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Post by JoP on Apr 18, 2016 15:21:20 GMT
Omg that's so awful sending from across the pond
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Post by irisheyes on Apr 18, 2016 15:24:24 GMT
Oh, how devastating. I'm so sorry.
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Post by gmcwife1 on Apr 18, 2016 15:33:45 GMT
I'm very sorry for both losses
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Post by Deleted on Apr 18, 2016 15:34:50 GMT
There are simply no words. None.
{{{ hugs to you and your husband }}}
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Post by hdoublej on Apr 18, 2016 15:37:57 GMT
How awful! My prayers are with you.
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TXMary
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Post by TXMary on Apr 18, 2016 15:38:15 GMT
I am so sorry for your loss. What a devastating time for all. Thoughts and prayers to all who loved those men. Wishing you peace and comfort.
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Post by momtoone on Apr 18, 2016 15:38:22 GMT
My goodness, hugs to you and your husband!!
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Post by lucyg on Apr 18, 2016 15:45:44 GMT
Very, very sad. I'm so sorry.
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Post by cadoodlebug on Apr 18, 2016 15:49:38 GMT
Yesterday, I posted about a dear friend who passed away. A friend who was like a second dad to DH. We just just told that our friend's son passed away this morning. He took his dad's death very hard and he had a heart attack this morning. In the span of 24 hours, is family lost their husband/dad and son/brother. DH lost his second dad and his childhood best friend. I have never felt such pain. That is so sad, sending prayers to the family and to you and your DH.
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Post by calgal08 on Apr 18, 2016 16:01:59 GMT
OMG, I'm so very sorry. No words.
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Post by refugeepea on Apr 18, 2016 16:03:05 GMT
That's horrible! I'm sorry.
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Post by Gravity on Apr 18, 2016 16:18:39 GMT
I am so sorry. ((HUGS))
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Post by joylynaroundthebnd on Apr 18, 2016 16:23:53 GMT
I am so sorry.
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Post by *sprout* on Apr 18, 2016 16:27:07 GMT
Thank you all so very much. Your prayers and support is greatly appreciated.
DH summed it up perfectly - this is like a nightmare that we can't wake up from. This is unimaginable. My heart hurts so badly.
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Post by *sprout* on Apr 18, 2016 16:32:22 GMT
DH talked to one of the sons-in-law/brother-in-law. The family is shocked and devastated and just taking it one hour at a time. We are all worried about the wife/mother. Could say an extra prayer for her?
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Post by peabay on Apr 18, 2016 16:47:14 GMT
Oh, that's just tragic. I'm so sorry. What a tremendous loss.
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Post by valincal on Apr 18, 2016 16:48:40 GMT
How terrible! So sorry for your losses. Take care.
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Post by gailoh on Apr 18, 2016 16:51:52 GMT
Oh my ....so sorry...hugs...you need them
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Post by mamastone on Apr 18, 2016 17:12:14 GMT
I'm so sorry, how awful. Sending thoughts and prayers to you all.
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Post by maurchclt on Apr 18, 2016 17:12:19 GMT
Beyond awful, so sorry.
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Post by Sue on Apr 18, 2016 17:23:05 GMT
I can't imagine such a devastating loss. My sincerest condolences to this family and to yours also. So very, very tragic.
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Post by M in Carolina on Apr 18, 2016 17:25:05 GMT
I am so sorry for your dh and your loss. I'll be praying for the family, and especially the mom and your dh.
I agree with Lostinspace about the grief counseling. When my dad died unexpectedly after routine bypass surgery (blood thinners knocked a clot loose and caused a massive stroke), I thought I was going to go crazy. The worst part was how people expected you to "just deal with it" and get over the loss in a couple of weeks like all you lost was a pet fish or hamster. People don't know what to say or do, so many don't acknowledge the trauma at all. My mom was fighting my stepmom over my dad's estate and dragging my dad's name through the mud.
The trauma from death feels like your heart just shatters--there's physical pain worst than any chronic pain I've ever suffered. You think that your heart will never mend. Then it starts to, and when people act like nothing's wrong or that you're crazy for "not getting over it already" the wound festers and doesn't heal right. These losses have to heal from the inside out--and the grief counseling helped me heal. I also didn't feel like I was overburdening my dh--my dad was like a father to him, too--I think my dh was closer to my dad than his own. So my dh had to work with no time off, and I felt horrible that on top of his own grief, he had to deal with me.
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Post by tomocus on Apr 18, 2016 17:33:49 GMT
So sorry for such a devastating loss for you and your DH.
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Post by deekaye on Apr 18, 2016 17:36:36 GMT
Oh no, such a horrible loss! My prayers to you and your family.
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Post by lostwithout2peas on Apr 18, 2016 17:44:35 GMT
Oh my gosh!! So much loss in such a short time! I am so very sorry for your loss! Prayers for your family and theirs.
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Post by J u l e e on Apr 18, 2016 17:46:16 GMT
How awful. I am so sorry. (((hugs)))
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Post by nylene on Apr 18, 2016 20:21:53 GMT
I am so sorry for your losses. Sending prayers and hugs to you and the family. My heart hurts for you and DH.
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Post by destined2bmom on Apr 18, 2016 20:32:32 GMT
I am so sorry for your losses. What a horrible tragedy for all of you to deal with at the same time. I am sending prayers to all of you!
As a wife and mother, I understand you asking for special prayers for your friends' wife and mother. I will say some extra prayers for her.
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Post by jeremysgirl on Apr 18, 2016 20:48:36 GMT
Oh no! That is a terrible update. I'm so sorry for your loss. Prayers and hugs.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 18, 2016 20:58:56 GMT
Oh, that is just horrifying. I am so very sorry. Everyone who loved them both is in my thoughts.
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