NoWomanNoCry
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Post by NoWomanNoCry on Apr 29, 2015 3:49:43 GMT
My dad. I miss him everyday.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 29, 2015 3:54:19 GMT
My best friend for much of my childhood died of complications from Spina Bifida when I was 9. She was 12. I would love to catch up with her.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 29, 2015 4:31:00 GMT
My brother, Tim, who was murdered in 1985.
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Post by nitad on Apr 29, 2015 7:17:30 GMT
No question! My Mom. She passed when I was just 18 and I have so much I would like to discuss with her.
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Post by laureljean on Apr 29, 2015 7:27:43 GMT
My Dad. I have a lot of questions I would like to ask him.
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BarbaraUK
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Surrounded by my yarn stash on the NE coast of England...............!! Refupea 1702
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Jun 27, 2014 12:47:11 GMT
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Post by BarbaraUK on Apr 29, 2015 10:26:48 GMT
I do have a bench high on a cliff top overlooking a place where a big river meets the sea, where I go often - and just at the moment I think I would choose to sit there with my Son and Daughter....we share some very special memories of that spot going back many years.
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momto4kiddos
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Jun 26, 2014 11:45:15 GMT
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Post by momto4kiddos on Apr 29, 2015 11:42:02 GMT
As I read your first sentence all I could picture was my grandfather sitting on a bench at the beach so it seems it would be him. My parents had a falling out with my grandparents, specifically my grandmother when I was young. My grandfather used to hang out down by the beach some nights talking with his buddies. I remember stopping with my parents many a time to visit with him.
I've heard some great stories about him that i'd love to hear firsthand so i'm sure if I could have him back for an hour it would be a thoroughly entertaining hour!
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freebird
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'cause I'm free as a bird now
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Jun 25, 2014 20:06:48 GMT
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Post by freebird on Apr 29, 2015 14:45:01 GMT
Dumbledore. I need to know if I'm really a muggle.
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uksue
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Jun 25, 2014 22:33:20 GMT
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Post by uksue on Apr 29, 2015 14:57:35 GMT
Definitely my lovely mum. She died last November after a series of strokes and Alzheimer's but we hadn't talked properly for years over a silly argument that my dad blew out of all proportion. He didn't let me see her for years and now regularly writes to criticise me for not seeing her and for not going to the funeral ( which we were banned from.)
As a Christian I can only hope that we will be reunited one day.
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Post by leslie132 on Apr 29, 2015 15:10:20 GMT
My sweet baby girl Kennedy Kay. I have so much to tell her. And I just would love to feel her in my arms one more time, and kiss those cheeks. Oh my God did she have CHEEKS! So beautiful!
That would be the most joyous hour ever. But so bittersweet!
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Post by leslie132 on Apr 29, 2015 15:24:29 GMT
I would choose my infant daughter who died in November. The conversation would be very one sided I know and part of me wonders if only having one more hour would be good or bad. But I'd choose her. And snuggle her close and kiss her head. My baby Daughter passed away as well. She was 6 hours old and perfection in everyway. I never pictured myself with a daughter. I always said I would have 3 boys. I do have my 3 boys..... And a hole in my heart that will always be empty. It has been 4 years since we lost her. I am so glad God blessed us with our twins to help ease the pain. I hope whatever brings you peace can be found. The first year is so hard. It is raw. That is how I remember it. Everyday I felt like my nerves were exposed. Be kind to yourself! I will be thinking of you..... As I cry just writing to you..... And I hope our girls are friends in heaven.
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Post by ChicagoKTS on Apr 29, 2015 15:25:09 GMT
I would like to speak with Steve Jobs. He has made such an impact on my daily life, technology-wise, that I would just love to hear what he envisions for the future of tech stuff.
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Post by khaleesi on Apr 29, 2015 15:43:59 GMT
My maternal grandmother. She passed away when my mom was 11 and it's a topic we do not talk about much. I know some things, have a few photos, and have a couple of recipes in her handwriting. I want to know more.
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Post by papersilly on Apr 29, 2015 15:44:35 GMT
it would be hard for me to talk to a past relative because it would be crushing to say goodbye again. it would be like resetting the clock of grief. if it's only an hour, I have someone (present) in mind. it would be a light, fun and nostalgic conversation.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 29, 2015 15:45:50 GMT
My brother died when I was 11 and he was 21, because he was grown up and I wasn't I've always had a sense that I never really knew him. I'd like some time to sit with him and just listen to who he was, what his dreams were and all the things he felt about life in general.
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Mystie
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Post by Mystie on Apr 29, 2015 15:48:59 GMT
I would choose my grandmother. I have thought of so many things I wish I could have asked her, even though we had several long conversations about her life. And she was really into genealogy, and I have found out some things lately that I know would have excited her. There's just never enough time, I guess.
Warm thoughts to all of you who are missing a loved one today.
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Post by gramasue on Apr 29, 2015 16:52:01 GMT
Thanks to all you lovely ladies for all your wonderful, heartfelt replies. As I said in my OP, I was torn about the person I would choose to chat with, and that is because I also lost a daughter 4 years ago, and thought immediately that I would love to chat with her. However, as some of you have mentioned, it broke my heart to lose her once; I don't think I could stand it again. So I will let her rest in peace and wish for my Mom. My heart was broken when she died, too, but she was 89 and ready to go so I think I would be all right to call her back for just an hour. To those of you who have lost their children, my heart goes out to you especially, as I know the pain of that awful experience. It is something you never get over, you just get used to it. Life does really go on, although you are never the same person again. To those who have lost a loved one, I feel for you, too. My DH and I are now "the older generation", so we've said goodbye to all our parents and grandparents. On the bright side, the winter is finally over and the sun is shining! Have a wonderful day!
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Post by rainangel on Apr 29, 2015 17:19:56 GMT
Hands down my grandmother who passed only five days before I gave birth to a little girl who is named after her. I would tell her all about the two girls I have now, and I know she would cry of joy knowing how well they turned out. Oh, and also tell her about the three sons my cousin now have. Basically I need to update her on the familybabies since she's passed And ask her advice about a few things. We are allowed to cry and hug a lot during this hour right??
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Post by originalvanillabean on Apr 29, 2015 17:36:04 GMT
My grandma.
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Post by AngieandSnoopy on Apr 29, 2015 17:50:20 GMT
Easy to pick one but wish it could be more than one. It would be my father who died when I was 8, but I wish his grandparents and great-grandparents could be there along with some relatives on my mother's side that died before I was born also.
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Post by scrappysurfer on Apr 30, 2015 1:49:50 GMT
My father, he passed away after heart surgery when I was 16. I'd love to tell him about my boys and my DH, he would have Adored them.
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