Or if you have, would you again? One place I have them is etsy. I'll (try to) post link below. FunnyFarmTreasures It's rather a half-assed attempt at a shop, really should put more effort in. I do need to make more rainbow stars as I think I'm down to two. They come put together so smaller is cheaper to ship but I am toying with idea of only partially connected to be able to ship in smaller box and including instructions, screws and components to easily put together. Then larger ones might be more reasonable to ship, I'm hoping. I'm not moving really fast with that though. Surprise! It's cold out and my wood and tools are in garage. Brrr... (not lazy at all LOL) So by spring/early summer? Who knows, maybe "talking about it" will start a fire under my a$$ but I'm not counting on it. I do feel good with every donation though, and my "kid" who heads the group loves it and is my biggest source of encouragement and support. If I get my butt in gear again, I'll let ya know. But don't hold your breath. I seem to only have 2 speeds. Stop! and Go! I'm currently on pause. If this link doesn't work, I think there is one on my Instagram www.etsy.com/shop/FunnyFarmTreasures?ref=search_shop_redirectYou have one left now. |
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Post by luckyexwife on Jan 30, 2022 20:53:17 GMT
I'm sorry for everyone struggling.
I am struggling, and I don't know how to make it better. I don't want to get bitter, so I am trying really hard to move forward. My heart hurts so much.
I'm doing the bare minimum, but I want to feel happy again.
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Post by PLurker on Jan 30, 2022 21:26:59 GMT
YES! I think I mentioned back when you surprised me with mine that I think a kit would be a great way to go. When you really get things up and running I hope you'll let us know so we can promote the hell out of the kits for you. If you can get them together a couple of months before PRIDE in June the timing would be perfect, yes? Yes! These smaller ones, 13-14" across don't require any oversize surplus postage if I mail them flat. It's the biggere that would be more cost effective broken down/not fully assembled. I will be figuring that out. You have one left now. I thought perhaps the timing was a bit suspiciously close to this post. I already have it packaged up, just came on to print label and saw your notification first! I hope you enjoy it. You have to like rustic though, lots of imperfections in reclaimed and pallet wood. If you don't like, DM me and I'll refund or replace, my pea friend. Now off to print the label before "squirrel!" happens again! Now you both have be sparked back to work. Brought some boards in from the garage to get painting... You have one left now. and, of course THANK YOU from both me and the TLU kids! |
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Post by Skellinton on Jan 30, 2022 21:35:06 GMT
YES! I think I mentioned back when you surprised me with mine that I think a kit would be a great way to go. When you really get things up and running I hope you'll let us know so we can promote the hell out of the kits for you. If you can get them together a couple of months before PRIDE in June the timing would be perfect, yes? Yes! These smaller ones, 13-14" across don't require any oversize surplus postage if I mail them flat. It's the biggere that would be more cost effective broken down/not fully assembled. I will be figuring that out. You have one left now. I thought perhaps the timing was a bit suspiciously close to this post. I already have it packaged up, just came on to print label and saw your notification first! I hope you enjoy it. You have to like rustic though, lots of imperfections in reclaimed and pallet wood. If you don't like, DM me and I'll refund or replace, my pea friend. Now off to print the label before "squirrel!" happens again! Now you both have be sparked back to work. Brought some boards in from the garage to get painting... You have one left now. It is actually a gift for my mom. She will love it! She is a quilter and since my nephew (her VERY favorite person, bar none- not even her own children!) has 2 mothers my mom is a huge supporter of Pride. She will be so pleased to know what the proceeds are going to, as am I. She just got her house painted and a new deck, this will be such a beautiful addition to her house. I will be sure to post pics and leave a review on Etsy for you! |
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Post by scrappinspidey2 on Jan 30, 2022 22:44:33 GMT
I’m having a hard time. Today is very hard despite my attempts to ease the struggle. I don’t know what to do or who to turn too. Unfortunately it encompasses both personal and professional. I’m drowning in it all.
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Post by moodyblue on Jan 31, 2022 1:47:21 GMT
I’m having a hard time. Today is very hard despite my attempts to ease the struggle. I don’t know what to do or who to turn too. Unfortunately it encompasses both personal and professional. I’m drowning in it all. I’m sorry. I wish I could help. I can listen if you need an ear and a heart. I have a bracelet I got after my husband died; it says "Just Breathe” on it. When times are tough sometimes there are moments when just breathing is the best you can do. |
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Post by Delta Dawn on Jan 31, 2022 4:05:26 GMT
I have some minor concerns. My never sick father has a sore throat. Nothing bothers him but he said it hurt a bit. Manspeak oh hmmmmm?
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Many of us care, and are here to buoy each other up as much as possible. 
I moved it so it's to the right of me when I'm sitting at my desk. I cannot thank you enough for it! You are a good 
I moved it so it's to the right of me when I'm sitting at my desk. I cannot thank you enough for it! You are a good 
