S/O...Is common curtesy going out the window?

I do a lot to help DH and he does a lot for me. They are different things though. Whoever goes out, brings in the mail that day. If no one goes out, one of us will go to the box or maybe both of us to just get in a walk. So that varies. However, I am usually the one who goes through the mail and gives him his mail. I open all financial and medical stuff because he doesn't want to deal with it. If it is something else and addressed to him, I put it in his office chair and it is up to him to deal with it.

So it would be wrong for me not to do with his mail what was part of our normal routine. Do I occasionally get behind in opening mail or forget to put something in his office? Sure. He forgets things too.

Common courtesy in our marriage is saying please and thank you even for the routine things we do for each other. It hasn't died at our house.

Out in public, mostly I think people are courteous. Something that annoys me is when I let someone pull out in front of me as I did today and I didn't even get a wave. I always wave to someone if they do that.