blue tulip
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Post by blue tulip on Apr 6, 2022 17:37:17 GMT
we lived in a rural area, no where to run errands to. but i was probably about 11 when i was allowed to ride my bike 2 miles to a gold course that had a snack stand, and buy a candy. i had to take my closest in age brother with me tho, he was 18 mos younger.
there were no sidewalks, but hardly any traffic.
oh, i was old enough to ride my horse alone several miles out of sight around our house when i was about 9?
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christinec68
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Post by christinec68 on Apr 6, 2022 17:43:00 GMT
When I was 8/9 years old (3rd grade), I was allowed to go certain places by myself like school, the candy store across the street (to get cigarettes for my parents ) and the small grocery/deli next door. In fourth grade, I could go all over the neighborhood.
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peabay
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Post by peabay on Apr 6, 2022 17:57:27 GMT
I was in 4th grade when I was allowed to walk to the candy store a few blocks from my grandparents' house alone - so 10? Had to cross suburban neighborhood streets, but nothing dangerous.
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Post by chlerbie on Apr 6, 2022 19:02:21 GMT
I walked to and from school right away in kindergarten. I didn't really run errands or anything though until I was around 10. I played all around in the neighborhood by myself and would come home when I heard my mother whistle. Starting at 10, I also came home to an empty house and was a "latch key kid."
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Post by ScrapbookMyLife on Apr 6, 2022 19:19:53 GMT
Around 5 or 6. Walking or riding bike, to liquor/convenience store to buy cigarettes for my Mother and one piece(or however many pieces one could acquire for a penny) of penny candy for myself.
As a child and teen, we ran the streets all day, any day there wasn't School or an obligation we had to go to. So did the rest of the neighborhood kids.
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Post by 950nancy on Apr 6, 2022 19:23:10 GMT
Run errands? When I got a driver's license. Run the streets? Probably as soon as my brothers would allow me to tag along. I was pretty free range by around 8 though.
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Post by Rainy_Day_Woman on Apr 6, 2022 19:35:20 GMT
We lived in an unsafe neighbourhood, so we didn't go out ourselves.
I do remember walking to school with my friends in senior kindergarten, so I guess I was 5 or 6? It was just across the street. I don't know if that was a regular occurrence or not though.
We lived in an apartment, and I was only allowed in the elevator by myself in grade 1, I think. Which makes me laugh a bit, because my son is in grade 1, and I won't let him use the elevator himself, and we live in a very safe building / neighbourhood!
We moved to a suburb when I was in grade 4, so my younger brother had very different allowances of what he could do when we lived someplace safer.
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Post by workingclassdog on Apr 6, 2022 19:55:29 GMT
This is a horrific story about being 'old enough'. In the 1970s we lived in Topeka, KS. (we moved a lot) and the realtor became friends with my parents. They were friends for a few years even after we moved. The realtor/husband had 3 kids, 2 were twins, I think a boy and girl. (My mom told me this story years later btw) The mom, I guess, finally let the son ride his bike by himself for the first time around the age of six and he was able to ride across a field to a bowling alley (probably to get candy or something like that)... Never made it home. He was found in the creek nearby. His first time being a big boy and the worst thing happens. No one was ever charged. It dragged through the courts for 20 years or something like that.
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ModChick
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Post by ModChick on Apr 6, 2022 20:29:40 GMT
I grew up on an acreage with the nearest store about 15kms away so no walking to stores at an early age BUT my best friend at the time lived about 30kms away but there was a short cut through the forest so my parents would drop me off at one end of the forest a bit of away down the road from our acreage and I’d walk through the forest to the road at the other end of her house. 😂Technically not a short cut as it took me longer to walk that then if we’d have just drove around the dirt roads to her house. This was in northern Alberta, all country roads and very spaced out farms. We didn’t see bears or any other large animals much where we were so I’d say that was a pretty safe walk for an 8 year old. I felt very adult walking alone through the bush to meet her. Lol.
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Post by Zee on Apr 6, 2022 20:35:20 GMT
Probably five? I ran around the neighborhood and stuff. At six I was walking to and from school alone. I think I was 8 the first time I rode a city bus alone. I don't know how old I was when I was running errands but we used to go get my friend's mom cigarettes when we were pretty young, definitely early grade school. She sent a note with us and gave us extra money for candy
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luckyjune
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Post by luckyjune on Apr 6, 2022 20:47:47 GMT
I walked seven blocks to and from school from ages 5-8. Then we moved and I had to ride a bus to school. When we lived in town, we had a corner store that required crossing two streets: one not so busy and one very busy. I think I was allowed to go there with a neighborhood friend around age 5. My mom could watch us out the kitchen window, which I'm sure she did. We ran into the Safeway from the car to pick up milk on our own at about 7. It wasn't until I was an adult and my mom was watching my kids that I realized she did that on purpose as a way to foster independence. My own kids had free run of our neighborhood as they were growing up, as long as they traveled in a pack with the other cul de sac kids and I knew where they were.
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kelly8875
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Post by kelly8875 on Apr 6, 2022 21:00:46 GMT
We lived in the country, so there was nothing near us at all. But I know we were playing outside and in the timber by ourselves very young. Based on a memory of being at a certain house, I was 3-4-5 outside alone. I also remember being at my grandparents house in town and riding bikes/scooters/big wheels up and down the sidewalks around 4 alone. as long as we didn't cross a street we were allowed to do it.
When I turned 16, my parents sent me on a 500 mile road trip alone. I knew the way, it didn't seem any big deal.
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Post by sunnyd on Apr 6, 2022 21:08:36 GMT
Same as lesley! I was 4 and sent to the corner market (had to cross a street & around the corner) for cigarettes for my mom and a penny candy for myself. Walked to school in first grade alone, half a mile, many streets to cross but a very small town.
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Post by Skellinton on Apr 6, 2022 21:16:52 GMT
We didn't have anything walkable other then a video store and convenience store and there were no sidewalks once we got off our street, so I was probably 10 or so before we were allowed to walk there. And really until I was 10 we didn't even have a VCR so it wasn't like the walk was very alluring.
We used to walk to a convenience store by my aunt's house that was quite a hike, but I had my older sibling and cousin with me. They were 10 when I was 5.
Now we ran all over the neighborhood from sun up to sun down when I was little, but there were lots of us and one was a little narc so had we done anything remotely dangerous we would have been tattled on!
Now husband and his family grew up in the boonies and my husband loves to tell the story or my mother in law getting a phone call from the grocery store notifying her that my sister in law had walked herself there. She was stark naked and pushing her dolly in a stroller. My mother in law had just had another baby and had her hands full and thought SIL was napping. She would have been 2.5 years old.
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Post by piebaker on Apr 6, 2022 21:47:18 GMT
Nine to walk to convenience store for milk, eggs or bread. Ten to ride my bicycle to school, the library or to religious instruction.
My mom didn't drive so I knew how to take the bus that went into town. Otherwise, she always preferred my friends come to my house so we could walk together to school, the movies or to the mall.
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Post by Lexica on Apr 6, 2022 22:03:16 GMT
Probably 10 or 12. Mom was very cautious with us.
I should add there was a very busy street with no light or crosswalk that we had to cross. I know that was a factor.
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Post by maryland on Apr 6, 2022 22:07:12 GMT
Kids in my elementary school would walk to school starting in kindergarten. And they were 4 or 5, we had a Dec. 31 cut off. They had 6th grade safety patrols to help the kids cross the street.
My current neighborhood kids take the bus as we are a few miles away from the school. But parents drive their kids even if it's 3 houses down! And our houses are close together.
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Post by jayfab on Apr 6, 2022 22:26:34 GMT
I started kindergarten at 4 but turned 5 mid September and walked 9 blocks to school every day, alone. I remember the neighbor kid would chase me sometimes. Friday before Easter we made baskets out of cottage cheese containers for our moms. I was so proud of it and knew Joey would chase me and grab it, so I walked an extra 3 and a half blocks around so I could get home without passing his house which was next door. I thought if I came from the other way I'd be safe. Well I got to the first step of my porch and he grabbed me and the basket. My older brother beat him up for that. I was safe from then on!
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Post by crazy4scraps on Apr 6, 2022 22:33:24 GMT
We had a corner drugstore that was about four blocks from our house that didn’t require crossing any busy roads and I remember going there by myself (well, with siblings) before I was old enough to go to school. Once I was in kindergarten, I remember my mom walking with me to school with my little brother in a stroller. It was over a half mile each way. She went with me for the first couple weeks and after that she sent me by myself. There was an older elementary kid that would meet me about halfway to help me cross the busy street closer to school but otherwise I was on my own.
In first grade, I went to a different school that was also about a half mile away in a different direction. I don’t remember my older brother walking with me even though I’m sure we both attended in some of the same years. In fact I have a vivid memory of being in the second grade and stopping to watch some fire trucks for several minutes on my way to school. I was delayed long enough that the police patrol kids had already gone by the time I got to the busy street that I needed to cross, and the cars were going so fast and the stoplights didn’t seem long enough for me to get across without help, so I stood there waiting for a long time. I knew I was going to be in trouble for being late, and eventually I got up enough courage to run across that street. I was late and I did get in trouble. When my younger brother started school, I walked with him to and from school.
I also remember walking or riding our bikes to a 7-11 that was in the area where my kindergarten was, and my mom let us go there by ourselves. That store had way more candy than the drugstore did but it was much farther away so we didn’t go as often.
My kid has never gone to a store by herself because there isn’t anything walkable or even bikeable in our area. When her friend used to live down the street, we would let her walk to his house but usually I would stand at the end of my driveway and watch her until she met up with him halfway and his mom would watch him from the end of her driveway too. She’s almost 12 now and just went to the mall with friends and one kid’s dad last weekend for the first time. I wouldn’t let her go with just friends though at this age. There are too many weirdo creepers out there.
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Post by pinklady on Apr 6, 2022 22:45:05 GMT
I was a 70's latch key kid. I'm going to have to ask my mom but I'm pretty sure I was 5 and walking home by myself after school in 1st grade and being home alone until about 4pm when my mom got home from work.
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lavawalker1
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Post by lavawalker1 on Apr 6, 2022 22:58:33 GMT
I walked to and from kindergarten alone, it was about 1/2 mile. Also , when I was about 6-7 my mom would give me a dime and I could walk to the little market 1/4 mile away for candy. No major streets to cross.
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tincin
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Post by tincin on Apr 7, 2022 1:10:48 GMT
I was walking home from school by myself in kindergarten. Granted it was only about 1/4 of a mile but I was 5.
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Post by AmeliaBloomer on Apr 7, 2022 1:50:31 GMT
Me: About 7 My kids: 10
I walked all over with my kids when they were young. Taught them N/S/E/W and how that affected addresses.
The drivers ed teachers I worked with said they could always tell the walkers because their car navigation skills were significantly better than those who had been driven everywhere. They said that increasingly kids couldn’t even figure out how to drive from school to home!
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Post by chaosisapony on Apr 7, 2022 2:25:39 GMT
We never really lived anywhere close enough that I could walk to to run errands for my mom as a kid. I got my license at 17 and then she started sending me to the store a few miles away.
Edit: I as allowed to go with a friend to a gas station to get candy about a mile away from one house when I was 12.
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Post by grammadee on Apr 7, 2022 3:19:43 GMT
We didn't live in town. Nearest store was 15 miles away, so no solo trips to run errands. But our parents were busy and we spent many hours being completely unsupervised, climbing on hay stacks and the roofs of buildings, playing in overflowing creeks in spring.
As kids we were out looking after animals when we were quite young. By the time I was eight I was riding a horse to school. I had to catch her in the pasture, then look after her at school before going in to class.
We had lots of indoor chores, too, that a child today would not have. My grandmother passed away when I had just turned nine, but I distinctly remember her repeatedly giving me very specific instructions on how to make her tea. With boiling water from a big kettle on the wood stove.
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miascraps
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Post by miascraps on Apr 7, 2022 3:22:20 GMT
I walked to school, usually with other kids in the neighbourhood in grade 1. To the corner store probably 7. Bus downtown at age 8. Didn’t need to transfer. We tore around the neighbourhood at early ages. It was semi-rural. Lots of kids and quiet roads.
I don’t remember my son needing to go to the corner store. He started to walk alone to school in grade 2. And he rode his bicycle everywhere as soon as he learned to ride it, 4-5 yrs old.
The grands were watched a little closer. They live in a big city with busy roads.I need to remind one of them to look out the window from time to time to learn landmarks so they know where they are and where they are going. It’s working! The grands walked to and fro school in grade 6 when they lived close enough to a school to do so. They never needed to go to the corner store. And I think they learned the bus system in grade 8.
I envy all the people that got to ride their ponies everywhere!😀
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Post by bc2ca on Apr 7, 2022 3:40:48 GMT
- at 5 walked 1.5 km (just under a mile) to K by myself. The elementary school was only a block from our house but didn't have K so I went to a private option. My brother was supposed to walk with me up and over the pedestrian overpass and then head back to school. That lasted about a week before he decided I was fine on my own.
- at 6 we moved and were always allowed to walk to the park, beach, roam the woods and spend our allowance at the "village" about 1 km away. Basically it was a strip mall with a corner store, pharmacy, bakery, etc. Big decisions had to be made about whether to spend money on candy, donuts or comic books.
- at 7/8ish, my brother, sister a year younger and I were taught how to take the bus to our swim lessons and the library on our own
- when new neighbors moved in the next year we regularly went to the village to buy their mom cigarettes
My kids were MS (11?) before they were allowed to roam the neighborhood and take transit on their own (always with friends, never really on their own).
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Post by babybuttoneyes on Apr 7, 2022 5:48:22 GMT
My mom has a photo of me walking toward her carrying a paper bag of milk which was half my own size. I was 4 and my mom gave me money to walk down the Main Street to the corner store and buy the milk.
I also walked to school with my friend by ourselves in kindergarten, this was in 1981.
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Post by finaledition on Apr 7, 2022 6:59:46 GMT
I remember walking home from kindergarten and finding my mom hiding behind a bush to watch me😂. My mom is a self proclaimed worry wart , but I was your typical Gen X kid, off riding a bike in the neighborhood and pretty much off roaming with an understanding that I be home at a certain time.
I regret that my kids did not have that freedom. We’ve never lived walking distance to a school and never lived in a neighborhood where kids just hopped on bikes and cruised around.
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Post by whipea on Apr 7, 2022 11:58:31 GMT
Grew up in Miami suburbs. Was latch key from 1st grade as both parents worked. This was in the 60's. Same world, there were creeps and criminals then too, bad things happened but as a society we just were not as aware of the scope.
When I was maybe in the 6th grade, I remember my friends and I frequented a 7-11. There was a pervert who hung out there. He would expose himself, at first just flash a plastic jock strap cup thing, then sometimes the real deal. We would keep our distance, ignore him and hurry by. Later we would eeeewww and laugh our heads off. We never told our parents because we were sure they would not let go to that 7-11 which had the Best Icee selection in town.
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