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Post by TankTop on Oct 20, 2024 23:35:24 GMT
DS is dating a girl with very little family support.
Last year, she went to college for one semester of her freshman year. All was well. Over January break she got very sick. She has double kidney failure and was hospitalized for over a week. When she got out she was staying at our house so I could keep an eye on her. She ended up with pneumonia and they found fluid on her heart.
She had to withdraw from the spring semester.
It was then discovered there was an error on her Fasfa and the grant money she was supposed to get did not come through. School that she thought was covered was not. She now has a $22000 debt to the school and has to work full time to support herself and make the payments.
She would like to go back to school in the spring, but can’t afford it. This is how I found out about the debt and fasfa issue.
From my understanding of the issue… She put that her parents are divorced. She does not have contact with bio dad. Bio dad did not pay support. She submitted her moms tax returns. This showed she has a stepfather. He has late stage Parkinson’s and is on disability.
As far as I can tell the issue is based on the tax return showing a stepfather dad but she did not list him.
My question is… is there any way for us to help her correct this? Where would we even begin? She met with the school and they were very little help. She did the Fasfa alone and navigated the meetings alone.
I would like to help her get this figured out for the best possible outcome. Even a student loan would help her lower her payments so she could go to school.
Any advice is appreciated
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Post by mom on Oct 20, 2024 23:40:47 GMT
She can get it corrected ---- she can go online to the FAFSA website and correct most of the information there. She wont be able to do that, though, until her current FAFSA form has been processed. Not sure if her specific problem can be corrected there through. She should call FAFSA directly and get their advice. They were helpful when we had to call about an issue.
How old is she?
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Post by TankTop on Oct 20, 2024 23:42:03 GMT
She will be 20 in March
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Post by mom on Oct 20, 2024 23:42:32 GMT
Ok, so not old enough to leave parents off entirely.
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Post by TankTop on Oct 20, 2024 23:47:33 GMT
Not yet. I hate this for her. She is trying so hard and keeps getting shot down with one road block after another.
I am thankful I am in a position to help her. This poor girl is solely responsible for everything from shampoo… to food… to hospital bills.
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Post by mom on Oct 21, 2024 0:00:50 GMT
Not yet. I hate this for her. She is trying so hard and keeps getting shot down with one road block after another. I am thankful I am in a position to help her. This poor girl is solely responsible for everything from shampoo… to food… to hospital bills. There is a way that she can tell FAFSA her situation has changed -- it's at the bottom of this page.
Honestly, I bet if she lets you go with her to the school and talk to them, she probably will get more help.
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Post by TankTop on Oct 21, 2024 0:20:28 GMT
That is my thought as well. I think she just needs an adult by her side.
She is going to come over tomorrow and we are going to call Fasfa together.
Thank you so much!
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Post by mom on Oct 21, 2024 0:57:53 GMT
That is my thought as well. I think she just needs an adult by her side. She is going to come over tomorrow and we are going to call Fasfa together. Thank you so much! Let me know how it goes!
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Post by silverlining on Oct 21, 2024 15:18:29 GMT
There is very clear information here: studentaid.gov/apply-for-aid/fafsa/filling-out/parent-infoShe has to list the stepfather but that doesn't mean he's expected to support her. Is she homeless or at risk of being homeless? Is she estranged from both parents? If so, she might qualify as an independent student even though she's under 24. I'm not an expert, but I think she shouldn't be paying for a previous semester if it's possible that she would have qualified for aid if the form was filled out correctly. She should wait to see if she really owes that or not. My experience is with public and private colleges in CA and they provide excellent help for students in situations like this. It's likely that there's someone at her college who has a lot of experience and she just didn't talk to the correct person. She's very fortunate to have your help.
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Post by TankTop on Oct 22, 2024 11:23:33 GMT
Thank you so much. She ended up being called into work last night so we were not able to get together to call FASFA.
We did make some progress yesterday while I was at work on getting her a few opportunities to go shadow a dental hygienist so she can decide if that is what she is really interested in.
I think the most important thing right now is that she has hope.
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