lindas
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Post by lindas on Aug 7, 2014 12:36:37 GMT
But reality has set in and it's time to admit I'm getting old. I don't know when it happened, I don't feel old, I don't think I look my age but my brain cells are screaming OLD!!! Last week I went to Best Buy to get a new charger cord for my IPad. The way too young sales guy asked me what generation it was. Are you kidding me, it's a 2Yr old IPad, don't they all use the same cord??? Apparently not. Then I looked at the GOPro camera. He started rattling off all this info about it. I got so overwhelmed I gave up. DH wants to get new cell phones. I have no clue where to even start to decide which is the best for us. iPhones, smartphones, windows phones, How do you choose?!?!? Yesterday was the kicker. After living here for 7 years and being retired for 2 I decided it was finally time to close my checking acct in MD and open one here. That way too young bank person started listing all the different types available. What happened to the days when you walked in the bank, opened an acct and they didn't care how much you put in, how many checks you wrote, etc. I said enough, I deposited the checks I had in DH's account, it was obviously easier 5 yrs ago to open an account, and walked out. I need to put a teenager on retainer because they know everything. A week ago I felt like a kid now I'm too damn old to keep up, when did it happen? ?
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Post by akathy on Aug 7, 2014 12:40:35 GMT
Ugh! I hear you! I've resorted to having my kids do things like that for me. Thankfully they're willing to be the go between and then have patiently taught me how to use the devices and don't laugh at my many stupid questions.
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Post by leannec on Aug 7, 2014 12:42:14 GMT
I'm old too ... I don't even have a smartphone yet but I'm determined to get one by Christmas ... then I'll get my 15 year old dd to teach me how to use it My memory is terrible ... sucks
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Post by sillyrabbit on Aug 7, 2014 12:44:33 GMT
I have come to that conclusion myself. Yesterday, I took my DS to the doctor. I swear this doctor looked 18. I said, "That guy doesn't look old enough to be a doctor. Maybe he's like Doogie Howser. Or maybe I'm just getting old." DS replied, "I think you're getting old. And what's a Doogie Howser?"
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Post by mikklynn on Aug 7, 2014 12:47:15 GMT
Amen, sister! My 10 year old granddaughter snapped a photo of DH with my phone and set it as my wallpaper in like 10 seconds. I am sure I could figure it out if I had to, but sheesh, how did she know?
When I have issues with my computer at work, I tell the IT guys...this is what happens when you give technology to old people!
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Post by lbp on Aug 7, 2014 12:50:22 GMT
Slide over and let me have a seat with y'all on the old wagon. I miss the days when you just called up "Ma Bell" and said "I need a new phone, please send one" and someone showed up with one and plugged it in. Now you need to know how many gigahertz, megahertz, you have to know about bandwidth, etc... too much information!!
Also, why do TV's need so many buttons on the remote. Really, I just need on, off, and a channel selector. I have no idea what the rest of those buttons do.
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Post by anxiousmom on Aug 7, 2014 12:55:14 GMT
I am in my late 40's (although I am not completely sure when that happened) and I sometimes find that technology moves so fast that I can't keep up. I think, and this is purely my opinion, but when we were coming up, the biggest tech changes were moving from a 45 record player to a tape recorder. Kids now, they live with the idea that tech changes ALL THE TIME and their little brains are wired that way. Nothing is static for them when it comes to gadgets. Ours (mine) isn't. But to make you feel better, sometimes I ask my kids to help answer techy questions and tell me that they don't know either.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 7, 2014 12:55:44 GMT
We can still get by with technology in the way that we can learn from the young ones.
Just think of the many years of wisdom and common sense we have over them.
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Post by Debbie on Aug 7, 2014 13:02:14 GMT
Glad my kids (24, 22 and 18) are able to help me with my technology, but I must admit, they do laugh at me sometimes. But they come to me with way more questions about life stuff. My oldest told me she sucks at being an adult!
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Post by gailoh on Aug 7, 2014 13:05:14 GMT
Oh I hear ya...I looked down one day sitting at the dining room table and saw my moms body on me...
This past week I looked at my arms and the dry wrinkly skin looking back at me...I will be 66 on the 18th...I don't feel old but when my son hugs me he says" I got old on me"...
I got an iPod for Christmas from my son and I am still afraid to use the thing but this past week have been using it some...I am so challenged to use electronic and need my kids or grand kids on using new things...but at least I am trying to learn...
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Post by monklady123 on Aug 7, 2014 13:16:06 GMT
Lol. (said in a nice way, lol) -- I remember the day ds, dd, and I got new phones. We'd switched from Tracfone to Tmoble (or Virgin Mobile...I can't never remember which is which). The phones weren't terribly "smart" but they did have 3G which I thought was great. Anyway, I was still looking through the manual and dd already had hers programmed with different ring tones for different friends. lol. Now dd and I both have iPhones, thankfully. Whenever I have a question I just ask her. For the rest of technology, well let's just say when ds moves out dh and I are in trouble. We had to have him show us how to play a dvd not too long ago. I don't do that often enough to remember what to switch the TV to. I can do on-demand but that's the limit of my knowledge of anything besides the basic TV. I'm always afraid to just click things, but the kids are always telling me "Mom! You can't break something just by clicking!" lol. No, perhaps not, but I can get myself into difficulties by clicking things.
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Post by lovetodigi on Aug 7, 2014 13:37:06 GMT
Maybe I still have a few years on me yet. Since switching to a Mac years ago, I have tried to stay up on technology by reading books and websites about the products that I have/want/that are coming out, and actively using the information. That is, if it is in the Apple family or works with an Apple product. I even add memory to my Mac, do updates on software and the operating system, set up a new computer and restore the hard drive to get all of my information on it, and trouble shoot, if I have a problem, using google to help. I did have my husband change the hard drive in my 13" MacBook Pro, but once it was physically in, I took it from there and set it up. If you find some websites that have to do with the products that you use, you will learn a lot and be able to stay on top of changes. One site that I love is Mac Rumors. I have been keeping up with the new iPhones that are coming out and the changes that they will have. So glad that we are finally getting bigger phones. I do have problems with being able to see the screen on my iPhone without my glasses, so I am aging in that way. I have come a long way from the first time I sit down in front of a computer, had my DH turn it on and get a word processing program open, then I typed my letter, called DH back in and he printed it off and shut down the computer. Scary times. That was years and years ago. Actually, I think that we all excel at some things and maybe not so much at others, because our interest lies in different areas. If it is something that we like to do, or want to do, we put more effort into learning about it. There are so many things that I have no clue about and have little interest in learning. (Lost any interest in sewing when I got an F--- on my sewing project in 7th grade home ec. Still scared from that, lol) I think that applies no matter what the age. We will never be to old to learn new things that we are interested in and want to learn. Different strokes for different folks, as they say.
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Post by 1lear on Aug 7, 2014 13:43:13 GMT
I'm sitting beside, you too (we're going to need a long bench for all of us)! My kids are always having to help me with my phone or computer. I love technology but wish it would slow down a little so I can maybe catch up.
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Post by Trixie Bender on Aug 7, 2014 14:12:37 GMT
That made me laugh out loud! It was even funnier because my son asked, "What's so funny?!" Which really set me off laughing.
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Post by shevy on Aug 7, 2014 14:13:20 GMT
DH is a techy IT kinda guy so I'm ok there. But I find myself complaining and mid complaint realize that I am my MOTHER. Which is a sure sign of getting old. Dang it.
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Post by tiffanytwisted on Aug 7, 2014 14:14:43 GMT
This is hilarious! And not such a bad idea, actually. Some kid could make a fortune doing this, if you think about it!
Next week we're sending my 15 yr. old to stay w/my father-in-law for a few days. In a addition to bonding, the plan is for Opa to give him some around the house lessons (things my husband just doesn't have time to show him anymore) and my son will be helping him w/his many computer issues.
Like I said, this could be the future mowing lawns/raking leaves/shoveling snow job for an industrious teen!
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lindas
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Post by lindas on Aug 7, 2014 14:19:33 GMT
So glad to see I'm not sitting on the bench alone, I didn't want to have to feed the pigeons by myself. I will eventually muddle my way through. Now if they would just stop making everything obsolete 6 months later......
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Post by mrsscrapdiva on Aug 7, 2014 14:21:09 GMT
Way too many options for things now - nothing seems simple. And I think there are a lot of people that are "faking it" to seem like they know about all this technology. I bet people don't even use 1/2 the capability of their devices. Just saying...just my opinion. I hate overcomplicated things, it makes my head spin.
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Post by caro on Aug 7, 2014 14:24:09 GMT
That made me laugh out loud! It was even funnier because my son asked, "What's so funny?!" Which really set me off laughing. So funny. I am the same way. We had to get our 9 year old DGD to show DH how to get out of a program on the IPad. How embarrassing. She took it in stride. Haha
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Post by purplebee on Aug 7, 2014 14:27:53 GMT
Yep, you're preaching to the choir here! I'm 62, and I manage to navagate around the web quite adequately, and order much online. I use a nook on a daily basis at home instead of my ancient desktop computer. I use a computer for a part of my job, two days a week I work as a cashier in the lunchroom at school and I do just fine. I have a cell phone, but a plain "dumb" phone that makes and receives calls and texts. Can use the dvr on the dish network. I am glad to be in contact via cell phone w/my ds when necessary. He's 19 and does help me w/tech stuff when needed. Dh wants no part of it, well, except Dish Network!
However, I am quite happy doing many things the old school way. I have not bought into the "I must have the latest and greatest version of whatever technological device is popular." I make most of my phone calls on my land line, and I prefer face-to-face interaction to texting when possible. I still use a digital point and shoot camera, and when I want prints I go to Walmart where I use the photo kiosk to edit and print my pics.
All this to say that yes, technology is wonderful, and makes life easier in many ways, but sometimes doing without it is good too, at least it is for me. Yes, I'm old, but consider the alternative!
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Post by MDscrapaholic on Aug 7, 2014 14:32:13 GMT
Let me join you on the bandwagon. Don't you just hate it when you open your mouth and your mother comes out??
THAT'S how I know I'm old....
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Post by anniebygaslight on Aug 7, 2014 14:32:30 GMT
Yep, I'm right there with you, lindas.
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Post by PenandInk on Aug 7, 2014 14:51:21 GMT
Also, why do TV's need so many buttons on the remote. Really, I just need on, off, and a channel selector. I have no idea what the rest of those buttons do. O. M. G. This! And WHY do we have 5 remotes? What are they for? We have netflix and Amazon Prime on the Wii. I have NO idea how to switch the TV over to the Wii. So I only watch those channels when someone else is home. And dont get get me started on iTunes. It is seriously the most non-intuitive website ever. I keep telling DH that Apple should hire me to test programs. If I can't manage my way through it, then it needs some tweaking.
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Post by jmurray on Aug 7, 2014 14:59:50 GMT
It's not even confined to technology. DH went to get a credit card from his bank. The person at the bank kept him there for 20 minutes running through the gazillion different cards available. I mean I get there is a debit vs credit card option. But really - they had 20 other versions. Who needs that many options for a plain old credit card???
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Post by caro on Aug 7, 2014 15:02:17 GMT
Let me join you on the bandwagon. Don't you just hate it when you open your mouth and your mother comes out?? THAT'S how I know I'm old.... So funny! My DD says the same thing and she is 39. I just laugh.
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Post by wandawoman on Aug 7, 2014 15:07:23 GMT
I had one of those "I'm old!" moments a few days ago when my great-niece (4 years old) took my Nook and started looking for books. She asked if I had downloaded any for her, which I had. In just a few minutes she was happily being read to. She knew how to 'turn' pages, open another book, and how to play games. When it was time to play a game on her tablet she had to help me get started!
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Post by PLurker on Aug 7, 2014 15:44:30 GMT
Ugh! I hear you! I've resorted to having my kids do things like that for me. Thankfully they're willing to be the go between and then have patiently taught me how to use the devices and don't laugh at my many stupid questions. Sad isn't it? We are being left behind! Be nice to your kids; they choose your nursing home AND are your technology link.
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Post by PLurker on Aug 7, 2014 15:46:16 GMT
Let me join you on the bandwagon. Don't you just hate it when you open your mouth and your mother comes out?? THAT'S how I know I'm old.... Yes, and I cannot wait for that to happen to my now teenage DD!
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Post by mommaho on Aug 7, 2014 15:55:22 GMT
I have this saying embroidered and framed "Mirror Mirror on the Wall, I am My Mother After All" and aint that the truth! No smart phone, 8 year old grandson has to show me how to use the Blue Ray player (I understood the old DVD player but no we had to upgrade)!
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Post by Judy26 on Aug 7, 2014 16:13:49 GMT
I do love gizmos but I think most of them are over rated. When I was growing up my dear grandma always said "just because you can, doesn't mean you should." I think this applies to technology. It's great that all of the tech is out there but do we really need to be able to watch tv in the loo? Tweet every last thought that we have to the world? I try to refrain from getting new apps etc. because they are the new hot thing. My approach is that if I have a need I search to see if there is something that can help me. I don't wish to create a need just because there is something new and "better" out there.
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