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Post by jumperhop on May 21, 2015 4:44:01 GMT
He might notice but he would never mention it. Jen
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Post by mikewozowski on May 21, 2015 4:48:43 GMT
took my husband about 6 weeks one time. it was hanging in the entryway, not exactly hidden!
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Post by cadoodlebug on May 21, 2015 4:51:35 GMT
I have realized men don't notice things. I can set the clothes basket with clean clothes at the foot of the stairs and DH and DS will walk by it numerous times without taking it up. Or the dirty clothes at the top of the stairs and they will practically have to step over it to come down stairs. And they do.
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TheOtherMeg
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Post by TheOtherMeg on May 21, 2015 5:15:36 GMT
Many years ago, I wallpapered the laundry room while DH was on a business trip. One must walk through the laundry room when entering/leaving the house via the garage (which is how we enter/leave 99.9% of the time).
The paper was very colorful. With stripes. And a border. On all four walls.
DH didn't notice for months.
I'm not complaining, as this works to my advantage the majority of the time. I do lots of cool things while he's away on trips.
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Post by SweetiePie Pea on May 21, 2015 8:12:35 GMT
He'd notice right away...Id have already forgotten buying and hanging it within a few hours.
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Post by Bitchy Rich on May 21, 2015 12:49:51 GMT
I replaced the plain hallway light fixture with a stained glass one. It took well over 3 months for him to notice. This hallway is between our kitchen and family room. And while we rarely use that light, he probably walked through there a couple hundred times.
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Post by gonewalkabout on May 21, 2015 13:06:42 GMT
Going on past experience with other items, anywhere from 2 days to a week.
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Post by mallie on May 21, 2015 13:13:03 GMT
Several weeks. Maybe. Or it might take a year. He's absolutely oblivious to things in the house. He's also oblivious when I change my hair color. To him, it's ALL visual clutter. So he ignores it all. It's amazing what he simply doesn't notice. He'd be a terrible witness.
That's why I no longer compromise with him over home furnishings. He'd argue til the cows come home to get his way over the color of our bedspread and then could not tell someone what color the bedspread is. No lie. Seriously, no lie. So I don't compromise any more. I just go out and buy what I want. If he's going to be oblivious, he can be oblivious to my choices and I can be happy.
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Post by Deleted on May 21, 2015 13:17:50 GMT
DH would notice as soon as he walked in the room. The kids could go months without noticing something new . While dh wouldn't notice right away, it'd take the kids months to notice. We rearranged the living room. When the boys came home, they were like, "did you change something here?"
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Post by jeremysgirl on May 21, 2015 14:25:37 GMT
My DH notices everything. Every little detail. I, on the other hand, would take weeks to notice something like that. I just don't pay much attention to my environment. Especially in my own house because I am so used to everything being wherever it goes.
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Post by bianca42 on May 21, 2015 17:13:26 GMT
My Mom hung new curtains in their bedroom. My Dad noticed one day that the curtains were "new"...except they had been there for 2+ years at that point.
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Post by Deleted on May 21, 2015 18:02:41 GMT
He would notice. He just wouldn't say anything. One time I put 50 lbs of blasting powder in out cart at Home Depot and he didn't say a single word. After about 20 minutes, I couldn't take it anymore and asked him he wondered why I was getting 50 pounds of blast powder. He said "I just figured you had your reasons.
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