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Post by gar on Dec 23, 2015 12:31:37 GMT
And the others? Or me at least, and a few who came after who asked the same question? Are you asking me why I viciously insulted you or why I didn't answer you when you asked for clarification? I'm wondering why you didn't reply to several people who asked for clarification. Did you viciously insult me, other than perhaps to include me in the half a brain group? |
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Post by Olan on Dec 23, 2015 12:42:29 GMT
Are you asking me why I viciously insulted you or why I didn't answer you when you asked for clarification? I'm wondering why you didn't reply to several people who asked for clarification. Did you viciously insult me, other than perhaps to include me in the half a brain group? I didn't think those who asked were serious. I saw it as behavior that is commonly displayed here. Was my original post just gibberish? I also just noticed I said literally and metaphorically. Instead of literally and figuratively. Not sure what happened there I was also sharing a low point in my life. I didn't viciously attack anyone who didn't come for me. I lowblowed Cindy's horrible marriage but she's been unhappy as many years as she has been a pea so on a scale of 1-10 my insult is like a 2. Dead inside already. Same with Yubon. Telling someone they are selfish, over educated, and not putting their children first is okay as long as it's an opinion. I am really surprised. This doesn't seem like you. cindyupnorth and I don't always agree but you are being really cruel on a personal level right now. I Have no idea the state of her marriage, it may be fantastic, it may be crappy, but to throw things she may (or may not) have vented about in the past re: her marriage is really, really unkind. Without sounding too whiny Cindy and I have a history. In fact the last time Cindy made a rude comment to me I again attacked her marriage and you AGAIN came in shocked at my behavior. The last time you asked me to apologize. If anyone had simply said "what does deuces mean" I really would have answered. |
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Post by Deleted on Dec 23, 2015 12:43:42 GMT
I really don't know what favours you think you're doing Ashley by throwing round your not very well thought out insults but from where I'm standing it's precisely none. Do you think it's ok to tell someone that they're dead inside and have a crappy marriage as long as it's done in the context of handslapping?
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Post by Olan on Dec 23, 2015 12:47:08 GMT
I really don't know what favours you think you're doing Ashley by throwing round your not very well thought out insults but from where I'm standing it's precisely none. Do you think it's ok to tell someone that they're dead inside and have a crappy marriage as long as it's done in the context of handslapping? What does Ashley have to do with what I say to another pea. I quoted Gar and Tudy in the same response so I could get back to my morning. Hope everyone has a happy holiday. You too Cindy!!! |
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Post by gar on Dec 23, 2015 12:53:29 GMT
Olan, I'm a bit thrown by your whole series of posts to be honest. Your whole tone has been aggressive and you came out swinging and that's not what I associate with you usually.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 23, 2015 12:55:04 GMT
I really don't know what favours you think you're doing Ashley by throwing round your not very well thought out insults but from where I'm standing it's precisely none. Do you think it's ok to tell someone that they're dead inside and have a crappy marriage as long as it's done in the context of handslapping? What does Ashley have to do with what I say to another pea. I quoted Gar and Tudy in the same response so I could get back to my morning. Hope everyone has a happy holiday. You too Cindy!!! You came in to this thread to handslap those who didn't give Ashley the response you think they should have, it was all about her. When people asked you to explain what something meant you went off the deep end with your insults, no one came for you as you put it. Happy holidays to you too!! |
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Post by gryroagain on Dec 23, 2015 13:32:56 GMT
Olan, I "liked" your original post because I agreed with many of the points, re jumping on Ashley when you are sitting in a totally different place, life wise. I also had no clue what deuces were but got the idea by context. But now you are being really peevish and ugly. It's kind of weird.
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Post by Belia on Dec 23, 2015 14:56:54 GMT
And Belia I trust dinner was fabulous can we assume you are one of the peas who's husband brings home the bacon and you just pour condensed soup over it. Insults are zinging for a gal who can't spell. Sure, you could assume that. You'd be dead wrong, though. I agree that this turn from you is just weird. I notice your picture reverted to the generic refupea-kiwi. Is someone trolling Olan? |
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Post by gar on Dec 23, 2015 14:58:02 GMT
And Belia I trust dinner was fabulous can we assume you are one of the peas who's husband brings home the bacon and you just pour condensed soup over it. Insults are zinging for a gal who can't spell. Sure, you could assume that. You'd be dead wrong, though. I agree that this turn from you is just weird. I notice your picture reverted to the generic refupea-kiwi. Is someone trolling Olan? I noticed that earlier but was on my phone and assumed it was a blip. Weird..... |
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Post by luckyexwife on Dec 23, 2015 16:54:20 GMT
I'm wondering why you didn't reply to several people who asked for clarification. Did you viciously insult me, other than perhaps to include me in the half a brain group? I didn't think those who asked were serious. I saw it as behavior that is commonly displayed here. Was my original post just gibberish? I also just noticed I said literally and metaphorically. Instead of literally and figuratively. Not sure what happened there Olan I am really surprised. This doesn't seem like you. cindyupnorth and I don't always agree but you are being really cruel on a personal level right now. I Have no idea the state of her marriage, it may be fantastic, it may be crappy, but to throw things she may (or may not) have vented about in the past re: her marriage is really, really unkind. Without sounding too whiny Cindy and I have a history. In fact the last time Cindy made a rude comment to me I again attacked her marriage and you AGAIN came in shocked at my behavior. The last time you asked me to apologize. If anyone had simply said "what does deuces mean" I really would have answered. What does throwing up deuces mean in the context you used it in? |
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Post by cindyupnorth on Dec 24, 2015 2:01:20 GMT
I was also sharing a low point in my life. I didn't viciously attack anyone who didn't come for me. I lowblowed Cindy's horrible marriage but she's been unhappy as many years as she has been a pea so on a scale of 1-10 my insult is like a 2. Dead inside already. Same with Yubon. Telling someone they are selfish, over educated, and not putting their children first is okay as long as it's an opinion. ---------------------------------- Olan, all we were asking was WTH your throwing down deuces comment meant. It was never a personal attack. You go on and on about how proficient you are, and coherent, but I and pretty much everyone else had no clue what you were saying. AND it's not because we aren't cool like you think you are. These are the times, when someone is just mean and nasty for NO reason. In no context of the conversation, they bring up something someeone posted, what? 15 yrs ago? Because I needed help, and because I prefer to help other's with the same problems? You are naïve, and pretty selfish in all your comments. It's not all about you. But whatever. Your too cool for this anyway, and I'm just and old unhappy woman. |
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Post by Deleted on Dec 24, 2015 2:05:33 GMT
I have NO idea what throwing deuces means....and I don't give a flip.
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Post by cindyupnorth on Dec 24, 2015 2:11:48 GMT
Also, THANKS everyone for the support. I really don't want to regret being honesty and open with my problems on here. I suppose I could have made up smiley fake stuff all those years, OR gone anon, but I didn't. I appreciate those that have appreciated it. I know sometimes I can come off blunt. Part of it is typing out on a computer, and partly my being pretty upfront and honest. I've learned though!! again THANKS for your support.  |
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Post by meeko77 on Dec 24, 2015 3:51:38 GMT
I'm always amazed at how people bring up stuff from WAY back. I can barely remember most of the details of others anyway. But, things like what has happened in this thread is the reason I don't share much on here anymore.
Ashley, I hope things work out for the best with you.
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Post by Skellinton on Dec 24, 2015 6:17:11 GMT
And Belia I trust dinner was fabulous can we assume you are one of the peas who's husband brings home the bacon and you just pour condensed soup over it. Insults are zinging for a gal who can't spell. Sure, you could assume that. You'd be dead wrong, though. I agree that this turn from you is just weird. I notice your picture reverted to the generic refupea-kiwi. Is someone trolling Olan? Maybe very hip, young, French Teenagers? |
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Post by gar on Dec 24, 2015 7:32:32 GMT
admin, can you shed any light on the reason why olan's avatar has reverted to the kiwi? Does it mean anything? Thanks 
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Post by Delta Dawn on Dec 24, 2015 8:48:18 GMT
Maybe she didn't want a photo of herself used any more. I just went and removed mine, too. It is super easy to do.
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Post by gar on Dec 24, 2015 8:56:40 GMT
Maybe she didn't want a photo of herself used any more. I just went and removed mine, too. It is super easy to do. Oh it's easy enough, just strange it happened now when there'd been a few tetchy posts. And the more people who have the generic kiwi, the harder it is to follow long conversations without any quick and easy visual reference to who is talking. It's harder to identify people generally on the board so why remove it? |
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Post by Deleted on Dec 24, 2015 9:53:02 GMT
Olan , I'm a bit thrown by your whole series of posts to be honest. Your whole tone has been aggressive and you came out swinging and that's not what I associate with you usually. Add me to that list too. I am saddened by it. Is Christmas or the holiday season hard for you? I know it can be for some. And Ashley, I hope you get answers. I know it's tough when you are doing the best you can. I would guess you are probably sleep deprived too which doesn't help much. I think you were very brave to be vulnerable and not hide behind a different name. |
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Post by Olan on Dec 24, 2015 13:52:58 GMT
I was also sharing a low point in my life. I didn't viciously attack anyone who didn't come for me. I lowblowed Cindy's horrible marriage but she's been unhappy as many years as she has been a pea so on a scale of 1-10 my insult is like a 2. Dead inside already. Same with Yubon. Telling someone they are selfish, over educated, and not putting their children first is okay as long as it's an opinion. ---------------------------------- Olan, all we were asking was WTH your throwing down deuces comment meant. It was never a personal attack. You go on and on about how proficient you are, and coherent, but I and pretty much everyone else had no clue what you were saying. AND it's not because we aren't cool like you think you are. These are the times, when someone is just mean and nasty for NO reason. In no context of the conversation, they bring up something someeone posted, what? 15 yrs ago? Because I needed help, and because I prefer to help other's with the same problems? You are naïve, and pretty selfish in all your comments. It's not all about you. But whatever. Your too cool for this anyway, and I'm just and old unhappy woman. I was also sharing a low point in my life. I didn't viciously attack anyone who didn't come for me. I lowblowed Cindy's horrible marriage but she's been unhappy as many years as she has been a pea so on a scale of 1-10 my insult is like a 2. Dead inside already. Same with Yubon. Telling someone they are selfish, over educated, and not putting their children first is okay as long as it's an opinion. ---------------------------------- Olan, all we were asking was WTH your throwing down deuces comment meant. It was never a personal attack. You go on and on about how proficient you are, and coherent, but I and pretty much everyone else had no clue what you were saying. AND it's not because we aren't cool like you think you are. These are the times, when someone is just mean and nasty for NO reason. In no context of the conversation, they bring up something someeone posted, what? 15 yrs ago? Because I needed help, and because I prefer to help other's with the same problems? You are naïve, and pretty selfish in all your comments. It's not all about you. But whatever. Your too cool for this anyway, and I'm just and old unhappy woman. I wanted to bang away at the keyboard but have forgotten my log info. I say all that to say I had soooo many paragraphs but will be concise because more than anything I want to get my point across. Having what I am trying to say be misconstrued is likely what's causing me to keep revisiting this thread even on my cell phone where I am limited. Some bullet points to start. •Really...15 years ago I was a junior...in high school. You've posted fairly recently how dead you are inside. The point I was trying to make was....It's okay that you've settled into your lot in life but don't damn someone who wants more. As women we should be more supportive. I didn't "viciously attack" you and call you fat and ugly. My insult was totally within context. Here how: She is complaining about her husband and children and work life and you do too. How can you give advice that would hurt your delicate feelings if things were reversed. If your advice can't be supportive that's fine. Just STFU. I do this alllllll the time. •My first post/point was SIMPLY this as an abandoned child trust me when I say going back to nursing school and divorcing your husband isn't going to fuck up your children. Those of you who suggested it would should be ashamed. Again even if that's your addition to th conversation STFU because what Ashley and other overextended women need is a bit of kindness not you attacking her as a scientist, mother, and wife. Also I hope your 2016 is filled with either early menopause or some other horrible woman issue. Your lack of solidarity should be punishable. •I am not being trolled. My avatar was me holding a rum cake 5 years ago. I was trying to change it to something sarcastic and fitting for this thread but failed as I couldn't figured it out from my phone. My comments hardly reach the level that would require the speculation and sensationalism but whatever. Asking admin what happened? No hair flip by the way. Though this thread does illustrate why I should give up on two peas. Also cindyupnorth do check out my short posting history to find at least 4 times where you've taken a pot shot and then cried when I bested you. Insults based on truth are hard to match. •Examine why my factual insults was called vicious attacks but Yubon saying "Quit having children if you are out of love" isn't a vicious attack on someone's family planning. Or the pea who brought out the calculator and said both Ashley and her husband must be horrible scientists I. paraphrased Yubon's comments of course because she brings a brand of bitch that even I stand in awe of. You know what else I am in awe of....it would seem Yubon forgets her son is the product of a loveless marriage and the running pea joke for YEARS (not 15 years Cindy) was if he obliged her even once a year she'd be nicer. Also no one told Yubon her choice to divorce her husband was a selfish one. And FYI refusing your nagging wife sex doesn't reach the level of abuse the peas deem okay to walk away from a marriage. •Happy Holidays. No seriously! |
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Post by Yubon Peatlejuice on Dec 24, 2015 14:44:21 GMT
---------------------------------- Olan, all we were asking was WTH your throwing down deuces comment meant. It was never a personal attack. You go on and on about how proficient you are, and coherent, but I and pretty much everyone else had no clue what you were saying. AND it's not because we aren't cool like you think you are. These are the times, when someone is just mean and nasty for NO reason. In no context of the conversation, they bring up something someeone posted, what? 15 yrs ago? Because I needed help, and because I prefer to help other's with the same problems? You are naïve, and pretty selfish in all your comments. It's not all about you. But whatever. Your too cool for this anyway, and I'm just and old unhappy woman. ---------------------------------- Olan, all we were asking was WTH your throwing down deuces comment meant. It was never a personal attack. You go on and on about how proficient you are, and coherent, but I and pretty much everyone else had no clue what you were saying. AND it's not because we aren't cool like you think you are. These are the times, when someone is just mean and nasty for NO reason. In no context of the conversation, they bring up something someeone posted, what? 15 yrs ago? Because I needed help, and because I prefer to help other's with the same problems? You are naïve, and pretty selfish in all your comments. It's not all about you. But whatever. Your too cool for this anyway, and I'm just and old unhappy woman. I wanted to bang away at the keyboard but have forgotten my log info. I say all that to say I had soooo many paragraphs but will be concise because more than anything I want to get my point across. Having what I am trying to say be misconstrued is likely what's causing me to keep revisiting this thread even on my cell phone where I am limited. Some bullet points to start. •Really...15 years ago I was a junior...in high school. You've posted fairly recently how dead you are inside. The point I was trying to make was....It's okay that you've settled into your lot in life but don't damn someone who wants more. As women we should be more supportive. I didn't "viciously attack" you and call you fat and ugly. My insult was totally within context. Here how: She is complaining about her husband and children and work life and you do too. How can you give advice that would hurt your delicate feelings if things were reversed. If your advice can't be supportive that's fine. Just STFU. I do this alllllll the time. •My first post/point was SIMPLY this as an abandoned child trust me when I say going back to nursing school and divorcing your husband isn't going to fuck up your children. Those of you who suggested it would should be ashamed. Again even if that's your addition to th conversation STFU because what Ashley and other overextended women need is a bit of kindness not you attacking her as a scientist, mother, and wife. Also I hope your 2016 is filled with either early menopause or some other horrible woman issue. Your lack of solidarity should be punishable. •I am not being trolled. My avatar was me holding a rum cake 5 years ago. I was trying to change it to something sarcastic and fitting for this thread but failed as I couldn't figured it out from my phone. My comments hardly reach the level that would require the speculation and sensationalism but whatever. Asking admin what happened? No hair flip by the way. Though this thread does illustrate why I should give up on two peas. Also cindyupnorth do check out my short posting history to find at least 4 times where you've taken a pot shot and then cried when I bested you. Insults based on truth are hard to match. •Examine why my factual insults was called vicious attacks but Yubon saying "Quit having children if you are out of love" isn't a vicious attack on someone's family planning. Or the pea who brought out the calculator and said both Ashley and her husband must be horrible scientists I. paraphrased Yubon's comments of course because she brings a brand of bitch that even I stand in awe of. You know what else I am in awe of....it would seem Yubon forgets her son is the product of a loveless marriage and the running pea joke for YEARS (not 15 years Cindy) was if he obliged her even once a year she'd be nicer. Also no one told Yubon her choice to divorce her husband was a selfish one. And FYI refusing your nagging wife sex doesn't reach the level of abuse the peas deem okay to walk away from a marriage. •Happy Holidays. No seriously! Oh honey, it's ok. Go take your meds and lie down for awhile. No one attacked my "quit having kids if you're not in love" comment because it's damn fucking good advice. I also believe I mentioned that she's not in love AND can't provide for the kids she has. Are you advocating that she keep birthing more? Because that would be more supportive? LMAO You suck at trying to revise history. Yes I had one child in a less than ideal marriage (but things were getting better when I got pregnant). ONE. And then I got out after 4 more years of trying to make it work. It wasn't going to. Not for lack of sex but for years of verbal abuse as well. I guess you forgot about a lot of that stuff. I didn't stick around and have more kids while unhappy. That actually gives me the right to dispense such damn fucking good advice on this thread. Now here's some damn fucking good advice for you - FUCK OFF. |
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Post by Deleted on Dec 24, 2015 15:03:14 GMT
Lack of solidarity? I don't really know where to start with that after you wished other women horrible issues. If you can't see the irony of that it's probably pointless trying to explain it to you.
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Post by gar on Dec 24, 2015 15:25:40 GMT
I only asked admin about your avatar because it coincided with your vitriolic posts which seemed a little out of character but hey, you've set the record straight now haven't you. Fantastic! We all know where we stand, no doubt about that.
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Post by Nink on Dec 24, 2015 15:39:46 GMT
I gotta say, wishing horrible medical issues on others just because they see things from a different perspective than you is pretty fucked up. When someone comes on here asking for advice or putting it all out there, you gotta know that you're going to get it in all forms. I'm even more surprised that OP actually "liked" your post wishing ill on others, that has never struck me as who she is from what I've seen of her posts on here.
With that I'll say Merry Christmas and peace out. (I'm throwing up deuces)
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Post by River on Dec 24, 2015 15:41:52 GMT
(((HUGS))) Ashley!
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Post by Deleted on Dec 24, 2015 15:52:07 GMT
Also I hope your 2016 is filled with either early menopause or some other horrible woman issue. Your lack of solidarity should be punishable. Lack of solidarity? I don't really know where to start with that after you wished other women horrible issues. If you can't see the irony of that it's probably pointless trying to explain it to you. Your editing makes it look like yubon said that but really olan did. |
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Post by Deleted on Dec 24, 2015 15:54:29 GMT
Lack of solidarity? I don't really know where to start with that after you wished other women horrible issues. If you can't see the irony of that it's probably pointless trying to explain it to you. Your editing makes it look like yubon said that but really olan did. Oops sorry about that, not sure how that happened  |
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Post by Deleted on Dec 24, 2015 15:57:38 GMT
No worries. I know many see yubon as a bitch and would happily claim she did say it. While some things she has said have been rude or rather blunt to the point of bitchiness, I don't want to see anyone being wrongly credited.
That said, my impression of a couple posters have changed and others have stayed the same. Wow.
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Post by Yubon Peatlejuice on Dec 24, 2015 16:14:42 GMT
now your quotes make it look like you said it. Can you go back and delete those posts, or at least fix them? I'm a total bitch on here but I would never really wish physical harm or illnesses or pain to anyone. |
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