TXMary
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Post by TXMary on Oct 31, 2024 4:21:46 GMT
I’m in the 2Peas Genealogy Facebook group. It was formed so peas who were interested in genealogy had a place to discuss it. It was never secret or private. It’s not really even active anymore. Maybe one or two posts a year. I don’t remember the pea names of most of the members but I don’t think the majority of them post here anymore.
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Post by lainey on Oct 31, 2024 9:06:38 GMT
Oh definitely, we have a uniform, a secret handshake and titles. It's very exclusive.
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Post by lesserknownpea on Oct 31, 2024 9:18:53 GMT
I accidentally stumbled unto the mean blog and discovered they were saying I made up the situation with my ex assaulting me for attention. It was pretty harsh.
I was dumbfounded thatgrown women would treat a long standing member of their community that way, and could see no earthly reason why. But the whole blog was like that, just mean spirited nonsense.
I was never curious about it again. But I certainly looked at the people who had been saying those things differently after that.
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Post by gillyp on Oct 31, 2024 9:47:34 GMT
I’m in the 2Peas Genealogy Facebook group. It was formed so peas who were interested in genealogy had a place to discuss it. It was never secret or private. It’s not really even active anymore. Maybe one or two posts a year. I don’t remember the pea names of most of the members but I don’t think the majority of them post here anymore. I do! I didn't think it was secret or private either, just for those interested in the subject. I agree that most don't seem to post here anymore. I know the Pea who started it doesn't. I see nothing wrong with different/splinter groups. It's how communities work. I have no problem with not being invited to them either. What I think can be childish and mean spirited are the "secret" groups formed purely to drag others down and I wouldn't want to be part of that. This still amuses me "I wouldn't want to join a club that would have me as a member" Groucho Marx.
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Post by monklady123 on Oct 31, 2024 10:28:56 GMT
It wouldn't surprise me at all to learn that there was a conservative-leaning group of former RefugeePeas, because if I were a conservative I'm not sure I'd want to hang around with us.
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artbabe
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Post by artbabe on Oct 31, 2024 11:24:34 GMT
I've wondered about that. I don't think there is anything wrong with being curious about it- it isn't a matter of feeling left out, it is just plain curiosity. I was a member of Unscrappable back in the day, but it wasn't secret at all. It was fun, too. I used to read the board that trashed us. I never posted but I'll admit that my curiosity got the better of me sometimes. It was kind of fascinating. I was mentioned once and since I was a pea that went under the radar I thought I had really arrived when they noticed me. There is probably a board trashing us now, too.
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dawnnikol
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Post by dawnnikol on Oct 31, 2024 11:36:25 GMT
Back in 2020, the ACNH Peas would meet up on someone's island to hit each other with nets. There were dress up parties and everything. That's about as close as I got. >.<
We've lost a bunch of them between then and now, for whatever reason, on this board.
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Post by lisae on Oct 31, 2024 11:39:57 GMT
I belonged to another group for a couple of years. I can't remember now how I found them and how they originated. There may have been people there who were on the old board - probably. I think I found them tracing back connections to my YouTube channel wanting to know how people were finding me so I could increase views.
The board was/is (I don't know if it still exists) private so you had to request a sign on. It was supposed to be no politics, no religion and mostly was. However, immediately after the 2016 election someone made a post asking if it was a sunny day or a cloudy day for you. Responses of course indicated your preference in the election. Either you allow politics or you don't. That was not the day to introduce it as it was quite 'cloudy' in my world. Personally I like the politics. If you try to ban it completely you can't talk about any current events.
I'd already been thinking of dropping out of the board as I just couldn't keep up with everyone. They all seemed to know not only each other's screen names but real names and could recall everyone's past family stories. It was more than I could or wanted to keep up with at the time.
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Post by Merge on Oct 31, 2024 11:48:15 GMT
I really don’t care.
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Post by Bridget in MD on Oct 31, 2024 12:37:07 GMT
It wouldn't surprise me at all to learn that there was a conservative-leaning group of former RefugeePeas, because if I were a conservative I'm not sure I'd want to hang around with us. I agree, and I wondered if we lost some regular posters bc there is so much US election talk right now. I do hope they come back, bc this board thrives when there is multiple opinions.
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pinklady
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Post by pinklady on Oct 31, 2024 12:49:17 GMT
It wouldn't surprise me at all to learn that there was a conservative-leaning group of former RefugeePeas, because if I were a conservative I'm not sure I'd want to hang around with us. I know right because having ethics, morals, values, believing in democracy and our constitution and not wanting to be a global embarrassment are such horrible things. 🤦🏼♀️
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Post by Merge on Oct 31, 2024 13:01:09 GMT
It wouldn't surprise me at all to learn that there was a conservative-leaning group of former RefugeePeas, because if I were a conservative I'm not sure I'd want to hang around with us. I agree, and I wondered if we lost some regular posters bc there is so much US election talk right now. I do hope they come back, bc this board thrives when there is multiple opinions. All the political posts are clearly marked as such and can be avoided if people are so inclined. The lepers of the NSBR, you know.
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pantsonfire
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Post by pantsonfire on Oct 31, 2024 13:46:28 GMT
I agree, and I wondered if we lost some regular posters bc there is so much US election talk right now. I do hope they come back, bc this board thrives when there is multiple opinions. All the political posts are clearly marked as such and can be avoided if people are so inclined. The lepers of the NSBR, you know. Unless the pea who needs a new hobby gets on here and marks non political threads as political. I hate that label. Not because it allows others to possibly see a political thread but because it is over used and not used appropriately.
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milocat
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Post by milocat on Oct 31, 2024 13:50:42 GMT
I’m in the 2Peas Genealogy Facebook group. It was formed so peas who were interested in genealogy had a place to discuss it. It was never secret or private. It’s not really even active anymore. Maybe one or two posts a year. I don’t remember the pea names of most of the members but I don’t think the majority of them post here anymore. This is the kind of groups I was assuming are out there. Some peas with a similar interest started DMing then made a private FB group to all talk and post about that interest.
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Post by gar on Oct 31, 2024 13:59:12 GMT
I am beginning to wonder if there is another secret board where the Peas are meeting. I know of one and they didn’t like me so I got uninvited and I think there’s another hangout for peas online. What say you? I meant to ask, who invited you originally, if that's how it happened.
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Post by mom on Oct 31, 2024 14:15:37 GMT
Seriously, this is so juvenile. We are missing a lot of regular peas. Do you think they just quit using social media? I am a social media addict. A lot of Peas have been run off / left for various reasons. A couple that I know of read and just dont reply. Are there other groups? Probably. But just like Im not invited to every party, I don't think I need to be invited to every group (and nor would I want to join some groups).
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Post by Laurie on Oct 31, 2024 14:16:05 GMT
It wouldn't surprise me at all to learn that there was a conservative-leaning group of former RefugeePeas, because if I were a conservative I'm not sure I'd want to hang around with us. I know right because having ethics, morals, values, believing in democracy and our constitution and not wanting to be a global embarrassment are such horrible things. 🤦🏼♀️ People can be conservatives and want this too. However, we can go ahead and just continue the narrative that if you are Republican then you are drinking MAGA kool-aid and Trump's blood.
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dawnnikol
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Post by dawnnikol on Oct 31, 2024 14:21:55 GMT
However, we can go ahead and just continue the narrative that if you are Republican then you are drinking MAGA kool-aid and Trump's blood. Do they sell that at the local Wal-Mart or only specialty stores, I wonder?
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Post by Laurie on Oct 31, 2024 14:23:52 GMT
However, we can go ahead and just continue the narrative that if you are Republican then you are drinking MAGA kool-aid and Trump's blood. Do they sell that at the local Wal-Mart or only specialty stores, I wonder? It is at the landfill.
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anaterra
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Post by anaterra on Oct 31, 2024 14:36:53 GMT
I’m in the 2Peas Genealogy Facebook group. It was formed so peas who were interested in genealogy had a place to discuss it. It was never secret or private. It’s not really even active anymore. Maybe one or two posts a year. I don’t remember the pea names of most of the members but I don’t think the majority of them post here anymore. This is the kind of groups I was assuming are out there. Some peas with a similar interest started DMing then made a private FB group to all talk and post about that interest. There may be a few off shoot groups like this... i don't know how many of what kind.. it isnt like a secret club based on popularity... to bash the main board but that all the members have a certain thing in common... Some examples all the cancer survivors... or peas who have lost a child... or lost a spouse... or vegan peas... whatever "it" may be... I think its like the single peas used to have their own thread but it went bad when other peas used what was said as ammo on other threads... the other board has a better fellowship of what happens in vegas stays in vegas kinda thing...
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pinklady
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Post by pinklady on Oct 31, 2024 14:42:06 GMT
I know right because having ethics, morals, values, believing in democracy and our constitution and not wanting to be a global embarrassment are such horrible things. 🤦🏼♀️ People can be conservatives and want this too. However, we can go ahead and just continue the narrative that if you are Republican then you are drinking MAGA kool-aid and Trump's blood. Guess we'll find out next week.
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Post by compeateropeator on Oct 31, 2024 14:54:12 GMT
I understand I will probably get push back for this comment/opinion and I am fine with that. I agree with this, there is a difference between MAGA and Trump supporters and true conservatives/Republicans (although their “party/MAGA supporter members” would probably call them a RINO). I would be considered liberal and am voting for Democratic candidates in all of the national elections. However, in my state choices I have a mixture of Republicans and Democratics. I have done my homework and I know who is MAGA inspired and who is middle of the road. I also come from a state where I do my homework because there are certainly some that are too progressive, and I don’t vote for them either.
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Post by workingclassdog on Oct 31, 2024 15:02:27 GMT
I know I 'can' be conservative leaning but definitely not on the Trump side of things and more left'ish leaning as I get older. I stick to my original voting status as Independent. I mostly don't talk politics anyways with the exception of hating Trump posts.. cause the man is vile. But in a normal time I just keep quite no matter where I land. While this board is very left leaning, it doesn't bother me which way you vote as long as people play nice and not be rude and bash the other side (except for the Trump stuff, my only exception) haha.
ANYWAYS, back to the subject on-hand... lol
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Post by jill8909 on Oct 31, 2024 15:03:26 GMT
i left drama. glad I know nothing about any of this!!
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Post by melanell on Oct 31, 2024 16:12:38 GMT
I wasn't even considering all of the group that formed from the original 2 Peas. I was thinking only in terms of groups formed off of this one. If we're talking both places--then oh gosh, secret, not secret, sort of secret, I imagine there are many still in existence.
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Post by scrapmaven on Oct 31, 2024 16:19:53 GMT
I view it as I do real life friend groups. There can be a bigger group, but then smaller groups might be closer w/in the bigger group. It's not a bad thing. In my small group we don't say mean things about our other friends. Nor do we say mean things to eachother. We're just women who carpooled our kids, together and became very close and we share a bond. We're also part of a larger group w/whom we enjoy brunches and luncheons. How is that different than an offshoot group here?
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TXMary
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Post by TXMary on Oct 31, 2024 19:13:18 GMT
I’m in the 2Peas Genealogy Facebook group. It was formed so peas who were interested in genealogy had a place to discuss it. It was never secret or private. It’s not really even active anymore. Maybe one or two posts a year. I don’t remember the pea names of most of the members but I don’t think the majority of them post here anymore. I do! I didn't think it was secret or private either, just for those interested in the subject. I agree that most don't seem to post here anymore. I know the Pea who started it doesn't. I see nothing wrong with different/splinter groups. It's how communities work. I have no problem with not being invited to them either. What I think can be childish and mean spirited are the "secret" groups formed purely to drag others down and I wouldn't want to be part of that. This still amuses me "I wouldn't want to join a club that would have me as a member" Groucho Marx. See...I don't even remember pea names of the people in it.
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Post by aj2hall on Nov 1, 2024 3:01:56 GMT
I know right because having ethics, morals, values, believing in democracy and our constitution and not wanting to be a global embarrassment are such horrible things. 🤦🏼♀️ People can be conservatives and want this too. However, we can go ahead and just continue the narrative that if you are Republican then you are drinking MAGA kool-aid and Trump's blood. I can't speak for everyone on the board. However, personally, I do make the distinction between Liz Cheney, Adam Kissinger, Chris Christie, Mitt Romney, John Kelly, Will Hurd, Asa Hutchinson, Cassidy Hutchinson, Joe Walsh, Never Trumpers and MAGA. I don't agree with their politics, I don't even like a. few of them (Chris Christie) but I do respect them and appreciate their courage to stand up for democracy. Nikki Haley and Chris Sunnunu criticized Trump but ultimately caved. There are a couple of others like Ken Buck and Mike Gallagher who resigned from the House. That's part of the problem, too that the moderate Republicans have resigned, been pushed out or primaried. Unfortunately, the majority of Republican politicians have put power and party over country and kissed the ring. And for a lot of us, when our rights and the rights of people we love are threatened, that's a line too far. So yes, most likely, if you are a politician with an R after your name, you are complicit and drinking the MAGA kool-aid. This might also apply if you support and vote for a MAGA Republican. If Trump and MAGA are defeated in November, I genuinely hope that out of the ashes there will be a new moderately conservative party. Our country needs and depends on two functioning parties.
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Rhondito
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Post by Rhondito on Nov 1, 2024 16:47:53 GMT
I haven't thought about there being other groups, but it doesn't seem unlikely. Peas who meet up IRL probably have their own board or FB Group.
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Post by Darcy Collins on Nov 1, 2024 17:08:10 GMT
Well hell send me an invite - kidding - I actually think this board is dying a slow death. I joined way way past the peak, but felt young then - no offense, I'm approaching 50 now - but it's an aging demographic and not bringing in any new people - scrapbooking? My kids would not click on that link. We'll all just enjoy our retirement here.
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