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Post by Yubon Peatlejuice on Jan 24, 2015 17:21:04 GMT
I went in for my first mammogram about a month ago because I turned 40 and my primary care physician recommends annual mammos starting at 40. I wanted to at least go in and get the first one done as a baseline but I wasn't sure I would get them every year. During my physical before my mammo, my doctor did a breast exam and told me to expect a certain amount of "drama" when I get my mammo because I have dense breasts. Actually, I'm not sure if he said dense breasts or that I have a lot of cysts. I can't remember his exact words. I did ask him to explain though what he meant by "drama" though and he said that I should expect additional screening and not to be too concerned about it.
Sure enough, a couple of days after the mammo, I got called back in for an ultrasound on my right breast and now on Monday I have to go back in for a biopsy. I've read that 80-90% of those come back benign. I've also read that many other countries around the world don't start mammos until age 50 and then it's every 2-3 years after that until age 70. Whereas here, we do much more screening. Also, 30% of breast cancers are overdiagnosed and overtreated.
From everything that I've read, it almost seems like breast cancer treatment here in the US is just a big racket. In 100 years, are we going to look back at ourselves and say that these were barbaric times? That there are a bunch of women walking around with lumps missing or entire breasts missing, for no reason? Similar to how we look back at the Civil War and how many soldiers walked around with missing limbs because "that's the best medicine they had at the time" (amputation).
I understand that this thread may seem insensitive. I think I'm in the angry stage. I don't want to be put on the conveyor belt to cancer hell, where they tell you to chop off your breasts and then go put on a pink t-shirt and walk a marathon carrying a sign that says "Early Detection Saved My Life". What wonderful free advertising for oncologists.
I think that early mammos may actually cause more problems than they solve. Sorry if my views offend or upset anyone. I'd be interested in hearing other opinions. Do you get yearly mammos starting at age 40?
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Post by leslie132 on Jan 24, 2015 17:38:24 GMT
I am 42. I had my first mammogram in 2013 and I was scheduled for my second one in September of 2014. I am completely at the other end of the spectrum. I want to be screened every year. I want to know what is going on with my body. I want the doctors to have the earliest detection possible so that it can be caught and possible contained. And here is the really sad part.....I am so terrified of cancer that I won't go in for my appointment. I am 4 months out and I held off because, it was my sons 10th birthday in October, then we had to host Christmas and who wants to be sad, and then my babies turned 2 in the beginning of January. I have made so many excuses as to why I can't go. Fear is controlling me...and I'm so disappointed in myself.
So no, I don't worry about being overly sensitized towards cancer. It is a real threat to a lot of people. And early detection has led to a lot of people being able to say they are a survivor. If it saves 1 person...to me, and to them...it is worth it.
I hope your biopsy is pain free and has clear results!
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Post by conchita on Jan 24, 2015 17:41:47 GMT
I'm not there (40) yet, but almost. I'm not looking forward to that mammogram at all. I feel that way about hysterectomies though. 
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Post by christine58 on Jan 24, 2015 17:42:54 GMT
leslie132 Make that appointment!!! I will tell you that I never ever leave without the results. It always boggles my mind when so many of you get a call to go back in. Find a place that reads them immediately. I don't believe you can over treat breast cancer...I believe that you have to be informed about all choices etc.
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Post by Darcy Collins on Jan 24, 2015 17:43:54 GMT
I would suggest comparing 5 year survival rates in the US versus other countries before getting to worked up about over diagnosis. Early detection and treatment is why we have the highest survival rate for breast cancer in the world. But no one is forcing you to start having mammograms or having annual mammograms.
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Post by scorpeao on Jan 24, 2015 17:44:20 GMT
I have a friend who was reluctant to get her first mammogram. No family history, no lumps, nothing. Her dr finally talked her into it and they found cancer. Because it was caught so early she only had to have a lumpectomy and radiation. Her odds of survival are in the 95% range because of how early it was caught. My ExMIL wasn't so lucky. She died before early detection was a thing. I'd rather err on the side of caution, especially since my dd could potential be at risk given the family history, than let a couple hundred women die each year who could've been saved by early detection.
You have every right to be angry. I'd be angry too if I was faced with my own mortality. I will send prayers your way that it turns into nothing.
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Post by Darcy Collins on Jan 24, 2015 17:45:46 GMT
leslie132 Make that appointment!!! I will tell you that I never ever leave without the results. It always boggles my mind when so many of you get a call to go back in. Find a place that reads them immediately. I don't believe you can over treat breast cancer...I believe that you have to be informed about all choices etc. I agree - mine reads it immediately and if an ultrasound is required does it immediately. Now that may not be standard. I have dense breasts so always require an ultrasound, and a family history of breast cancer before 50.
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Post by J u l e e on Jan 24, 2015 17:48:07 GMT
I don't know. I hear what you're saying, but my closest experience to breast cancer is my SIL who found a lump at 34 years old (through early screening due to family history). She's gone through treatment twice now and at 50 (where it seems other parts of the world are just beginning screening) is alive and cancer free.
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Post by pierkiss on Jan 24, 2015 17:49:05 GMT
I am firmly in the camp of early detection saves lives. I would much rather have my mammograms and them find something and have it biopsied and it be benign, than not get them and not know about troublesome spots. Unfortunately, you cannot tell with ultrasound and mammograms alone if a lump is nothing, or if it is malignant. Perhaps someday science will get us to that point. Wouldn't that be amazing!  . But, for now, we cut. And I'm ok with that. But I know not everyone is.
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Post by *christine* on Jan 24, 2015 17:51:19 GMT
I think they tend to be overcautious, but I also think dense or cystic breasts are difficult to get good pictures. My breasts are large and have been described as dense and I've had cysts in them before.
I know it's nervewracking to be called back a couple of times, but chances are all will be well. You will probably have to go back annually though. Better safe than sorry! I hope everything goes well for you with your biopsy and it turns out to be nothing serious.
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Post by Yubon Peatlejuice on Jan 24, 2015 17:52:18 GMT
Scorpeao - "Only" a lumpectomy and radiation? See, those would be my next steps if the biopsy comes back malignant. But I think I would refuse radiation and any form of chemo. Of course I say that now, but it depends on the stage and grade of the cancer and the prognosis of course. People talk so flippantly about radiation but it has terrible side effects that go on for years. It's not like getting a sunburn and then moving on.
Leslie you say you have no problem with being overly cautious. And yet you do have a problem and it's called fear. That's what this branch of medicine is all about. Fear. Fear of getting screened, fear of getting treated, fear of not getting treated. Fear fear fear. I wish I hadn't gone down this path at all and waited until I was 50, or never.
Thanks for all the good thoughts.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 24, 2015 17:54:21 GMT
I buried my MIL on Tuesday because of breast cancer. She was diagnosed six years ago. She didn't want to get mammograms so she waited. The lump was not big and they were able to remove it and did chemotherapy and radiation. They thought it was gone. Last year it came back and spread throughout her body. I wonder if it had been caught earlier if she would still be here. If it had been caught earlier maybe she wouldn't have had to go through chemotherapy.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 24, 2015 17:55:08 GMT
I agree with you. I've read recent studies that show that going to the doctor for regular check ups, etc, actually has a negative impact on one's health.
My mom was diagnosed with non-Hodgkin's Lymphoma almost 14 years ago. At the time of diagnosis, it was indolent (slow-growing) and it did not respond to treatment until it transformed into an aggressive cancer. She likely had that cancer for many, many years before diagnosis. She was in remission for many years, and now has tumours again, and has for several years. But it is indolent again. So she, and all of us, are living with cancer. It's stressful. Even if it's not an every day stress, the knowledge that cancer IS there and growing slowly is something that is hard to live with every day.
So, in some ways, I totally think early detection is NOT always a good thing.
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Post by scorpeao on Jan 24, 2015 17:57:25 GMT
Scorpio - "Only" a lumpectomy and radiation? See, those would be my next steps if the biopsy comes back malignant. But I think I would refuse radiation and any form of chemo. Of course I say that now, but it depends on the stage and grade of the cancer and the prognosis of course. People talk so flippantly about radiation but it has terrible side effects that go on for years. It's not like getting a sunburn and then moving on. Leslie you say you have no problem with being overly cautious. And yet you do have a problem and it's called fear. That's what this branch of medicine is all about. Fear. Fear of getting screened, fear of getting treated, fear of not getting treated. Fear fear fear. I wish I hadn't gone down this path at all and waited until I was 50, or never. Thanks for all the good thoughts. Well, I'm definitely not flippant about it, but considering what I've seen other friends go through my friend had the best case scenario when it comes to breast cancer. Also, she finished radiation about 6 months ago and she hasn't complained of any side effects.
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Post by Sarah*H on Jan 24, 2015 18:00:52 GMT
I do see what you are saying and I'm sorry you're going through this. Hopefully it will turn out to be nothing and then you won't have to make any decisions at all.
From the other perspective, in the last three years my dh has ended up with early screening for two conditions which if he waited until they are both recommended at age 50, he wouldn't have been around for those screenings. In both cases, there was no family history of either type of cancer so we weren't expecting that news. I'm grateful that we have a health care system where we can be proactive if we choose to go that route.
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Post by paget on Jan 24, 2015 18:03:11 GMT
I'm 43 and have had mammograms since turning 40. I've had 4 since the 1st time I had a call back. My mom had breast cancer twice - first in one breast and had radiation treatment for it and then a couple years later in the next breast and at that point she had Radiation treatment and a double mastectomy. I'm in the better safe than sorry camp.
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Post by Zee on Jan 24, 2015 18:04:06 GMT
If you don't want to know, you have the choice not to follow up, just as you have the choice not to choose any treatment.
I prefer to know exactly what's going on so I can make the most informed decision possible. I had, like you, my first mammo last year--cysts, called back, had US, had biopsy. All was fine, just as I expected it to be. I did wait until 42 to have that first mammogram because there is no history of breast/female reproductive cancer in my family. I would gladly have waited until 50 but my new family doctor insisted. I could always have refused, though.
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Post by epeanymous on Jan 24, 2015 18:05:24 GMT
Haven't the guidelines been revised so that women over 40 are supposed to be getting mammograms less frequently for basically the reasons you are suggesting? I know my ob/gyn talked to me about the revised guidelines last time I was in, although I admit I basically tuned out after the part where they told me I wasn't going to be needing to get a mammogram as frequently as they had suggested a few years ago.
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Post by Yubon Peatlejuice on Jan 24, 2015 18:06:18 GMT
I would suggest comparing 5 year survival rates in the US versus other countries before getting to worked up about over diagnosis. Early detection and treatment is why we have the highest survival rate for breast cancer in the world. But no one is forcing you to start having mammograms or having annual mammograms. Sorry, and I'm not directing this at just you but at most of the things I have read, but I don't want to hear about 5-yr survival rates. That's a mere drop in the bucket of time. Why doesn't anyone talk about 10 or 20 or 30 year rates? In the US, if we are catching more breast cancer early, or at least what we call breast cancer, then of course we are treating it with high success rates. That skews the overall statistics to make us look like #1. What the numbers don't show however, is that many times those early cancers aren't cancer at all and never will become cancer. I wish I saved the link but I read somewhere that autopsies reveal many women with breasts tumors that would have been flagged as cancer by our screening methods but it never actually spread or caused any symptoms and the women died of other natural causes. We also don't want to talk about the number of women who die from chemo and not from cancer. Sometimes the treatment is worse than the disease, especially if the disease was never a danger in the first place. Sorry. I'm rambling now. I don't have any links to back anything up. I'm on my phone. Everyone should do their own research when it comes to things, and talk to their own doctors of course. That's my disclaimer. 
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Post by Darcy Collins on Jan 24, 2015 18:13:47 GMT
I say this with absolutely no snark intended. Stop reading the Internet until after your appointment. I am a huge proponent of research and self advocacy - but sometimes it does more harm than good. The current recommendation of a biopsy has essentially zero risk and zero side effects. Get the facts before freaking out. Then you can calmly research for yourself a continued mammogram frequency that you're comfortable with.
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Post by Dalai Mama on Jan 24, 2015 18:16:20 GMT
I would suggest comparing 5 year survival rates in the US versus other countries before getting to worked up about over diagnosis. Early detection and treatment is why we have the highest survival rate for breast cancer in the world. But no one is forcing you to start having mammograms or having annual mammograms. The US's 5-year survival rate for breast cancer for women over 65 is fantastic, possibly attributable to better screening under Medicare. If you are comparing survival rates for those under 65, the U.S. is somewhere in the middle of the pack.
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Post by monklady123 on Jan 24, 2015 18:19:12 GMT
OP I think you're being a bit over-dramatic. Seriously. You can choose not to get a mammogram, or if you ever get cancer you can choose not to have chemo. But lots of us are really glad we did. I had a routine mammo and they found "something". Did a biopsy and it was cancer. Yep, I chose a lumpectomy, radiation and chemo. Here I am 15 years later.  Also, radiation does not necessarily have "terrible side effects that go on for years". I don't have any side effects and never did, except for slight redness at the actual radiation site. I chose chemo even though my cancer was contained and not in my lymph nodes. But my doctor said she recommended it because of my young children. She asked me if my cancer ever came back would I want to think "oh, I should have had chemo" or would I rather say "I did everything that I could at that time". The latter, obviously. And, I don't know the statistics, but if as you say 80-90% of biopsies come back negative then that's great. That's still 10-20% that are coming back positive. I sure as heck want to know if I'm in that 10-20%.
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Post by Yubon Peatlejuice on Jan 24, 2015 18:26:00 GMT
. I chose chemo even though my cancer was contained and not in my lymph nodes. But my doctor said she recommended it because of my young children. She asked me if my cancer ever came back would I want to think "oh, I should have had chemo" or would I rather say "I did everything that I could at that time". The latter, obviously. . Yes, I'm sure that's a common line that they use whenever someone is wavering about continuing treatment. "You don't want to regret not getting treated". Well what about the women who did regret it? I'm glad things worked out for everyone who posted on this thread and I'm sorry for those who it didn't work out for. I am definitely being over-dramatic. I have my moments when that does happen. The more I read, the more pissed off I get. At the disease itself, and yes, and the doctors pushing the treatments. Cut, Burn and Poison, they all say. No thanks!!! Ok, taking a break from the intarwebs now. Darcy is totally correct.
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Post by scrapmaven on Jan 24, 2015 18:27:45 GMT
You sound totally freaked out and I don't blame you one bit. It's a really scary thing. What I can tell you is that the odds of things being benign are in your favor. Also, if the worst news were to happen you have choices about your treatment and about your medical team. It's cruel to make you wait over a weekend. Recommendations are changing, but I'll stick to my monthly self exams and annual mammos, because I have had benign issues and I never want to risk that anything that can be found early is missed. Again, odds are that you're going through all of this and your breasts are healthy, but better to know and treat now. Don't make treatment choices when you aren't there and probably won't be, but know that there are adjunct therapies that might help you tolerate chemo/radiation better. Wishing you benign results. Please let us know. Meanwhile, try and distract yourself as much as possible. Dwelling on this won't change anything. I know, easier said than done.
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Post by lucyg on Jan 24, 2015 18:32:43 GMT
I don't get to say this very often, but: Yubon, I completely agree with you.* *Except for the part about not being treated if you're diagnosed. You have a young child. You'd be a fool to refuse treatment that may save your life. Do you really want the ex and his GF raising your kid? We absolutely over diagnose and over treat breast cancer. If statistics say we have better survival rates than other first-world countries, that's probably from diagnosing younger and younger woman with precancerous conditions that we then treat, but were unlikely to ever progress to a killer cancer if left alone in the first place. I looked at that thread a couple of days ago asking people to identify causes of death in numerical order. Every response I looked at placed breast cancer way, way too high on the list. More women die of lung cancer than breast cancer. Far, far more women die of heart disease than breast cancer. About the over use of chemotherapy: it's kind of a crapshoot. Many women will survive breast cancer on their own without chemo. Some will die anyway, even after chemotherapy. There's maybe 10-15% of breast cancer patients whose lives will actually be saved by chemotherapy. I think I fall into that 10% category. My cancer was very aggressive and it was treated aggressively. But I've been cancer-free for 17 years, so it was worth it. But we really don't know which women will be saved by it, so ... yay! chemo for everyone! My cancer couldn't be seen on a mammogram, even after it had been positively diagnosed. The younger you are, the less likely a tumor will show up via mammogram alone. And the older you get, the more likely a cancer will be diagnosed via mammogram, but it's also more likely to be a slow-growing, non-threatening cancer that doesn't truly require treatment. But we keep diagnosing them and treating them nonetheless. That's why I think over-reliance on mammograms and the accompanying hysteria we see here and elsewhere that 40-something women congregate is a waste of time, money, and most of all emotions. And as always on these breast cancer threads, I recommend you get familiar with Breast Cancer Action. It will give you a lot more straight talk about breast cancer, its causes and treatments, the breast cancer industry and the politics of it all, than a dozen Susan G. Komens will.
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Post by mirabelleswalker on Jan 24, 2015 18:36:39 GMT
Scorpeao - "Only" a lumpectomy and radiation? See, those would be my next steps if the biopsy comes back malignant. But I think I would refuse radiation and any form of chemo. Of course I say that now, but it depends on the stage and grade of the cancer and the prognosis of course. People talk so flippantly about radiation but it has terrible side effects that go on for years. It's not like getting a sunburn and then moving on. Leslie you say you have no problem with being overly cautious. And yet you do have a problem and it's called fear. That's what this branch of medicine is all about. Fear. Fear of getting screened, fear of getting treated, fear of not getting treated. Fear fear fear. I wish I hadn't gone down this path at all and waited until I was 50, or never. Thanks for all the good thoughts. If you're going to decline treatment for localized disease, you might as well just skip the mammogram. There are very targeted forms of radiation available that are much more tolerable than your old school radiation therapy (google brachytherapy). Even some chemotherapies for breast cancer, while not fun, are relatively short and very effective. I know many women who have been treated for breast cancer who had lumpectomy/radiation or lumpectomy/chemotherapy and they've never looked back.
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Post by AnotherPea on Jan 24, 2015 18:38:27 GMT
I'm sorry you're facing this. But I think your anger is misdirected. If you don't want to seek medical attention, don't. But don't call it a scam when so many of us have friends and family with us because of those life-saving efforts.
I also have dense breasts and started having mammograms in my mid-30s. As a result I have had more than my fair share of biopsies. That I could have refused, but it would have been foolish to do so.
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Post by lucyg on Jan 24, 2015 18:38:36 GMT
One more thing. Chemo and radiation aren't as bad as you're making them out to be. It really is quite doable. Especially when you're a single parent with kid(s) at home. I told my oncologist I needed five years to get my kids grown and gone. He laughed. And he was right.
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Post by KelleeM on Jan 24, 2015 18:45:03 GMT
Cancer is the second leading cause of death in women in the US. Breast cancer is the second leading form of cancer deaths in the US.
I had an early diagnosis, a small tumor, positive lymph nodes and no family history on my mother's side. I choose a lumpectomy, chemotherapy, and radiation. It all sucked. I had severe burns, missed months of work, became depressed, and struggled through treatment. I'm only 9 months out from the end of my treatment and I'll never be back to "normal." Cancer changes you. I am glad I had the choice of treatment and as much as I hated it I'm grateful I had the choice of aggressive chemotherapy that other countries don't offer because of the expense.
You can make your own informed decisions about how to follow up or if you even want to follow up.
I know someone who was diagnosed over 6 years ago with cancer in both breasts. She has chosen no treatment. She has mammograms every 6 months to see if the cancer has spread and is fine with not being treated...not a choice I would make at 55 but it's her life.
I'm curious about your term "over diagnosis." You either have cancer or you don't, no?
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Post by lucyg on Jan 24, 2015 19:00:06 GMT
KelleeM said: Kellee, there are many slow-growing cases of breast cancer out there, especially in older women, that will never be a threat to anyone's health or life. But we find 'em and we treat 'em. There are also precancerous conditions (I bet that's what your friend has if it's on both sides) that often go nowhere. But we find 'em and we treat those, too. I don't know about the OP, but that's what I'm talking about when I say we over diagnose breast cancer.
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