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Post by Deleted on May 25, 2016 15:52:06 GMT
My mom cooked almost every single night, especially when I was younger. Things were from scratch but not necessarily "purely" so - i.e. canned veggies, a jar of spaghetti sauce, etc. Usually pretty conventional midwest type stuff, though we had rice fairly often. When I was older, stir fry sometimes. It was always good. ![:)](//storage.proboards.com/5645536/images/MNrJDkDuSwqIMVw33MdD.jpg) There was only one recipe I hated, but that was just a personal taste kind of thing, not that it was badly done or anything. So what was the recipe.
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Post by casii on May 25, 2016 15:54:50 GMT
My mom was a good, basic cook. A lot of deep fried or simmered all day kinds of meals. From scratch with the exception of cakes, like a lot of peas' moms. She did make an exceptional Angel Food cake from scratch though, yummy! I miss that.
She couldn't be adventurous because my dad is/was extremely picky. We would go to a Mexican restaurant where he would order nachos which to him meant a single layer of chips with melted cheese on top. Nothing else.
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Post by janeliz on May 25, 2016 15:55:06 GMT
She was a pretty traditional cook---baked chicken, roast beef, pork chops, spaghetti. Meat, starch, vegetable. Basic, but tasty meals.
We ate a lot of green salads, but if she did green beans or other veggie sides they were always canned. Not by her---by DelMonte.
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Post by Deleted on May 25, 2016 15:57:25 GMT
An amazing one. My mom had to learn very early how to cook (her dad committed suicide when she was 7 so she had to learn to feed her younger siblings while my grandmother worked). My dad is Persian so my mom learned how to cook all the Persian meals and many Persian's have told her that she cooks them better than native Iranians. I learned from her and I am considered a really good cook and love to challenge myself. My mom and I both bake a lot as well. I teach my kids that cooking is an art and baking is a science. My husband is currently learning to cook (he has to cook one full meal per week). It is teaching him how to make more than just the basics. She used to do canning but stopped a long time ago. She is of Norwegian/Swedish descent so she learned a lot of their comfort foods as well. Would she adopt me?
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Post by elaine on May 25, 2016 15:58:37 GMT
My dad died when I was young and mom worked full-time. She was not a great cook and my sister and I each had to make a couple of family dinners a week starting when I was 11 and she was 13. We did a lot of soup and sandwiches.
My mom did make four great things - lasagna, brisket, noodle kugel, and apple pie.
I, on the other hand, love to cook and do quite a bit of it. I can in the summer. My kids like ethnic foods, so I am able to try out a variety of recipes.
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Post by joelise on May 25, 2016 16:19:18 GMT
My mum worked pretty much full time from when I went to school (she still does and she's 80 this year!) so although ready meals weren't available she did make the most of tinned foods! I didn't think of her as a bad cook at the time, but now I cook every meal pretty much from scratch and my palate has changed, I've realised that she wasn't a very good cook and still isn't! Egg and chips, mince, rice and onions, beef burgers and beans, she often used tinned veg although she did cook a full Sunday roast every week with fresh veg. Dessert would be tinned mandarins with condensed milk, angel delight or something like Mr Kiplings French Fancies! I turned vegetarian at 17 so cooked my own food from then on. I didn't learn any cooking skills from her and apart from a Christmas cake every year she didn't really bake. But she grew up in a city in Britain during the war, food was rationed, there were no eggs for baking. Both my parents say that one of their favourite treats was to spread beef dripping on bread ![](http://i1168.photobucket.com/albums/r481/2peasrefugees/Smilies/sick.jpg.gif) My dad's favourite was a bowl of custard made from powdered eggs! ETA I had to mention the tinned kidney soup she made us eat
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Post by cmpeter on May 25, 2016 16:25:07 GMT
A vegetarian, organic, cook from scratch cook. I can't think of anything processed she bought. She's still the same way.
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Post by monklady123 on May 25, 2016 16:31:05 GMT
I'm old enough that there weren't any convenience things like microwaves or toaster ovens or even coffee makers back then. (coffee was made on top of the stove). My mom was raised in a very "meat and potatoes" way -- meat, vegetable, starch. So that's how she cooked for us. Or we had things like spaghetti. She cooked from scratch every day, and we had a regular rotation -- if it was Sunday there was a beef roast or leg of lamb, Monday was chicken, etc. My dad worked late a lot (university art professor) but she still cooked and would heat up his plate in the oven when he got home.
I don't think she ever liked to cook, and I know she hated it in later years, so she never transferred any cooking love to me. On the other hand, I never transferred it to my dd but she likes to cook. But for her it's still an adventure -- she had her first apartment this past school year and she and her roommates loved to shop and cook as a "family". I predict some of that love will wear off as the years go by.
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Post by lisacharlotte on May 25, 2016 16:36:37 GMT
My mom is a good from scratch cook. She didn't do any canning, but did bake bread. I didn't learn to cook growing up. I'm completely self taught and can follow a recipe. Some things I use convenience foods and some things I find much easier from scratch (baking).
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Post by Basket1lady on May 25, 2016 16:49:41 GMT
Mom was a pretty average cook. I grew up in rural Minnesota--meat, potatoes, a vegetable that you canned or froze yourself. We had a garden and I remember a lot of weeding. We had spaghetti with meat sauce every other week and that was one of the exotic foods we ate. And tacos. She thought she was really stepping it up with tacos!
Mom went back to work when I was 8 and I took over most of the cooking by the time I was in middle school. I duplicated her recipes (a lot of creamed soup), but by high school was trying recipes from the Betty Crocker cookbook. She didn't get home until 5 and Dad was a "have the meal on the table at 6" kind of guy. When I started getting involved in high school activities and staying after school, Dad stepped in and started making meals. He kept it pretty simple and did a lot of grilling. I remember a lot of stress about making sure the food was hot when Dad got to the table. No wonder she was happy to let me do it all.
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Post by papersilly on May 25, 2016 16:52:24 GMT
my mom was a scratch cook. she cooked because she had to but I don't think she looooved to cook. after working a full time job all day, I don't think she had the energy to explore new recipes or enjoy the prep process. as a result, her cooking was edible but not deeply savory.
my dad, on the other hand, cooked very savory food. this is didn't learn until he and my mom divorced. he started cooking for himself and actually enjoyed doing it. he would pack some up for me and my siblings to take home and it was always good.
DH's mother can only cook with the assistance of recipe cards. she has a few scratch recipes but she basically relies on dozens of cookbooks and recipe magazines. she's not good with pinch of this and dash of that.
I cook from scratch. I can learn the first time from a recipe. I tweek the ingredients to our taste and after that, it becomes a scratch recipe.
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Post by Deleted on May 25, 2016 16:56:23 GMT
A plain cook and she catered to my father and brother (picky) She canned a lot. But she could bake bread.
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Post by Grom Pea on May 25, 2016 17:03:14 GMT
My mom made everything from scratch except for an occasional Ortega taco kit or Mac and cheese when I was really lucky. I'm so spoiled but she cooked almost exclusively from scratch Chinese meals and as a kid all I lived for was classic American food like other kids got. She would make things like spaghetti and tacos and oven fried chicken to appease us but she clearly excelled at and enjoyed cooking classic Chinese dishes. Now that I'm grown and love far away, I'm so happy to visit and eat Chinese food she makes me, as I'm a convenience cook. I'm a very skilled baker, and a serviceable cook, but we eat out a lot and I rely on frozen meals since I think the quality of them has really improved, like trade Joe's frozen Indian food is awesome so I don't bother to try to make it. My mom makes awesome coffee cake and apple crisp which I never seem to make. I like to make things we rarely made like cut out cookies or things that are new to me like macarons.
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Post by anniebygaslight on May 25, 2016 17:44:03 GMT
My folks cooked from scratch every day and never used packets of anything. I don't recall my mother ever making jam though.
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Post by refugeepea on May 25, 2016 17:52:29 GMT
My Mom was a from scratch kind of cook. She canned her own vegetables and made her own jam. The only thing she made from a mix was a cake. She didn't like to bake. She wasn't a gourmet cook, she was a meat and potatoes kind of gal. You described my mother perfectly except she did a bit more baking.
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Post by rainangel on May 25, 2016 17:57:44 GMT
My mom was, and still is, an amazing cook and baker. She learned a lot from her own mother, and everything was made from scratch. Still is. But she was a housewife, and had the time to make everything from scratch. Sometimes she will try out a gravymix or something similar, the 'just add water' kind. Just to try it out. And the back to making it from scratch.
I have fortunately received a lot of recipes from her already, and she is good to call when I need cooking or baking advice.
She was also pretty frugal when we were growing up. She was a housewife and my parents raised three kids on one income. So my mother made sure to use every single bit of leftovers for something. She never threw out any food. Last resort was giving it to my dad who will eat anything to not waste it. She has aquired a more expensive taste now that us kids are out of the house, and my parents are still both working full time. She opts for more expensive cuts of meat, and more expensive side dishes.
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Post by Deleted on May 25, 2016 17:58:47 GMT
a very bland cook...also we didn't have much money so "quality" was never factored in...
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Post by winogirl on May 25, 2016 18:10:14 GMT
Nothing adventurous, nothing 'foreign' ( ![:shocked:](//storage.proboards.com/5645536/images/JvSt42CUoZ9LG952aAaF.jpg) ) pretty much everything from scratch and especially homemade cakes My mom was a basic cook. She was a picky eater and not adventurous. She made a few things good such as meatloaf, roast beef, turkey on Thanksgiving. I still make her meatloaf recipe. Vegetables were canned. I didn't know vegetables could actually taste good! My dad made a good chili and was great on the grill. I love to cook and grill and try new and foreign! recipes. Dh is appreciative, having lost his mother at a young age, he often had fast food and easy to make stuff like sandwiches.
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Post by craftsbycarolyn on May 25, 2016 18:14:45 GMT
My dad cooked as much as my mother did, but he was a meat and potatoes kind of eater. We very seldom had things like spaghetti or mac and cheese. My mom went to work when I was 14 and I watched my brother and did all lot of the cooking for then on.
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Post by epeanymous on May 25, 2016 18:16:14 GMT
My mother was raised in a cash-strapped home where she was responsible for pretty much all of the housework and cooking from a young age. She thought that convenience foods were pretty much gifts from the gods, and I grew up on TV dinners and spaghetti sauce from packets.
My mother did cook some plain food (oven-fried chicken, pot roast). It was terrible. She basically cooked everything meat-wise until it was mush or charred, and served it with canned vegetables.
My mom is awesome. I don't miss her cooking.
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Post by chirpingcricket on May 25, 2016 18:16:41 GMT
My mother didn't like cooking, I think, because after my father died, she stopped cooking, and we just went out to eat. When I was 11 and I said I wanted french toast for breakfast, she bought frozen french toast and would heat it up in the oven.
She had a few completely fabulous recipes -- Swiss steak comes to mind -- but really, she did not enjoy cooking.
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Post by Karmady on May 25, 2016 18:18:24 GMT
My mom wasn't a great cook. She did learn to make a great chicken noodle soup and cabbage rolls from my Slovak grandma who was an incredible cook. My mother cooked things from a box. All of our meats were vastly overcooked. She like meat "hard" and crispy. Pork chops were curled up. Grill cheese was burned on the outside and the cheese wasn't melted. Pancakes from a box were cooked on the outside and liquid on the inside LOL. Obviously, she like using high heat on the stove.
A lot of the time, my father cooked because he came home from work at 3:30 and my mother after 5. He made simple dishes but he did it fairly well.
I love to cook and try new things.
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Post by tduby1 on May 25, 2016 18:24:09 GMT
My Mom was a from scratch kind of cook. She canned her own vegetables and made her own jam. The only thing she made from a mix was a cake. She didn't like to bake. She wasn't a gourmet cook, she was a meat and potatoes kind of gal. Ask her for a recipe and it was always "add a little of this and some of that and if you have these just toss them in." Drove me mad at the time but now I do the same thing to my kids. If I'm cooking and don't have this then I toss in that. Drives my kids mad now. So what kind of cook was in your family? My mom is/was a crappy cook. She thinks she is a good cook. She isn't. She fondly remembers the "beautiful" dinners she made ever night. They weren't and she didn't. She did cook big Sunday meals and they weren't great. I don't ruin it for her though. My dad was an even worse cook. Homemade pizzas with jiffy boxed crusts, and hot dogs instead of pepperoni. And SOS... A war time army thing he says. Hamburger with a white sauce over toast. And sloppy joes from "scratch". The sauce was him emptying all the partial bottles of condiments. Ketchup, mustard, bbq sauce, taco sauce, salsa, anything needing to moved out of the fridge went in the sauce. They never drain(Ed) their hamburger.
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Post by Miss Lerins Momma on May 25, 2016 18:24:59 GMT
My mom didn't cook much when we were young, we are out a lot.
She's a good cook now, when she feels like cooking.
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Post by tincin on May 25, 2016 18:32:42 GMT
Thanks for the laughs and descriptions. We were not allowed to have anything spicy like pizza, spaghetti or tacos. Not happening with my father in the house. Luckily he was a hunter and fisherman so when he was off killing things we ate things like pizza from the box mix and tacos. We loved it when he was gone. LOL
My mother was a SAHM my entire life, my father expected dinner on the table at 3:30 when he got home from work. Of course he went to bed around 8 so that worked for him. Even after he retired he was up at 5 am. Drove my Mom nuts he was up so early and drove him crazy that she slept half the day away staying in bed till 9.
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Post by RosieKat on May 25, 2016 18:44:19 GMT
My mom cooked almost every single night, especially when I was younger. Things were from scratch but not necessarily "purely" so - i.e. canned veggies, a jar of spaghetti sauce, etc. Usually pretty conventional midwest type stuff, though we had rice fairly often. When I was older, stir fry sometimes. It was always good. ![:)](//storage.proboards.com/5645536/images/MNrJDkDuSwqIMVw33MdD.jpg) There was only one recipe I hated, but that was just a personal taste kind of thing, not that it was badly done or anything. So what was the recipe. LOL, it was pork chops and rice that were cooked with chicken broth and a little orange juice and, um, other stuff - I don't know exactly since I never asked for the recipe! But for whatever reason, I hated the orange part of it! She and my dad both really liked it, so she compromised with me and only made it once in a very blue moon.
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Post by anniefb on May 25, 2016 18:55:26 GMT
My Mum was an amazing cook - all from scratch when we were growing up and all self taught because she left home as a teen (during the war) and her mother didn't teach her much.
We had a lot of good nutritious family type meals but Mum also did sweet and cake making, cake decorating, preserving etc. For my 9th birthday she made me a decorated gingerbread house from scratch because that's the cake I asked for. She was a pretty amazing mother all-round. She passed 4 1/2 years ago and life honestly hasn't been the same since.
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Post by IAmUnoriginal on May 25, 2016 18:59:46 GMT
My mom was a really good baker and everything was from scratch. Her cooking was basic and, often times, quite bland. My mom ran the kitchen at our town's nursing home. She couldn't use salt and certain other seasonings there due to the residents' health conditions, so she wouldn't use them at home, either. My brothers and I are all big fans of big, bold flavors now. My paternal grandma was a good cook, but she didn't like to do it. However, if we told her we wanted to try something new, she'd help us figure out the recipe. Until she passed, she was always sending care packages with fresh spices and recipe clippings. I learned to bake from my mom, her mom and her mom's mom. All three of them could bake up a storm. The Christmas cookie and candy spread was amazing every year. The pie table at the annual family picnic was great.
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Post by Deleted on May 25, 2016 22:19:51 GMT
My Mom was a from scratch kind of cook. She canned her own vegetables and made her own jam. The only thing she made from a mix was a cake. She didn't like to bake. She wasn't a gourmet cook, she was a meat and potatoes kind of gal. Ask her for a recipe and it was always "add a little of this and some of that and if you have these just toss them in." Drove me mad at the time but now I do the same thing to my kids. If I'm cooking and don't have this then I toss in that. Drives my kids mad now. So what kind of cook was in your family? My mom is/was a crappy cook. She thinks she is a good cook. She isn't. She fondly remembers the "beautiful" dinners she made ever night. They weren't and she didn't. She did cook big Sunday meals and they weren't great. I don't ruin it for her though. My dad was an even worse cook. Homemade pizzas with jiffy boxed crusts, and hot dogs instead of pepperoni. And SOS... A war time army thing he says. Hamburger with a white sauce over toast. And sloppy joes from "scratch". The sauce was him emptying all the partial bottles of condiments. Ketchup, mustard, bbq sauce, taco sauce, salsa, anything needing to moved out of the fridge went in the sauce. They never drain(Ed) their hamburger. Aw. This is kind of sweet!
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Post by kellybelly77 on May 25, 2016 22:22:10 GMT
My mom never cooked. We ate out almost every night growing up. My sister, brother and I are the opposite! I think because we ate out so much as kids we dont want to now. My other sister eats out all the time and doesn't cook.
I love to cook!
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