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Post by cindyupnorth on Apr 6, 2025 22:22:58 GMT
As a women does this bother you? Or just a word that is now widely accepted and used? My friend has a guy friend that uses this word frequently. He posts on snap all the time about these cunts, always referring to men. He is also Australiian and says it’s used like any other word there.
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Post by busy on Apr 6, 2025 22:25:22 GMT
It’s used very differently in Australia and the UK and isn’t nearly as offensive.
In the US, it’s definitely not just another swear word. I swear plenty and it’s not a word I use and don’t know anyone who does. Given how I do swear, I’m sure it’s something I’d say if I grew up in Australia. But even if i lived abroad now, I could never adopt it into my vocabulary given how i grew up perceiving it as an American.
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Post by compeateropeator on Apr 6, 2025 22:28:57 GMT
Hate it. Have always hated it. Although I am sure I use other words that people feel as strongly about. But for me that is probably the top hate and I can guarantee I would never say it. I cringe every time I hear it.
ETA - and agree it probably doesn’t have the same connotation in other countries, as is with many words. I am fine with that, just not one I would adopt even if there. 😄
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Post by Zee on Apr 6, 2025 22:29:29 GMT
It’s used very differently in Australia and the UK and isn’t nearly as offensive. In the US, it’s definitely not just another swear word. I swear plenty and it’s not a word I use and don’t know anyone who does. Given how I do swear, I’m sure it’s something I’d say if I grew up in Australia. But even if i lived abroad now, I could never adopt it into my vocabulary given how i grew up perceiving it as an American. Agree mostly Someone has to be a very special kind of person to be referred to in that way by me. It's not something I generally say or use but there are certain cases...
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Post by katlady on Apr 6, 2025 22:34:23 GMT
As an American, it is not a word in my vocabulary. And when I hear it, it is used in a very derogatory way. I understand though how it can be used differently in other countries.
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Post by chaosisapony on Apr 6, 2025 22:49:43 GMT
I am not any more offended by that word than any other curse word. I'm not sure why I was ever supposed to be more concerned about that word. Call me a b*tch, a c*nt, a f*cker, whatever you want, you're going to get the same reaction out of me regardless of the word used.
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Post by Linda on Apr 6, 2025 22:51:57 GMT
not a word that I use - my English cousins use it and the context is different than it is here in the States but my initial encounters with it were in the States so...
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Post by crazy4scraps on Apr 6, 2025 22:55:08 GMT
I find that word pretty offensive and not much offends me. Pre kid I used to swear like a sailor but that’s one word I don’t use.
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Post by gillyp on Apr 6, 2025 22:57:25 GMT
It’s used very differently in Australia and the UK and isn’t nearly as offensive. I can’t speak for Australians or the rest of the UK but I take a very dim view of anyone using this word and no one in my circle would use it.
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Post by airforcemomof1 on Apr 6, 2025 23:12:46 GMT
I find it very offensive. Thankfully I have never heard it from anyone I know.
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Post by AllieC on Apr 6, 2025 23:15:59 GMT
Australian here - I don't use it (I do love the F bomb though) and people around me generally don't either however in the last probably 10 years it has moved from being totally offensive to just another swear word and with some people (mostly men) it's almost used as a term of affection. Depending on how it's used, depends on if I find it offensive or not.
The term "see you next Tuesday" is used a lot here and there was even an advertising campaign for the Northern Territory "CU in the NT" (See you in the Northern Territory) which caused quite a stir but ultimately most people found it amusing
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Post by hop2 on Apr 6, 2025 23:17:09 GMT
I hate the word, I do not use it, I find it highly offensive, however I do not react to it if someone is using it they usually want a reaction and I’m not going to give them the satisfaction. If you use it I’m going to form the opinion that you’re a fucking asshole but I will keep that opinion to myself.
BUT, I do realize that it is not the same in other cultures like Australia or Ireland and if I were to travel there I’d remind myself that it’s a different thing there. Still not going to use it but I’d remind myself that is not as offensive there.
As for the Brit’s, I’m still going to think they’re an asshole to use that word for an insult because Brits are usually so much more creative/imaginative with their insults that if that’s all you’ve got that’s pretty poor representation of British insulting, not up to par.
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Post by KikiPea on Apr 6, 2025 23:25:34 GMT
I hate the way it sounds. I know it’s not quite the same in other countries, but I can’t stand it. It does not have good connotations here.
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Post by TXMary on Apr 6, 2025 23:28:28 GMT
I have been told that I have the face of an angel and the mouth of a truck driver.  (No offense to truck drivers. I didn't say it. Someone else did.) That is not a word I use and I find it very offensive when I hear or read it.
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Post by mimima on Apr 6, 2025 23:32:33 GMT
Nope, that's a hard no.
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Post by don on Apr 6, 2025 23:37:52 GMT
I find it shameful of so many swear words have just somehow slid into everyday useage.
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Post by purplebee on Apr 6, 2025 23:39:02 GMT
Not one I would use, and find myself a bit discomforted to hear it being used more and more here in the US. I do realize it’s used differently in other places.
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Post by wordfish on Apr 6, 2025 23:51:04 GMT
When I was in my 20s, a good friend of mine used it casually: "She's a cu*t." It's been over 30 years and I can still hear her saying it. I also remember who she was talking about (a coworker). I don't remember all that much from over 30 years ago, but I can literally hear it in my head as I think about it now.
Nope. I find it really offensive. I wouldn't rule out using it, but probably the worst I'm going to get to is "C U next Tuesday."
Also: My oral surgeon's scheduling assistant is a lovely young lady who told me in the literal sense "See you next Tuesday!" after scheduling me for a procedure last fall. I looked really carefully at her. She had no realization whatsoever. I did not repeat what she told me. I just thought "huh. She's a pure one."
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Post by gryroagain on Apr 6, 2025 23:52:03 GMT
My kids had an international set of friends living overseas, as did we, and before going back to the US to visit I would threaten them within an inch of their lives to “NOT say cunt”. Because it’s a very different word in the US, but they heard it used from anything to traffic to banter by people from the UK and Aussies.
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Post by rahnee on Apr 6, 2025 23:55:40 GMT
I'm Australian and I do swear. More than I should. But this is not a word I use. I'm just not comfortable with it. I know its seen as very Australian, but I don't know anyone else that uses it either.
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Post by AussieMeg on Apr 7, 2025 0:54:11 GMT
At the risk of some of my favourite Peas eg. gillyp thinking less of me, yes I do use the C word, as do several of my friends and family. But I definitely pick my audience, so to speak. He is also Australiian and says it’s used like any other word there. Well I wouldn't say it used like any other word here, that's an exaggeration. I would never ever say it in front of my mum, who never swears, but I use it in conversation sometimes with my dad. I would still get shock if I heard it out loud in public.
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Post by melanell on Apr 7, 2025 1:04:22 GMT
I find it very offensive. Thankfully I have never heard it from anyone I know. Very recently someone I know has been using it on every other social media post as they express their political upset, because they apparently think they're very clever in using the term repblic*nts half a million times. Number One, I think anything stops being clever or effective when you use it that many times, Number Two, I think a post full of name-calling by an adult makes your message less effective to begin with, no mater what name you use. And Number Three, because I dislike that word so much I have blocked that person so I no longer have to see their rants, whether I would agree with them if reworded or not.
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Post by melanell on Apr 7, 2025 1:07:51 GMT
Also: My oral surgeon's scheduling assistant is a lovely young lady who told me in the literal sense "See you next Tuesday!" after scheduling me for a procedure last fall. I looked really carefully at her. She had no realization whatsoever. I did not repeat what she told me. I just thought "huh. She's a pure one." I wouldn't have thought a thing of that in that setting. She probably says that exact thing, changing the day or date so often that it never even dawns on her even if she has heard of its use the other way. I am aware of it being used in the CU Next Tuesday fashion, but if someone said it to me in that setting I would absolutely assume they meant it literally.
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Post by mollycoddle on Apr 7, 2025 1:09:57 GMT
I don’t like the word, but it doesn’t offend me any more than any other pejoratives. I find certain ideas much more offensive than one word insults.
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Post by iamkristinl16 on Apr 7, 2025 1:19:01 GMT
I would not want to be around anyone that said that word regularly, if at all.
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Post by cadoodlebug on Apr 7, 2025 1:43:16 GMT
I find it shameful of so many swear words have just somehow slid into everyday useage. 
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Post by katybee on Apr 7, 2025 1:44:32 GMT
My SIL from New Zealand says it’s used regularly over there and is not a big deal (although she doesn’t use it, at least not here).
I’ve never liked it….it seems extra derogatory towards women.
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Post by ILoveToScrapPea on Apr 7, 2025 2:06:19 GMT
I despise that word. I don’t recall anyone I know ever saying that in my presence.
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Post by wordfish on Apr 7, 2025 2:12:21 GMT
Also: My oral surgeon's scheduling assistant is a lovely young lady who told me in the literal sense "See you next Tuesday!" after scheduling me for a procedure last fall. I looked really carefully at her. She had no realization whatsoever. I did not repeat what she told me. I just thought "huh. She's a pure one." I wouldn't have thought a thing of that in that setting. She probably says that exact thing, changing the day or date so often that it never even dawns on her even if she has heard of its use the other way. I am aware of it being used in the CU Next Tuesday fashion, but if someone said it to me in that setting I would absolutely assume they meant it literally. It was true and totally literal but I still looked at her for any sign that she recognized the other meaning. Nope!
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Post by freecharlie on Apr 7, 2025 2:26:08 GMT
I don't find it offensive I don't use it often. If I use it, it is very deliberate.
Other countries it is just another word and I've seen it used like bitch might be here.
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