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Post by Zee on Jul 19, 2025 21:34:34 GMT
Zee Hope you are in CO by now! whipea post photos please!
We road trip frequently. Corpus (his hometown is 6-7 hours) and Nebraska (my home state) is 9-10 hours. Plus, we live in Texas so you can drive 8-10 hours and still be in the same state. He almost always drives the whole way, unless he takes a Power nap I drive for about an hour. My only issue is we do not listen to the same music (he likes rock, I do not) but he usually puts up with my country, until the Highway plays the same song 3 times. When someone who doesn't listen to country comments "this is the 3rd time we've heard this song in 6 hours" I have to let him run the controls, so I put on my headphones. Usually I read or play on my phone. I may take a small nap but am usually awake. Since we take so many trips it never really occurred to me about them not being a fact of life. We only stop when we need to go to the restroom or it's time for a meal. Although....one of my friends went back to Nebraska with us last time and she had to stop for the bathroom every few hours....you definitely get used to your own cadence. I cannot seem to post photo. I have done it in the past but tried all the different options and nothing seems to work. I switched to postimage and it seems to work well. Upload your photo and choose the link for message boards. (I pea from my phone, easy to access my photos and links)
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Post by gryroagain on Jul 19, 2025 22:45:52 GMT
I need puppy photos please
After living in small countries my road trip tolerance is shot. Now I’m in Mexico and it is really freaking big. I used to do 14 hour days across the US but I have no tolerance now.
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Post by playingcinderella on Jul 20, 2025 0:05:51 GMT
I love all types of travel including road trips. We just did a week between Missouri, Nebraska and Oklahoma doing college visits. By the end of the trip, I was definitely done being in the car but overall it was great. Though I wish I had read that the walking tour at Oklahoma State was 2 miles before I booked it.
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Post by whipea on Jul 20, 2025 0:16:08 GMT
I need puppy photos please After living in small countries my road trip tolerance is shot. Now I’m in Mexico and it is really freaking big. I used to do 14 hour days across the US but I have no tolerance now. Still struggling with photos but here is a link. 
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Post by Zee on Jul 20, 2025 1:00:24 GMT
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Post by edie3 on Jul 20, 2025 1:29:33 GMT
We just back from a major road trip. Started near Winston-Salem, NC, to Greensboro, NC to Raleigh, NC, via car. Then a plane to Sioux Falls, SD via Denver. and a rental car. From there drove to near Cedar Rapids. From there, drove to Custer State Park and Needles Highway. Next day, to Devil's Tower, WY and Deadwood, SD. Next day, drove to Badlands. Next day, just to Crazy Horse. Next day, drove to Madison SD. Next day back to Sioux Falls, and flew to Atlanta, then flew to Raleigh. Had to catch the train at Atlanta airport, so I told DH we had the trifecta, Trains, Planes, and Automobiles on this trip!
But got to see our DS, and such beautiful scenery! And I am tired!
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Post by originalvanillabean on Jul 20, 2025 15:43:05 GMT
originalvanillabean we finally arrived last night and today we're loading up the UHaul and taking things to the Goodwill in the truck. Later I'm finally going to meet DD's best friend that I "bonded" with over Instagram. Her request that we go out for a few drinks. My internal thoughts:I'm old, we'll see how that goes, lol! She only knows my "artsy IG" so now I feel pressured to be interesting. What if I'm just a bore? I'll wear my dress with the burning eye on it, that should solve the problem. 🤔🤣🤷🏼♀️ Imagine being nervous to meet your daughter's friend. Lol! ETA I hate DH music and vice versa. There is a very slim overlap. We settle on Dateline podcast marathons. Glad to hear you arrived! Sooo....how did it go? Did your dress spur on some conversation? Makes for some long hours but at least you have a meet in the middle something and Dateline is interesting. Too many hours of no other noise gets old real quick.
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Post by originalvanillabean on Jul 20, 2025 15:44:18 GMT
Still struggling with photos but here is a link. 
awwwh! very good looking dog!
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Post by katlaw on Jul 20, 2025 16:01:14 GMT
I don't like them when we have a deadline and long driving days. I do like them when we plan for no more than 6-7 hours of driving in a day. Time to stop and anything interesting we are passing by and time to sit outside on a patio somewhere and enjoy a breakfast or lunch. In fall of 2022 we spent 3 weeks on a road trip. 6 nights in Carlsbad, CA, 3 nights in Anaheim, 3 nights in Las Vegas, 2 nights in San Francisco and a bunch of 1 night stops along the way. We had a cooler that you can plug into your vehicle so we could bring cool drinks and have some healthy snacks. We had a great trip, even though we had some nights pre-booked nothing was ever a really long day of driving except the final day heading home.
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Post by scrapmaven on Jul 20, 2025 16:16:02 GMT
ROAD TRIP! I have 2 kids that have always been great on road trips. Now that they do the driving I enjoy road trips. I have to sit in the front. However, I would rather take a train. Growing up we took trains all over the USA and Canada. Dh and I recently took a short train trip and it was so much fun. You get to relax and see the country. During a trip to Houston a few years ago I had to go to a Buc ee's just to see what all of the hubub was about. I didn't have any of the baked goods or food, so I don't understand the hype. Did I miss a meeting?
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Post by caangel on Jul 20, 2025 17:53:22 GMT
That last part through the interior of California was terrible and boring. We do this 1-2x a year to get from So Cal to Tahoe it can be 9-12hrs+ depending on weather. Mind you we haven't left the state and are not even close to the top of the state (although very near NV). We much prefer the 99 vs the 5 freeway even though it adds on up to an hour depending on traffic. I prefer hitting several towns vs a whole lot of nothing (sometimes not even gas stations) along the 5. I don't mind a days drive but I haven't done multiple days in a row since we moved as a kid from NC to So Cal and the one year I did a road trip to OR with a friend.
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Post by Zee on Jul 20, 2025 18:06:40 GMT
ROAD TRIP! I have 2 kids that have always been great on road trips. Now that they do the driving I enjoy road trips. I have to sit in the front. However, I would rather take a train. Growing up we took trains all over the USA and Canada. Dh and I recently took a short train trip and it was so much fun. You get to relax and see the country. During a trip to Houston a few years ago I had to go to a Buc ee's just to see what all of the hubub was about. I didn't have any of the baked goods or food, so I don't understand the hype. Did I miss a meeting?
You're so kind to say that especially from that pic lol ❤️❤️
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Post by Zee on Jul 20, 2025 18:10:27 GMT
originalvanillabean we finally arrived last night and today we're loading up the UHaul and taking things to the Goodwill in the truck. Later I'm finally going to meet DD's best friend that I "bonded" with over Instagram. Her request that we go out for a few drinks. My internal thoughts:I'm old, we'll see how that goes, lol! She only knows my "artsy IG" so now I feel pressured to be interesting. What if I'm just a bore? I'll wear my dress with the burning eye on it, that should solve the problem. 🤔🤣🤷🏼♀️ Imagine being nervous to meet your daughter's friend. Lol! ETA I hate DH music and vice versa. There is a very slim overlap. We settle on Dateline podcast marathons. Glad to hear you arrived! Sooo....how did it go? Did your dress spur on some conversation? Makes for some long hours but at least you have a meet in the middle something and Dateline is interesting. Too many hours of no other noise gets old real quick. The (girl) bartender loved the dress and wanted to know where I got it (Temu). I get all my cool weird dresses from Temu 🤣 It was so nice to meet her friends! We played pool and darts and had some beers, which I kept to only two, and they were lovely people. Today is final packing/UHaul Tetris and cleaning. Back on the road in the AM. Ugghh
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Post by sassyangel on Jul 20, 2025 19:05:37 GMT
I enjoy them when we don’t try and just power thru. Give me 5-6 hours driving. Start with a fabulous local breakfast and a late lunch/dinner. Stop to see some sites and sleep in a comfy hotel bed. Exactly this sounds like my perfect road trip.
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Post by lisacharlotte on Jul 20, 2025 19:12:14 GMT
I love a road trip. I'm currently constrained by needing a babysitter for my uncle who lives with us and our five animals. Our last big one was in September 2023 when we road tripped to California and back (3k miles round trip).
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Post by Zee on Jul 20, 2025 20:29:42 GMT
I love a road trip. I'm currently constrained by needing a babysitter for my uncle who lives with us and our five animals. Our last big one was in September 2023 when we road tripped to California and back (3k miles round trip). I feel really lucky that my son can take care of all of my pets while I'm gone, including taking my dog to chemo. My cat also had to have an emergency visit a couple days ago that was incredibly stressful for me not being able to be there, but DS got it all handled and has been sending me many snaps of the cat and keeping me up to date (not sure exactly what was wrong with him but after $1100+ for blood and X-rays and medication and fluids and a kitty enema he seems to be on the mend)
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Post by mimima on Jul 20, 2025 20:39:35 GMT
I do, actually.
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Post by scraphappy0501 on Jul 20, 2025 21:38:43 GMT
I enjoy road trips. If we're going somewhere new to us I love to see new scenery and new places. When we moved from IL to CA when I was 13 we drove and took our time. I don't think we had one hotel reservation made in advance. We just drove and stopped when we wanted and then found a motel or hotel for the night. I still remember that trip vividly and it was over 45 years ago. When we lived in SoCal and my in-laws were in the Bay Area DH and I drove up to see them most 3 day weekends. We got really used to driving I-5 and knowing where to stop that had decent food and clean bathrooms. The drive probably took us anywhere from 6 1/2 to 8 hours depending on the traffic. Before satellite radio we would borrow books on tape from the library and listen to them during the drive. When we moved to Utah in 1998 DH's parents were still in NorCal and we would do one big road trip a year at Thanksgiving to visit them. By then we had our daughters and we'd would bring our little TV with the built in VCR and bungee cord it to the center console between the front seats so the girls could watch movies. I also made goody bags for the girls with books, crayons, coloring books, little games, etc., and brought snacks that we usually didn't have at home, so the trip was a kind of "event" for the girls. That was very useful for the, "I'm bored - when are we going to be there," times. I would whip out something new from the goodie bag or offer a new snack then, and for the really bad, "we've been in this vehicle forever and we're all about to lose our minds," time closer to the end of the trip there was always a new video I'd bring out in a last ditch effort to keep the peace until we arrived at our destination. When the ILs lived in the Bay Area the trip could take anywhere from 9 1/2 to 11 hours. When they retired and moved to the Sierra foothills it shaved a good 2 hours or so off the ride, which was nice. Those trips weren't exactly fun and the ride was pretty boring most of the way (there is essentially nothing interesting to see out of the windows as anyone who has driven on I-80 through Nevada probably knows) but we made them into a fun tradition. Our other road trips were family camping trips in the summer. Every year we'd head up to Grand Teton and Yellowstone National Parks for vacation (except for the one year we went to Glacier National Park instead.) Those trips were only about 5-6 hours (so "short" compared to driving to the ILs house) but they were fun events as well. Not as big a "production" as driving to California at Thanksgiving but there were still little surprises along the way to keep the kids entertained. Before satellite radio we'd bring cassettes tapes or CDs to listen to, and once we got satellite radio we would listen to old-time radio shows on what is now SiriusXM Radio Classics. If we got tired of those there were tons of music channels and several family-friendly comedy channels we could listen to during the drive. Since these road trips were "vacation" they were part of the fun that comes with vacation time. Those annual road trips became part of our family traditions and have made so many memories for us over the years that I look back on them as fun times. Now our DD's are married and it's just DH and I at home. MY ILs moved from California to live near us a few years ago so we don't do the long Thanksgiving road trip to their house anymore. DH and I still do road trips for camping though. It's a little different now that we don't have our DDs with us but we have our "new" traditions. We must have peanut butter M&Ms and Haribo Gold Gummy Bears to snack on one piece at a time to help the driver stay alert. A tube of Pringles helps satisfy any salty snack cravings and we don't have to worry about chips being crushed or spilling out of the bag. The cooler holds water bottles, Diet Coke and Diet A&W root beer, along with grapes and cheese sticks. We still listen to Radio Classics on Sirius XM. We stop at our favorite places along the way on the familiar trips and enjoy finding new places to stop when we venture somewhere we haven't been before. Just typing this all out I realize the road trips are part of each experience to me. There are other road trips I haven't written about that weren't for holidays or vacations. But my memory of the reason for those road trips also includes the driving portions. I guess the journey isn't just about the destination to me. Thank you to those of you who have made it this far! I didn't intend to write such a lengthy post when I started. I guess I'm feeling nostalgic for the, "good old days," of my past as I get older. 
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Post by whipea on Jul 21, 2025 0:30:09 GMT
Still struggling with photos but here is a link. 
awwwh! very good looking dog! So happy you can see the photo! She just turned 7 months old, so far very, smart, energetic and well behaved for a puppy. So happy with her.
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Post by mimi3566 on Jul 21, 2025 1:55:53 GMT
I LOVE road trips but ours are done in our class B camper van....we have our own bathroom, kitchen and bed so all the comforts of home. We also like to take the road less traveled whenever possible vs. the interstate.
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Post by moodyblue on Jul 21, 2025 2:05:29 GMT
I have done some very long solo road trips in the past. I used to go to an annual conference that was held all over the US and in Canada a couple times. I’m in Illinois and when I went to the one in Niagara Falls and in Phoenix, I chose to drive and make long trips out of them, otherwise I’d be going all that way and only seeing the airports and convention centers and not much else. Both of those trips ended up being about 4000 miles in total. I did a shorter trip when it was in Winnipeg, and when it was in Windsor, Canada.
I liked the trips a lot, saw a ton of places, and have great memories. I haven’t done a long one in years, though.
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Post by Zee on Jul 21, 2025 21:56:43 GMT
It's 98 degrees in Russell, KS. "Feels like" 107 per my phone. I opened the door and it almost blew out of my hands, wind speed is only 23 mph officially but it feels like a lot more at this stop on the highway.
The air also smelled like a barn; I looked up and saw a giant horse trailer. Probably on their way from a rodeo from the looks of it and the human occupants.
Of note along the road so far: absolutely nothing. We are now a convoy of two trucks, a trailer, and a car. Plus a dog and a lizard. Several Trump signs and plenty of White Jesus signs. Had to Google this one: Kill Relativism Not Babies.
We have to stop every 4 hours because we're using so much gas. Secretly I don't mind because I'm checking out the merch each time. Low-key wanted the American flag boots I just left behind, but I'm trying to be good.
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Post by dewryce on Jul 21, 2025 22:36:27 GMT
DH and I love love love them, and love planning them. We prefer to make sure we leave enough room to relax and not just power through to make it to whatever in time. The fun is spending time in the vehicle with each other. He likes to drive, which works well for me because I have a hard time sitting idle so am always doing something. Sometimes we do our own thing, sometimes we do not shut up, yakking for hours on end. We stop at the state lines, always have to pay the lottery in whatever states we drive through. We do love stopping for things, and to eat at local places, but that’s not the only reason for the trips. We drive to sporting events, theater, family vacations (meeting the others), concerts, and friends’ weddings. You name it and we’re happy to make a road trip out of it.
When we met we lived in Lubbock attending Texas Tech and our homes in Dallas and Austin were 5-8 hours away. We often drove home on the weekends and would miss our turns in tiny towns because we were so into our conversation. Always a good time singing and laughing and planning. Then, before I was diagnosed with bipolar disorder I was terribly depressed for a very long time but we didn’t know what was going on. A friend of mine liked *NSYNC but had nobody that wanted to see the show with her so we were happy to go even though that wasn’t our jam. It was a really fun show and because he hadn’t seen me that happy in ages he asked me to pick another show location anywhere and we’d go. I picked their last two shows in Florida. We had so much fun we kept it up.
DH’s whole family wanted to vacation @ DisneyWorld in 2024. On the way we stopped a couple of times, the main stop being Atlanta to see my team in their home park a couple of times. On the way back, we went the other way so we could see Kennedy Space Center. Biloxi on the way home, Mary Mahoney’s every time. For Christmas he surprised me with tickets to Spring Training, we found a concert I’d been really wanting to see so detoured through Birmingham before the games, and Pensacola (he was born there) and Biloxi on the way home. The intention was to stay at Jimmy Buffet’s resort and gamble then go to the tour of the ‘Light Tower’ on our way home but changed plans last minute so I could see my favorite pitcher when he debuted with his new team (the yanks, boo). Still ate at Mary Mahoney’s though. And I got in to We Create in Springfield, Missouri this year and turned it into an opportunity to watch several teams play baseball and football in different cities and see Laura Ingalls Wilder home and museum. Had to cancel, but we plan on doing it next year.
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Post by freecharlie on Jul 21, 2025 22:52:06 GMT
I don't mind them, but I Luke to drive. I'd drive at least 4 hours before switching. Sometimes more
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Post by lisacharlotte on Jul 22, 2025 3:57:16 GMT
I love a road trip. I'm currently constrained by needing a babysitter for my uncle who lives with us and our five animals. Our last big one was in September 2023 when we road tripped to California and back (3k miles round trip). I feel really lucky that my son can take care of all of my pets while I'm gone, including taking my dog to chemo. My cat also had to have an emergency visit a couple days ago that was incredibly stressful for me not being able to be there, but DS got it all handled and has been sending me many snaps of the cat and keeping me up to date (not sure exactly what was wrong with him but after $1100+ for blood and X-rays and medication and fluids and a kitty enema he seems to be on the mend) My son just got married and moved out. Until then, he was our house/uncle/dog/cat sitter. We are trying not to take advantage since they are just getting their feet under them. I'm starting to explore assisted living for my uncle since he was basically a stranger to me when he came to live with me five years ago. This was not something I expected to be doing and truthfully, I'm over it. I didn't retire early to become an elderly relative's caregiver.
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Post by voltagain on Jul 22, 2025 5:06:14 GMT
I enjoyed them when I was younger. But now, I cannot ride for more than 2 hours at a time and even that is a stretch. My bladder won't hold and my legs cramp up. Those stops really add time to the trip if it a "mission" like moving and they never line up to be anything touristy I might want to see.
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Post by Spongemom Scrappants on Jul 22, 2025 13:47:56 GMT
I don't like having to sit in one place for so long (I'm an up-and-down all day kind of person - can't sit still) but I view road trips as a means to an end mostly. I have no problem heading out on the road whether driving or riding... and even alone. I'm driving 2.5 hours Friday to pick up my three-year-old granddaughter and then travel another 5 hours with her to a family baby shower. Her mom can't go as she'll be less than three weeks away from delivering herself. So pretty princess Millie and I are making the trip so her mom & dad can stay home and get last minute things ready for baby brother. We'll be blasting kids' music and having fun. Oh, and she's recently potty-trained so I'm sure we'll be making plenty of random potty breaks. Zee -- Love the dino pic! I'd have had to stop for that photo as well.
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