lindab
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Post by lindab on Feb 27, 2022 1:05:19 GMT
During the last three/four days, I am not myself. Grieved over Ukraine and trying to learn as much as I can to understand it all,the reports are leaving us all heartbroken and filled with terror and sadness....but is it affecting anyone else physically and emotionally?
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Post by Scrapper100 on Feb 27, 2022 1:08:46 GMT
You aren’t alone. I have been reading too much Twitter and not feeling like doing anything. Seeing what is happening there is just so sad.
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Post by jovifan on Feb 27, 2022 1:09:08 GMT
Yes! We are so short at work, I have been working so many days in a row. Today was my first day off in 2 weeks. Lots of sadness going on with everyone around me. Deaths, sickness's, family drama. And now the Ukraine stuff....it seems like so much going on. (hugs)
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pilcas
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Post by pilcas on Feb 27, 2022 1:14:32 GMT
Yes, this tragedy in Ukraine has definitely been a downer. I don’t even want to think of all the future ramifications. The world seems to just be getting worse and worse.
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purplebee
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Jun 27, 2014 20:37:34 GMT
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Post by purplebee on Feb 27, 2022 1:15:40 GMT
Yes. I think it’s the fact of another horrific situation being piled on top of the pandemic, and then add the nightmare of the trump administration and the ongoing attempt to dismantle our democracy by his cult members. It’s so much at once, much of which is out of our control. I feel your pain, and I’m sure many others do too. Hugs…
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valincal
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Jun 27, 2014 2:21:22 GMT
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Post by valincal on Feb 27, 2022 1:24:01 GMT
You’re not alone. ❤️
I have a pit of anger and sadness and disappointment in my gut these days and I need to make a concerted effort to focus on the good in my life and this world.
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Post by Linda on Feb 27, 2022 1:24:58 GMT
((((Hugs))) you're not alone at all
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Just T
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Post by Just T on Feb 27, 2022 1:33:31 GMT
You definitely are NOT alone. I have spent the past two days glued to my television. My heart just aches for what those in Ukraine are going through right now. Seeing them walking down highways with babies strapped to their chest, or pushing strollers, and carrying cases of water...UGH. And knowing also that it is so cold there right now. As I sit snug and warm in my house during what has been some cold, icy days, I can't find a way to wrap my mind around it. I can't imagine having to leave on foot, with my children, while my husband and brothers and father have to stay behind to be prepared to fight.
It's all too much, and it's unfathomable.
I am heartened though by hearing how Poland and Hungary are letting Ukrainians into their countries whether they have papers or not. I'm heartened by hearing that today countries made moves that will hopefully cripple Russia financially and help this end sooner.
I keep typing and deleting things because I am having a hard time putting my thoughts into words.
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Post by maryland on Feb 27, 2022 1:45:10 GMT
Yes, it is very depressing. And it is really bothering me that they are not letting the men leave. It makes me so sad. I wish everyone who wants to escape be able to, and hopefully able to safely return at some point. And all the unnecessary destruction to those peoples homes and lives. Makes me so sad.
And yes, on top of the pandemic, Trump, anti vaxxers. It makes me sad that there are so many uncaring people out there. I am trying to focus on just loving my friends and family, animals, my kids universities and the beach. And I love the peas! It will take me a while to get faith in humanity like I did before 2016.
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Post by epeanymous on Feb 27, 2022 1:57:34 GMT
Yes. I have been very anxious. I think a lot of us who spent our formative years in the Cold War have been set off by the Russian invasion of Ukraine.
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Post by pepperwood on Feb 27, 2022 2:03:35 GMT
Yes, I was wondering why I have felt so down. I am not an emotional person and am surprised it hit me so hard. I just got off the phone with my boyfriend and that was pretty much all we talked about. He was angry about Ukraine and I felt even worse afterward.
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oh yvonne
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Post by oh yvonne on Feb 27, 2022 2:27:37 GMT
Yes me too. I’ve been so upset by Ukraine and the news here in the States with Trump supporting Putin.
We just had a mild earthquake and it about sent me over the edge.
I need some pot to mellow out I swear.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 27, 2022 2:52:18 GMT
YES. I have kept away from the news for the past 3 months. It's 3 months today that DH passed away. The news has become just too much for me to handle. You're not alone.
Hearing tidbits about our idiot Gov DeathSantis down here, the "Don't Say Gay" Bill being passed in the FL House already and hearing stupid Trump every time he opens his fat mouth down here, it irritates me to no end.
Seeing what's been going on in Ukraine these past few days has literally turned my stomach. For Putin to attempt to play his lame mind-games is just stupid at this point. He seems desperate. I feel for those people choosing between a beloved pet's safety and just fleeing for their own safety (hopefully). It's hard to fathom, but it could easily happen here or anywhere.
IMO, that is why I speak out against such lunatics in power. That is why I really do detest it down here in FL. There's so much backward hatred in politics, and I'm not sure if these politicians even believe in what they say, or if they're looking for more votes. Either way it makes me sick and I'd love to get out.
I pray for the people in Ukraine. I pray that we all do ban together and knock Putin down. This is enough now! I pray that all of us who are having a tough time with political and/or personal issues, can find some peace and some moments of sanity. Seems to be getting tougher all of the time these days.
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Post by putabuttononit on Feb 27, 2022 5:41:57 GMT
Yes. Have even had nightmares. There’s a heaviness in my heart and I feel so helpless. I watched a video of a tank running over a civilian in a car. I’ll never forget that image and I dearly wish I hadn’t watched it.
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Post by candleangie on Feb 27, 2022 5:54:32 GMT
You’re definitely not alone. Everyone I work with agreed it was a super strange week, even before Putin decided to start a war.
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Post by brynn on Feb 27, 2022 6:04:27 GMT
Yes. I have been very anxious. I think a lot of us who spent our formative years in the Cold War have been set off by the Russian invasion of Ukraine. Definitely. I grew up close to a USAF radar quadrant. I went to school with children of USAF airmen.
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Post by Eddie-n-Harley on Feb 27, 2022 6:23:55 GMT
Yes. I have been very anxious. I think a lot of us who spent our formative years in the Cold War have been set off by the Russian invasion of Ukraine.This is not what I expected when everything from the 80s started coming back. One of the things that is making me so furious is to see all of the Ukrainian people, military and civilian alike, fighting back (the solider who blew himself up on the bridge is going to be in the historical retellings of this)... all of the other countries coming to help (SO just told me there are lines of cars at the Romanian border of ordinary citizens there to take in refugees)... and then to remember that half of this country couldn't even be bothered to put on a frickin mask to protect other people because it was just too damn "inconvenient," and that mostly the same half would prefer to send refugees back to their home countries to die over granting them asylum.
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Post by corinne11 on Feb 27, 2022 6:41:31 GMT
Yes. Have even had nightmares. There’s a heaviness in my heart and I feel so helpless. I watched a video of a tank running over a civilian in a car. I’ll never forget that image and I dearly wish I hadn’t watched it. It was so awful to watch but I am pretty sure the man survived. Some people came and opened up his car. He looked like he was conscious. I hope he is getting medical help.
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Post by malibou on Feb 27, 2022 9:13:39 GMT
Yes me too. I’ve been so upset by Ukraine and the news here in the States with Trump supporting Putin. We just had a mild earthquake and it about sent me over the edge. I need some pot to mellow out I swear. Impending doom is creeping on me. I've been away from my home for 2 months and I'm not sure when I will get home. I miss my husband and my home. I was in the Army towards the end of the cold war and spent my time very specifically in defending against it, the Ukraine thing is making my heart ache. If I were home I'd come hook a girl up! 😈 I'll let you know when I'm back.
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RedSquirrelUK
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Post by RedSquirrelUK on Feb 27, 2022 12:00:20 GMT
Yes. I'm another one having nightmares. And DH is just being a grumpy old man. I'm not sure how much more fear and worry we can take.
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Post by hop2 on Feb 27, 2022 13:20:26 GMT
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Post by peasapie on Feb 27, 2022 14:01:26 GMT
I know I can get sucked into the pit of sadness, so I’m staying away from too much news and spending more time exercising and visiting with friends. Watching too much tv isn’t good for me.
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TankTop
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Post by TankTop on Feb 27, 2022 14:03:42 GMT
Yes! I am so disgusted with so many things right now. I feel guilty for leading my normal life.
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Post by papercrafteradvocate on Feb 27, 2022 15:07:26 GMT
Not alone.
Tears, constant body aches, more waking with headaches and feeling totally helpless at being able to help in any way.
It’s sad, overwhelming and anxiety filled.
It’s hard to enjoy little good things.
It’s like watching the bad guys in every aspect win all the time.
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Post by papercrafteradvocate on Feb 27, 2022 15:08:43 GMT
Yes. Have even had nightmares. There’s a heaviness in my heart and I feel so helpless. I watched a video of a tank running over a civilian in a car. I’ll never forget that image and I dearly wish I hadn’t watched it. I saw that too. There’s another video of that same tank backing up over it again. Ukrainian citizens running to pull the driver out.
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Post by mollycoddle on Feb 27, 2022 15:17:20 GMT
Yes. A friend and I were just talking about this. People in general seem to be irritable and stressed out. You see it IRL and here, too. You can see it in many threads. Everyone is stressed.
What can we do here and IRL?
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Post by gar on Feb 27, 2022 17:07:26 GMT
A feeling of being overwhelmed washes over in some moments...2 years of the pandemic during which I lost my Mum, and now a war started by a megalomaniac. I just want to not feel worried, not to have that underlying, nagging anxiety and to feel that freedom of lack of stress again.
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Post by catck on Feb 27, 2022 18:45:12 GMT
Yes, I'm having trouble sleeping. Lay awake wondering if this is the end of the world, why has Putin been allowed to get away with all the awful things he's done and whether I will ever get to the UK to see my two GDs. First it was Covid and now Putin. I feel so bad for the people of Ukraine, we all want to live the best life possible and now their lives have been turned upside down and the rest of the world has the worry of nuclear threats made today
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craftykitten
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Post by craftykitten on Feb 27, 2022 19:00:24 GMT
I think it would be more unusual for someone not to feel “off” at the moment. There is a lot going on globally, and we still all have our own troubles. I’m not at my best health-wise right now so I know I haven’t got a lot to give others in terms of support. Step away from being online, try and find something that brings you joy, focus on something small and achievable. One step in front of the other. Hugs to everyone who is struggling right now.
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Post by Charlotte on Feb 27, 2022 19:06:59 GMT
We picked up groceries yesterday and I ordered extra of everything. DH was annoyed when unloading the car and said "I am going to need you to bring your prepper attitude down from an 8."
Yet this morning we are researching solar power charging units, generators, the cost of a Geiger counter, and what room in our home would be the safest to survive nuclear fallout.
This is not how we should be spending our Sunday morning.
Hugs to you all.
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