pudgygroundhog
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Jun 25, 2014 20:18:39 GMT
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Post by pudgygroundhog on May 27, 2016 2:10:04 GMT
Oh, that is so horrible. I'm so sorry about your friend and what her family is going through.
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Post by chedanemi on May 27, 2016 2:12:34 GMT
I'm so sorry for your loss.
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Post by jenn on May 27, 2016 2:14:08 GMT
I am so sorry.
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Post by k8smom on May 27, 2016 2:14:08 GMT
Oh my oh yvonne, that's horrific! I am so, so sorry for the loss of your dear friend. I can't even begin to imagine the horror her friends and family must be going through thinking about the violence of this brutal betrayal. Hugs and prayers to you, my dear.
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Post by lovinlife on May 27, 2016 3:12:36 GMT
I'm so sorry hugs...
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Post by originalvanillabean on May 27, 2016 3:14:47 GMT
I'm so very sorry.
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hannahruth
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Aug 29, 2014 18:57:20 GMT
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Post by hannahruth on May 27, 2016 4:53:33 GMT
I'm so sorry for your loss.
I cannot understand why such horrible things happen to people like your friend, who have opened their hearts and home to someone in need to have something like happen.
Hugs to you
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Post by Deleted on May 27, 2016 5:34:33 GMT
I am so very sorry for your loss. I know it's tough but I hope people can remember how she lived and not how she died. She sounds like she was an amazing woman. I hope her son doesn't blame himself for befriending the young man. Big hugs to you. I hope your heart can heal. It's tough enough dealing with a death but to know all she went through has to be tough.
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Post by Deleted on May 27, 2016 5:45:48 GMT
oh yvonne, I'm so sorry.
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anniebygaslight
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Posts: 7,397
Location: Third Rock from the sun.
Jun 28, 2014 14:08:19 GMT
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Post by anniebygaslight on May 27, 2016 6:15:12 GMT
I am so sorry.
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wellway
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Jun 25, 2014 20:50:09 GMT
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Post by wellway on May 27, 2016 9:33:48 GMT
I am so sorry. x
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MDscrapaholic
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Jun 25, 2014 20:49:07 GMT
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Post by MDscrapaholic on May 27, 2016 10:01:27 GMT
Big hugs to you Yvonne, this is a terrible loss. May you and her family find peace.
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Post by compeateropeator on May 27, 2016 10:17:48 GMT
I am so sorry about your friend. My thoughts are with you all.
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oh yvonne
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Jun 26, 2014 0:45:23 GMT
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Post by oh yvonne on May 27, 2016 13:41:42 GMT
The anger is normal, Yvonne. Anger at your friend, anger at the young man, anger at his family, anger with the justice system, and anger at the world in general. Sometimes the anger is in various increments - pure rage at the young man, anger and frustration at your friend. It'll come and go for a long time. The details of the murders (both of your friend and mine) are so horrific and it's hard to ever forget them. And you won't. But try to remember the good memories of your friend. That has helped me. There are no easy answers and no easy ways out of this. Just have to take it one moment at a time and be patient with yourself. And with the justice system (I am still frustrated and angry at times with the system). Those things are out of your control and when you are so discouraged and sad, give a loved one a big hug or take a walk and look for something positive... a flower in bloom even helps. It'll be hard for you to be strong for others and I know you will be strong. Know that we here will be strong for you as you will need support as well. Oh Mary, thank you. This is exactly how I feel. I was telling my friend last night, I get so angry at her, and then I feel guilty about it, because that was an amazing thing to do..up and down. Thank you for your advice, I will listen. <3 Thank you everyone again for listening. It's a comfort knowing I can escape to the Peas, this isn't the first time in my life I have done so, and as before, thankful for you all.
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Post by gizzy on May 27, 2016 13:47:09 GMT
I'm so sorry. Sending you hugs and warm thoughts.
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