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Post by Deleted on Nov 7, 2015 5:00:53 GMT
If it was an expensive item then it would be nice if it was returned, but I wouldn't expect it. I'd never think that mittens, coats etc would be returned. Rather, I would expect my child to go to the lost and found.
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Country Ham
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Post by Country Ham on Nov 7, 2015 5:09:32 GMT
I find it depends on the item. A no name brand, dirty hoodie gets tossed in the lost/found box in the hallway for kids to look through themselves. A well looked after under armor hoodie will be kept at the front desk and sometimes even an announcement on the pa system. If a name is written on the tag inside someone usually goes and finds the kid. We are a small town/school. Ie: the jr high is only 4 homerooms. My son has a common name but the only one with that first name. It wouldn't be hard to track him down if he left his backpack. Only jr kid with white/grey Under Armor one.
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Post by luv2scrapaboutmykids on Nov 7, 2015 5:35:40 GMT
I don't know how big this school is but if an item has a name on it surely it should not be that hard to return it to said child. Unless it is a university with thousands of people. When my kids were in school their school had about 300 kids in it. If something was lost they had to look for it of course. Sometimes things took a while to show up in the lost and found. I worked (still do) full time and rarely, rarely went to the school. I expected those parents who were at the school going through the lost and found would distribute as much as they could.
Maybe I was expecting a lot but I don't think I was.
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Post by happymomma on Nov 7, 2015 5:53:45 GMT
It should be up to the kid that loses the item (or their parents) to check the lost and found, not the responsibility of anyone else to track them down. If they know whose it is, and are kind enough to notify them, fine. But it shouldn't be anyone's 'job' to do so. If you don't care enough about an item to check the lost and found, why should anyone else care if it gets returned to you?
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Post by crazy4scraps on Nov 7, 2015 5:59:04 GMT
At least once a week I find a coat or jacket in my classroom that nobody will claim. I will hold it up and ask WHOSE JACKET IS THIS??? and all I hear is "not mine..." I have even held coats directly in front of kids--on the day they wear them to school and ask IS IT YOURS? And they will swear up and down that it is not. Only for me to find out later that it really was theirs after all.... 5 year olds are so weird! Ugh, this happened to me last year when DD was in Pre-K. The kid lost her snow pants at school ( Like someone else noted, HOW does that even happen?) and I emailed the teacher that afternoon. Of course, I asked DD what she did with them and she didn't know. Asked the bus driver the next day, and they weren't on the bus. Emailed the teacher again the next day with more specifics (even though they were labeled inside with her name). So the next day I went into school and looked through the lost and found and they weren't there, and I was astounded by the sheer quantity of stuff that kids left behind. So the next time I saw the teacher in person a few days later, I asked again and she came out with DD's snow pants, only one of the buckles was broken off and the strap was held together with a big blue diaper pin--so of course when the teacher asked her if they were the ones she was missing, she looked right at them and said, "Noooo." Sheesh.
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Post by finally~a~mama on Nov 7, 2015 6:22:44 GMT
Last year was my DD's first year of school. She brought home the wrong lunchbox (same design as her's - the lunchboxes were all lined up together so she just grabbed the wrong one). I had written DD's name inside her lunchbox, but the box she brought home didn't have a name. She took it back the next day and her teacher sent her to the office to check lost & found. I was surprised that no one brought her's back to her since it had her name in it. Glad I read this. I get it now.
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Post by LavenderLayoutLady on Nov 7, 2015 12:10:04 GMT
I've never heard of a lost & found that was "manned" with people to return your items.
Kids are lucky to have a lost & found to find their things in the first place.
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Post by Julie W on Nov 7, 2015 12:17:15 GMT
It should be up to the kid that loses the item (or their parents) to check the lost and found, not the responsibility of anyone else to track them down. If they know whose it is, and are kind enough to notify them, fine. But it shouldn't be anyone's 'job' to do so. If you don't care enough about an item to check the lost and found, why should anyone else care if it gets returned to you? This sums up my feelings and is why I posted the thread. I feel like there is a better way to spend their time!
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Post by brina on Nov 7, 2015 12:55:43 GMT
Any night or day that parents will be at school - curriculum night, parent teacher conferences, the art show, etc, an email goes out to parents asking them to please stop by Lost and Found while they are at the school and check to see if any of their child's things are in Lost and Found. I understand that many parents do not go to the school daily if their child rides the bus to school, but there have to be some days that they are their over the course of the year.
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Post by purplebee on Nov 7, 2015 13:06:52 GMT
Haven't read all the responses, but my primary school where I work has a lost and found corner in the cafeteria dining area. PTO members will occasionally sort through and hang larger items like winter coats on a coat rack specifically for that purpose.
After 15+ years working there, I am still astounded at the number of high-end winter coats and jackets that go unclaimed, and that have no identifying labeling on them. My kid's name was written in sharpie in all of his coats and jackets for as long as he'd let me! My lunch lady crew will even flag down kids to retrieve coats/jackets if we find them with names in them.
If my elementary school child was missing a Lands End or Under Armour jacket, I would know it and be looking for it.
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Post by pridemom on Nov 7, 2015 13:09:03 GMT
If you are missing something, the most logical place to look is lost and found. My school takes bags full of items to the thrift store at the end of every school year. One pair of boots were Uggs. Who doesn't look for $150 boots? After cleaning out lockers one year after school let out for the summer, teachers were allowed to pilfer before things were sent to thrift. Hubby scored like new Lucky jeans. Who doesn't see the $100 jeans in their locker when they clean it out?
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Post by AnotherPea on Nov 7, 2015 13:38:48 GMT
I think most people do not realize how "just a few minutes" can add up for school staff. My school is quite large. To gather, check for names and deliver to the office all of the items "lost" just during lunch would take well over an hour. Then somehow the students would have to be notified that their items are waiting for them. How? First you have to look up the child's schedule and then email the teacher. If the teacher doesn't check her email during that period, she has to write a reminder for the next day. One lunchbox, with a name written inside, could easily cost five minutes of productivity. Doesn't seem like much until you multiply it times the 50-60 items that are "lost" over the course of three lunch periods. Would anyone really rather five hours each day go to tracking down owners instead of answering the phones up front, grading papers in the classroom, scrubbing the tables in the lunchroom?
I have a raincoat in my room that hasn't been claimed. I don't know when it was left, but over the course of a week I have over 200 kids that are in my room. It could belong to a current student, one of my club members, someone that came in for tutoring or a friend that came with any of the above. If it is still there on Monday, it will go to the lost and found. When I discovered the coat, in a corner, folded up, I had to walk out of the building to shake off the water caught in the folds. I'm not by an outside door. That took about 4 minutes. Looked through for a name (tag, pockets, folded up homework, etc.). 1 minute. Hung it up (grabbed one of my hangers, found a magnetic hook to put on my board). 2 minutes. Seven minutes for one item in my room. In seven minutes I can grade one class set of quizzes. As it is, I work "off the clock" for hours each day. There isn't enough time to get what I NEED to get done as it is. I would appreciate it if my child's teacher took the time to make sure her raincoat didn't get mildew growing, but I'd never expect it.
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Post by littlemama on Nov 7, 2015 13:49:54 GMT
Who said anything about sorting clothing?. Person A finds item, if that person doesn't know what class the child is in, they ask their class if anyone knows. If no one does, the item goes to the office so the child can be looked up by the office staff, item is delivered by student aide. If the name isn't in the system, it goes to lost and found with unlabeled items. It's not rocket science and doesn't take but a moment. In our school 95 percent of the items were not labeled. We had an office aide that tried to find the owners, but with 700+ kids, you just couldn't keep up. And if the items are not labeled, they go straight to the lost and found.
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Post by Skellinton on Nov 7, 2015 17:08:49 GMT
In our school 95 percent of the items were not labeled. We had an office aide that tried to find the owners, but with 700+ kids, you just couldn't keep up. And if the items are not labeled, they go straight to the lost and found. Our school is low income, I am pretty sure that 50% of the clothes with names are names of previous owners, not the kids that actually own it now. Also, it all sounds easy the way you described it, but who takes the item to the office? A student? Would have to be someone responsible and wouldn't dawdle, but even so that is taking time out of the classroom. You are assuming the school has a student aide for when the item has been looked up- none of the elementaries I have worked at had one. You are also assuming the office staff have nothing better to do then look this info up or are not busy when the item is dropped off. I don't recall ever walking into our office and having the staff just sitting there waiting to look up an item. They are typically on the phone with parents, filing paperwork, dealing with sick kids, or doing something else that is actually their responsibility. If they are busy it either distracts them from their work or the person has to wait to ask their question, have it looked up, etc, etc. i don't get the big deal with just taking an item to lost and found and leaving it there. There is no arguing that is the least time consuming process, and everyone (children and parents) know it exists and if something is missing that is a reasonable place to look for it. If it is important to the parent or child they will make or find time to check.
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Post by 950nancy on Nov 7, 2015 17:42:56 GMT
And if the items are not labeled, they go straight to the lost and found. Our school is low income, I am pretty sure that 50% of the clothes with names are names of previous owners, not the kids that actually own it now. Also, it all sounds easy the way you described it, but who takes the item to the office? A student? Would have to be someone responsible and wouldn't dawdle, but even so that is taking time out of the classroom. You are assuming the school has a student aide for when the item has been looked up- none of the elementaries I have worked at had one. You are also assuming the office staff have nothing better to do then look this info up or are not busy when the item is dropped off. I don't recall ever walking into our office and having the staff just sitting there waiting to look up an item. They are typically on the phone with parents, filing paperwork, dealing with sick kids, or doing something else that is actually their responsibility. If they are busy it either distracts them from their work or the person has to wait to ask their question, have it looked up, etc, etc. i don't get the big deal with just taking an item to lost and found and leaving it there. There is no arguing that is the least time consuming process, and everyone (children and parents) know it exists and if something is missing that is a reasonable place to look for it. If it is important to the parent or child they will make or find time to check. I 100% agree with you here @skellington. After a day of school in colder weather, I'll bet there are at least 30 articles of clothing left behind. How a kid can lose one winter boot is beyond me. Our Lost and Found was huge. There were pegs for 50 coats, but that was filled within days of the first cold day. I was always surprised at the amount of clothing (and some of it really nice) that was never claimed. I used to be a little judgy about it until I had kids and realized unless it was a winter coat that was worn daily, things do get lost! We got a call from the dentist's office last summer that they found a coat with my son's name in it. (Dentists were my husband's responsibility, so I take no blame!) The best part was that it was his jean jacket from when he was maybe four or five and was he was eighteen. We all got a good laugh out of that. Of course he squeezed into it or a fun picture.
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Post by SabrinaM on Nov 7, 2015 19:09:42 GMT
I teach middle school students and you wouldn't believe how many hoodies, sweaters etc. are left in my classroom. They sit in my room on my counters for WEEKS before I get so sick of seeing them, that I send them down to Lost and Found. These items belong to students who come to my room once a day...and they are not in the least concerned about their clothing. I certainly wouldn't be tracking parents/students to get their things back. There is such a thing as personal responsiblity. YES!! I placed a lost book at the front of the class on the white board. Students are staring at it ALL hour. After a week of subbing in this class I raised the book in the air each hour and asked if it belonged to anyone. Sure enough, it belonged to a girl in 3rd hour. She sits in the first seat of the row and didn't see the thing!
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Post by cadoodlebug on Nov 7, 2015 19:31:21 GMT
I was always amazed at the pairs of shoes in lost and found. DS had very narrow feet so he had ONE pair of tennis shoes. Guess other kids have multiple pairs.
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Post by iamkristinl16 on Nov 7, 2015 19:49:17 GMT
I can see it both ways. Ideally, kids would know they are missing something and go looking for it in the lost and found. But, that doesn't always happen. For example, when my oldest was in K or 1st grade, I realized that we were missing a coat in early fall, but I had just gone through things and put the coats that were from the previous year into storage and gotten the bigger ones out. I assumed I had just put it in the storage bin with the rest of the stuff. Several months later we were at the school for an event and I saw the coat (it was a distinct color) sitting in a bin for kids who forgot coats that day. I believe that DS must have worn it to school one day when it was cold in the morning but not in the afternoon, so he didn't realize that he had forgotten it. I was happy to have it back. Since our school is smaller, it would have been nice if someone would have just looked at the name and given it back to him.
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Post by threegirls on Nov 7, 2015 21:38:16 GMT
My own policy on lost and found with my kids is this, if you lost it you find it!
They know I mean business. I refuse to replace a lost item. If they don't find the item they don't get a new one. If it's a lunchbox they can use the one I picked up for free from a radio station (it has advertising for the station on it and they hate it). If it's a coat, they can look through the old ones we have in the basement, most likely it will be too big or too small. If it's a backpack they can use the old one from pre-school - and yes this goes for my 8th grader. If she wants, she can buy herself a new one, she has money.
So far so good. Just a few items have been misplaced but the item has always been found.
I would not expect the school to call me or hand over a lost item to a student.
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Post by corinne11 on Nov 7, 2015 21:55:45 GMT
We have over close to 600 students. Every day several items are left in the library. I keep them there for 48 hrs as very often they will return looking for them, often with parents after school.
If they are names in them I will often post a quick note in our electronic daybook to let teachers know - e.g John rm 6, Sara rm 7. please come collect your belongings. Honestly, only about half actually come and collect them. I do end up putting them in our lost and found box as the pile can grow huge! They will usually come to collect hats as we now have all year round hat policy and they can't play without them, but jumpers, drink bottles etc?? I often see parents rummaging through the box, but we still do the big line of clothes at the end of term and donate all the leftovers.
Corinne
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Post by IAmUnoriginal on Nov 7, 2015 22:26:43 GMT
At ODS's elementary school, if the item was labeled clearly, it was returned to the student, via their teacher. A PTA volunteer went through the lost and found items each week, matched the labels to students, and put the item in their teacher's Rubbermaid type tote. The bin got dropped off at the teacher's door before the end of the day and items passed out. Unlabeled items were spread out on tables in the entry and lobby in front of the auditorium when parents would be in the building -- conferences, Christmas program, class parties, etc. Anything not claimed at the end of the year was donated.
At ODS's middle school, the office emailed each advisory teacher a list of students in their advisory period with a labeled item in the office. One of the school secretaries took care of putting together the emails. The student had 2 days to claim it or it was put in the general lost and found. Lost and found items were laid out just like at his elementary school for conferences, concerts, and PTA meeting nights. Items were donated at the end of each trimester.
HS - someone on the student council takes pictures of the items and posts them to the student portion of the school's website. If it's not claimed within 2 weeks, it's put in the donate bin for the next time the charity picks up from the school.
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Post by rickmer on Nov 7, 2015 23:54:56 GMT
my boys were both bus students so i wasn't often in the school. but i took special trips just to troll the main lost and found, the class basket and the gym (and always found something of ds1's). i would never expect a teacher to keep track of crap i can't keep track of! lol! and i have to lol because it drives.me.batty. lunch is sent in plastic grocery bags now, food in recycled cream cheese containers, crackers in the cracker bag if it's the end of the box... uh huh.
our school has parent volunteers that hang up jackets/hoodies, sorts shoes, mitts, etc and then bags and donates after several reminders a couple time of year. there is often some higher end stuff in there (columbia jackets, uggs).
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Post by 3girlsmomma on Nov 8, 2015 10:02:25 GMT
I have never been notified by the school of anything lost. I have checked the lost and found 2 times/year and always find a sweatshirt that has been left. We have tons of sweatshirts because we have had 3 kids go through this parochial school. I have no expectation of the school letting me know my kids' items are there. If I look through it, and I see something that belongs to another kid, and I know I see their parents every day at drop off or pick up, I will take it to them, or let them know the item is in there.
I don't think anyone at our school expects it.
And snow pants? I would miss those.
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Post by cannes on Nov 9, 2015 14:22:07 GMT
I think it's unreasonable to expect school staff to sort through and return lost items. There are only so many hours in the day and the amount of lost items at a school can be overwhelming.
I always thought that putting your name on an article of clothing was a way for you to identify your belongings if there are multiples of said item. If labeled, you'd know exactly which blue sweatshirt belongs to you out of the several that could be in the lost and found pile, for example. I would not expect someone to just track me down to return the item.
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Post by peabrain on Nov 9, 2015 16:02:03 GMT
We have a small elementary school. But when I was on the PTA, I took a picture of the rack and posted it on our facebook page. Parents were shocked to see their kids stuff on their. But it got the items moving so now every once in a while the pta still does this.
They also move the rack so you basically trip over it coming in for parent teacher conferences and such.
It is a gross job. Lunchboxes filled with uneaten moldy food. UGGG
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