~Lauren~
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Post by ~Lauren~ on Mar 26, 2016 17:35:58 GMT
He'll be going out and ask me "do you need anything while I'm out?". If I say "yes" and tell him what it is, we have to have a whole conversation about the item I ask for. Example: today he asks "need anything?" Me: yes, on your way home could you stop at Dunkin Donut and get me an ice coffee? Him: Really? Me: Yes Him: Can't you make one at home Me: I like theirs Him: But you have the K-cups Me: I like theirs Him: But won't it be watery by the time I get home. By now, I'm ready to smack him.... Finally: Me: Can you please just get the coffee? Him: OK <img src="//images.proboards.com/v5/smiley/superangry.png" alt=" " class="smile" contenteditable="false" text=" " . Say yes or no but I don't want to have a whole discussion about it.
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Post by gar on Mar 26, 2016 17:39:16 GMT
Yes, occasionally
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Post by smalltowngirlie on Mar 26, 2016 17:39:54 GMT
Oh that sounds so familiar.
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Post by Nink on Mar 26, 2016 17:56:49 GMT
Mine asks if I need anything, tell him what I need and he NEVER comes back with it. Always "I completely forgot". I've just stopped asking.
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Post by miominmio on Mar 26, 2016 17:57:48 GMT
Yes! And it makes me want to hit him with something.
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Post by Deleted on Mar 26, 2016 18:05:49 GMT
Mine rarely asks if I need/want anything and usually it's only something specific to the place he is going (i.e. if he is going to Dunkin Donuts, he will ask if I want something, but wouldn't stop somewhere else to get toilet paper)....I'm not sure which I would rather have.
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Post by quinmm14 on Mar 26, 2016 18:06:58 GMT
All.the.time
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Post by KelleeM on Mar 26, 2016 18:09:38 GMT
Thankfully, no.
But I have started taking photos of items and texting them to him in order to assure he brings home the correct item.
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Post by oldcrow on Mar 26, 2016 18:43:19 GMT
Mine rarely asks if I need/want anything and usually it's only something specific to the place he is going (i.e. if he is going to Dunkin Donuts, he will ask if I want something, but wouldn't stop somewhere else to get toilet paper)....I'm not sure which I would rather have. It would be the same around here except when he gets home he tells me he forgot my item. Then I have to listen for a half hour about what happened and who he ran into which is, of course, his excuse for forgetting my item. So now when he asks I just say no, I don't need anything.
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Peamac
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Post by Peamac on Mar 26, 2016 19:03:50 GMT
When DH asks me that, I know I need to check our milk supply to be sure there's enough (according to DH) for him to drink later on. He also uses that question as an excuse to stop at the store to pick up something snacky or desserty, depending on how he feels at the time. Or something fun for supper~ he's very susceptible to food ads!
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Post by my3freaks on Mar 26, 2016 19:07:42 GMT
Yes! And it makes me want to hit him with something.
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Post by librarylady on Mar 26, 2016 21:31:42 GMT
If I ask mine to PU something while he is out, he has a list of reasons why he just can't do that.
He is getting better (after 40 years).
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Post by julieb on Mar 26, 2016 21:42:24 GMT
Yes, but more about doing a simple task around the house. "Can you turn the oven on 350 at 4:00 and put these potatoes in"? "Sure, can you write me a note"? This is what I need - Seriously - it is a simple task. 350 degrees at 4 o'clock.
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casii
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Post by casii on Mar 26, 2016 21:46:59 GMT
Yes, I've started to prequalify my answer with an "if you're going to play 20 questions about it, I need nothing".
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tiffanytwisted
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Post by tiffanytwisted on Mar 26, 2016 22:21:41 GMT
Mine rarely asks if I need/want anything and usually it's only something specific to the place he is going (i.e. if he is going to Dunkin Donuts, he will ask if I want something, but wouldn't stop somewhere else to get toilet paper)....I'm not sure which I would rather have. This. Yes, but more about doing a simple task around the house. "Can you turn the oven on 350 at 4:00 and put these potatoes in"? "Sure, can you write me a note"? This is what I need - Seriously - it is a simple task. 350 degrees at 4 o'clock. And oh lordy, this. Seriously? Who writes me a note? <sigh>
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M in Carolina
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Post by M in Carolina on Mar 26, 2016 22:27:59 GMT
My dh is great about shopping and picking up something I want--even going out of his way to get me something to eat that I want. (he worries about me not eating enough, so if there's something I crave, he's thrilled to get it)
Dh is the type that goes out for a gallon of milk or to hit a bucket of balls at the driving range and comes back with half the merchandise at Target or spends 2 hours at TJ Maxx. --not that I'm complaining about the great pasta roller machine he found last night at TJ Maxx and two jars of my favourite jam (we've been talking about getting a pasta machine for a while but haven't found one we liked. This one is Italian and very good quality with 3 different rollers on one machine. . I do roll my eyes at all the groceries and stuff from Target or Walmart--sometimes a new tech goody, two shelving units on sale (I'll use them in my art studio later), and great deals on open box returns--electronics and our beloved espresso machine--$1200 retail, for less than $250. Oh and speakers for his surround sound system--he says he brings home different ones to "see what I like", but I can't tell a lot of difference in different speaker systems since I'm partly deaf in one ear. I have told him to stop buying $$ electronics without consulting me--unless it's his mad money from his annual bonus.
I do have to give him a list--he is super stressed from work, and I would forget more than two items as well if I didn't write them down.
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Post by Skellinton on Mar 26, 2016 22:34:03 GMT
Not that, but I do get twenty questions clarifying what I want and generally a phone call from the store to clarify or if there is no phone call the wrong item comes home. For instance, evaporated milk invariably turns into condensed milk. One time he went to three stores looking for plain graham crackers because all he could find was honey graham crackers. I did say plain, but meant as opposed to cinnamon or chocolate graham crackers.
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Post by bklyngal62 on Mar 26, 2016 22:39:23 GMT
I purposely don't ask my DH to bring me anything if it is out of his way. I'll ask him to bring me something if it's something from the place he is going to so it won't be difficult for him. First he has to write it down what I want and ask a million questions and then when he is in the store he'll call just to make sure or because he forgot the list I just want to hit him..lol
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Post by scrapbookdiva on Mar 26, 2016 23:36:21 GMT
Yes, but more about doing a simple task around the house. "Can you turn the oven on 350 at 4:00 and put these potatoes in"? "Sure, can you write me a note"? This is what I need - Seriously - it is a simple task. 350 degrees at 4 o'clock. This is my dh! "If you would leave me notes about things that need to be done around the house, I would do them." Who does he think is leaving me notes?? but he usually picks up anything I ask him too. From all the other posts, it Sounds like he's one of a kind! Lol!
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Post by lisae on Mar 26, 2016 23:58:41 GMT
DH doesn't debate what I ask for, he just often gets the wrong thing or way more of whatever it is. I have to be very specific in writing if it is more than one item.
What bugs me is him asking me 10 times for the same outing if I need anything? If I say, no, it's no. I thought about it and I don't want anything. I suppose it is supposed to be sweet but when you interrupt me over and over again to ask if I need anything from the store, it isn't helpful.
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Post by sasha on Mar 27, 2016 0:23:57 GMT
That's annoying yes, but wow! When did you get married? And congrats to you!
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Post by StephDRebel on Mar 27, 2016 2:33:58 GMT
Mine is the opposite, I'm like "I need an avocado and he comes home with three bags of produce.
I need an iced coffee and I'll get a dozen donuts, iced coffee, a bag of ground coffee and a breakfast sandwich for good measure.
Drives me bonkers.
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Post by breetheflea on Mar 27, 2016 2:39:53 GMT
Mine is the opposite, I'm like "I need an avocado and he comes home with three bags of produce. I need an iced coffee and I'll get a dozen donuts, iced coffee, a bag of ground coffee and a breakfast sandwich for good measure. Drives me bonkers. This is my DH. That and deciding at the store he is hungry and going to make dinner and buying every ingredient (including salt and pepper) because he doesn't know if we have any at home...
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Post by StephDRebel on Mar 27, 2016 2:42:22 GMT
Mine is the opposite, I'm like "I need an avocado and he comes home with three bags of produce. I need an iced coffee and I'll get a dozen donuts, iced coffee, a bag of ground coffee and a breakfast sandwich for good measure. Drives me bonkers. This is my DH. That and deciding at the store he is hungry and going to make dinner and buying every ingredient (including salt and pepper) because he doesn't know if we have any at home... Yes girl, yes.
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Post by jemmls4 on Mar 27, 2016 2:47:09 GMT
Mine does stuff like that too. Today he bought corned beef. We're cooking it and taking it up to my mom's for Easter dinner. He buys 4 briskest because they are on sale. He then says "look at them and decide which two to cook". Dude, they're all the same, cook whatever two you want. He comes back upstairs and said he wasn't kidding, he wanted me to look. so I did and then he asks if I want the crockpot over by one outlet or did I want it by the other.
Why the hell would I care what freaking outlet you plug the damn crockpot into? I absolutely, positively give zero fucks which outlet it is plugged into and he knows it.
I feel your pain.
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Post by MizIndependent on Mar 27, 2016 6:59:50 GMT
He'll be going out and ask me "do you need anything while I'm out?". If I say "yes" and tell him what it is, we have to have a whole conversation about the item I ask for. Example: today he asks "need anything?" Me: yes, on your way home could you stop at Dunkin Donut and get me an ice coffee? Him: Really? Me: Yes Him: Can't you make one at home Me: I like theirs Him: But you have the K-cups Me: I like theirs Him: But won't it be watery by the time I get home. By now, I'm ready to smack him.... Finally: Me: Can you please just get the coffee? Him: OK <img src="//images.proboards.com/v5/smiley/superangry.png" alt=" " class="smile" contenteditable="false" text=" " . Say yes or no but I don't want to have a whole discussion about it. Ah, the old "but I got you this machine so I'd never have to do that chore again" routine.
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Post by mymindseyedpea on Mar 27, 2016 7:53:15 GMT
No SO loves Dunkin Donuts and is so happy they are finally here in Northern California But yeah it's like he has a "qualifying list" of what I can ask him to get me. And if I say anything that doesn't make the cut it gets discussed. But sometimes if I say no that might start a conversation
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Post by whipea on Mar 27, 2016 13:56:22 GMT
Mine is the opposite, I'm like "I need an avocado and he comes home with three bags of produce. I need an iced coffee and I'll get a dozen donuts, iced coffee, a bag of ground coffee and a breakfast sandwich for good measure. Drives me bonkers. ...then forgets the item or brings the wr ong thing. And if it is something prepared like coffee or whatever, this is usually following a debate about how much better whatever I want will be if he makes it for me. Sweet thought but noooooo!
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Post by Deleted on Mar 27, 2016 16:18:44 GMT
I am the luckiest wife in the world.
Me: I would love a Slushie or DQ Blizzard. DH: I'll be right back!
Or
DH: I'm going to Home Depot, do you need anything Me: I'd love a Slushie but the closest store is remodeling and the closest place if miles passed HD. DH: That's not far. BRB
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~Lauren~
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Post by ~Lauren~ on Mar 27, 2016 16:35:01 GMT
Sasha, I got married in December, 2014. He's a sweetheart; he just has a few quirks.
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