Belle
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Post by Belle on Apr 29, 2016 14:52:10 GMT
Earlier this week, at about 4:30 in the afternoon, someone came to my front door and tried to open it. Like pushed on the handle several times to get inside but we keep our door locked. My house was quiet at the time as my kids were doing homework and I was doing some work on the computer. I was sitting in the dining room so I got up and went to my living room window to look out. About 2 minutes goes by and then the guy knocks on my door. I open the small living room window close to the front door and ask/yell (the dog is barking at this point) if he just tried to open my front door? The guy standing their is early 20's, shoulder length hair with a stocking cap on. He doesn't really answer about trying to get into my house just says something about the car parked in the street in front of my house (which belongs to a friend of our neighbor). He never once said he was a friend of our neighbor or used her name. He ends up walking down our drive way and down the street.
I call my neighbors house and nobody answers. I call DH whose is out of state on a business trip and he says to call the police. I call 911 to report and then text my neighbor to see if I can get ahold of her that way.
Long story, short - 20 minutes go by and still waiting on the police, neighbor calls and doesn't say it but I guess isn't at home but talked to her teen DD and the guy was a friend of the DD. I call and tell the police they don't need to come by.
Talk about scary....
WWYD?
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Post by myshelly on Apr 29, 2016 14:59:42 GMT
Cock a shotgun right inside the door so they could hear it.
Or find a sound clip of that on my phone and play it with the volume all the way up.
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Post by mandasue on Apr 29, 2016 15:02:26 GMT
Probably not the most popular answer but I'd get my shotgun from the gun safe and cock it. I'd be pretty upset and watchful for awhile.
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Post by grinningcat on Apr 29, 2016 15:02:39 GMT
Cock a shotgun right inside the door so they could hear it. Or find a sound clip of that on my phone and play it with the volume all the way up. Well that's a dangerous idea. I would look to see who it is out of the window near the door, while the dog loses its mind barking. And then call the police if things looked suspicious.
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Post by disneypal on Apr 29, 2016 15:04:07 GMT
If someone was trying to open my door, I would yell out to them that I have called the police and they are on the way. If they kept standing there or kept trying to get in, then I would call 9-1-1 and say that someone was trying to break into my home.
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Post by debmast on Apr 29, 2016 15:04:12 GMT
So was he at the wrong house and was really trying to go into your neighbor's house?
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Post by STBC on Apr 29, 2016 15:04:18 GMT
Cock a shotgun right inside the door so they could hear it. Or find a sound clip of that on my phone and play it with the volume all the way up. Well that's a dangerous idea. I would look to see who it is out of the window near the door, while the dog loses its mind barking. And then call the police if things looked suspicious. Agreed. Based on what OP wrote, I would have called the non-emergency police number to report suspicious activity.
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Country Ham
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Post by Country Ham on Apr 29, 2016 15:06:43 GMT
Nothing really. You would be hard pressed to find a locked door here when someone is home. Heck most of the doors are left wide open now with all the fresh air. My point being we are all sitting targets. Most folks here knock and stick their heads in. Even UPS and FEdex.
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Post by freebird on Apr 29, 2016 15:07:00 GMT
He'd probably be met with a pistol in his face. I'd probably call 911 too. Sheriff lives just up the road so they'd haul ass here, that's the nice thing about small towns, something like that happens you have 3 cops sitting in your driveway in 4 minutes.
Good for you for having your door locked!
Years ago I used to be a late night person and slept late in the morning until like 10. About 8:30 one morning someone just walks into my house (we never locked the doors!) I heard them and looked over the railing at him, and was like "WTF!?" He said he was here for the a/c repair (or whatever) and I said I hadn't ordered anything. Turns out he was one block over. I never called the cops, never did anything that day but the more I thought about it the more I wondered so I called the company and the guy that answered was the guy that came into my house! So I feel like it was a legit mistake. That would never happen now, we keep everything locked up pretty tight. I forget to lock when I'm in the house though by myself which is stupid.
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Belle
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Post by Belle on Apr 29, 2016 15:07:52 GMT
So was he at the wrong house and was really trying to go into your neighbor's house? Yes - although he never once said that to me. Other than the old car parked in front of my house that belongs to the neighbors friend, there were no cars in the street or my driveway so it appeared as if he was on foot in our neighborhood. My neighborhood is in the boonies and not really somewhere that is easily walkable.
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Post by myshelly on Apr 29, 2016 15:08:07 GMT
Cock a shotgun right inside the door so they could hear it. Or find a sound clip of that on my phone and play it with the volume all the way up. Well that's a dangerous idea. I would look to see who it is out of the window near the door, while the dog loses its mind barking. And then call the police if things looked suspicious. I'm in Texas. A news channel asked this question on Facebook on Tuesday and the gun was every single person's answer. I'm not even a big gun person and it seems like a good answer to me.
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Post by grinningcat on Apr 29, 2016 15:15:36 GMT
Well that's a dangerous idea. I would look to see who it is out of the window near the door, while the dog loses its mind barking. And then call the police if things looked suspicious. I'm in Texas. A news channel asked this question on Tuesday and the gun was every single person's answer. I'm not even a big gun person and it seems like a good answer to me. Mental note, never go to Texas. That's not a good answer to me, that's an outrageous, over the top, dangerous idea.
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Post by tuesdaysgone on Apr 29, 2016 15:17:09 GMT
I'd call the non emergency number and let the person outside know that we do have a gun in our home. One day last summer while I was sitting on our screened in porch, I had a stranger come into our yard and try to talk to me. He was acting very odd. I remained calm, told him he was making me very uncomfortable, and told him we did own a gun. He left immediately.
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grinningcat
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Post by grinningcat on Apr 29, 2016 15:17:11 GMT
Nothing really. You would be hard pressed to find a locked door here when someone is home. Heck most of the doors are left wide open now with all the fresh air. My point being we are all sitting targets. Most folks here knock and stick their heads in. Even UPS and FEdex. I have my front door open most days now, but I lock the screen door. Leaving doors unlocked and people having the balls to just stick their head in is an intrusion of personal space... especially if they are delivery or something of that ilk. No one is allowed in the house until they are invited.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 29, 2016 15:17:37 GMT
I live in a major city and no one here keeps their doors unlocked. For someone to try and test a door would result in a call to 911.
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Post by Patter on Apr 29, 2016 15:19:15 GMT
We had this happen at our house in TX at 12:30 a.m. I immediately called 911. Four cars showed up in "stealth mode." They caught him. Turns out it was my neighbor out drunk walking the streets and tried to get in the wrong house. Ugh!!!! But if it happened again, I would have the same response. I had to call on the same neighbors once when the door was wide open for hours in the dark morning. I thought they may have been in there dead, and the dog was out running loose. The police went in, and there were tons of teenage boys asleep everywhere on the first level. Guess it was some sort of party! So glad to have moved from there, and it was a nice neighborhood just interesting neighbors.
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Post by mikklynn on Apr 29, 2016 15:20:40 GMT
I'd call 911 immediately. I wouldn't talk to him.
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anniebygaslight
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Post by anniebygaslight on Apr 29, 2016 15:22:44 GMT
My door is wired in to the burglar alarm so it chimes like Big Ben when it is opened. I wouldn't hesitate to clobber a burglar with one of my husband's golf clubs if I had to.
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Post by whopea on Apr 29, 2016 15:24:31 GMT
I would call 911.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 29, 2016 15:37:29 GMT
I rarely lock doors and I live in a suburban neighborhood right on a main street.
If a stranger just walked in they would be met with a very large, angry, armed woman.
I do keep a firearm, but that would be my last resort. DB made me a sap. It's a 10oz steel ball wrapped in leather with a long braided leather strap. It would stop someone fast, if necessary.
But I've never had that happen. So who really knows what one would do?
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Post by annabella on Apr 29, 2016 15:42:05 GMT
I would have stayed quiet inside the house and called 911, talking to him gave him time to run away.
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Post by Rainbow on Apr 29, 2016 15:42:51 GMT
I'm in Texas. A news channel asked this question on Tuesday and the gun was every single person's answer. I'm not even a big gun person and it seems like a good answer to me. Mental note, never go to Texas. That's not a good answer to me, that's an outrageous, over the top, dangerous idea. I think it's FABULOUS that people think it's a dangerous idea to just walk into a house that isn't theirs. The last thing I'd want is a criminal to think it were safe to do so!
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Post by justkat on Apr 29, 2016 15:45:30 GMT
I keep my doors closed and locked at all times. If someone tried to get in it would set off the alarm. I'd call 911 and report an attempted B&E.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 29, 2016 15:55:01 GMT
I was a dispatcher in a college town for a short time and was surprised how many 9-1-1 calls we got about this. The person trying to get in/getting in was usually drunk or on drugs and thought they were somewhere else, even when the occupant was yelling at them to go away, I'm calling 9-1-1, or whatever.
It even happened to my Lt. who lived in a nearby beach town. Obviously, he was armed so he took the guy into custody until the local PD could get there. The guy had knocked down my Lt'.s locked front door and made entry into the house while Lt. and his wife were sleeping. That guy's pretty lucky to be alive.
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Post by melanell on Apr 29, 2016 15:55:16 GMT
We've had people knock on our door thinking it was their neighbor's house, and my parents actually had someone walk right into their house once!
The guy's sister had just moved in next to my parents, and like so many neighborhoods, the houses looked very similar to one another and had similar house numbers. He just opened the front door and walked in. My mom walked out of her room upon hearing the door opening, and found him looking around the entry confused (Probably because he was supposed to be moving them in and he was standing in an obviously already moved in home.) and she just asked him if she could help him.
The kicker in the whole story? He was a police officer in their town! He was so mortified and apologetic.
So, bearing those things in mind, if someone was trying my door in the middle of the afternoon, I wouldn't immediately think to pull out a weapon, but if I couldn't figure out what the person was doing, I would likely call the non-emergency number and ask them to take a drive around the area.
However, if anything about the person or situation really seemed off to me, I'd call 911 instead. I'm all for going with your gut.
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Post by Lexica on Apr 29, 2016 15:55:27 GMT
I always keep my doors locked, front and back, and even the door from the house to the locked garage. I lock it if I am running next door for a minute. I lock it when I am outside doing yard work and will be out of sight from the front door. Yeah, I've lived alone long enough to always lock my doors. My neighbors next door never do. They leave their garage door open when they are home. They leave their two downstairs front windows open all night to take advantage of the cool night air in the house. They even leave these open when they go on vacation! I fed their cat for a week to make sure the house didn't get too hot for the cat, the front windows were open and the back patio door sidelights were open too! I felt uncomfortable going over there.
In answer to your question, I would have done what you did, gone to the window to see who was there. I have done that many, many times. I always have my phone in my hand, ready to call for help if needed. I also pretend that there is someone upstairs and I will yell up there to make it look like I am not home alone. I never answer the door unless I know who it is. When my son comes over unexpectedly, he texts me to say he is at the front door rather than knocking so that I don't freak out.
I just read something today that was posted on my neighborhood watch website about a woman in my town who had a knock at the door when she was home alone. She looked through the peephole and didn't recognize the guy, so she went back into the kitchen. A minute later, the guy kicked her side door open and came in because he assumed no one was home. The woman ran upstairs and locked herself in her bedroom and called the police. The guy and his accomplice were caught inside her home fand the woman was okay, thankfully.
We have a police liaison who monitors the site and posts pertinent information. Today, she posted that there are representatives from a company canvasing the city with questionnaires. She gave the company name and described their logo and said they had checked in with the police to let them know they would be in the city today. I appreciate things like that.
In response to the woman who was home but did not respond to the door knock, she posted a list of things one should do regarding someone at your door. They are pretty much just common sense, but not to everyone, I guess.
1. Always have a verbal response to any knock. Avoid giving the impression that the residence is unoccupied.
2. Keep an eye on people you turn away and what they do next. Report anyone who lingers, tries to get a neighbor to open their door, or otherwise acts suspiciously
3. In a gated community, take as many precautions as you would if the gate was not there. If someone calls your home from the gate and creates a reason to be let into the neighborhood, do not let them in if you cannot verify who and why.
4. Be suspicious of unexpected knocks. If you are not expecting anyone, a service call, or otherwise, do not open the door without asking questions.
5. Be aware of ploys such as fake emergencies, fake deliveries, etc.
6. Use your viewing methods to help verify. Peep holes, nearby windows, vantage points from other rooms may be used to see who is knocking.
7. Do not feel pressured or forced to open your door. You have the ability to allow those into your home that you know and trust. All others are not welcomed - or worth the risk!
8. Consider a high quality security screen door or enclosed porch/entry way to maintain a barrier between you and the door knocker.
9. Install and maintain adequate security lighting for the perimeter of your home. Lighting choices vary and additional lighting around your property is a proactive deterrent.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 29, 2016 15:58:52 GMT
Hmmm...probably grab a knife (don't have a gun here...but don't know what good the knife would be if they had a gun), and call the police.
This happened to us a few years ago. It was around 11:30 p.m. and I heard some moaning outside my door. And then someone started turning the handle to get in. I freaked out and ran to get my husband (who was fortunately in town at that time..he's military). We called the police (who arrived in 5-10 minutes) and it turns out it was a drunk lady who was not from our neighborhood. She had no pants/underwear on and had peed on our front steps. It was pretty scary and my husband wanted me to get a gun. But I'm still not ready for that. We can laugh about it now, but it really scared me back then.
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Post by anxiousmom on Apr 29, 2016 16:10:36 GMT
I was a dispatcher in a college town for a short time and was surprised how many 9-1-1 calls we got about this. The person trying to get in/getting in was usually drunk or on drugs and thought they were somewhere else, even when the occupant was yelling at them to go away, I'm calling 9-1-1, or whatever. I grew up in a college town and then attended college in a college town (ha ha-obviously.) Anyway, I was a tween when Ted Bundy rolled through Tallahassee and in school at UF when Danny Rolling rolled through Gainesville and from that day forward, I don't keep any door in my house unlocked at any point unless I am walking through it. I am a scaredy cat that way. If someone is trying to get into my house, they are going to have to work at it. My mom never locked the doors and always had the windows open at night until Ted Bundy came to town. That was when her habits changed-and the first time we had a/c to make up for locking the windows at night. I am not one to live in fear, but I lived in the area in Gainesville where Danny Rollings was camping, where he was doing all his killing and I was a petite brunette which was who he went after and locking doors has become an ingrained habit at this point. Calling 9-1-1 if someone was trying to open my door, drunk or not, I prefer to have the police coming around just in case.
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Post by lucyg on Apr 29, 2016 16:15:58 GMT
I'm fairly casual about security, but I would be PISSED if anyone besides family tried to open the door and I would call the police as soon as I confirmed it wasn't my kid or my sister etc. trying to get in.
The fact that he's a friend of the neighbor's DD does not negate the fact that he tried to walk into your locked house. I'd want them to talk to him, regardless.
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Post by ahiller on Apr 29, 2016 16:27:51 GMT
When someone knocks on my door/rings my bell and I'm not expecting anyone (I know when it's UPS because I can hear the truck), I always shout for the dog to be quiet so they know I am home. If I heard someone actively trying to open my door, I'd hit the panic button on my house alarm that you can hear 3 blocks over. It automatically triggers a call to the police as well as hopefully scares anyone off who shouldn't be there.
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