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Post by tmarschall on Dec 30, 2024 23:20:12 GMT
If I go missing from the "What's For Dinner?" thread I think my FB friends would know what had happened to me and let everyone know ... at least I hope! Same! I imagine my fb pals would see it somehow, and you all have my permission to tell all of the Peas how I got crushed by a giant mattress/falling anvil/grand piano. 😁
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Post by gryroagain on Dec 30, 2024 23:45:54 GMT
There are enough on FB the peas would know, but my oldest daughter has instructions to “tell the peas”. I’m not a popular pea but I truly hate not knowing and wondering so I’d like someone to tell people. This board has been a huge part of my life.
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Post by KelleeM on Dec 30, 2024 23:47:16 GMT
My sister is a Pea who posts on the dinner and birthday threads most days. She can let you all know. I’m not a big presence here though. I followed and prayed for you when you go sick. You are kind of a big deal to us KelleeMYou’re very kind, as are so many Peas on this thread.
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angel97701
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Post by angel97701 on Dec 31, 2024 1:08:43 GMT
My DH knows about "peas" but most likely would not think to post here . . . . I have some dear friends mostly on the SB side that I think would miss me. They've been super supportive over the last few years with all the DSs issues. mom we should be FB friends too! Before 2peas days an online friend passed on another board. In the months that followed it was very interesting that much of what she posted about was fabricated. She claimed to have a son and triplets. After her passing we figured out that only the first son existed IRL, we are not sure about the rest. All very sad--no one on the board knew her IRL or on FB either.
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Post by KikiPea on Dec 31, 2024 2:55:52 GMT
My DH knows of this place, as well as my best friend. I’m sure one of them would post something. I have Peas pinned at the top of my windows.
I know several people that would share the information on FB and IG.
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Post by Zee on Dec 31, 2024 4:39:00 GMT
There are enough on FB the peas would know, but my oldest daughter has instructions to “tell the peas”. I’m not a popular pea but I truly hate not knowing and wondering so I’d like someone to tell people. This board has been a huge part of my life. I don't think we have "popular peas" like in the old original board days. And I would notice if you were gone a long time!
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mamallama
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Post by mamallama on Dec 31, 2024 5:56:06 GMT
I’m not well known enough here that I would be missed. My husband doesn’t even care to know the password for online banking. 🤦🏻♀️ I need to get everything written down, passwords for bills etc.
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Post by malibou on Dec 31, 2024 13:49:49 GMT
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Anita
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Post by Anita on Dec 31, 2024 13:57:09 GMT
I find it sad to see how many think you wouldn't be missed here. 
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Post by Bridget in MD on Dec 31, 2024 14:13:30 GMT
I doubt anyone would notice I had gone silent. I have no Pea FB or IRL friends, and I doubt my family would bother to post here. I would definitely notice you weren’t here.  As an American who has friends in Sweden, I know you are in Norway and would def miss you!
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Post by Fidget on Dec 31, 2024 18:04:11 GMT
I'm mostly a lurker and don't post frequently so I don't think anyone would notice I wasn't around. My family does not even know I belong to this board and I do not have any pea FB or IRL friends!
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Post by scrapmaven on Dec 31, 2024 18:10:57 GMT
If I go missing from the "What's For Dinner?" thread I think my FB friends would know what had happened to me and let everyone know ... at least I hope! Hey. If you go missing then I'd have to post on the weekends. That's way above my pay grade.  Plus, I'd miss you.
I would ask dh to text someone who could post my status. miominmio , I still miss you on the dinner thread. It would matter to me if something were to happen to you.
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ComplicatedLady
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Post by ComplicatedLady on Dec 31, 2024 20:02:09 GMT
I have not. I am really an unknown here and I have no Facebook or other social media that I use. So in actually it really doesn’t matter as I don’t think anyone would notice my sudden disappearance. It is not a bad thing, a complaint or something that makes me feel bad…it is just the reality of it. If I had someplace that I thought my disappearance would be questioned I would probably ask a family or friend to post. This is how I feel and you said this much better than I could’ve.
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Post by Country Ham on Dec 31, 2024 22:41:01 GMT
I doubt it would be noticed. I've been here for well over a decade, actually way longer and I don't think anyone would noticed If I fell off the face of the earth. I posted back in July about the opening olympic ceremony and that was my last time. No PMs, no notifications of any sort over the months. I just been reading. There would be FB comments to my husband/kids that I would be tagged in, and I am sure my daughter might go on my phone and maybe delete my insta/tiktok/snapchat accounts. No one would even know what online communities I belong to.
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Post by airforcemomof1 on Jan 1, 2025 0:08:33 GMT
I am another that most likely wouldn’t be missed. I have mentioned this board to my son and daughter-in-law and a few friends numerous times. They have never been told how to access it though. My son or daughter-in-law would notify if I gave them info as to how and if I asked them to do so.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 1, 2025 18:27:22 GMT
It amazes me how many peas have Facebook pals.
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Post by wordfish on Jan 1, 2025 21:07:48 GMT
I have lots of FB friends who also post and/or visit here, so it's likely someone would let people here know. My daughters may also be aware of this place--they definitely knew about the old 2Ps, and of course they are aware of "mom's scrapbook internet friends" who were so generous to my daughter Emily when she was expecting her triplets this past summer. They know it's 2Ps related but I don't go into a lot of detail about it, so I'm not sure if any of them have visited and lurked about. I assume they have not, since they all have busy lives.
My husband doesn't really know about this place, I don't think.
I would say I probably have many dozens of FB friends who visit here at least occasionally. That's probably sufficient. My daughters will definitely let people on FB know when I croak, assuming FB is still around. I've designated one of them as my Legacy person for FB and also Apple, I think.
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Post by gar on Jan 1, 2025 22:00:33 GMT
It amazes me how many peas have Facebook pals. I have people ‘suggested’ to me on Facebok and often I suspect they’re peas by their name but I only have 1 I think, that I’m friends with there.
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Post by gillyp on Jan 2, 2025 0:15:18 GMT
I think I have two Pea FB friends but I post very rarely so I don't actively seek contacts. I use FB for work mainly.
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Gennifer
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Post by Gennifer on Jan 2, 2025 1:17:52 GMT
It amazes me how many peas have Facebook pals. I have lots of peas that are not only FB friends, but actual friends that I now meet up with in real life.
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Post by cindytred on Jan 2, 2025 2:59:56 GMT
Due to my cancer, I bought a book that you fill out that gives your family info on all your financials etc, for when you pass away. I'm going to put it in my book to notify my on-line friends.
Cindy
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Post by originalvanillabean on Jan 2, 2025 3:52:31 GMT
Doubtful. I refer to our board as my "message board friends" so DH likely wouldn't even know where to go.
There are no instructions to post here.
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