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Post by littlemama on Nov 14, 2023 12:33:50 GMT
When do you feel that the Christmas season starts? In the US, we have been conditioned to believe it starts the day after Thanksgiving, but other countries either dont have Thanksgiving or they don't have it when we do. If you are a US pea, if there were no Thanksgiving on the 4th Thursday in November, when would you think the Christmas season would start? What do wish were different about the season?
For me, I feel like the beginning of December is the start of the season. We put our tree up about 2 weeks before Christmas and take it down a few days after (we used to leave it up until NYE, but thst hasnt happened in several years.
I wish there were more gatherings of people we are close to- friends, mostly. Dh's immediate family ruins every Christmas Eve. Christmas Day is just us and my mom. Dh's aunt who used to get everyone together moved out of state 11 years ago and that was the one big gathering.
I also wish Christmas were in the middle of summer!
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Post by gar on Nov 14, 2023 12:54:21 GMT
I'm not US but it sort of depends what you mean by starting? I do start buying gifts before then but our tree etc doesn't go up until mid December.
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Post by sueg on Nov 14, 2023 13:09:00 GMT
I would say that Christmas season in Germany is pretty much defined by the start of the main Christmas markets. That is usually around four weeks before Christmas. This year, the Markets here in Munich stat November 27, so that’s the start of the Christmas season for me. While a lot of decorations and Christmas foods are available earlier (I can already buy Christmas cookies in my supermarket) fresh Christmas trees don’t tend to be available until the start of December.
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Post by Spongemom Scrappants on Nov 14, 2023 13:11:49 GMT
For me, it was traditionally the beginning of December. But I find myself wanting to decorate earlier these past few years. Partly to have the house ready for entertaining and partly just to enjoy the decorations for a longer time.
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Post by pantsonfire on Nov 14, 2023 13:39:24 GMT
Day after Thanksgiving. I don't think the US has been conditioned to believe that because holy crap people start to decorate right after Halloween.
We did have a few family friends back in the 90s that had a tree up before Thanksgiving because that is when everyone could be together or a service member would be home but couldn't for Christmas.
So they did Thanksgiving AND Christmas.
Honestly, it is when every you feel it starts.
We start to decorate week of Thanksgiving so I guess that is when it starts for us?
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Post by teddyw on Nov 14, 2023 13:59:34 GMT
I’ve started going through my decorations do I can refresh my memory as to what I have. I’ll probably donate some and add some. The years we get a real tree it goes up the beginning of December. If I get out my artificial tree it’s probably around thanksgiving.
2 of my DDs and my niece have already put their trees up.
I’m trying to pin down my siblings for a family get together but none of them will commit. It’s so frustrating. Ever since my parents have passed away they just let our family holidays go. Dh’s family get togethers suck.
One of my bffs has a day before Christmas Eve party usually. Last year her son got married that week so she couldn’t do it. I’m hoping it’s on for this year. I forgot to ask her last week when we were together.
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Post by pantsonfire on Nov 14, 2023 14:22:18 GMT
Also no thank you on summertime Christmas. I don't want to be sweating with the AC on and it be 100+° outside.
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Post by librarylady on Nov 14, 2023 14:28:57 GMT
Also no thank you on summertime Christmas. I don't want to be sweating with the AC on and it be 100+° outside. Don't move to Australia!
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Post by librarylady on Nov 14, 2023 14:30:55 GMT
I have a neighbor with yard full of decorations and already lit up.
I put any decorations up after Thanksgiving, usually the first Saturday in December. That's soon enough I think.
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Post by pinklady on Nov 14, 2023 14:31:25 GMT
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Post by Gennifer on Nov 14, 2023 14:41:21 GMT
Mid-November: When I have snow on the ground it’ll feels like Christmas season. I usually have snowstorms starting in September, but the snow melts away. Once it’s starts sticking, though…
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Post by pantsonfire on Nov 14, 2023 14:54:11 GMT
Also no thank you on summertime Christmas. I don't want to be sweating with the AC on and it be 100+° outside. Don't move to Australia! Oh I know. A good friend lives in Melbourne and I am fully aware of their Christmas temps.
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Post by crazy4scraps on Nov 14, 2023 14:56:11 GMT
I kind of lump Thanksgiving, Christmas and New Years all together into “THE HOLIDAYS” as one big long slog. I could really tack Halloween onto the front end of that since a few weeks before that is when the chaos truly begins here. Halloween is and always has been a big deal because DH’s birthday is within a few days of Halloween. We usually go kind of big with decorating for that, homemade elaborate costumes that DD wants, all of which eats up a lot of time. From Halloween on, the whole rest of the year is nothing but a blur.
Last year I think we finally got our tree itself put up (no ornaments) around December 10th. Realizing I was going to have to take it all down again roughly three weeks later, I opted to only put limited ornaments on it the following week which kind of made DD sad, but not sad enough to actually HELP, so yeah. I did what I did and called it good enough. We did get her wooden Advent calendar out by December 2nd though, because chocolate, LOL. Even though she still has a huge bag of candy from Halloween that I’ll probably end up throwing half of away next Halloween.
I’m going to be honest and say that I actually kind of loathe holiday parties and get togethers. I hate attending them and I hate hosting them. If people have them we go because DH is a social butterfly who loves that stuff. But if I never had to go to another neighborhood Christmas party or his sister’s for New Year’s Eve I really wouldn’t miss it. For me that was one of the blessings of the Covid era, pretty much nobody was having any big holiday parties that I had to suck it up and go to or feel guilty for staying home. (His one anti-vaxxer friend that did have a big holiday party that year followed by big in person family gatherings for holiday meals ended up having multiple family members eventually die of Covid, so I’m not sorry we skipped that one.)
I genuinely like Christmas in general. I like getting and giving gifts. I like the baking. I like the decorations. I just don’t like that there’s really no buffer and it gets all lumped together at roughly the same time of year as Halloween, Thanksgiving and New Years. Christmas would be more awesome if it was in January or February or even March when winter seems to be dragging on endlessly.
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Post by kelly8875 on Nov 14, 2023 15:24:20 GMT
I am personally okay with it after Halloween. But I don't decorate my own home until Thanksgiving weekend. I might buy decor before then, but it doesn't go out yet. I enjoy fall, and like the fall decor staying up as long as it can too. If it snowed or was cold sooner than Thanksgiving, that would probable change my mind to do it earlier. I also have some Xmas decor that is just 'winter', so I can leave some of it up into January longer.
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Post by Tearisci on Nov 14, 2023 15:27:20 GMT
I usually start decorating around the first of November. I put up my Halloween stuff as I get out the Christmas decorations but I haven't felt like it yet. I may have my sister help me get my tree out of the garage this weekend, and then decorate it when DS visits on the 30th. That way it will give some feeling of the season but not the full-on season quite yet.
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Post by pilcas on Nov 14, 2023 15:34:27 GMT
When I worked I put up the tree Thanksgiving weekend because of the 4 days off. Now I do it early Dec. It turns me off to see Xmas decoration inn early nov.
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Post by aprilfay21 on Nov 14, 2023 15:36:11 GMT
Honestly, it depends on my mood and how my day/week/month/year went. Sometimes I'm not in the holiday spirit until a few days into December, sometimes I'm ready the day after Halloween. It truly depends, but we tend to wait until after Thanksgiving.
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Post by Prenticekid on Nov 14, 2023 15:45:59 GMT
Pittsburgh me - "Light Up Night" starts all the Christmas shenanigans. I work downtown, so it is fun watching the trees and lights go up and the Santa Village being built.
I tend to live, think and feel seasonally. For instance, I don't eat watermelon except when it is actually time for watermelon. LOL So, for the me that is seasonal in most aspects - my Christmas season is Advent to Epiphany. Christmas goes up on the first Sunday of Advent. Christmas gets put away on Ephiphany Sunday.
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Post by Darcy Collins on Nov 14, 2023 15:50:55 GMT
We used to wait a little further into December to kind of reset after Thanksgiving. But when we moved to an area where it snows we started putting decorations up Thanksgiving weekend if the weather is good. No fun decorating in a blizzard! And littlemama - if you want gatherings with friends - plan one! I missed extended family gatherings when I moved out of state and started planning stuff with friends - open house, cookie decorating - come and bitch about your relatives.
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Post by paulao on Nov 14, 2023 15:52:49 GMT
For me, the decos and tree start going up the day after Thanksgiving.
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Post by Linda on Nov 14, 2023 15:57:16 GMT
For ME - Christmas season begins with Christmas Eve and ends with Epiphany (or maybe Candlemas). The time prior to Christmas is Advent - a time of preparation. It does start shortly after Thanksgiving - the Sunday after Thanksgiving is often the 1st Sunday of Advent (it isn't this year though, it's the following Sunday)
BUT I think from a secular perspective, Christmas starts with Santa bringing up the end of the Macy's Thanksgiving Day parade and the start of the holiday shopping season.
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Post by ScrapbookMyLife on Nov 14, 2023 16:00:10 GMT
I am in the USA.
For me personally, the Christmas season begins Thanksgiving night after I get home from the Thanksgiving gathering. All my adult life, I've decorated on Thanksgiving night and taken down the decorations on Christmas night.
I am a gift card giver. I pick one day usually the first week of December and go and make the gift card purchases. I *put together* the gifts (little gift bags with tissue paper)...a couple-few days before Christmas.
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Post by lindas on Nov 14, 2023 16:00:57 GMT
The actual Christmas season for me starts after Thanksgiving but if you walk in my house at the start of football season you’d think it had started then. I have a small football themed tree right down to purple lights, a team snow globe, a Santa in the team uniform along with all my other team related items. Those stay out until my team is done for the season.
Right now my house looks like Santa’s workshop since I’m in charge of the club Christmas party. My dining room table is covered in centerpieces, the office is flooded with ribbon, bows, baskets and piles of things to go in them that we raffle off to benefit the local food bank and I’m still waiting on delivery of the individual gifts we’ll give to each member that attends. I just hope I have the energy to decorate my own house after this party is over.
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Post by ntsf on Nov 14, 2023 16:02:18 GMT
I observe advent.. and I don't decorate my house. so I enjoy the advent carols at church, the anticipation. but the real tree goes up a day or two before christmas along with the nativity. they stay up for about a week.. to 10 days.
presents are purchased whenever. we have. never had family to celebrate with outside of immediate family members.
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Post by essiejean on Nov 14, 2023 16:37:41 GMT
I am typically a Thanksgiving weekend Christmas decorator BUT this year ALL of my kids will be home for Thanksgiving. Some of them won't be here for Christmas so I wanted the tree up so I could have their gifts ready and under the tree so we can have a mini-Christmas after our Thanksgiving meal. I also wanted to enjoy the whole Thanksgiving weekend with DS & DIL who will be staying with us. Didn't want to be dragging out the tree & decorations in the middle of their visit. With my crazy retail season workload at work there is just no way to do it AFTER Thanksgiving weekend. So up everything went this last weekend. Just finished up final touches last night.
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Post by littlemama on Nov 14, 2023 17:23:26 GMT
Day after Thanksgiving. I don't think the US has been conditioned to believe that because holy crap people start to decorate right after Halloween. We did have a few family friends back in the 90s that had a tree up before Thanksgiving because that is when everyone could be together or a service member would be home but couldn't for Christmas. So they did Thanksgiving AND Christmas. Honestly, it is when every you feel it starts. We start to decorate week of Thanksgiving so I guess that is when it starts for us? I feel like the decorating immediately after Halloween has only been a big thing in the past several years along with adults being obsessed with Halloween. It's weird to me, but whatever makes people happy.
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Post by papersilly on Nov 14, 2023 17:47:21 GMT
for craft projects---August for getting into the mindset---September decorating---mid november
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Post by scrappinmama on Nov 14, 2023 17:47:41 GMT
For me it usually begins day after Thanksgiving when we put up the trees. We just got back from Disneyland and they already started their Christmas celebrations. I have to say it really got me in the Christmas spirit. It's only a week early, but I may start putting up decor now that I'm home.
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Post by MichyM on Nov 14, 2023 19:14:36 GMT
I’ll preface this by saying that I don’t celebrate Christmas. I have Nothing against it and enjoy the lights, feeling of goodwill, and all the secular, fun parts of it. I see the shows, go to the concerts, etc.
That said, IMHO the *Christmas Season* should start after Thanksgiving (or late November). This day after Halloween stuff gets on my last nerve. Two full months out of the twelve months of the year is just too much for me.
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Post by styxgirl on Nov 14, 2023 19:23:07 GMT
for craft projects---August for getting into the mindset---September decorating---mid november This is my ideal calendar ... in reality it's liek this: for craft projects---thinking about them August ----> Making them - late December for getting into the mindset---ocassionally thinking about the holidays up to December - Getting in the mood really, after theyre over and wishing I would have been more in to it! decorating---late December to get it done! Hahaha!
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