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Post by iamkristinl16 on Nov 12, 2015 20:59:24 GMT
I'm curious how the pain and recovery is for a hysterectomy (laparoscopic surgery) vs c-section. This will probably not come across the wrong way, but I have a Facebook friend who had a hysterectomy about two weeks ago and she is acting like she is dying. She posts updates about her pain daily. As someone who has had four c-sections, I can't recall ever commenting about the pain on Facebook, or really much IRL, even to DH.
I'm wondering if the expectations when people have a c-section vs having a different type of surgery are different? When you have surgery, it is expected that you have pain and need to rest to recover. When you have a c-section you just had a baby and are expected to do all that comes with it, despite the pain?
Or maybe I am wrong and having a hysterectomy is worse?
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Post by georgiapea on Nov 12, 2015 21:11:06 GMT
My hyst. was with the bikini cut back in the 70's. I was not to drive, climb stairs or sweep for 6 weeks and I was still discomforted when doing those things a year later. The laparoscopic version is said to be easier but people have varying pain thresholds too.
I've often wondered how women can have C-sections and hop right into caring for their baby full time.
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Post by valleyview on Nov 12, 2015 21:14:52 GMT
I had the same surgery as georgiapea. With a hysterectomy, there is more moving of organs and resettling of them than in a C-section. The incision is not the only source of pain.
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Post by vjlau on Nov 12, 2015 21:15:20 GMT
I've had a hysterectomy and a C-section.
C-section was bad. I also had blood clotting issues after, so mine was maybe worse than your average. Still, I was up and home and doing most things within a week. Pain was hard if I sneezed or hard to get up for a few weeks after that.
Hysterectomy I had laparoscopic. I had it on a Thursday morning, came home on Friday morning. I was pretty sore over the weekend. On Monday night I went to a work dinner. I was tired for a week-ish, but much less pain that the Csection.
Just my personal experience with both.
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Post by M in Carolina on Nov 12, 2015 21:18:06 GMT
I always hear about all the hormones that women experience when having babies.
I had a really rough time with my hysterectomy and removal of my remaining ovary. It was technically laparascopic, but I also had a 6 inch cut above my pubic bone that clotted with a clot the size of a calf liver. I also bled so much I had to have a transfusion. There were also nasty hot flashes within the week.
I've heard some women having to stay really quiet after their C sections. You're cutting into the uterus as well as through all the muscle and skin, fat layers.
I think C sections are difficult to recover from. People don't listen to doctors all the time.
There is also this stupid competition between women. Who gives a shit if you were able to get up in post op and do acrobatic moves? and someone else could barely move for a month. Everyone's body is different.
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Post by 950nancy on Nov 12, 2015 21:19:07 GMT
I had a hysterectomy that involved a C-section type cut. They tried to do it with a laparoscopic cut, but my fibroid was too large to take out of the little holes. It hurt like hell for about three days and then if I was careful with the way I moved it was okay. I just took Tylenol after the third day. Perhaps it is something they did inside of her. Organs and "important stuff " get cut out and maybe that is her pain. The c-section itself doesn't involve the innards as much as a hysterectomy. (This is my hypothesis- never had a c-section.) Maybe the doctor knicked something, maybe she hasn't ever had surgery before, maybe she doesn't do well with pain. I know that even though the cuts are little with her surgery, what they do on the inside can cause a lot of pain. That being said, I have a pretty low pain tolerance and was allowed to leave the day after my hysterectomy do go home and suffer in the comfort of my own bed. Perhaps someone should encourage her to go back to her doctor if she is in that much pain. You never know.
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Post by darkangel090260 on Nov 12, 2015 21:19:17 GMT
every women i have ran across thing they are out of order for months after a c- section. With both of mine i was up and walking in 10 hours or less. and driving with in a few days. I know one that is at 3 months and you would have thought that she was sliced in half how she behaves.
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Post by crimsoncat05 on Nov 12, 2015 21:24:34 GMT
never had a C-section, but I agree with the 'they did stuff inside you and cut stuff out' comment. I had to keep reminding myself that no matter how *little* the incisions looked, there was lots of stuff done that couldn't be seen. (...and discomfort from the gas / bloating from the laproscopic surgery, too...)
That all being said, if she truly is in that much pain, I think I'd go to the doctor, if it was me, to make sure something wasn't wrong.
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Post by scrapsuzy on Nov 12, 2015 21:32:23 GMT
I had rough, long, painful recoveries from both my c-section and my laproscopic hysterectomy. I don't know that one was worse than the other, just different.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 12, 2015 21:36:43 GMT
I think pain is a personal thing, what might be nothing to you might be total agony to someone else. I see no need to compare it.
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Post by Dori~Mama~Bear on Nov 12, 2015 21:39:35 GMT
Every persons pain level is different. I know when I had my hysterectomy almost 11 years ago I was in major pain for weeks. I was really sick when I had surgery so we knew going into it it would take me longer to heal. Then I had a slight complications about 5 days after going home from the hospital and it made the pain much worse so it took longer for my body to heal. I have never had a c section so I can't tell you the length of recovery.
There is a light at the end of the tunnel though.
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Post by happymomma on Nov 12, 2015 21:41:56 GMT
I had a laproscopic hysterectomy. To tell the truth, I felt NO pain from the surgery itself, just discomfort up around the shoulders from the gas they pump into you to perform the surgery. I was extremely tired for close to six weeks, but as for pain, none. I didn't have a c-section, but I did have old-style gastric bypass (cut open from breastbone to pubic line) back in the day. That was mighty painful as they cut through many layers to include muscle, which is what I think they do in a c-section. Some people just tolerate pain much much better than others, or want sympathy. A hysterectomy can be a very emotional experience, leading her to just be in a bad place and complain. Or...maybe she is having some kind of complication and really is in pain. I would 'unfollow' her for awhile if her posts annoy you. I do that from time to time with friends. It's okay to do.
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Post by calgal08 on Nov 12, 2015 21:43:18 GMT
It's all down to the individual. I had an emergency C with my oldest ds. I discharged myself from the hospital early because I hated not being active. I was walking on the beach with ds on day 2, driving on day 3, my folks arrived from England on day 4, by which time I'd cleaned the house from top to bottom and cooked a bunch of meals. That's just the way I am. Yes I was sore, tired, etc. I have zero family within a few thousand miles (well, except for dh and the kids) so I have no choice but to suck it up and get on with it.
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Post by ~Susan~ on Nov 12, 2015 23:17:21 GMT
I've had two c-sections and a laproscopic hysterectomy. My 1st c-section was horrible. One of the staples was in a nerve and caused terrible pain. I couldn't lie flat for two weeks. It seemed like it took forever to feel right. I developed a lot of scar tissue.
The second c-section was much better. I was up and doing things within a week.
The hysterectomy was done on an outpatient basis. I was home by late afternoon. No pain pills after two days, but I was very, very tired. It was like someone sucked the energy out of me.
Everyone's pain tolerance is different and if she is still having that kind of pain then she needs to be seen by her dr.
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Post by Zee on Nov 12, 2015 23:22:27 GMT
I have never had a C section and my hyst was vaginal, so no abd incision. I was surprised how much the inside of my abd hurt; not terrible, but more than I expected. It took a while for everything to settle into place and heal, I guess.
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Post by stittsygirl on Nov 12, 2015 23:33:38 GMT
I had the same surgery as georgiapea. With a hysterectomy, there is more moving of organs and resettling of them than in a C-section. The incision is not the only source of pain. Not necessarily. I've assisted in many of both, and in a c-section generally the whole uterus is taken out through the incision and examined, after the baby has been delivered, and then put back into the cavity. There's as much movement of organs in a C-section as there is in an open hysterectomy. I've not had a C-section or a hysterectomy, but I have had a colon resection and had a large midline incision. I remember it being very painful for about a week. But, the worst pain I've had after surgery is when I had my gall bladder laparoscopically removed. Although there were only a few small incisions, the leftover CO2 gas in my abdomen caused incredible "shoulder strap" pain, that I couldn't get relief from. So in some cases laparoscopic surgeries can be harder and/or more painful to recover from than open ones.
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Post by seaexplore on Nov 13, 2015 0:41:57 GMT
I had the same surgery as georgiapea. With a hysterectomy, there is more moving of organs and resettling of them than in a C-section. The incision is not the only source of pain. Not necessarily. I've assisted in many of both, and in a c-section generally the whole uterus is taken out through the incision and examined, after the baby has been delivered, and then put back into the cavity. There's as much movement of organs in a C-section as there is in an open hysterectomy. I've not had a C-section or a hysterectomy, but I have had a colon resection and had a large midline incision. I remember it being very painful for about a week. But, the worst pain I've had after surgery is when I had my gall bladder laparoscopically removed. Although there were only a few small incisions, the leftover CO2 gas in my abdomen caused incredible "shoulder strap" pain, that I couldn't get relief from. So in some cases laparoscopic surgeries can be harder and/or more painful to recover from than open ones. SERIOUSLY? Omg! I thought they just took the kiddo out and started stitching layers closed from the inside out. Wow! I had a c-section in 2011 and my kiddo was sent to the NICU. I had to be there every 2 hours to try and nurse her. Unsuccessfully nurse, I might add. For the first 12 hours, DH wheeled me to and from the NICU. The next 12 I pushed the chair there and got pushed back. The 12 hours after that I pushed the chair both ways. By the time I left on day 3, I was walking both ways myself. I piggy backed Vicodin and Motrin for a week, I think not wanting to have any pain at all just in case. I had laparoscopic tube removal on one side in April of this year and took pain meds for 3 days or so regularly around the clock and then for 4-6 more days as needed for pain. 7 days after surgery, I walked 3 miles. I felt it after doing that but I was able to. i think it really does depend on each persons pain tolerance. With my ectopic, I had ZERO pain. My doctor was shocked that I wasn't in pain since it was very close to rupture.
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Post by stittsygirl on Nov 13, 2015 1:33:41 GMT
Not necessarily. I've assisted in many of both, and in a c-section generally the whole uterus is taken out through the incision and examined, after the baby has been delivered, and then put back into the cavity. There's as much movement of organs in a C-section as there is in an open hysterectomy. I've not had a C-section or a hysterectomy, but I have had a colon resection and had a large midline incision. I remember it being very painful for about a week. But, the worst pain I've had after surgery is when I had my gall bladder laparoscopically removed. Although there were only a few small incisions, the leftover CO2 gas in my abdomen caused incredible "shoulder strap" pain, that I couldn't get relief from. So in some cases laparoscopic surgeries can be harder and/or more painful to recover from than open ones. SERIOUSLY? Omg! I thought they just took the kiddo out and started stitching layers closed from the inside out. Wow!I had a c-section in 2011 and my kiddo was sent to the NICU. I had to be there every 2 hours to try and nurse her. Unsuccessfully nurse, I might add. For the first 12 hours, DH wheeled me to and from the NICU. The next 12 I pushed the chair there and got pushed back. The 12 hours after that I pushed the chair both ways. By the time I left on day 3, I was walking both ways myself. I piggy backed Vicodin and Motrin for a week, I think not wanting to have any pain at all just in case. I had laparoscopic tube removal on one side in April of this year and took pain meds for 3 days or so regularly around the clock and then for 4-6 more days as needed for pain. 7 days after surgery, I walked 3 miles. I felt it after doing that but I was able to. i think it really does depend on each persons pain tolerance. With my ectopic, I had ZERO pain. My doctor was shocked that I wasn't in pain since it was very close to rupture. Yep, it's gently pulled out, examined, and then sewn up. It's easier to sew up that way then having it down in the lower abdomen, where the OB might accidentally snag something important nearby. It's not necessarily rolling around on top the patient's belly, being attached to some pretty serious ligaments, but you can see most of it that way, One of the few times I had a sponge left in a patient was during a C-section. The nurse and the tech (me) do an initial count before the procedure. Then we do our first closing count as the uterus is being closed, another as the abdominal cavity is being closed, then a final one at the end. The OB was finishing up the uterus and our first count was a sponge short. The OB told us it wasn't in the patient, so we counted again as she slid the uterus back in and started sewing up the abdominal cavity. We were still one sponge short, and the OB told us to look around on the floor, because it wasn't in the patient. She finished up the skin, and we were still one short, having looked everywhere for it. Hospital protocol called for an X-Ray in the surgical suite when something from a count is missing, so the X-Ray tech had to come and take an X-Ray. And there was the sponge, hiding behind the uterus where it had been pushed back in, with the uterus (c-sections are very bloody, and it's easy to lose sight of sponges in the mess). We had to open the poor patient's abdomen back up and retrieve it, with considerable egg on the face of the OB.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 13, 2015 1:39:33 GMT
I had a C-Section 9 years ago and was helping with laundry the next day (on top of taking care of a newborn).
I had a laproscopic hysterectomy earlier this year and it took around 2 weeks for me to feel better. I think age was a factor plus I have chronic back problems which made recovery harder and I didn't have a newborn to focus on!
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Post by melissa on Nov 13, 2015 2:13:02 GMT
OK.. here's the GENERAL scoop... exceptions exist of course
Any open abdominal surgery is generally MORE painful over a longer period of time. The issue is the opening of the muscles. When you have a c-section, the skin incision may be lower on the abdomen, but we vertically (up and down, to separate the rectus muscles. That's probably the most painful issue, along with the size of the actual incision. I can do nothing inside your abdomen and it won't matter. It's the incision that matters the most.
Now, with the caveat, if I ligate the tubes while I am in there, that will be more painful. Same for if I have to close the intestines or the bladder. Those are exceptions. Your intestines will move around afterwards in the space created by the decreased uterine size. Same in a hyst. That's not really a painful situation. Your internal organs are always moving around.
The beauty of a laparoscopic surgery is the SMALL incision size. Bigger incision=more pain=longer recovery time. Of course, you do have the issue of having had a belly filled with gas afterwards, but once that's gone, it's not a big deal. You may feel sore, tired, but not in pain. If there is, it's a reason to be seen by the doctor again.
I will say that it takes me a week to recover from ANY anesthesia. Even my more minor procedures have knocked me for a loop for a week or two. It's annoying and isn't necessarily painful. Some minor things, like my port insertion, caused me more pain than my laparoscopy.
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Post by alexa11 on Nov 13, 2015 2:28:25 GMT
I had 2 C-sections- not too bad. My hysterectomy- not laparoscopic though- and that was the worst pain EVER. It was my back that absolutely killed me. Worst surgery that I've had.
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Post by stacy71 on Nov 13, 2015 3:24:58 GMT
I have had two c-sections and they really hurt, but I had babies to take care of so I dealt with the pain. I was up/down stairs and all the things they say no to. I think when focusing on your baby you don't have time for the pain. If I end up having a hysterectomy I will definetly milk it at least for my husband, probably not on facebook!
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Post by cyndijane on Nov 13, 2015 4:01:35 GMT
OK.. here's the GENERAL scoop... exceptions exist of course Any open abdominal surgery is generally MORE painful over a longer period of time. The issue is the opening of the muscles. When you have a c-section, the skin incision may be lower on the abdomen, but we vertically (up and down, to separate the rectus muscles. That's probably the most painful issue, along with the size of the actual incision. I can do nothing inside your abdomen and it won't matter. It's the incision that matters the most. Now, with the caveat, if I ligate the tubes while I am in there, that will be more painful. Same for if I have to close the intestines or the bladder. Those are exceptions. Your intestines will move around afterwards in the space created by the decreased uterine size. Same in a hyst. That's not really a painful situation. Your internal organs are always moving around. The beauty of a laparoscopic surgery is the SMALL incision size. Bigger incision=more pain=longer recovery time. Of course, you do have the issue of having had a belly filled with gas afterwards, but once that's gone, it's not a big deal. You may feel sore, tired, but not in pain. If there is, it's a reason to be seen by the doctor again. I will say that it takes me a week to recover from ANY anesthesia. Even my more minor procedures have knocked me for a loop for a week or two. It's annoying and isn't necessarily painful. Some minor things, like my port insertion, caused me more pain than my laparoscopy. So, if I'm having my tubes tied with a c-section, I can expect it to be a more painful recovery?
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Post by melissa on Nov 13, 2015 4:22:39 GMT
You may have more crampy type pain in the short term... but having it at the time of a c-section, you won't likely notice the difference. If you had it had via laparoscopy and were comparing to, say, a simple ovarian cystectomy, I would expect there to be more pain with the tubal ligation. The pain from the abdominal incision is likely to mask the pain from the tubal.
An example of that is that I had my tubes and ovaries removed laparoscopically during the same anesthesia as when I had my breasts removed and tissue expanders placed. The pain in my chest was SO much greater than anything I felt from the laparoscopy. I had a few tiny incisions for that and one slightly bigger one in my belly button. It felt sore, but did not compare to the pain from the large incisions running across my chest and the muscular involvement.
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Post by seaexplore on Nov 13, 2015 6:07:20 GMT
OK.. here's the GENERAL scoop... exceptions exist of course Any open abdominal surgery is generally MORE painful over a longer period of time. The issue is the opening of the muscles. When you have a c-section, the skin incision may be lower on the abdomen, but we vertically (up and down, to separate the rectus muscles. That's probably the most painful issue, along with the size of the actual incision. I can do nothing inside your abdomen and it won't matter. It's the incision that matters the most. Now, with the caveat, if I ligate the tubes while I am in there, that will be more painful. Same for if I have to close the intestines or the bladder. Those are exceptions. Your intestines will move around afterwards in the space created by the decreased uterine size. Same in a hyst. That's not really a painful situation. Your internal organs are always moving around. The beauty of a laparoscopic surgery is the SMALL incision size. Bigger incision=more pain=longer recovery time. Of course, you do have the issue of having had a belly filled with gas afterwards, but once that's gone, it's not a big deal. You may feel sore, tired, but not in pain. If there is, it's a reason to be seen by the doctor again. I will say that it takes me a week to recover from ANY anesthesia. Even my more minor procedures have knocked me for a loop for a week or two. It's annoying and isn't necessarily painful. Some minor things, like my port insertion, caused me more pain than my laparoscopy. So, if I'm having my tubes tied with a c-section, I can expect it to be a more painful recovery? Thanks for asking this....I was about to! Lol. thanks for the answer too Melissa!  . You are an amazing wealth of knowledge!
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Post by iamkristinl16 on Nov 14, 2015 5:56:28 GMT
Not necessarily. I've assisted in many of both, and in a c-section generally the whole uterus is taken out through the incision and examined, after the baby has been delivered, and then put back into the cavity. There's as much movement of organs in a C-section as there is in an open hysterectomy. I've not had a C-section or a hysterectomy, but I have had a colon resection and had a large midline incision. I remember it being very painful for about a week. But, the worst pain I've had after surgery is when I had my gall bladder laparoscopically removed. Although there were only a few small incisions, the leftover CO2 gas in my abdomen caused incredible "shoulder strap" pain, that I couldn't get relief from. So in some cases laparoscopic surgeries can be harder and/or more painful to recover from than open ones. SERIOUSLY? Omg! I thought they just took the kiddo out and started stitching layers closed from the inside out. Wow! I have severe endometriosis and with all four of my c-sections they also "cleaned out" the scar tissue which was also attached to others organs, etc. I don't know if they always do that or not, though. I also had my tubes tied with the last and don't remember it being significantly worse. I don't think I would call any of my c-sections "easy" though. This person does tend to post things to get attention so it is partly that that bothers me (not a major annoyance) but mostly it got me to thinking if the expectations are that women who have c-sections shouldn't talk about it or something along those lines. I think it probably does have to do with needing to focus on the baby but maybe some societal pressures of needing to be back at life right away rather than the consensus that when someone has a different type of surgery they should rest and recover. Just a different sense of concern for the person than when they had a c-section.
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Post by tania7424 on Nov 14, 2015 6:51:34 GMT
OK.. here's the GENERAL scoop... exceptions exist of course Any open abdominal surgery is generally MORE painful over a longer period of time. The issue is the opening of the muscles. When you have a c-section, the skin incision may be lower on the abdomen, but we vertically (up and down, to separate the rectus muscles. That's probably the most painful issue, along with the size of the actual incision. I can do nothing inside your abdomen and it won't matter. It's the incision that matters the most. Now, with the caveat, if I ligate the tubes while I am in there, that will be more painful. Same for if I have to close the intestines or the bladder. Those are exceptions. Your intestines will move around afterwards in the space created by the decreased uterine size. Same in a hyst. That's not really a painful situation. Your internal organs are always moving around. The beauty of a laparoscopic surgery is the SMALL incision size. Bigger incision=more pain=longer recovery time. Of course, you do have the issue of having had a belly filled with gas afterwards, but once that's gone, it's not a big deal. You may feel sore, tired, but not in pain. If there is, it's a reason to be seen by the doctor again. I will say that it takes me a week to recover from ANY anesthesia. Even my more minor procedures have knocked me for a loop for a week or two. It's annoying and isn't necessarily painful. Some minor things, like my port insertion, caused me more pain than my laparoscopy. I had an open right radical nephrectomy. It was supposed to be laparoscopic, but I had adhesions from having my appendix out (open as well), and my ilium was knicked so I ended up with a bowel resection as well. Post op from that was my absolute 10 on my pain scale. With the epidural and dilaudid. Passing a kidney stone 3 years later was easier. Kidney stones are comparable to labour, and that was easier than that recovery. I was still nauseated from pain post op 3 weeks later. No driving for 6 weeks was easy to follow. I think the bruised ribs were the worst. The shifting internally was just weird.
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