Just T
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Post by Just T on Oct 4, 2024 23:05:20 GMT
  These were taken about a month after I started finding out all the shit I was learning about my husband and his double life. My uncle in Colorado died in April of 2021, and I traveled there to attend his funeral. My son lives in the Denver area, so I took a few extra days so I could spend some time with him, too. We met early one morning to walk at Red Rocks. It was cold, but so beautiful. I remember looking out over this view of the Rockies, and I asked my son to take the photo of me. I remember looking out over the rocks and mountains, some right in front of me, others way off in the distance and sort of blurry looking. I hadn’t decided yet what I was going to do with everything I had discovered, but I knew my life was changing dramatically. I asked my son to take the photo of me—it represented the immense mountains I knew would be ahead of me. Some of them were clear, like the rocks in the foreground. I knew what I needed to do in the immediate future. Yet everything else was so unclear and I didn’t know what I was going to do. As I gazed off at the mountains in the distance, I tried to tell myself not to focus on those, but to focus on the ones right in front of me. The other pic I took, I thought about how I couldn’t see the path in front of me, but I knew in the end, it would be worth taking. I found these photos this week because I have been going through my phone deleting photos as I will soon be going on a new plan, with a new phone, and my phone is out of storage. I’m trying to clear things up. I love these photos both so much. I so easily remember how I was feeling back then, and I can’t think of how many mountains I have conquered since then, ones I had no idea I would have to conquer. Now, it’s almost over, and I am proud of myself. Yes, while I have often beat myself up for things I did and didn’t do, I am mostly proud of myself for doing what I knew in my heart would make my life better in the long run. I still can’t see what is on the path ahead of me, but I have faith that it’s going to be good. |
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Post by Bridget in MD on Oct 4, 2024 23:08:14 GMT
You are so strong. 💪
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naby64
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Post by naby64 on Oct 4, 2024 23:10:09 GMT
What a find! Now that you've found them, print and frame them. And remember.
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Post by karenlou on Oct 4, 2024 23:16:10 GMT
You have come a LONG way!!!
You should be so proud of yourself!!💝💝💝
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Post by malibou on Oct 4, 2024 23:31:41 GMT
You are awesome!
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Post by mom on Oct 4, 2024 23:36:48 GMT
I love these photos! You should frame them and put them where you will see them often and remind you of how far you've come and how strong you are!
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Post by revirdsuba99 on Oct 4, 2024 23:39:32 GMT
Great find! Keep them, for sure! Print them and do a framed LO with your journalling in your handwriting, which could be hidden.
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Post by mikklynn on Oct 4, 2024 23:46:31 GMT
I see you setting out on a path to a new and improved life.
I so wish all the good things for you!
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Post by Lexica on Oct 4, 2024 23:48:20 GMT
What a find! Now that you've found them, print and frame them. And remember. I agree! And hang them in your new home where you will see them and remember how far you have come. |
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Post by KelleeM on Oct 4, 2024 23:50:59 GMT
I love that you have these. I hope you put them somewhere and look at them often!
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TXMary
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Post by TXMary on Oct 4, 2024 23:51:28 GMT
Awesome photos! You're going to be okay. You have a new life in front of you and you have found the strength to live it.
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Post by crazy4scraps on Oct 5, 2024 4:24:43 GMT
Just wanted to send you a huge virtual hug and to tell you that you’ve got this and you’ve come such a long way!  |
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Post by AussieMeg on Oct 5, 2024 5:01:59 GMT
What amazing photos! And what a long way you've come since those awful early days. Not long now, and this will all be behind you.
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Post by chitchatgirl on Oct 5, 2024 14:02:40 GMT
I have a mug that I made at a time when I hit rock bottom mentally. The thing is ugly as can be. But it lives in my cupboard to remind me how bad things were at that time and how far I’ve come. I absolutely think you should do something similar and print the photo and keep it somewhere.
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Ryann
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Post by Ryann on Oct 5, 2024 17:25:56 GMT
You've had a quite the journey. I love that you have something tangible to help you reflect, especially at times when you might need a little reminder of how far you've come and how strong you are. What a treasure!
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Post by MichyM on Oct 5, 2024 18:11:20 GMT
I just dont typically try and speak for other people, but I think all the peas can agree that we are so proud of you, and happy that soon you can truly shake off the “crap” and head out to live your very best life!
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Post by christine58 on Oct 12, 2024 1:18:26 GMT
Just T how are you doing? These pics are awesome
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edie3
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Post by edie3 on Oct 12, 2024 19:26:21 GMT
"And still I rise."
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Post by bc2ca on Oct 12, 2024 19:34:00 GMT
I am so proud of how you have managed this unexpected path/journey and love that you have these photos. Hope all is well.  |
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3boysnme
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Post by 3boysnme on Oct 13, 2024 12:35:09 GMT
Absolutely amazing symbols of how far you've come. I agree. Print them out, frame and put on a wall with an inscription that resonates with you on this journey. Like "See How Far I've Come!" Or something similar that grabs at you.
We are all so proud of your strength and perseverance. Some of us have been through similar experiences and I know I marvel at your strength. Your life is just beginning. Hugs!
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Post by peasquared on Oct 13, 2024 20:19:49 GMT
It makes me uneasy thinking that Just T has posted in almost a week, given all we know about her DH. Hoping you're enjoying a quiet weekend at one of your dear friend's places. Please pop in.  |
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Just T
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Post by Just T on Oct 15, 2024 15:02:34 GMT
It makes me uneasy thinking that Just T has posted in almost a week, given all we know about her DH. Hoping you're enjoying a quiet weekend at one of your dear friend's places. Please pop in. Thanks for thinking of me. I'm okay, it's just a super busy time of year for me at work. I'm also just kind of hunkering down, don't have a lot of mental energy to even write these days. I did find out yesterday that mediation is scheduled. But not until just before Christmas. I'm struggling to wrap my brain around having to live this way for 2 more months, and through the holiday.  |
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Post by Bridget in MD on Oct 15, 2024 16:05:47 GMT
It makes me uneasy thinking that Just T has posted in almost a week, given all we know about her DH. Hoping you're enjoying a quiet weekend at one of your dear friend's places. Please pop in. Thanks for thinking of me. I'm okay, it's just a super busy time of year for me at work. I'm also just kind of hunkering down, don't have a lot of mental energy to even write these days. I did find out yesterday that mediation is scheduled. But not until just before Christmas. I'm struggling to wrap my brain around having to live this way for 2 more months, and through the holiday. Holy cow! Does that mean the OW will be supoenead? (I cant spell that LOL) |
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Post by peasquared on Oct 15, 2024 16:47:59 GMT
It makes me uneasy thinking that Just T has posted in almost a week, given all we know about her DH. Hoping you're enjoying a quiet weekend at one of your dear friend's places. Please pop in. Thanks for thinking of me. I'm okay, it's just a super busy time of year for me at work. I'm also just kind of hunkering down, don't have a lot of mental energy to even write these days. I did find out yesterday that mediation is scheduled. But not until just before Christmas. I'm struggling to wrap my brain around having to live this way for 2 more months, and through the holiday.  So happy to see you here! I hate that it is dragging out even longer, though.  Hang in there, 2025 is your year!! We are all here "manifesting" it for you. |
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Post by airforcemomof1 on Oct 15, 2024 17:02:48 GMT
So sorry you have to do mediation and drag this out even longer. But you’ve shown him just how strong you are and that you won’t back down from what is rightfully due you. You are getting closer to resolution!
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Post by Rhondito on Oct 15, 2024 17:26:08 GMT
It makes me uneasy thinking that Just T has posted in almost a week, given all we know about her DH. Hoping you're enjoying a quiet weekend at one of your dear friend's places. Please pop in. Thanks for thinking of me. I'm okay, it's just a super busy time of year for me at work. I'm also just kind of hunkering down, don't have a lot of mental energy to even write these days. I did find out yesterday that mediation is scheduled. But not until just before Christmas. I'm struggling to wrap my brain around having to live this way for 2 more months, and through the holiday. What!? Wasn't your hearing date supposed to be sometime this week?
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Just T
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Post by Just T on Oct 15, 2024 17:49:57 GMT
Thanks for thinking of me. I'm okay, it's just a super busy time of year for me at work. I'm also just kind of hunkering down, don't have a lot of mental energy to even write these days. I did find out yesterday that mediation is scheduled. But not until just before Christmas. I'm struggling to wrap my brain around having to live this way for 2 more months, and through the holiday. What!? Wasn't your hearing date supposed to be sometime this week?
It was supposed to have been last Tuesday, but since I agreed to mediation, that took the trial off the calendar. We wouldn't have been able to have the trial that day anyway--if we can't reach a settlement, then my attorney will have to go ahead and subpoena his "lady friend." "Holy cow! Does that mean the OW will be supoenead? (I cant spell that LOL)" Only if mediation doesn't result in a settlement. Which I have no doubt it WILL because he has zero choice other than to settle since he doesn't want anyone, not even his own attorneys, to even speak to her. |
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Hang in there, 2025 is your year!! We are all here "manifesting" it for you. 
