eastcoastpea
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Post by eastcoastpea on Apr 20, 2016 22:12:45 GMT
I'm sorry for your loss. Hugs.
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Post by KelleeM on Apr 20, 2016 22:18:25 GMT
I'm so sorry.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 20, 2016 22:29:34 GMT
I am so very sorry. I know how much we love our animals. I thought I would die when I had to have my first dog put down. It has been 15 years and there are days I still think of him and miss him.
Yes, you can be dramatic, you have earned it. Hugs to you.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 20, 2016 22:30:37 GMT
I'm so sorry for your loss
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Post by Lexica on Apr 20, 2016 22:54:19 GMT
I'm sorry, Elannah. I know the deep pain of losing a beloved dog, and it is something that is so difficult to endure. Try to remember all the good times with him, and remind yourself that you gave him a wonderful, long life and loads of love that he might not have known without you as his mama.
I agree, you are entitled to be dramatic, feel totally wiped out, or anything else you damn well please. You've dealt with so many of life's big ouchies in such a short time frame.
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inkedup
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Post by inkedup on Apr 20, 2016 23:02:12 GMT
I'm so sorry, aelannah. Any one of the losses you've experienced is difficult, but to have experienced them in such a short time span is unfathomable.
It's okay to feel bad when life is hard.
Please be kind to yourself, reach out here, and seek professional help if things get bad.
One of my best friends lost her father, mother and brother in very quick succession. She sought grief counseling and credits that with helping save her life and sanity. i encourage you to seek grief specific therapy or support groups. You need to know that you are not alone right now.
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AllieC
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Post by AllieC on Apr 20, 2016 23:14:32 GMT
I'm so sorry Elannah, thinking of you x
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Post by christine58 on Apr 20, 2016 23:24:16 GMT
Hi well I hope and pray that we are done now as I had to put my 15 year old standard poodle to sleep this morning. I have been throwing up constantly and feel like a dump truck has run over me now. Yes, I am entitled to be dramatic today. I know it was best for him, but it doesn't make it any easier. I would really say I hate my life right now. How long ago did you put your other dog down?? That wasn't that long ago was it?
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Post by Delta Dawn on Apr 20, 2016 23:29:26 GMT
Hi well I hope and pray that we are done now as I had to put my 15 year old standard poodle to sleep this morning. I have been throwing up constantly and feel like a dump truck has run over me now. Yes, I am entitled to be dramatic today. I know it was best for him, but it doesn't make it any easier. I would really say I hate my life right now. How long ago did you put your other dog down?? That wasn't that long ago was it? Josie the white standard poodle died in May of last year at age 15.5 so really in a year I have lost 2 dogs and a Mom. I hate the phrase "worst year ever" yet it seems befitting.
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Post by destined2bmom on Apr 20, 2016 23:45:32 GMT
Elannah, I am so sorry for the loss of your beloved dogs and your mom.
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Post by birukitty on Apr 20, 2016 23:45:52 GMT
I am so sorry Elannah for your loss. I can't even imagine what you must be going through. Please know that I am thinking of you and that you will be in my prayers.
Debbie in MD.
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Post by k8smom on Apr 20, 2016 23:49:01 GMT
I'm sorry, that's the worst! Hugs!
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Post by craftsbycarolyn on Apr 21, 2016 0:09:47 GMT
I'm sorry. Take care of yourself.
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TankTop
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Jun 28, 2014 1:52:46 GMT
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Post by TankTop on Apr 21, 2016 0:21:28 GMT
Man, you can't get a break right now. I am so sorry. Hugs!
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Post by *sprout* on Apr 21, 2016 0:26:49 GMT
I'm sorry.
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J u l e e
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Jun 28, 2014 2:50:47 GMT
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Post by J u l e e on Apr 21, 2016 1:02:30 GMT
I am so sorry, Elannah. So much to be hurting over. I understand.
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Post by grove420 on Apr 21, 2016 1:13:07 GMT
I am so very sorry. I'm sure it feels like your heart has been ripped from your chest and you'll never be happy again. Cry as long as you feel like, and try to focus on all the good years you had with your fur baby.
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purplebee
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Post by purplebee on Apr 21, 2016 1:26:45 GMT
Oh so very sorry to hear this. Remember that he had a wonderful life with a loving family, and you loved him enough to make that very hard decision. Hugs and hopes that things make a positive turnaround for you ASAP.
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Post by Blind Squirrel on Apr 21, 2016 1:30:58 GMT
I'm sorry.
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Post by Dixie Lou on Apr 21, 2016 1:39:25 GMT
I am so sorry! Even when we know it's for the best it still hurts! I've been there and it stinks.
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Post by gryroagain on Apr 21, 2016 1:43:32 GMT
Oh, I'm so sorry elannah! We put our 14 year old Lab to sleep not quite a year ago and it was so hard. Be gentle with yourself.
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FurryP
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Post by FurryP on Apr 21, 2016 1:46:17 GMT
I'm so sorry Elannah. That really, really sucks.
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Post by scrapmaven on Apr 21, 2016 2:34:44 GMT
I'm really sorry about the loss of your furry best friend. So sad.
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Post by mlynn on Apr 21, 2016 3:09:07 GMT
I am so sorry. We are close to that point with "my baby". We will most likely have to have her put down sometime in the next 6 months. So very hard. My heart goes out to you.
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Jili
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Post by Jili on Apr 21, 2016 3:32:20 GMT
I'm sorry about your dog. Losing a pet is so very tough, and I hear you in that it's even more difficult with the kind of year that you've had. I'm so sorry.
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Mary Kay Lady
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Post by Mary Kay Lady on Apr 21, 2016 3:41:55 GMT
I'm so sorry to read this. You've really had a tough go of it lately. (((HUGS)))
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Post by jenjie on Apr 21, 2016 3:44:08 GMT
I'm sorry friend. You've had such a difficult season.
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Post by cawoman on Apr 21, 2016 3:47:54 GMT
I'm sorry Elannah. Hugs to you.
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Post by quinlove on Apr 21, 2016 3:55:08 GMT
((( Hugs ))). I'm so sorry.
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zella
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Post by zella on Apr 21, 2016 4:15:10 GMT
I'm so sorry hon, both for your loss and that you're sick. I think of you often. I'm here for you.
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