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Post by jeremysgirl on Nov 21, 2024 12:44:22 GMT
There is apparently some kind of "thing" going on where people are seeing early showings of Wicked in the theater and treating it as a group sing-a-long.
I thought I'd start a poll about this. (you can select 3 answers, one for each pairing of questions) But I'll just say, I find it incredibly rude. Incredibly. But I might be a stick-in-the-mud because I also *hate* with a burning passion when people sing at concerts too. I came to see the performance, I did not come to listen to you sing and see you dance in front of me. I attended a string quartet last year playing the Fleetwood Mac Rumors album and nearly choked the lady behind me humming through the entire thing.
I'm a pretty easygoing person, but this is the biggest pet peeve I have. I love live theater and music.
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Post by melanell on Nov 21, 2024 12:49:33 GMT
I heard that some theaters were offering special singalong opportunities. So I would expect people who want to sing to attend those if they are available nearby to them. And I would expect theaters to realize people will want to sing and get their acts together and offer sing along show times if they are not already.
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Post by zippythebird on Nov 21, 2024 12:57:50 GMT
TBH if it was not a ' sing a long ' showing I would be proper annoyed
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Post by **GypsyGirl** on Nov 21, 2024 13:46:44 GMT
I voted Not Okay at all the venues you listed. The reason I am attending is to hear the movie/concert/performance and not some yahoo who thinks they can sing. It's very distracting, as well as annoying and extremely rude.
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Post by pantsonfire on Nov 21, 2024 13:53:07 GMT
Next month they will have special sign a long viewings.
I expect people to sing at concerts and a lot of artists ask for you to do that. They encourage it.
At a live performance? Heck no. Rude to the cast.
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Post by Tearisci on Nov 21, 2024 13:53:27 GMT
I'm going on Saturday with my sister, her daughters and grandkids and I'm wondering if they are going to sing? Sister and one daughter are huge Wicked fans and probably know all of the songs.
We may have to have a talk ahead of time about not singing during the movie!
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Post by lesley on Nov 21, 2024 14:00:49 GMT
Generally I think it’s not ok, but my choir leader has booked a private screen for us to go as a group next week (there are 100 of us going), and you can bet your bottom dollar we’re all going to be singing! In four-part harmony no less! 😂
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Post by jeremysgirl on Nov 21, 2024 14:00:58 GMT
I expect people to sing at concerts and a lot of artists ask for you to do that. They encourage it. I have been to quite a few concerts in my time and I've seen an artist encourage singing twice and that was during a particular part of the show, not the entire show.
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Post by paget on Nov 21, 2024 14:15:32 GMT
I lose my mind at that type of selfish and rude behavior. Because of that, we won’t go see the movie until it’s been out quite a while so hopefully the super fans will have already seen and done their singing then
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Post by compeateropeator on Nov 21, 2024 14:36:07 GMT
I expect people to sing at concerts and a lot of artists ask for you to do that. They encourage it. I have been to quite a few concerts in my time and I've seen an artist encourage singing twice and that was during a particular part of the show, not the entire show. I don’t disagree with you. However, when you watch a lot of recorded concerts or clips/videos made from live performances many of them are shots of the audience really into it and singing…so there is some encouragement. There are concerts that I would totally expect people to sing along with -examples would be Jimmy Buffet and John Prine. As I typed that I just realized now that both have passed I should come up with other examples. And then there others that I would really try not to. But if I love the song my lips are moving, I will try not to make an audible sound but music moves me and makes me want to sing and really be into the performance. Much like a Dead show. I can and do contain myself, but will also let myself go when appropriate. 😄😆 Movies, probably expect it less unless it is a children’s movie or a participation movie like Rocky Horror. I agree they should have special showing for people who love to sing along with the movie.
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Post by crazy4scraps on Nov 21, 2024 14:36:23 GMT
I voted Not Okay at all the venues you listed. The reason I am attending is to hear the movie/concert/performance and not some yahoo who thinks they can sing. It's very distracting, as well as annoying and extremely rude. 100% this! We just saw Wicked on Monday and thank God no one was singing out loud. I will admit to singing along in my head though on Popular and Defying Gravity. That movie was soooo good! I was annoyed enough by the woman sitting in front of us who had her phone on for most of the movie. DD thought she was recording it. 😳😫
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Post by pantsonfire on Nov 21, 2024 14:45:17 GMT
I expect people to sing at concerts and a lot of artists ask for you to do that. They encourage it. I have been to quite a few concerts in my time and I've seen an artist encourage singing twice and that was during a particular part of the show, not the entire show. That is what I meant. When the band asks. A few people singing their favorite song wouldn't bother me.
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Post by heckofagal on Nov 21, 2024 15:09:54 GMT
I have mixed feelings on this. I understand people pay to see the perfomance, NOT their neighbor singing. But I love when people get excited and engrossed in the perfomance. As long as they are not SCREAMING the songs. (And not sitting too close to me. ) I really do NOT like it when a singer is onstage and stops singing so that the crowd can sing their song. I paid to hear YOU sing it!
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Post by jeremysgirl on Nov 21, 2024 15:15:53 GMT
Generally I think it’s not ok, but my choir leader has booked a private screen for us to go as a group next week (there are 100 of us going), and you can bet your bottom dollar we’re all going to be singing! In four-part harmony no less! 😂 This is the way to do it.
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Post by jeremysgirl on Nov 21, 2024 15:20:15 GMT
But if I love the song my lips are moving, I will try not to make an audible sound but music moves me and makes me want to sing and really be into the performance. I find this statement to be the exact opposite for me. Music really moves me and and I am really into it, in awe of it. So much so that singing and dancing (not just by others, but if I tried to) is a humongous distraction.
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Post by pinklady on Nov 21, 2024 15:31:41 GMT
WOW, I had no idea this was a thing. I really want to go see this in the theatre but I will be irrationally pissed off if people are singing. Thanks for the heads up.
Singing along loudly is only OK at concerts. It is not OK at the movies or at a play.
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Post by compeateropeator on Nov 21, 2024 15:41:13 GMT
But if I love the song my lips are moving, I will try not to make an audible sound but music moves me and makes me want to sing and really be into the performance. I find this statement to be the exact opposite for me. Music really moves me and and I am really into it, in awe of it. So much so that singing and dancing (not just by others, but if I tried to) is a humongous distraction. I guess it all depends on the music, the person, the event and many other circumstances. For me, much of the experience of a concert is the watching of the artist, the interaction of the band, the song, the audience, etc. The little nuances happening. I have probably heard/listen to the recording of the song and have already listen and enjoyed the music, lyrics, or whatever else it was that drew me to that song and or artist. But I love watching live performances for visuals more than the musical (although a good dosage of both give the most supreme concert experience IMO). There are some shows that are just watch groove to like a Government Mule and other that seem much more participatory in nature. I guess I really don’t have a particular live performance watching style as it is much more genre/artist/venue driven. I certainly try not to annoy or disrupt anyone’s enjoyment of a live performance of anything, as I think it is a huge privilege and wonder to be able to experience live performances of anything. But it is not cheap or easy so I respect that and totally understand we all have different wants and expectations from the performance. Like everything I am a try and fly under the radar person and enjoy what want but not distract or be obvious. I try to go with the flow. Hahaha.
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Post by scrapmaven on Nov 21, 2024 15:45:13 GMT
I paid to hear the actors or musicians sing, not YOU! However, if it's a sing-a-long then I would join the crowd. It's rude, otherwise!
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Post by gar on Nov 21, 2024 15:50:55 GMT
Joining in at gigs/concerts is perfectly acceptable imo. Part of the fun is that everyone knows the words to Piano Man/Rocket Man or whatever and it's a given that everyone stands and sings along to the chorus at least. It adds to the atmosphere and is a big 'fan' moment imo. I find it almost impossible not to sing along but I don't sing loudly because that would ruin it for Dh at least In the cinema though, no I don't think so. I really do NOT like it when a singer is onstage and stops singing so that the crowd can sing their song. I paid to hear YOU sing it! But that usually only lasts a very short time. I feel like I pay for the whole experience, the interactions with artist/band and audience, the chat in-between etc and that's just part of the inclusion of the fans by the musician.
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Post by Bridget in MD on Nov 21, 2024 15:54:02 GMT
I just went to see &Juliet at the theater, and it uses a lot of popular songs to tell the story (it is an amazingly clever musical!) and it was HARD not to sing along to the songs. When I went to see Hamilton, same thing, I knew the music before I saw it, but didn't pay to hear my neighbor sing to me!
I saw The Era's Tour in theater, and singing/dancing was encouraged. At a concert, it does seem most people sing along, but the band/singers are so loud, I can barely hear myself, much less my neighbor LOL.
For Wicked, I see there are signs at the movie theater warning people it is not a sing along, those shows will be in December. I am personally not sure I will go see it anytime soon, since it is a 2parter, I am more annoyed about that. LOL.
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Post by huskergal on Nov 21, 2024 16:08:44 GMT
Okay at a concert. I don't appreciate it during every song, but hey, that is part of the live experience.
Movie theater: No, unless it is "The Rocky Horror Picture Show".
Live theater: ABSOLUTELY NOT!
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Post by epeanymous on Nov 21, 2024 16:26:57 GMT
Definitely not ok at a movie or theater performance unless the movie or theater performance is designated as a sing-a-long or the audience is otherwise specifically invited to sing.
For concerts, I picked other, because I think it is fine to sing along if your singing isn’t interfering with other people’s ability to enjoy the concert. When you are in a big arena, and people have normal voices, at least my experience is that people singing doesn’t ruin things. A few weeks ago, however, I was in a smaller club to see Willow Avalon — she is a country/folk singer who doesn’t have a particularly big voice. A woman near me was singing along and between the fact that it was a smaller venue and the woman had a very loud and clear singing voice, I could hear her more clearly than the performer even though I was right next to the stage. It was really frustrating.
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Post by katlady on Nov 21, 2024 16:30:22 GMT
Not ok at a movie or live show. I am ok with it at a concert since the audio is so loud anyways. But, I’ll take the singing over screaming any day! 😆
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Post by naby64 on Nov 21, 2024 16:37:24 GMT
I do not want to hear the theater kids or the wannabes singing. I am there to hear Ariana, Cynthia and Johnathan. You have all the private time sing along in the car or at your house. Yeah, I am that crochety old lady.
I don't like to talk through movies. Heck, I don't like talking during the previews. I am there to watch those also. You wanna talk? Stay home and watch it when it hits streaming.
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Post by hop2 on Nov 21, 2024 16:41:39 GMT
They have specific showings for sing alongs, but a ticket for the sing along showing or keep quiet. IMO
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Post by disneypal on Nov 21, 2024 16:53:43 GMT
Concert, yes
Movie & theater, no (unless it is specifically a sing along, because I want to hear the original performance & perhaps others nearby or me, may not have ever heard the songs before)
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Post by jenna on Nov 21, 2024 16:54:39 GMT
I don't wanna blame covid because it's always been happening in Theater.. but SO MANY people lost the understanding of how you act in public after lockdown.
Concerts are a given that people will sing/scream along.. at least the kind of concerts I go to 🤷♀️ But if you're not in your own living room or at a specific special performance you shouldn't be audible in a theater -- movie or stage.
I saw Six multiple times this year and the number of shows I had someone behind me singing along was one too many.
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Post by scrappinmama on Nov 21, 2024 16:58:16 GMT
People have no theater etiquette anymore. No singing at a movie theater or Broadway show. The only way I would give it a pass is if it's a specific "sing along" showing. Otherwise, no. Be quiet and let people enjoy the show. Concerts are a little different because it's so loud. I don't mind singing, as long as it isn't screaming at the top of your lungs.
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Post by getting started on Nov 21, 2024 17:04:30 GMT
Oh such a good poll! I also am annoyed by others singing when I go to a theatre show, concert, or movie. I think the sing along performances are a great idea and I totally understand that lots of people want to sing with the performance, just don't do it at my show! I think signs indicating sing or DO NOT SING are going to be necessary. I want to see the Wicked movie for the on screen performance. And I think many audience members think singing is totally ok and will sing unless specifically told not to. And on that note, I would really appreciate the theatre taking on that role of policing the audience because I sure don't want to do it.
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Post by MichyM on Nov 21, 2024 17:12:48 GMT
No. No no no. NOPE.
There are scheduled “sing along” showings to accommodate the wanna-be MT folks who feel they must sing over the actors. Sigh.
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